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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? P" Indeed  | |||
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? P Indeed "Indeed twice The Princess said frig I have no idea why that made me giggle so much | |||
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? P" Oh, and I haven't come across anyone 90 plus yet that makes me want to get jiggy with them either. I guess I am sexually ageist too, oh the shame! 
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? P Indeed
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I have no idea why that made me giggle so much"Coz you're so used to me saying fuck that me being a posho knocked you bandy 
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? Sexual racism is the individual's sexual preference of specific races. What you have stated is a Sexual prejudice. P" | |||
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? P Indeed
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I have no idea why that made me giggle so much
Coz you're so used to me saying fuck that me being a posho knocked you bandy
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? Sexual racism is the individual's sexual preference of specific races. What you have stated is a Sexual prejudice. P" Da fuck? Sexual preference isn't any kind of ism. I swear some people live their lives being offended by everything. Oh, someone doesn't like my new trainers, show me the safe space! Someone doesn't like me, fucking racist!  | |||
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"Can't believe someone else used the term Gingerist too... thought I'd just made that up "I could have kept going 
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The list of ists is astronomical, unless you accept they're preferences and people are attracted to things others don't always understand, or don't want to understand or accept. People tend to want to lay blame at the hands of others when sometimes no blame is necessary, just acceptance
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"I've found if someone has a ism they usually have them all " Really? I think we all have one but I haven’t met anyone who hates everyone... | |||
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"Can't believe someone else used the term Gingerist too... thought I'd just made that up
I could have kept going
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The list of ists is astronomical, unless you accept they're preferences and people are attracted to things others don't always understand, or don't want to understand or accept. People tend to want to lay blame at the hands of others when sometimes no blame is necessary, just acceptance
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"So to get this straight. Anyone who has a preference relating to skin colour is either a sexual racist or a full on racist. Not convinced that's the case. It is all about attraction" I'm fairly sure he's perfectly ok with some women only meeting black guys | |||
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"I've found if someone has a ism they usually have them all Really? I think we all have one but I haven’t met anyone who hates everyone..." no we all don't have one , some of us are happy to live and let live | |||
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"So to get this straight. Anyone who has a preference relating to skin colour is either a sexual racist or a full on racist. Not convinced that's the case. It is all about attraction I'm fairly sure he's perfectly ok with some women only meeting black guys "That made me laugh | |||
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"I've found if someone has a ism they usually have them all Really? I think we all have one but I haven’t met anyone who hates everyone...no we all don't have one , some of us are happy to live and let live "Yep. You carry on believing in yourself sweetheart | |||
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"I've found if someone has a ism they usually have them all Really? I think we all have one but I haven’t met anyone who hates everyone...no we all don't have one , some of us are happy to live and let live
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"I've found if someone has a ism they usually have them all Really? I think we all have one but I haven’t met anyone who hates everyone...no we all don't have one , some of us are happy to live and let live
Yep. You carry on believing in yourself sweetheartI do every single day and walk tall sweetcheeks "And that’s exactly how it should be darling | |||
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"I get it but I think you all miss understand the post my thing is it’s okay to have a preference. But to say you will not meet anyone from another race other than your race or a particular race other than your race what is that really? Me myself some times I only want to meet white women then sometimes Asian or black or whatever tickles my fancy. And I don’t think when a race that limits there self to there own race they are racists, just wanted to know what everyone thoughts where on the topic?" Exactly, whatever (prefer whoever but up to you) tickles your fancy. Some don't tickle the fancy of others. Some prefer to stick to what they know perhaps. Some may not be racist but have heard rumours about certain ethnicities that make them dubious about meeting so steer clear just in case. Some maybe are so sick of having the term BBC rammed down their throats they simply can't be arsed as there's more to a person than their penis, and someone who defines themself BY their penis isn't the kind of person they want to hang out with or bump uglies with. Maybe someone was sexually assaulted by someone of a certain race and that has put them off. You just don't know P | |||
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"I think its far too easy to suggest a preference is based on prejudice. The best example would be me blocking single guys as I am straight. This doesn't mean I discriminate against men or am sexist or homophobic . As a mixed race guy I accept some wull not find my colour sexually appealing whilst others may find it a turn on. Many others dont care either way and find my intelligence or charm or personality more appealing. Have fun and don't worry about it x" Fabs should do a preference block list that would make my life easier lol if I could put people not looking to meet blacks and all the other not looking for that would be the best thing ever would save me time | |||
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"I think its far too easy to suggest a preference is based on prejudice. The best example would be me blocking single guys as I am straight. This doesn't mean I discriminate against men or am sexist or homophobic . As a mixed race guy I accept some wull not find my colour sexually appealing whilst others may find it a turn on. Many others dont care either way and find my intelligence or charm or personality more appealing. Have fun and don't worry about it x Fabs should do a preference block list that would make my life easier lol if I could put people not looking to meet blacks and all the other not looking for that would be the best thing ever would save me time " No thats a terrible idea. Often those who dont usually go for someone like me for example will be open and send me a message saying that they haven't previously but would like to. Whatever their reasons perhaps in meeting someone different if they did have any negative opinions may be changed. Im an equal opportunities fucker !! | |||
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"I think its far too easy to suggest a preference is based on prejudice. The best example would be me blocking single guys as I am straight. This doesn't mean I discriminate against men or am sexist or homophobic . As a mixed race guy I accept some wull not find my colour sexually appealing whilst others may find it a turn on. Many others dont care either way and find my intelligence or charm or personality more appealing. Have fun and don't worry about it x Fabs should do a preference block list that would make my life easier lol if I could put people not looking to meet blacks and all the other not looking for that would be the best thing ever would save me time No thats a terrible idea. Often those who dont usually go for someone like me for example will be open and send me a message saying that they haven't previously but would like to. Whatever their reasons perhaps in meeting someone different if they did have any negative opinions may be changed. Im an equal opportunities fucker !!" Listen have you not had couples or women that block single men contact you? If so it all the same as long as you keep your options open | |||
