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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socialise and look for friendship rather than a quick fuck... Be patient, and treat people online like you would if you were with them. If you wouldn't say something to someone's face, don't send it in a message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Treat people on here like you’d like to be treated x
That should be a given but unfortunately it's not always the case x"
behave the same way with people on here as you would if you met them in person and you will get on just fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been on here a few times. And got no where being blunt to women.
Be respectful and don’t assume your getting laid if you get a reply back
Took me a while to figure this out.
- women run this show lads. If your lucky to meet treat them with respect |
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Don't copy and paste messages to tonnes of people hoping for a response. Take the time to contact them as though you're trying to initiate a conversation rather than broadcast a generic message. If you are trying to make some sort of connection beyond the friction of genitals (that could be a band name, no one use that), you're more likely to get a response. |
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Don't approach people purely because you want to have sex with them. Just talk to people like you would anybody else with zero expectations, except certain topics if conversation are much more acceptable here.
When bonds of friendship form, more possibilities can flow from them.
We have chatted with several women who say they are straight or not looking for couples so we had absolutely no expectations and did not convey any, but we did talk. What happened was they said they aren't straight and they do meet couples that are right for them and have expressed an interest in meeting us.
We are looking at meeting two such people when the time is right. We still have no sexual expectations but we didn't expect it to lead this far either, so who knows?
When I read about couples looking for unicorns or look at messages to us from single men, I just think talk to people normally. Forget the agenda. Remarkable things can happen when you just treat people like people. We literally feel like we haven't tried in the way so many do, but possibilities have really opened up for us. |
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By *aven Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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So much good advice. I love the fact that so many are saying to just chat to people. I have had some great conversations on here and have met lots of people that I am now happy to say I class as good friends x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are lots of threads about advice for newbies. A lot of them turn negative.
What one POSITIVE piece of advice would you give to a newbie.
Play nice and keep it positive x"
Trouble is forum posts don't help "oh woe is me i have been here a couple of weeks haven't got a meet" etc etc
My advice is simple be, pictures tell a story - 40 cock pics you know what story they tell.
Nice pic dressed 'smart casual, tidy and reasonable'
Pet hates.
Cock picks
Pictures holding the mobile phone in mirrors.
Should do:
Make an effort to try get a good photo, snaps are just lazy.
Write a clear and concise profile about who you as a person and not what will think will get you laid.
Bragging and moaning is an instant off put.
Put the effort in
lazy profiles, lazy pictures definitely out
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I'm new, n just dipping my toe in, never really new about the forum bit - because I never looked!!! But from what I've seen, most folk are friendly, or dont reply, n to me if the dont reply they ain't interested. Cant believe these get negative !!
I've had some positive chats, but any further advice gratefully received ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're a newbie woman, hide your profile immediately. Come back to it in a week and delete everything in your inbox. There's some very strange men who mail new women. |
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By *aven Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If you're a newbie woman, hide your profile immediately. Come back to it in a week and delete everything in your inbox. There's some very strange men who mail new women. "
I would say set filters high until you get used to the site x |
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Fab is akin to shifting sands .... it moves quickly - sometimes it’s a calming warm breeze, sometimes it’s a passing storm.
Whatever time you chose to dedicate to using the site, breeze through at your pace, enjoy the view, participate where you feel appropriate but most of all enjoy your time here.
Interaction within the forums will undoubtedly furnish you with new friends and unforgettable experiences and memories..... |
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By *aven Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Fab is akin to shifting sands .... it moves quickly - sometimes it’s a calming warm breeze, sometimes it’s a passing storm.
Whatever time you chose to dedicate to using the site, breeze through at your pace, enjoy the view, participate where you feel appropriate but most of all enjoy your time here.
Interaction within the forums will undoubtedly furnish you with new friends and unforgettable experiences and memories..... "
Perfectly put x |
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"There are lots of threads about advice for newbies. A lot of them turn negative.
What one POSITIVE piece of advice would you give to a newbie.
Play nice and keep it positive x"
Do what YOU want to do! You are the most important person....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be like gorgeousladboy123and never get laid as stated on other thread?  "
It's not about the shag it's about loyalty and respect - something you obviously don't understand |
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"There are lots of threads about advice for newbies. A lot of them turn negative.
What one POSITIVE piece of advice would you give to a newbie.
Play nice and keep it positive x"
Floss and remember to wear sunscreen
hey you got a second bit of advice for free - I must be one of the good guys! |
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"Be like gorgeousladboy123and never get laid as stated on other thread?
It's not about the shag it's about loyalty and respect - something you obviously don't understandme not know about loyalty  "
Can't have your penis? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Enjoy the experience of talking to loads of new likeminded people, use the forums because theyre great and dont forget that like with anything else you get out what you put in *disclaimer pun intended |
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By *aven Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And dont google everything you don't understand... learnt that the hard way x  i google nothing, i just ask my mum
Is her name Alexa?
No, genuinley i do ask her what some stuff is that i read on here i like to wind her up because i know shes going to google it, i often get abusive phone calls from her calling all the names under the sun "
That made me proper laugh. I would do that sort of stuff to my mum if she was still here. I lived to wind her up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And dont google everything you don't understand... learnt that the hard way x i google nothing, i just ask my mum
Is her name Alexa?
No, genuinley i do ask her what some stuff is that i read on here i like to wind her up because i know shes going to google it, i often get abusive phone calls from her calling all the names under the sun
That made me proper laugh. I would do that sort of stuff to my mum if she was still here. I lived to wind her up x"
I'm the black sheep, cant think why  |
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By *aven Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And dont google everything you don't understand... learnt that the hard way x i google nothing, i just ask my mum
Is her name Alexa?
No, genuinley i do ask her what some stuff is that i read on here i like to wind her up because i know shes going to google it, i often get abusive phone calls from her calling all the names under the sun
That made me proper laugh. I would do that sort of stuff to my mum if she was still here. I lived to wind her up x
I'm the black sheep, cant think why "
I was too. Baffles me x |
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