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Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house  )?  |
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"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house )? "
No... |
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"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house )?
No..."
Has it impacted your life at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But in all honesty and seriousness, no, fab is just a tiny corner of my world and I use it as a positive thing. I do put it down occasionally though, just to be sure it stays healthy....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I having this thread....
I'm*
Maybe I'm not.... 
Do you need an intervention?
Boobs will do.... 
Flirting^
If I flirt with you continuously on my own thread, is that still classed as hijacking?  "
Ppl can judge, it's their loss my love  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house )? "
Nope. None of the above relates to me.
I only come here when I'm bored!! Most of the time im too busy |
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"Perving has taken over my cuppa breaks for sure  "
I'm a bit like that too... Sit down with coffee and if I've no family/friends messages to read and reply to, I log on here... It's here or Wish... And I spend more money on Wish  |
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"But in all honesty and seriousness, no, fab is just a tiny corner of my world and I use it as a positive thing. I do put it down occasionally though, just to be sure it stays healthy.... "
Has it influenced any aspect of your offline life? I'll have to admit that when buying underwear I no longer just think about if its comfy or good value.. A little voice in my head goes 'that'll look good in a pic'. |
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"My toy drawer IS now a fully kitted out playroom! "
I had a separate playroom but it got to be too much work clearing everything out of it whenever family were coming to stay and I needed the extra bedroom. So I moved into my playroom |
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"I having this thread....
I'm*
Maybe I'm not....
Do you need an intervention?
Boobs will do....
Flirting^
If I flirt with you continuously on my own thread, is that still classed as hijacking?
Ppl can judge, it's their loss my love "
Oh you... I await the jury's verdict |
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"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house )?
Nope. None of the above relates to me.
I only come here when I'm bored!! Most of the time im too busy "
Has it impacted at all? For example, would you have bought and photographed yourself in lingerie anyway? Perhaps for someone special? Or is it just for Fab? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (ie house )? "
This made me chuckle |
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"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (ie house )?
This made me chuckle "
It's good to poke fun at ourselves now and then, don't you think? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (ie house )?
This made me chuckle
It's good to poke fun at ourselves now and then, don't you think? "
Absolutely. Do that to myself all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was on my couples profile it felt abit obsessive at times with a lot of messages so seemed like every time I picked up my phone I would check fab, just like having another social media app but slightly more interesting but being a single male now it is a lot more chilled out haha |
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"When i was on my couples profile it felt abit obsessive at times with a lot of messages so seemed like every time I picked up my phone I would check fab, just like having another social media app but slightly more interesting but being a single male now it is a lot more chilled out haha "
Oh that's interesting.... Why do you think you felt that way? |
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"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house )? "
Oh my god, yes I definitely do the see who's near thing wherever I go |
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"Photos are our thing for sure, enjoy taking and posting them.
Also quite like popping our thoughts down and hopefully spreading some giggles too
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I for one am bloody glad you do!  You're part of my morning perve routine... switch on coffee, pop bread in toaster, have a poop, check in bathroom mirror to see how much greyer I've gone overnight, pour coffee, try not to butter phone instead of toast, and drool over my hotlist updates |
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"Are you a forum hogger who posts 10+ threads a day? A thread high-jacker who picks someone to flirt with and subsequently kills all other contributions? Are your status updates more like hourly bulletins? Have you so many photos you have to upgrade to gold membership (guilty!)? Does your dog sit looking at you balefully with his lead is mouth while you reply to 'one last message'? Has your 'naughty' wardrobe expanded to where you've to prop a chair against the door? Is your toy drawer now upgraded to a fully kitted playroom? Do you automatically switch on who's near when visiting other places, even with your mum?
Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house )?
Oh my god, yes I definitely do the see who's near thing wherever I go "
Oddly I never use it at home as I live in a quiet rural area so 'within half a mile' is a bit too easy to identify , but I switch it on whenever I'm out and about even if I know I'm too busy to chat to anyone, or am in company It's just one of those little quirks! |
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"Photos are our thing for sure, enjoy taking and posting them.
Also quite like popping our thoughts down and hopefully spreading some giggles too
P
I for one am bloody glad you do! You're part of my morning perve routine... switch on coffee, pop bread in toaster, have a poop, check in bathroom mirror to see how much greyer I've gone overnight, pour coffee, try not to butter phone instead of toast, and drool over my hotlist updates "
Glad to be of service my sweet. At least if you do butter your phone by mistake you can lick it off with gusto 
I may even do a honey on my fandango pic just in case
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"Photos are our thing for sure, enjoy taking and posting them.
Also quite like popping our thoughts down and hopefully spreading some giggles too
P
I for one am bloody glad you do! You're part of my morning perve routine... switch on coffee, pop bread in toaster, have a poop, check in bathroom mirror to see how much greyer I've gone overnight, pour coffee, try not to butter phone instead of toast, and drool over my hotlist updates
Glad to be of service my sweet. At least if you do butter your phone by mistake you can lick it off with gusto
I may even do a honey on my fandango pic just in case
P"
Phone-licking... Sounds like the kind of thing I'd get caught doing by the postman and then we'd have a repeat of that awkward 2016 period where he couldn't look me in the eye after he'd seen me bolt across the yard in a cookie monster t-shirt and striped wellies, but no knickers.... |
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"Photos are our thing for sure, enjoy taking and posting them.