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"I totally agree that for most it's just a preference but let's face it some will be because they are racist. Iv seen the odd comment on threads like this before saying something along the lines of... I saw an Asian man behave badly in a club once, so now I won't meet one. Now that is in the very least ignorant. So I would say a very small number "hide" behind the whole it's preference thing. " | |||
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"I totally agree that for most it's just a preference but let's face it some will be because they are racist. Iv seen the odd comment on threads like this before saying something along the lines of... I saw an Asian man behave badly in a club once, so now I won't meet one. Now that is in the very least ignorant. So I would say a very small number "hide" behind the whole it's preference thing. " I agree, you can often spot the racists by the way their profiles are written . NO BLACKS, NO ASIANS is usually a sign | |||
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"I totally agree that for most it's just a preference but let's face it some will be because they are racist. Iv seen the odd comment on threads like this before saying something along the lines of... I saw an Asian man behave badly in a club once, so now I won't meet one. Now that is in the very least ignorant. So I would say a very small number "hide" behind the whole it's preference thing. " Once again, my wise friend summarises things well. x | |||
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FYI I find all skin types attractive. | |||
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"Having a sexual preference isn't racist. People are way over sensitive to the subject and risk looking plain stupid when they argue it. If someone doesn't want to speak to you in the street because of your skin, racist. If someone doesn't want to fuck you because of the colour of your skin, sexual preference. Massive difference. Now where my black girls at
FYI I find all skin types attractive. "It is difficult to prove if a preference is based on stereotyping or racism but I am convinced it happens on here , thankfully it is in the minority | |||
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"My preference is white males, it is just that..... my preference and my choice." Of course it is your choice and I am sure this preference isn’t based on racism or stereotyping? but that isn’t the case for everyone | |||
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"I totally agree that for most it's just a preference but let's face it some will be because they are racist. Iv seen the odd comment on threads like this before saying something along the lines of... I saw an Asian man behave badly in a club once, so now I won't meet one. Now that is in the very least ignorant. So I would say a very small number "hide" behind the whole it's preference thing. " . | |||
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"Here's the thing... We all like different things in life and on fab. It's ridiculous to think that just because a profile states "no black or Asian" that they're automatically racist. Perhaps outside of fab they maybe just that and therefore that's why. It may also be that it's just not a sexual attraction for them although they deplore racism. It would be wrong to assume by default that they're racist. Isn't all this a bit of PC taken too far? Argue about racist twats yes but not innocent choice. Btw I see that not only is Dudley well represented on this thread but we're all talking sense.... If that's tribalism then we'd better start another thread. "I agree, but why do people find it necessary to put NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS usually in BLOCK CAPITALS? Why can’t they put what they do want rather than what they don’t ? | |||
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"Here's the thing... We all like different things in life and on fab. It's ridiculous to think that just because a profile states "no black or Asian" that they're automatically racist. Perhaps outside of fab they maybe just that and therefore that's why. It may also be that it's just not a sexual attraction for them although they deplore racism. It would be wrong to assume by default that they're racist. Isn't all this a bit of PC taken too far? Argue about racist twats yes but not innocent choice. Btw I see that not only is Dudley well represented on this thread but we're all talking sense.... If that's tribalism then we'd better start another thread.
I agree, but why do people find it necessary to put NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS usually in BLOCK CAPITALS? Why can’t they put what they do want rather than what they don’t ? "That may be because some people are not respecting their wishes and continue to harass with requests like some girls have NO COCK PICS on their profiles. I give way to the fact there will be racism in all corners of life. But to assume makes an ASS of U and Me. | |||
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"I totally agree that for most it's just a preference but let's face it some will be because they are racist. Iv seen the odd comment on threads like this before saying something along the lines of... I saw an Asian man behave badly in a club once, so now I won't meet one. Now that is in the very least ignorant. So I would say a very small number "hide" behind the whole it's preference thing. " | |||
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"Here's the thing... We all like different things in life and on fab. It's ridiculous to think that just because a profile states "no black or Asian" that they're automatically racist. Perhaps outside of fab they maybe just that and therefore that's why. It may also be that it's just not a sexual attraction for them although they deplore racism. It would be wrong to assume by default that they're racist. Isn't all this a bit of PC taken too far? Argue about racist twats yes but not innocent choice. Btw I see that not only is Dudley well represented on this thread but we're all talking sense.... If that's tribalism then we'd better start another thread.
I agree, but why do people find it necessary to put NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS usually in BLOCK CAPITALS? Why can’t they put what they do want rather than what they don’t ?
That may be because some people are not respecting their wishes and continue to harass with requests like some girls have NO COCK PICS on their profiles.
I give way to the fact there will be racism in all corners of life. But to assume makes an ASS of U and Me. "I would never assume but if you have a preference state that preference on your profile ? After all it is only a ‘preference’ ? discounting an entire race does seem racist ? | |||
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"Does it really impact on you as an individual? I don’t wish to meet chaps shorter than five eleven; however several hundreds of ladies will. One lady happening not to find a gentleman of colour making her fandango flutter is really not a big deal. (Guess what, quite rightly, the vast majority couldn’t give a fig about a hidden silhouette profile - I live with that). " Ah, do you prefer men over 5ft 11 or do you discount all men under 5ft 11? | |||
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"Here's the thing... We all like different things in life and on fab. It's ridiculous to think that just because a profile states "no black or Asian" that they're automatically racist. Perhaps outside of fab they maybe just that and therefore that's why. It may also be that it's just not a sexual attraction for them although they deplore racism. It would be wrong to assume by default that they're racist. Isn't all this a bit of PC taken too far? Argue about racist twats yes but not innocent choice. Btw I see that not only is Dudley well represented on this thread but we're all talking sense.... If that's tribalism then we'd better start another thread.
I agree, but why do people find it necessary to put NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS usually in BLOCK CAPITALS? Why can’t they put what they do want rather than what they don’t ?
