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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

what major things would you change and why

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By *hloevtTV/TS  over a year ago

norwich

I would have made the effort to learn how to do my makeup before YouTube was invented. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Je ne regrette rien.

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By *heLaserGuyMan  over a year ago

Coventry

Would have tried harder at school, those really were the best days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldnt have married the man I did. I have 2 wonderful kids but the marriage ruined me....still is. He is an extreme narcissist.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd have taken the shot, would have been out by now...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would have come to this lifestyle sooner, rather than staying in a monogamous relationship with someone who made me feel my high sex drive was abnormal.

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

Welsh Lass

I wouldn’t have sold my house. I’d have rented it out *kicks herself*.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not marry the ex wife would be my major change and to have fukked her mate in Ibiza instead of her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn’t have got married

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd have travelled in my late teens and most likely settled down somewhere else in Europe

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

I would have travelled at 21 instead of starting a job

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldnt have married the man I did. I have 2 wonderful kids but the marriage ruined me....still is. He is an extreme narcissist. "

Same here...

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By *xperimentalistMan  over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Been more confident.

Bought those houses in Newcastle in the 90s when I had the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably made the same stupid mistakes...

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I would of done A levels and gone to uni instead of working full time at 16 yr old.

Also wished I had travelled.

Having said that though I am very happy and have a great life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would have knuckled down then I’d have been a pilot

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

Would have told people who aren't here anymore how much they mean to me

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By *osie xWoman  over a year ago

wolverhampton

Travelled more definitely but nothing else

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By *osie xWoman  over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Would have tried harder at school, those really were the best days "

We don’t realise at the time do we?

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38

so many things I could but the one that stands out was meeting my partner of 18 years...so many tough times ahead of us but still I'm loathe to change it.

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By *ove3funCouple  over a year ago

Cheltenham

I'd have learnt to take less shit.

I'm still learning...

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By *ecadent_DevonMan  over a year ago

Okehampton

I would have treated my hair more kindly and I wouldn’t have gone to work in Kabul.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't have got married at 21

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Absolutely Nothing...

I like the person I am now.

Today, I am the result of every good & bad thing that has ever happened in my life.

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By *elshsunsWoman  over a year ago

Flintshire

Nothing at all ..... it’s been fantastic even the bad experiences as they’ve taught me so much ... I have a wonderful lifev

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would have learned to tie my shoe laces two days earlier. No reason but if I changed the shit things that happened I wouldn't be me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing. I have regrets but wouldn’t change anything as it makes you who you are. As long as you can get past and learn from the mistakes you have made personally I think it makes you a better and stronger person

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't have got married at 17 ,I was a mam at 18 and half and was already regretting getting married

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

Nothing. I’m the product of both good and bad experiences and I’m happy with what I’ve become as a result.

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip

I would have studied harder at school,

kicked the living shit out of the boy who bullied me,

gone into my current career earlier,

taken the option of buying a specific house,

not got married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wouldn’t have got married "
just lived in sin

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

Everything has led me to where I am now.

I would still have put up with the shit I have been through to get here.

Although I would have told my Mum I love her when I should have. And told my Grandad and Grandma what absolutely amazing people they were a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would have been quicker to cut certain people out of my life instead of pandering to them and letting them mess me about and make me a lot more neurotic, short-tempered and impatient than I should be now.

I wouldn't have put in the effort I have for people who weren't worth it.

I wouldn't have started the secret binge eating as a child and instead tried to understand my mother's draconian food rules were actually best for me instead of trying to rebel behind her back. Now trying to undo almost 20 years of a fucked up relationship with food.

Wouldn't have spent so much money on shit I have nothing to show for - mainly jaegerbombs at uni!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldbt change a thing... all the crap, the heartbreak, the shitty relatiinships have made me the man I am today.

If anything had been different I wouldnt be who I am now. And i quite like who I am now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everything from age 0-18 and have a Mum and Dad. 18 onwards not a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I definitely would not have married my childhood sweetheart and pursued my dream job/worked harder.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd be sure not to involve myself with a select few certain people. Was happier before them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wouldve bought bitcoin.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wouldve bought bitcoin. "

Not a good idea , buy share of companies involved in Augmented Reality products

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I will reinvent the wheel, sexagon shape

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

4 kids , 3 grandkids , healthyish and a roof over me bonce. Can’t complain how life has been

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By *uryWhipMan  over a year ago

Harringay

Was thinking the other day about what I'd say to my younger self if we met, the list was fucking endless but there two things i would change. 1 do much better at school to go onto college and uni. 2, dont ever listen to a word my mother says about anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just the one.....

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By *iamondCougarWoman  over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I would avoid those who came into my life and brought nothing but drama with it..

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley

I'd have made better choices regarding people I trusted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not much but I wouldn’t start smoking, I wouldn’t have got a credit card at 18 (big mistake!!) and I’d have probably not had such an age gap between my children.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn’t stress every little decision and doubt myself because it’s always turned out good in the end, no matter what shit i’ve had to weather along the way ...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Probably to have been less of a self destructive twat when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn’t have got married, and taken him back the first time he left x

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS  over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yes I would have gone to uni and become an architect and trans

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By *rAitchMan  over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Life has had its ups and downs, but I am content with my lot and I don't think I would change too much. Some say I was too young at 18 to start a long term relationship, but that lasted almost 30 years and I have 2 wonderful daughters, and after the wife buggered off my life has been pretty good.

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