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m/f couples. A question?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present."
I like to watch, so no, Mr, wouldn't meet a lone female on his own.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have an issue with Fuzz meeting anyone 121, he is his own person after all and has his own likes and preferences! It's nice if I've met his potential friends but not essential, I do trust his judgement...most of the time 
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That's not for us.
The way we work it is it's fine for Hannah to meet women on her own (positively encouraged in fact!   ) but not men. Luke is allowed to meet men on his own but not women.
We only meet couples together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weve talked about it. My other half knows that I miss meeting and has suggested that we should look at it. But I'm not sure, I fear it could end badly but thats likely down to my own fear of it being a different dynamic to my norm |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present."
Not for us. Strictly my man is with me and the play is for me with him and another man. Rules are rules. Meeting another woman would be something to break us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We play together first meet with women. If all of us click he can play with her at will after that as long as honesty is there and I have an open invitation to join when I desire.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present."
Wouldn't stop him but I feel as does he that we are a couple and we only meet as a couple.
Meeting separately for us is of no interest, why meet others to do what we can do with each other. |
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Yes, I lend him out to play as a single. He's a Stag, so plays whenever or wherever the oppertunity arises. He has his own single profile, to contact and sort meets through. Therfore, not a single guy hiding behind a couple. He's in no way cheating! |
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Yes, Ian has played solo with my knowledge and permission but I don’t ask details of what took place.
I’m just starting out to do solo meets (potentially) since becoming a couple but it will be a case of someone I’ve met socially or at cjs where I’m comfortable and therefore more safe.
As someone said earlier, communication & trust is paramount.
Millie |
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"How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present.
Not for us. Strictly my man is with me and the play is for me with him and another man. Rules are rules. Meeting another woman would be something to break us"
This for me 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is something we have discussed. Amongst other things. Scooby can go meet other women solo although generally he does not want to, if we were in a relationship with said lady then we would both play solo and together with her. It has to depend on the person though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not about allowing for me/us, it's about making a conscious decision.
Now I won't put my foot down and say "I wont allow you to meet solo" however...
I'm really fucking uncomfortable with the idea coz I know how cuntish people can be. So for it to happen again I want to get to know the person too even if I won't be present or involved in any shenanigans. This is down to others being manipulative, lying and game playing.
Already had it and it's not a fun situation to be in so unfortunately for B and those that want to meet him, it's jaded and really put a bad vibe around the solo meet thing for me and now I have extra rules and boundaries in place.
My thinking around the getting to know them first is if I think they're cool too and give the thumbs up but they turn out to be a wrong un then we can both shoulder the blame, other than that I KNOW I'll blame him for allowing someone into our lives who could potentially destroy us if their motives were of the evil kind.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Even though me and my partner don't have a couples profile right now we used to. We both have single profiles, me looking for women, him looking for women or couples, neither is us is actively looking though. We had a problem in past when due to bad circumstances him having sex with someone else almost destroyed our relationship but it's made us stronger than ever and we're working on making things great for both of us without neither side having to compromise too much. |
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