That may be because some people are not respecting their wishes and continue to harass with requests like some girls have NO COCK PICS on their profiles.
I give way to the fact there will be racism in all corners of life. But to assume makes an ASS of U and Me.
I would never assume but if you have a preference state that preference on your profile ? After all it is only a ‘preference’ ? discounting an entire race does seem racist ? "But by putting "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" is displaying their preference. By doing that they are of course discounting the entire ethnicity or it would say "SOME BLACKS AND ASIANS" you can't really have it both ways | |||
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"Here's the thing... We all like different things in life and on fab. It's ridiculous to think that just because a profile states "no black or Asian" that they're automatically racist. Perhaps outside of fab they maybe just that and therefore that's why. It may also be that it's just not a sexual attraction for them although they deplore racism. It would be wrong to assume by default that they're racist. Isn't all this a bit of PC taken too far? Argue about racist twats yes but not innocent choice. Btw I see that not only is Dudley well represented on this thread but we're all talking sense.... If that's tribalism then we'd better start another thread.
I agree, but why do people find it necessary to put NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS usually in BLOCK CAPITALS? Why can’t they put what they do want rather than what they don’t ?
That may be because some people are not respecting their wishes and continue to harass with requests like some girls have NO COCK PICS on their profiles.
I give way to the fact there will be racism in all corners of life. But to assume makes an ASS of U and Me.
I would never assume but if you have a preference state that preference on your profile ? After all it is only a ‘preference’ ? discounting an entire race does seem racist ?
But by putting "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" is displaying their preference.
By doing that they are of course discounting the entire ethnicity or it would say "SOME BLACKS AND ASIANS" you can't really have it both ways "No it isn’t, a ‘preference’ doesn’t discount everything else it just means you ‘prefer ‘ something over the alternative . How can someone discount an entire race without being prejudiced? Is it purely aesthetic ? Not all people of any race look the same ? Is it cultural ? Not all people of any race have the same culture? Is it religion? Not all people of any race have the same religion ? So, what is it? | |||
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"Does it really impact on you as an individual? I don’t wish to meet chaps shorter than five eleven; however several hundreds of ladies will. One lady happening not to find a gentleman of colour making her fandango flutter is really not a big deal. (Guess what, quite rightly, the vast majority couldn’t give a fig about a hidden silhouette profile - I live with that). " That's Umpa Lumpaism.... Shame!!! | |||
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"Here's the thing... We all like different things in life and on fab. It's ridiculous to think that just because a profile states "no black or Asian" that they're automatically racist. Perhaps outside of fab they maybe just that and therefore that's why. It may also be that it's just not a sexual attraction for them although they deplore racism. It would be wrong to assume by default that they're racist. Isn't all this a bit of PC taken too far? Argue about racist twats yes but not innocent choice. Btw I see that not only is Dudley well represented on this thread but we're all talking sense.... If that's tribalism then we'd better start another thread.
I agree, but why do people find it necessary to put NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS usually in BLOCK CAPITALS? Why can’t they put what they do want rather than what they don’t ?
That may be because some people are not respecting their wishes and continue to harass with requests like some girls have NO COCK PICS on their profiles.
I give way to the fact there will be racism in all corners of life. But to assume makes an ASS of U and Me.
I would never assume but if you have a preference state that preference on your profile ? After all it is only a ‘preference’ ? discounting an entire race does seem racist ?
But by putting "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" is displaying their preference.
By doing that they are of course discounting the entire ethnicity or it would say "SOME BLACKS AND ASIANS" you can't really have it both ways
No it isn’t, a ‘preference’ doesn’t discount everything else it just means you ‘prefer ‘ something over the alternative . How can someone discount an entire race without being prejudiced? Is it purely aesthetic ? Not all people of any race look the same ? Is it cultural ? Not all people of any race have the same culture? Is it religion? Not all people of any race have the same religion ? So, what is it? "Substitute the word "preference" and use the word "choice". Still not racist but should clarify. We all have a freedom of choice to prefer whatever we like without fear of being accused of racist ideology. | |||
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"Here's the thing... We all like different things in life and on fab. It's ridiculous to think that just because a profile states "no black or Asian" that they're automatically racist. Perhaps outside of fab they maybe just that and therefore that's why. It may also be that it's just not a sexual attraction for them although they deplore racism. It would be wrong to assume by default that they're racist. Isn't all this a bit of PC taken too far? Argue about racist twats yes but not innocent choice. Btw I see that not only is Dudley well represented on this thread but we're all talking sense.... If that's tribalism then we'd better start another thread.
I agree, but why do people find it necessary to put NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS usually in BLOCK CAPITALS? Why can’t they put what they do want rather than what they don’t ?
That may be because some people are not respecting their wishes and continue to harass with requests like some girls have NO COCK PICS on their profiles.
I give way to the fact there will be racism in all corners of life. But to assume makes an ASS of U and Me.
I would never assume but if you have a preference state that preference on your profile ? After all it is only a ‘preference’ ? discounting an entire race does seem racist ?
But by putting "NO BLACKS OR ASIANS" is displaying their preference.
By doing that they are of course discounting the entire ethnicity or it would say "SOME BLACKS AND ASIANS" you can't really have it both ways
No it isn’t, a ‘preference’ doesn’t discount everything else it just means you ‘prefer ‘ something over the alternative . How can someone discount an entire race without being prejudiced? Is it purely aesthetic ? Not all people of any race look the same ? Is it cultural ? Not all people of any race have the same culture? Is it religion? Not all people of any race have the same religion ? So, what is it?
Substitute the word "preference" and use the word "choice". Still not racist but should clarify.
We all have a freedom of choice to prefer whatever we like without fear of being accused of racist ideology.
