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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Iv been on here a while now but dont have the confidence I use to have due to my ex which is the mother of my children shes put me down till I'm nothing has anyone got advice please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just be careful. If you are lacking confidence or feeling fragile then I think Fab could be an awful place to be."
Thanks for the heads up and I will be careful just wanna let loose now if u know wht I mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist "
Google it. If you've been in a relationship with one you'll recognise the signs. Dangerous individuals who knock the self out of you
P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist
Google it. If you've been in a relationship with one you'll recognise the signs. Dangerous individuals who knock the self out of you
P"
I was just about to say the same myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist
Google it. If you've been in a relationship with one you'll recognise the signs. Dangerous individuals who knock the self out of you
P
I was just about to say the same myself "
Thank u will have a read of it myself sorry to of bothered u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist
Google it. If you've been in a relationship with one you'll recognise the signs. Dangerous individuals who knock the self out of you
P
I was just about to say the same myself
Thank u will have a read of it myself sorry to of bothered u "
What are you apologising for? You've done nothing wrong x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist
Google it. If you've been in a relationship with one you'll recognise the signs. Dangerous individuals who knock the self out of you
P
I was just about to say the same myself
Thank u will have a read of it myself sorry to of bothered u
What are you apologising for? You've done nothing wrong x
P"
Just wht I'm use to saying sorry all the time it's a habit when u get the blame |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist
Google it. If you've been in a relationship with one you'll recognise the signs. Dangerous individuals who knock the self out of you
P
I was just about to say the same myself
Thank u will have a read of it myself sorry to of bothered u
What are you apologising for? You've done nothing wrong x
P
Just wht I'm use to saying sorry all the time it's a habit when u get the blame "
Defo look up narcissistic relationships. Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Iv been on here a while now but dont have the confidence I use to have due to my ex which is the mother of my children shes put me down till I'm nothing has anyone got advice please "
I’m playing the smallest violin in the world. Lack of self esteem is very unattractive. Hold your head up high. Repeat this mantra. Fuck em |
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"Practise being confident even if you don't feel it, it'll grow on you
This assumes you can remember what confidence looks and feels like on you. "
So for me the stage before was watching people carefully and attempting to copy them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Look after yourself first
Look up the advice given and get some help to deal with your ex so that she cannot put you down anymore
You have to learn how to deal with her if she’s the mother of your children
Don’t worry about this place for now until you’re feeling stronger as it can make you feel worse
Wishing you all the best x
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"Look after yourself first
Look up the advice given and get some help to deal with your ex so that she cannot put you down anymore
You have to learn how to deal with her if she’s the mother of your children
Don’t worry about this place for now until you’re feeling stronger as it can make you feel worse
Wishing you all the best x
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I see that you are no longer here but good advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just chat with ppl, be upfront with ppl about your past and avoid anyone who doesn't seem at least 110% genuine. It's all inside you waiting to be set free again I think.... I'd start with friendships rather than sex if you want to build confidence slowly but surely. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist someone who loves themselves
You couldn't be more wrong.
P" having an excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and ones physical appearance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist someone who loves themselves
You couldn't be more wrong.
Phaving an excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and ones physical appearance "
Look up the term in reference to abusive relationships. Runs far far deeper
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist someone who loves themselves
You couldn't be more wrong.
Phaving an excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and ones physical appearance
Look up the term in reference to abusive relationships. Runs far far deeper
P" i was just advising on its general meaning though but i agree taken to extremes it can be devicive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Counselling. You need to find you again.
P - narcissistic survivor
Whts a narcissist someone who loves themselves
You couldn't be more wrong.
Phaving an excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and ones physical appearance
Look up the term in reference to abusive relationships. Runs far far deeper
P"
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Find YOU first, there is time enough for others.
You have been defined by another and that has hit you, more than anything the sense of loss, as perverse as it sounds, when you have listened to someone defining you for a long time, you may lose your inner voice.
Take some time chap, to define yourself and then the world will open like a puzzle box |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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"Just chat with ppl, be upfront with ppl about your past and avoid anyone who doesn't seem at least 110% genuine. It's all inside you waiting to be set free again I think.... I'd start with friendships rather than sex if you want to build confidence slowly but surely. Good luck "
^^^ yes this, Nippy wisdom.
Sex is a sticky plaster, it wont help deal with the wound.
Friendships might be best first and finding yourself again. Baby steps. Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow I'm shocked an honoured with so many comments to give me the boost I need an uv all taken ur time out to read an try an help me I'm truly grateful for all the advice u have given me from the bottom of my heart big thank u to everyone in this form big love to all |
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