Also quite like popping our thoughts down and hopefully spreading some giggles too
P
I for one am bloody glad you do! You're part of my morning perve routine... switch on coffee, pop bread in toaster, have a poop, check in bathroom mirror to see how much greyer I've gone overnight, pour coffee, try not to butter phone instead of toast, and drool over my hotlist updates
Glad to be of service my sweet. At least if you do butter your phone by mistake you can lick it off with gusto
I may even do a honey on my fandango pic just in case
P
Phone-licking... Sounds like the kind of thing I'd get caught doing by the postman and then we'd have a repeat of that awkward 2016 period where he couldn't look me in the eye after he'd seen me bolt across the yard in a cookie monster t-shirt and striped wellies, but no knickers.... "
I wish I'd seen it!
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"When i was on my couples profile it felt abit obsessive at times with a lot of messages so seemed like every time I picked up my phone I would check fab, just like having another social media app but slightly more interesting but being a single male now it is a lot more chilled out haha
Oh that's interesting.... Why do you think you felt that way? "
Just because so many conversations and group chats and being in early 20’s we got abit overwhelmed and was hard to keep it chilled like the veterans I admire do  |
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"When i was on my couples profile it felt abit obsessive at times with a lot of messages so seemed like every time I picked up my phone I would check fab, just like having another social media app but slightly more interesting but being a single male now it is a lot more chilled out haha
Oh that's interesting.... Why do you think you felt that way?
Just because so many conversations and group chats and being in early 20’s we got abit overwhelmed and was hard to keep it chilled like the veterans I admire do "
That's exactly what I wondered. I know it can't always be easy on guys when they suddenly see their partner get so much attention, particularly if a relationship is relatively new and hasn't had time to solidify. I don't necessarily mean jealousy as such, but even seeing their partner get inundated with messages which they then spend time replying takes attention away from time together, so the male partner might feel let down, or that they have to now vie for their own partner's attention themselves. |
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"I'm still waiting for my fancy eggs 
Kitchen is closed... I'm too busy starting threads, fabbing pics and replying to messages
*sends a faf message
Swap you those eggs for cheesecake! "
Sorted, I'll bring some more to the next MLS that you attend |
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"Mmmm i do sometimes think i rattle on a bit too much, but i have very limited adult interaction so i’m afraid the forums do get my witterings.
It doesn’t impact my life. I can multitask "
We all do that |
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I don't hijack threads, that's a pet hate. Flirt yes, but take over a whole thread, never.
I only post my own threads occasionally when I have a little free time. I want to make friends, not irritate people.
Way too much lingerie bulging out of drawers and cupboards along with all my toys.
And yes, I spend too much time on here lately and it needs to stop!
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"I don't hijack threads, that's a pet hate. Flirt yes, but take over a whole thread, never.
I only post my own threads occasionally when I have a little free time. I want to make friends, not irritate people.
Way too much lingerie bulging out of drawers and cupboards along with all my toys.
And yes, I spend too much time on here lately and it needs to stop!
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I try not to hijack, but in the past sometimes realised too late that there's only me and the person I'm flirting with posting anymore and everyone else, including the thread's OP, has wandered off rolling their eyes in despair!
I think I may have started 4 or 5 threads on the same day on one or two occasions... But they tend to be spread across different forums. Nothing worse than logging into a forum and seeing the same name over and over again.
I think I'm going to have to do a cull on my toys and lingerie... I genuinely do have a chair propped at my wardrobe door |
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"I do tend to check the "who's near" whenever I'm out. Especially if im in a new area.
I do it even though I know I absolutely can't meet anyone! It's bizarre! "
Same, I think it's just a case of being nosey to be honest, I like seeing who's about also it's good incase you know find someone that you would rather they not know you were on this so you can block. |
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"There's a couple repeat threads
I don't post in cause some just take it over so what's the point when you can't get your word in edge ways "
A lot of threads tend to be repetitious anyway. I was just talking to a friend about that earlier. But on your last point, do you actually feel excluded from the forums when this happens? |
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Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house )?
no i just contribute
Much? Or are you a pop in once or twice a day kinda guy? im busy with work at minute so i come on early in morning and after i finish depending on what i have planned "
Would it surprise you then if I told you that you've used the forums almost continually over the past 19 hours? I don't mean that as a criticism by the way... Just that how we think we use Fab isn't always how we actually do use it. |
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By *eliWoman
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Possibly in the past. Now I find myself less active on the forum and on fab as a whole. I'm not quite sure why that is; I enjoy the time I spend on here but real life takes priority for me. I do need to start doing witty status updates again though. |
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"Possibly in the past. Now I find myself less active on the forum and on fab as a whole. I'm not quite sure why that is; I enjoy the time I spend on here but real life takes priority for me. I do need to start doing witty status updates again though. "
I look forward to those!
I seem to be fading away from Fab in the past few weeks too due to other commitments... Then some of my friends will text me saying 'have you seen this?' and I'm back in for a look around again |
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Has this interest actually taken over a part of your life (or house )?
no i just contribute
Much? Or are you a pop in once or twice a day kinda guy? im busy with work at minute so i come on early in morning and after i finish depending on what i have planned
Would it surprise you then if I told you that you've used the forums almost continually over the past 19 hours? I don't mean that as a criticism by the way... Just that how we think we use Fab isn't always how we actually do use it. continually lol i haven't been on all day since this morning "
Not even a coffee perve or a poop peep? |
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