"Of course we have freedom of choice, we can fuck or not fuck whoever we want ? This is a very simple question, how can you discount an entire race of people ? You might have a preference or a choice but what is making people discount millions and millions of people? Do they really mean NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS ? | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. " Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? " Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. " I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour?" Is it Groundhog Day today? Not that there's anything wrong with Groundhogs you understand... | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? Is it Groundhog Day today? Not that there's anything wrong with Groundhogs you understand... "It is only Groundhog Day if you can’t answer the question ? | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour?" For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? | |||
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? P" but any reference or comment on a profile is by its very inclusion racist sure have the preference but dont write it on your profile, just ignore messages from them | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? " I was born straight, I don’t find men attractive , this isn’t based on their skin colour, race, religion I just don’t find any men attractive . So, why do people discount an entire race of people, looks? Culture? religion? Skin colour? What is it? | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? " Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? I think for me that's the crux of it. I had never thought of this until another forum user pointed it out. Without even realising there may be undertones that we never thought we had maybe from conditioning from growing up. I don't really know but I think there's something to it. | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? " I think you need to google the word ‘homophobe’ then get back to me | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? I was born straight, I don’t find men attractive , this isn’t based on their skin colour, race, religion I just don’t find any men attractive . So, why do people discount an entire race of people, looks? Culture? religion? Skin colour? What is it? " And what makes you think that having a preference is not something you are born with? Why are you allowed to have a sexual preference when it comes to gender but not race? Or culture? Or religion? My wife doesn't even like black dildos, and that has nothing to do with race, why get a black one when the one that you really want is pink with glitter? If you have a choice, then it is your right to choose and no one should be kink shamed for not liking something. It really is not that hard to understand? | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? I was born straight, I don’t find men attractive , this isn’t based on their skin colour, race, religion I just don’t find any men attractive . So, why do people discount an entire race of people, looks? Culture? religion? Skin colour? What is it? " They don't find them attractive. | |||
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" I believe the top examples 80% are sexual racist and 20% are racist, just my option would like to hear from you all. I wonder if we couldn’t see would we care " Different people will have different reasons for asserting their desire for a particular ethnicity. It's prejudicial to assert that all must be racist. | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? I was born straight, I don’t find men attractive , this isn’t based on their skin colour, race, religion I just don’t find any men attractive . So, why do people discount an entire race of people, looks? Culture? religion? Skin colour? What is it? And what makes you think that having a preference is not something you are born with? Why are you allowed to have a sexual preference when it comes to gender but not race? Or culture? Or religion? My wife doesn't even like black dildos, and that has nothing to do with race, why get a black one when the one that you really want is pink with glitter? If you have a choice, then it is your right to choose and no one should be kink shamed for not liking something. It really is not that hard to understand? " Who said you can’t have a sexual preference ? Would you discount an entire race of people? And if so why? Have you asked your wife why we doesn’t like black dildos? Seems a very strange thing to mention? | |||
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" I believe the top examples 80% are sexual racist and 20% are racist, just my option would like to hear from you all. I wonder if we couldn’t see would we care Different people will have different reasons for asserting their desire for a particular ethnicity. It's prejudicial to assert that all must be racist. " I agree, I don’t think anyone who prefers or desires a certain race is racist , I am asking why people discount a race | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? I was born straight, I don’t find men attractive , this isn’t based on their skin colour, race, religion I just don’t find any men attractive . So, why do people discount an entire race of people, looks? Culture? religion? Skin colour? What is it? They don't find them attractive. " Physically attractive ? That makes sense, but surely they can’t find an entire race unattractive ? | |||
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"its is your body to allow whomever you see fit to play with it. It is not a legal right for everyone to have access to it. There are no grounds for discrimination with who you do or dont let fuck you. imagine the legal cases.... im suing for discrimination because she wont let me fuck her... that will be a £300 fine and oh please let him bum you for a bit" I never said it was. I never said you can’t have a preference , I will keep asking the same question, why do people discount an entire race of people | |||
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"its is your body to allow whomever you see fit to play with it. It is not a legal right for everyone to have access to it. There are no grounds for discrimination with who you do or dont let fuck you. imagine the legal cases.... im suing for discrimination because she wont let me fuck her... that will be a £300 fine and oh please let him bum you for a bit I never said it was. I never said you can’t have a preference , I will keep asking the same question, why do people discount an entire race of people " And we will keep telling you that it's the same reason you discounted an entire gender. Preference. And guy grow the fuck up, this is a swinging site so if I mentioned the color of my wife's dildo in relation to a discussion on preferred race its perfectly normal, if you don't think so then maybe you are on the wrong site and should just tottle off back to Facebook you troll | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? I was born straight, I don’t find men attractive , this isn’t based on their skin colour, race, religion I just don’t find any men attractive . So, why do people discount an entire race of people, looks? Culture? religion? Skin colour? What is it? They don't find them attractive. Physically attractive ? That makes sense, but surely they can’t find an entire race unattractive ? " Why? You discount an entire gender. | |||
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"There are people in life who, when they don't get what they want or when something is happening that they don't like, even if it doesn't involve themeselves will blame it on some sort of ism. That's just how it is with some people." Do you discount an entire race of people on here?? | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? I was born straight, I don’t find men attractive , this isn’t based on their skin colour, race, religion I just don’t find any men attractive . So, why do people discount an entire race of people, looks? Culture? religion? Skin colour? What is it? They don't find them attractive. Physically attractive ? That makes sense, but surely they can’t find an entire race unattractive ? Why? You discount an entire gender. " Yes, because I am not attracted to men. All men, Not white men not Asian men not black men? Surely you can see the difference ? | |||
