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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if you meet a few times surely there's a cut off between just sex and something else deeper? "
That makes no sense, depends what you have agreed..... |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Well if you meet a few times surely there's a cut off between just sex and something else deeper? "
No, there's not. Feeling could develop after meeting somebody once, or never develop even if you meet 100 times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've probably worded it wrong, which i apologise for, im new to all this and think more than twice maybe there's a connection of sorts.. Where's the line drawn? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I've probably worded it wrong, which i apologise for, im new to all this and think more than twice maybe there's a connection of sorts.. Where's the line drawn? "
I've been meeting someone for over 2 years. It's just sex, fun, and friendship. I've no romantic feelings for him at all and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've probably worded it wrong, which i apologise for, im new to all this and think more than twice maybe there's a connection of sorts.. Where's the line drawn?
I've been meeting someone for over 2 years. It's just sex, fun, and friendship. I've no romantic feelings for him at all and vice versa."
Person has to to be mentally strong, not everyone's forte,  |
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"So how many times meeting someone would you say it's more than sex? "
I dont think sex always has to be on the menu for it to be more than sex. It's the communication which can often develop a relationship... and the meeting and sex etc... just kind of confirms how you feel about someone... the respect... intimacy... some people can be more than sex... but not love. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"But if he was to say he wanted more how would that work? "
I would say I'm not interested in more (anyone I meet knows that anyway) and if he can't accept that we would stop meeting. I've done it before. But other people are looking for that kind of romantic connection so not everyone would react the same as me!
Is this a theoretical question, or are you developing feelings for someone you've met? |
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"So how many times meeting someone would you say it's more than sex? "
I’ve had a buddy for 8 years. It’s just sex. He would not work into my life at all. We have fun we have sex it’s good. But nothing more 
You can’t help who you fall for. But having sex with someone doesn’t make you fall for them. In fact it can do the opposite for me anyway. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I have someone I’ve met for over a year. I have developed strong feelings for her. I love being with her. But I don’t think we wouldn’t work as a couple in real life. I enjoy it for what it is. It’s escapism but with someone I genuinely care for.
It’s great. |
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"Well if you meet a few times surely there's a cut off between just sex and something else deeper?
It would be when you want to meet up without sex, just to be together.
Cal"
I had a great FB who stayed over every Saturday night for a few years. We had great sex, got on really well, shared a lot of laughs and had some amazing 3am deep and meaningfuls.
The whole thing was predicated on sex. When sex was off the table we didn't meet up, that's not what it was about.
He moved hundreds of miles away, chances are we'll never speak again, it was a FB arrangement and not a relationship. Length of time or number of meets don't dictate feelings. |
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