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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been on here for over a month and I met some amazing women who I believe would be great friends of mine for years to come. I plan to quit fab by the end of this year as this site can be a bit addictive! So my question is what do you want to achieve from fab before you quit this site? |
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I pop in just to stay in contact with friends now. There’s a couple of people I still want to, and will, meet as friends, but I have all I need from life right now so it’s less and less of a priority. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll leave when I either get fed up or get with a guy from the vanilla world. Until then I'll just see what happens xx"
Good to know! We should keep in touch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
I may need to change religion so that I can have multiple wives!  "
You already got one? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I pop in just to stay in contact with friends now. There’s a couple of people I still want to, and will, meet as friends, but I have all I need from life right now so it’s less and less of a priority. "
I understand. How many friends do you have? Is it all sexual or just great friends you meet up for a coffee etc? |
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"I pop in just to stay in contact with friends now. There’s a couple of people I still want to, and will, meet as friends, but I have all I need from life right now so it’s less and less of a priority.
I understand. How many friends do you have? Is it all sexual or just great friends you meet up for a coffee etc?"
Friends here are purely platonic and I see several regularly. They’re not ‘fab’ friends they’re just friends. Several of which I fully expect to be friends for life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
I may need to change religion so that I can have multiple wives!
You already got one?"
Just married one on here in a different thread! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy the social side of Fab, met some amazing people here some of who'm have been lovers, some friends... Each experience I've looked to learn from.
All about sexual growth, pushing my own boundary. Taking myself out of a comfort zone into new realms
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
I may need to change religion so that I can have multiple wives!
You already got one?
Just married one on here in a different thread! "
Let's see if she reads this thread then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
Will you marry me
The day has come!!!
Shall we elope "
Why do we need to elope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
Will you marry me
The day has come!!!
Shall we elope
Gretna Green? "
I’ll get the fab bus ready |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I've attained everything i've wanted. I've met incredibly sexy and remarkable women, have had the most amazing sex and experiences i'll never forget all the while forging some very good friendships along the way. Truly, it's been an odyssey of personal discovery. I just want more of this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
Will you marry me
The day has come!!!
Shall we elope
Gretna Green?
I’ll get the fab bus ready "
I'll hop on in Bristol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I achieved all i want from fab and more now iv retired my penis from active duty im here for the one true love of my life"
It looks like most of them are looking for that one true love. I signed up thinking all of them on this site would be weird and different. I was wrong. I did meet and connect with some beautiful souls who had great stories to say.I am sure I will miss a few, once I am done with this site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
I may need to change religion so that I can have multiple wives!
You already got one?
Just married one on here in a different thread!
Let's see if she reads this thread then "
I did! Polyamorous is the way forward right!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
I may need to change religion so that I can have multiple wives!
You already got one?
Just married one on here in a different thread!
Let's see if she reads this thread then "
She did indeed. She was the person above you! |
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"I've attained everything i've wanted. I've met incredibly sexy and remarkable women, have had the most amazing sex and experiences i'll never forget all the while forging some very good friendships along the way. Truly, it's been an odyssey of personal discovery. I just want more of this "
Me to only a man lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
I may need to change religion so that I can have multiple wives!
You already got one?
Just married one on here in a different thread!
Let's see if she reads this thread then
I did! Polyamorous is the way forward right!
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She is a supportive wife! 
You may wonder, who wairs the pants at home. I do. She tells me which one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for the marriage proposal. It will happen one day, right?
I may need to change religion so that I can have multiple wives!
You already got one?
Just married one on here in a different thread!
Let's see if she reads this thread then
I did! Polyamorous is the way forward right!
She is a supportive wife!
You may wonder, who wairs the pants at home. I do. She tells me which one! "
I'll leave you 2 to it..
Will wait for a single guy to propose  |
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"All about sexual growth, pushing my own boundary. Taking myself out of a comfort zone into new realms"
All of the above for me, too
I've been taking it slowly up until now, but the journey starts properly tomorrow!
I'm also enjoying chatting on the Forum, although can't say that I've made any actual friends through it yet 
What I'd really like is a fwb or two to explore ideas and fantasies with. Which I imagine is pretty much the same for most people.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I achieved all i want from fab and more now iv retired my penis from active duty im here for the one true love of my life
It looks like most of them are looking for that one true love. I signed up thinking all of them on this site would be weird and different. I was wrong. I did meet and connect with some beautiful souls who had great stories to say.I am sure I will miss a few, once I am done with this site!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want to find some friendships, some platonic, some for play, I love the social side but haven't managed a lot of that lately due to anxiety of arriving on my own. Lastly to make that step into meeting some people that don't pressure me to play, or I won't get another chance, sort of thing, but they are elusive so far.... |
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My original goals..
Discover myself.
Experience things I'd long thought about.
Meet people I could connect with, without being judged.
Have great sex.
I've definitely achieved all of that, and along the way, I've made a whole group of amazingly great friends, I don't have sex with too.
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"My original goals..
Discover myself.
Experience things I'd long thought about.
Meet people I could connect with, without being judged.
Have great sex.
I've definitely achieved all of that, and along the way, I've made a whole group of amazingly great friends, I don't have sex with too.
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I've made the friends that I don't have sex with... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My original goals..
Discover myself.
Experience things I'd long thought about.
Meet people I could connect with, without being judged.
Have great sex.
I've definitely achieved all of that, and along the way, I've made a whole group of amazingly great friends, I don't have sex with too.