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"its is your body to allow whomever you see fit to play with it. It is not a legal right for everyone to have access to it. There are no grounds for discrimination with who you do or dont let fuck you. imagine the legal cases.... im suing for discrimination because she wont let me fuck her... that will be a £300 fine and oh please let him bum you for a bit I never said it was. I never said you can’t have a preference , I will keep asking the same question, why do people discount an entire race of people And we will keep telling you that it's the same reason you discounted an entire gender. Preference. And guy grow the fuck up, this is a swinging site so if I mentioned the color of my wife's dildo in relation to a discussion on preferred race its perfectly normal, if you don't think so then maybe you are on the wrong site and should just tottle off back to Facebook you troll" Wow, swearing and then insults? Somebody is rattled ? If you think the colour of your wife’s dildo is relevant to this thread then I am wasting my time trying to have a discussion with you . | |||
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"Bro, this site is like going to a buffet, there's plenty of food to go around, but are you going to load up your plate with food you have no intention of eating? Do you ask for both fried eggs and scrambled so that one of them doesn't feel left out? Should I get mad if some girl rejects me coz she's only down for BBC while I only have SWC? Does that make her a racist? No you are just not her type. Of course she isn’t racist ? But I will ask again ? Why do some people discount an entire race of people ? Then your contradicting yourself. BBC only you say isn't racist... Yet MO BLACKS OR ASIANS is? That's double standards. I don’t know her? So I can’t say if she is racist ? I don’t know the people who state NO BLACKS, so I can’t say if they are racist .I will ask again? Why do people discount an entire race of people? I am genuinely interested to know ? Would you discount someone based on race or skin colour? For the exact same reason you discounted 50% of the world's population by listing yourself as straight. It's your preference. And how would you feel if someone called you a homophobe because your profile says you don't do guys? I was born straight, I don’t find men attractive , this isn’t based on their skin colour, race, religion I just don’t find any men attractive . So, why do people discount an entire race of people, looks? Culture? religion? Skin colour? What is it? They don't find them attractive. Physically attractive ? That makes sense, but surely they can’t find an entire race unattractive ? Why? You discount an entire gender. Yes, because I am not attracted to men. All men, Not white men not Asian men not black men? Surely you can see the difference ? " I get where you’re coming from, I may have a preference for dark haired men but I can’t say I’m not attracted to any blonde haired men. It does seem weird to say you wouldn’t find any black, Asian, oriental, or white men attractive BUT in the end it’s our body and nobody has the right to tell someone else what they should do with their body, whether it’s who they have sex with or anything else. | |||
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"It's hardly racism is it? Some weird people don't like redheads but that doesn't make them Gingerists. Most people aren't going to fuck someone they dont fancy, and if they only fancy people the same colour as them then so be it."
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"its is your body to allow whomever you see fit to play with it. It is not a legal right for everyone to have access to it. There are no grounds for discrimination with who you do or dont let fuck you. imagine the legal cases.... im suing for discrimination because she wont let me fuck her... that will be a £300 fine and oh please let him bum you for a bit I never said it was. I never said you can’t have a preference , I will keep asking the same question, why do people discount an entire race of people " Because they are not attracted to them. | |||
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"Valid non racist reason 1. Maybe some don't believe in abortion and wouldn't want to explain a mixed race baby conceived at a gangbang if they got preggers by accident when both of the couple are white/black. Valid reason 2. Maybe someone was sexually assaulted by someone of a certain race and that has put them off. Same as some people cannot have sex with someone with a moustache, as they were assaulted by someone with a moustache so it brings back painful memories. They know it isn't the same person but discount all others with moustaches based on that. That doesn't make them moustacheist, it makes them wanting to avoid any awkward situations/embarrassment/bad reactions. Are those reasons legit enough for ya? As I said before way up there, we don't know what goes on in peoples heads and why they are the way they are. P " I recall being out in a pub one evening and in the company of people at a table - three or four of us, mostly white, one black chap. Everyone seemed very friendly and sociable towards each other, so I was very surprised when the lady let slip some racist opinion. The black chap didn't bat and eyelid, but she could tell I was perplexed by it. Gang-raped by a black youths as a kid, she said. I'm afraid my mind just went numb at that point. | |||
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"its is your body to allow whomever you see fit to play with it. It is not a legal right for everyone to have access to it. There are no grounds for discrimination with who you do or dont let fuck you. imagine the legal cases.... im suing for discrimination because she wont let me fuck her... that will be a £300 fine and oh please let him bum you for a bit I never said it was. I never said you can’t have a preference , I will keep asking the same question, why do people discount an entire race of people " Some people may not be attracted to certain features of some races and as P has stated, if someone has been assaulted by someone of a certain race they may avoid sex with the entire race to avoid triggers. It isn't really for you to question because to be blunt, it's none of your fucking business why someone chooses their sexual partners. | |||
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"I get it but I think you all miss understand the post my thing is it’s okay to have a preference. But to say you will not meet anyone from another race other than your race or a particular race other than your race what is that really? Me myself some times I only want to meet white women then sometimes Asian or black or whatever tickles my fancy. And I don’t think when a race that limits there self to there own race they are racists, just wanted to know what everyone thoughts where on the topic?" Wouldn't that make you part-time sexually racist then? Or is it ok for you but not for others? | |||
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"The 'it is their body and blablabla...' or ' I won't sleep with ppl I am not attracted to...' doesn't even reply to the question Karen! The question is : it is racism or not ? I truly wonder if that sexual racial preference stops at that or does it have influence on other choice, such as job recruitment? For the sake of the argument let's say that a person says on her/his profile: 'white only'. As we are on fab, it is obviously a sexual racial preference. Now if that person works in HR and have two candidates with the same school backgrounds, diplomas and same skills...but one is white and one is black... And the skin colour of the candidate influences his/her judgment, we can safely say that it is racist. To go even further I don't know what make a skin colour looks more attractive than another if we don't combined it with other characteristics ? I believe that people who are into a specific type of skin colours must associate that skin colours with other characteristics such as personality types, behaviours and so on... And in that case it is racist. " You believe that those with such preference associate the skin colour with other characteristics. I believe that is a sweeping generalisation. I always thought I had a preference for certain skin colours until I tried different. However that was only ever in the sexual arena. In the workplace I have frequently gone for the better candidate regardless | |||
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"The 'it is their body and blablabla...' or ' I won't sleep with ppl I am not attracted to...' doesn't even reply to the question Karen! The question is : it is racism or not ? I truly wonder if that sexual racial preference stops at that or does it have influence on other choice, such as job recruitment? For the sake of the argument let's say that a person says on her/his profile: 'white only'. As we are on fab, it is obviously a sexual racial preference. Now if that person works in HR and have two candidates with the same school backgrounds, diplomas and same skills...but one is white and one is black... And the skin colour of the candidate influences his/her judgment, we can safely say that it is racist. To go even further I don't know what make a skin colour looks more attractive than another if we don't combined it with other characteristics ? I believe that people who are into a specific type of skin colours must associate that skin colours with other characteristics such as personality types, behaviours and so on... And in that case it is racist. " By that rational, white men/women seeking black only are racist against their own colour. And vice versa. Ridiculous statement. Some people are racist. That's a horrible fact if life. But trying to find racism in sexual preference is getting beyond a joke.... but very 2019 of you. Wonder what 2020 will bring to the party  | |||
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"The 'it is their body and blablabla...' or ' I won't sleep with ppl I am not attracted to...' doesn't even reply to the question Karen! The question is : it is racism or not ? I truly wonder if that sexual racial preference stops at that or does it have influence on other choice, such as job recruitment? For the sake of the argument let's say that a person says on her/his profile: 'white only'. As we are on fab, it is obviously a sexual racial preference. Now if that person works in HR and have two candidates with the same school backgrounds, diplomas and same skills...but one is white and one is black... And the skin colour of the candidate influences his/her judgment, we can safely say that it is racist. To go even further I don't know what make a skin colour looks more attractive than another if we don't combined it with other characteristics ? I believe that people who are into a specific type of skin colours must associate that skin colours with other characteristics such as personality types, behaviours and so on... And in that case it is racist. " Let's be frank, there will be a proportion of racists on Fab, it's too large a sample group of humanity to assume otherwise. And this means that yes, a few stating they won't meet those of a certain race will be card carrying racists. But not the majority I believe and the real issue is them being racist in the first place, their Fab preferences being an aside to this. The majority will simply not find people of a certain race sexually attractive. And unless they were genuine racists in the first place then it would have no effect on them in their day to day life. I fancy women more than men. If I worked in HR and two identical people applied for the same job (and that's very unlikely in itself) then I wouldn't necessarily choose the woman over the guy? Racists do exist. Sexual racists I'd regard as a bollocks term really. B | |||
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"Preference. End." Why are you reading so much in to it and trying to label or bucket peoples views. It's down to preferences and honesty from the offset which saves every one time and gives you options xx | |||
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"Personally I’m just not sexually attracted to black men in exactly the same way I’m not sexually attracted to hairy men ...... There is definitely no racism involved it’s just my preference on the other hand I am sexually attracted to black women ....Not sure why this is always made into such a big deal there’s always going to be a small minority of people that are racist but for the majority it’s just a sexual preference...." My hairy chest is outraged  | |||
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"The 'it is their body and blablabla...' or ' I won't sleep with ppl I am not attracted to...' doesn't even reply to the question Karen! The question is : it is racism or not ? I truly wonder if that sexual racial preference stops at that or does it have influence on other choice, such as job recruitment? For the sake of the argument let's say that a person says on her/his profile: 'white only'. As we are on fab, it is obviously a sexual racial preference. Now if that person works in HR and have two candidates with the same school backgrounds, diplomas and same skills...but one is white and one is black... And the skin colour of the candidate influences his/her judgment, we can safely say that it is racist. To go even further I don't know what make a skin colour looks more attractive than another if we don't combined it with other characteristics ? I believe that people who are into a specific type of skin colours must associate that skin colours with other characteristics such as personality types, behaviours and so on... And in that case it is racist. By that rational, white men/women seeking black only are racist against their own colour. And vice versa. Ridiculous statement. Some people are racist. That's a horrible fact if life. But trying to find racism in sexual preference is getting beyond a joke.... but very 2019 of you. Wonder what 2020 will bring to the party "By not seeing racism when there is is beyond a joke as well. | |||
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"The 'it is their body and blablabla...' or ' I won't sleep with ppl I am not attracted to...' doesn't even reply to the question Karen! The question is : it is racism or not ? I truly wonder if that sexual racial preference stops at that or does it have influence on other choice, such as job recruitment? For the sake of the argument let's say that a person says on her/his profile: 'white only'. As we are on fab, it is obviously a sexual racial preference. Now if that person works in HR and have two candidates with the same school backgrounds, diplomas and same skills...but one is white and one is black... And the skin colour of the candidate influences his/her judgment, we can safely say that it is racist. To go even further I don't know what make a skin colour looks more attractive than another if we don't combined it with other characteristics ? I believe that people who are into a specific type of skin colours must associate that skin colours with other characteristics such as personality types, behaviours and so on... And in that case it is racist. Let's be frank, there will be a proportion of racists on Fab, it's too large a sample group of humanity to assume otherwise. And this means that yes, a few stating they won't meet those of a certain race will be card carrying racists. But not the majority I believe and the real issue is them being racist in the first place, their Fab preferences being an aside to this. The majority will simply not find people of a certain race sexually attractive. And unless they were genuine racists in the first place then it would have no effect on them in their day to day life. I fancy women more than men. If I worked in HR and two identical people applied for the same job (and that's very unlikely in itself) then I wouldn't necessarily choose the woman over the guy? Racists do exist. Sexual racists I'd regard as a bollocks term really. B" I didn't really use the term sexual racism though. I say that a said sexual racial preference may be racist. That is different. Well if you choose the guy over the woman it may be regarded as ambivalence sexism | |||
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"Just wanting to know is it racism if.... whites only want to meet whites? blacks only wanting to meet blacks? Asians only want to meet Asians? Or let’s say white profile says no blacks black profile says no whites Asian profile says no blacks (reason I mention no blacks from Asian profiles because 98% of Asian profile on this site that state preference mention no blacks) I know there’s loads of none black profiles that state only looking for black men or women and also other races looking for the opposite race from there self. But would you say these profiles have a Racial fetishism? Other than the top example I gave? I believe the top examples 80% are sexual racist and 20% are racist, just my option would like to hear from you all. I wonder if we couldn’t see would we care " Preference,end off | |||
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"The 'it is their body and blablabla...' or ' I won't sleep with ppl I am not attracted to...' doesn't even reply to the question Karen! The question is : it is racism or not ? I truly wonder if that sexual racial preference stops at that or does it have influence on other choice, such as job recruitment? For the sake of the argument let's say that a person says on her/his profile: 'white only'. As we are on fab, it is obviously a sexual racial preference. Now if that person works in HR and have two candidates with the same school backgrounds, diplomas and same skills...but one is white and one is black... And the skin colour of the candidate influences his/her judgment, we can safely say that it is racist. To go even further I don't know what make a skin colour looks more attractive than another if we don't combined it with other characteristics ? I believe that people who are into a specific type of skin colours must associate that skin colours with other characteristics such as personality types, behaviours and so on... And in that case it is racist. By that rational, white men/women seeking black only are racist against their own colour. And vice versa. Ridiculous statement. Some people are racist. That's a horrible fact if life. But trying to find racism in sexual preference is getting beyond a joke.... but very 2019 of you. Wonder what 2020 will bring to the party
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? P" | |||
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" ......I was very surprised when the lady let slip some racist opinion. ..... Gang-raped by a black youths as a kid, she said..... " That’s not being racist. That is just an awful event that happened to her. Poor woman  | |||
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"This topic keeps reappearing and what fascinates me is why people have to justify not being racist. My question is, would you fuck a racist? I definitely would if I fancied her. So in essence, what's wrong with being racist OP ? " New post buddy..... | |||
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"There are people in life who, when they don't get what they want or when something is happening that they don't like, even if it doesn't involve themeselves will blame it on some sort of ism. That's just how it is with some people." exactly i suffer from medtism | |||
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"Can you question the existence of something you have neither experienced or have an understanding of? Easier to dismiss and dispel such crazy notions..." I think you can if you have an objective approach? Can you look at things objective6if you're emotively opinionated? I've experienced crude derogatory jokes and belittling comments based on my nationality, but I wouldn't compare to more extreme prejudice. But staying on track...theres a massive elephant in the room here no doubt. Some people will make preferences based on perceived stereotypes of people and their lifestyles. Some genuinely aren't attracted to them. Are people ageist for having filters? We're too ready to use the racist word, which should be saved for those that act with genuine prejudice. Not everyone will like or be attracted to me. That's nothing to do with my nationality, colour or age. That's life? Where do we draw the line? | |||
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"I get it but I think you all miss understand the post my thing is it’s okay to have a preference. But to say you will not meet anyone from another race other than your race or a particular race other than your race what is that really? Me myself some times I only want to meet white women then sometimes Asian or black or whatever tickles my fancy. And I don’t think when a race that limits there self to there own race they are racists, just wanted to know what everyone thoughts where on the topic?" I understand your point Here's a 2 part question for you If a man has stated on his profile he will only meet with "blonde haired,large breasted Pamela Anderson lookalikes" Would this be racist? And would the MANs skin colour change your answer? IE if he's white, is it different to if he's black? | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst." | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst." They have no souls. | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls." You’ve met my mother haven’t you? | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst." Yep every freckle represents a soul I've stolen | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls." I've often said we are the last minority group that folk can get away with saying such things about... even in so called jest  | |||
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" ......I was very surprised when the lady let slip some racist opinion. ..... Gang-raped by a black youths as a kid, she said..... That’s not being racist. That is just an awful event that happened to her. Poor woman "No, her comments beforehand were very general and very racist. When she detected my perplexion, she sought to justify them by disclosing her experience as a teenager. My moral compass stopped working at that point, basically. | |||
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"There are people in life who, when they don't get what they want or when something is happening that they don't like, even if it doesn't involve themeselves will blame it on some sort of ism. That's just how it is with some people. Do you discount an entire race of people on here??" Personally no but that has nothing to do with my comment. | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls." we collect the souls of gingerists | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls. we collect the souls of gingerists "You're ok you're strawberry blonde | |||
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"I've been called a "fucking racist bitch" plenty of times for "no thanks, not for me" replies. Now that fucks me off. Why scream racism and accuse others of it when they've been perfectly pleasant to you? As I have said before, some can't handle rejection and want to lay blame. I question whether those that claim racism at every knock back/hurdle/not getting their own way are actually indeed the racists, coz personally race doesn't cross my mind, I merely accept. P" Totally agree on this one. | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls. I've often said we are the last minority group that folk can get away with saying such things about... even in so called jest "but even that is watered down , Jesus in the 80,s everyone was nasty to gingers My 2 have never been insulted once ,, They have no clue what it means to be a ginge survivor lol | |||
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls. I've often said we are the last minority group that folk can get away with saying such things about... even in so called jest but even that is watered down , Jesus in the 80,s everyone was nasty to gingers
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls. I've often said we are the last minority group that folk can get away with saying such things about... even in so called jest but even that is watered down , Jesus in the 80,s everyone was nasty to gingers
My 2 have never been insulted once ,,
They have no clue what it means to be a ginge survivor lol
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls. I've often said we are the last minority group that folk can get away with saying such things about... even in so called jest but even that is watered down , Jesus in the 80,s everyone was nasty to gingers
My 2 have never been insulted once ,,
They have no clue what it means to be a ginge survivor lol
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"So what if they *are* racist? There are whole groups of people I don't want to fuck. I don't go on rallies. I don't firebomb houses. I don't call them names. I just don't want to fuck them. I just say "no thank you" without any reason needed to be given. My decision is final. People calling it 'racism' are just trying to make people feel guilty. I don't feel guilty at all, so call me whatever you like. " | |||
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"I don't consider myself as racist but when I get a message with 'are you into bbc?' then I have to say no. Purely because I'm not into big cocks. I've had lots, but it's more that I have nothing in common with the guys, and the rest of the sex isn't great. I have two regulars who are black but they lack technique and I'll be dumping them in the new year." PMSL, is this for real ? | |||
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"There are people in life who, when they don't get what they want or when something is happening that they don't like, even if it doesn't involve themeselves will blame it on some sort of ism. That's just how it is with some people. Do you discount an entire race of people on here?? Personally no but that has nothing to do with my comment." Are the words NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS etc necessary on a profile? | |||
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"There are people in life who, when they don't get what they want or when something is happening that they don't like, even if it doesn't involve themeselves will blame it on some sort of ism. That's just how it is with some people. Do you discount an entire race of people on here?? Personally no but that has nothing to do with my comment. Are the words NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS etc necessary on a profile? "Why leave out NO WHITES? | |||
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"There are people in life who, when they don't get what they want or when something is happening that they don't like, even if it doesn't involve themeselves will blame it on some sort of ism. That's just how it is with some people. Do you discount an entire race of people on here?? Personally no but that has nothing to do with my comment. Are the words NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS etc necessary on a profile?
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"There are people in life who, when they don't get what they want or when something is happening that they don't like, even if it doesn't involve themeselves will blame it on some sort of ism. That's just how it is with some people. Do you discount an entire race of people on here?? Personally no but that has nothing to do with my comment. Are the words NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS etc necessary on a profile?
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"Gingers, they're the worst. They have no souls." I can confirm this. Oh and OP, it's preference, like beards and boobs, bums, baldies and big'uns, svelt, smart, smokers or stupid, fat, fin and somewhere inbetwin. Some people want to fuck you and some don't. When I see a profile saying "No skinny, bald, ginger pube dudes with the IQ of a lemon", I don't take offence, I move on. | |||
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"My thoughts are that if people have their preferences for meeting or not meeting certain people, then it's got fuck all to do with racism, sexism or any other kind of ism It's their choice... Del " Is that choice-ism? | |||
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"What the frig is "sexual racist"? If a person doesn't find a certain ethnic group or trait pertaining to them attractive then that's preference surely. There are many reasons people could have these preferences, some of them won't be preferences and will be racism but to spout racism across the board in a "sexual racism" way is nonsense. Some people don't find slender people attractive, does that make them sexual slenderist or those that don't find ginger people attractive sexual gingerist? P" Only a ginger can call another person ginger | |||
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"I had mixed views on this before but I came to the conclusion it’s preferences but however I think the way some profiles display it is abit unnecessary. But then that profile may be fed up and messages so feel the need to state it in profile, I don’t really know any dating sites that ask if you would meet different races but then again this is far from dating site. I think it’s all down to the other persons perception and how they respond. Love4all" I generally agree with this. Racist gets thrown around so much that anything tends to be considered racist these days. Some will obviously hide their racism behind "preference" while others genuinely may not be attracted (regardless of reasons outside of actual hate). Sexual preference is not something that we should force upon or guilt people about. It is much more intimate and personal than just showing hate, refusing to sit next to or even interact in a civilized manner in everyday life. The fact that people feel the need to state it on profiles to me is very much flirting with racism. Unless you actually take the time to reply to every message (white or not) to decline them, do you really need to be so bold as to state that specific preference fully knowing how controversial it is OK the first place? Though saying that, if I see it stated on a profile that deters me from messaging them (of any skin colour) as I do view it as potential racism - but would never like to just accuse them of it without knowing them. I'd never go so far to rule out anyone based on the colour of their skin especially if they tick all of my other boxes, I can't see the point when they could end up being the most amazing thing (sexual or more) to ever happen to you. One of the most amazing girlfriends I ever had is of latino heritage. If I contact a black woman about meeting to which she replies she is not interested in white men, that is fine with me. That is her choice, so long as her "dislike" of white men is purely sexual. It may be an exclusion to a point but as I say, sexual interest is far too intimate and personal to be put down to just racism. How you treat people minute by minute as people in everyday life, with honor and respect is what should be the focus of racism. I'm not going to shout racial slurs, I'm not going to force somebody to sit at the back of a bus, I will always help somebody out if I see they need it. How you treat people as people, not what you find yourself attracted to should be what draws the line between racism or not. | |||
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"I don't consider myself as racist but when I get a message with 'are you into bbc?' then I have to say no. Purely because I'm not into big cocks. I've had lots, but it's more that I have nothing in common with the guys, and the rest of the sex isn't great. I have two regulars who are black but they lack technique and I'll be dumping them in the new year." Why not just dump them now?  | |||
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"I don't consider myself as racist but when I get a message with 'are you into bbc?' then I have to say no. Purely because I'm not into big cocks. I've had lots, but it's more that I have nothing in common with the guys, and the rest of the sex isn't great. I have two regulars who are black but they lack technique and I'll be dumping them in the new year. Why not just dump them now? "A dump is for life, not just for Christmas | |||
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"Saying “no X” on your profile is not expressing a preference. It’s discriminating against X. A preference is a greater liking for one alternative over another, it’s not rejecting the first alternative altogether. I understand people having preferences but they could express in a less discriminatory manner. " Ah .. so .. "I/we prefer X" is ok? | |||
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"Saying “no X” on your profile is not expressing a preference. It’s discriminating against X. A preference is a greater liking for one alternative over another, it’s not rejecting the first alternative altogether. I understand people having preferences but they could express in a less discriminatory manner. " We all have free choice on here after all we are inviting someone to have with us we are totally allowed to say who and when we want to sleep with. Not racist ageist sizest or any other name you care to come up with. People choosing who they want to have sex with nobody else has the right to judge that choice. | |||
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"Saying “no X” on your profile is not expressing a preference. It’s discriminating against X. A preference is a greater liking for one alternative over another, it’s not rejecting the first alternative altogether. I understand people having preferences but they could express in a less discriminatory manner. Ah .. so .. "I/we prefer X" is ok?" It still makes you a closed minded person in my view but from a semantic point of view it’s not discriminatory. | |||
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