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Great to hear. I have met 7 women in person so far. Only got physical with one. Most of the women I met, really appreciated that I did not rush or pressurise them to have sex. We had a great time talking and laughing and getting to know each other. We wouldn't have been able to connect if it was just about sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just like the forums and the banter and (most of) the people on here. I’ve never really met many people other than socially tbh. I decided it wasn’t really for me in that way but I love the forums and have made some lovely friends  so that’s what keeps me hanging around ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just like the forums and the banter and (most of) the people on here. I’ve never really met many people other than socially tbh. I decided it wasn’t really for me in that way but I love the forums and have made some lovely friends so that’s what keeps me hanging around ??"
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My time on here can be split into two very different parts. Many years ago, when I first joined as part of a couple, the goal was to meet people to enhance and compliment our sex life. We achieved that with ease and had many years of fun and fulfilling experiences.
A few years ago when I joined as a single, my reasoning was that I didn't want to get into another relationship but still wanted regular(ish) sex. Whilst that is still true to a certain extent, I now find that I need a bit more of a connection with people, and much prefer repeat meets and a bit more friendship and intimacy than I once did.
I still don't have a set goal, i'm much more of a "suck it and see" kind of person (in normal life as well as on here). I've met some wonderful people, so I'll continue to float about chatting to and meeting the people that I click with and see where it takes me  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I joined to find Fwbs. And to see how far my boundries allow me to go. Its been good fun a lot of the times.
I've made some good friends on here as well and really enjoy the social side like the forums and the chat rooms. And meeting them in real life after chatting for a while.
I'll stay on here as long as its fun I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here for over a month and I met some amazing women who I believe would be great friends of mine for years to come. I plan to quit fab by the end of this year as this site can be a bit addictive! So my question is what do you want to achieve from fab before you quit this site?"
What we would like to achieve from FAB is in posts and in our profile. We/I am very happy with what we have together and we try to enjoy life to the full, the swinging side is bonus and not the mission, certain area of the lifestyle enjoy and a big part as to why we are still here.
Many have expectation when they join site but get disappointed when they are not achieved. We have no real expectations from the site so can't really be disappointed.
We are not here for myriad of meets 100s veris, just one or two regular meets with people we get along socially as well as sexually, in and out of the bedroom.
We can take it or leave it, float in and out, but for many it can become addictive and take over their lives, for some I would imagine it is a place they feel comfortable on some level, simply a place where they can express themselves, escape maybe fantasise a bit.
Everyone is different and has different reasons for being here, site is what you make of it and to some degree what you put into it to what you get out.
We will probably just simply go silent for a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meeting more liberal and open minded people... not just for the sex side either...
Here you can be open about what you are looking for and hopefully find others you click with and are looking for the same.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To stop being so cynical about everyone on here and to learn to trust again.
You're better off staying cynical, most people around here deserve it. "
No, I don’t believe that. I feel sorry for you that you have such a negative outlook. Are you like this in your real life or just on here?
I’ve met some absolutely lovely people from here so I know they exist.
I’m not going to let a few arseholes ruin this site for me  |
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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago
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I’ve been off and on here chatted with some lovely people had a couple of meets it’s definitely addictive and you have to pull yourself away from it Additionally can be boring as well but I’m looking to meet a sexy female make a friend and have great sex |
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I started swinging elsewhere with my ex partner to find someone for an MFM... But later joined Fab as a single to meet some fun people and find that elusive fwb whom I could share coffees, chats and giggles with and occasionally fuck. I found him and got so much more than I ever dreamed of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why quit at the end of the year and not right now? I'm not saying you should, I'm just curious regarding the phycology of putting it off and whether it's a serious thing....?
Nip x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make a couple friends, have some fun with a few ppl i can click with and maybe see if it turns into something that lasts a while, relationships arent what im looking for despite it being a possibility, never say never. Pretty much what most ppl on this site are here for.
Though the main thing im hoping for is to be taken seriously and not seen as a 'thing' but unfortunately thats pretty much what my experience of fab has been like so far. My cock is all anyone wants in the end rather than my personality on a sexual level and the experiences they could have with me, but so far only men are approaching me and the odd couple who want me to take a cock which isnt what im interested at the moment  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been on here for over a month and I met some amazing women who I believe would be great friends of mine for years to come. I plan to quit fab by the end of this year as this site can be a bit addictive! So my question is what do you want to achieve from fab before you quit this site?
What we would like to achieve from FAB is in posts and in our profile. We/I am very happy with what we have together and we try to enjoy life to the full, the swinging side is bonus and not the mission, certain area of the lifestyle enjoy and a big part as to why we are still here.
Many have expectation when they join site but get disappointed when they are not achieved. We have no real expectations from the site so can't really be disappointed.
We are not here for myriad of meets 100s veris, just one or two regular meets with people we get along socially as well as sexually, in and out of the bedroom.
We can take it or leave it, float in and out, but for many it can become addictive and take over their lives, for some I would imagine it is a place they feel comfortable on some level, simply a place where they can express themselves, escape maybe fantasise a bit.
Everyone is different and has different reasons for being here, site is what you make of it and to some degree what you put into it to what you get out.
We will probably just simply go silent for a while "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I'm no longer looking to achieve my wish list.
Before I go at the end of the year I hope to enjoy the socials and leave with people thinking fondly of me - even if I leave with a flounce. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why quit at the end of the year and not right now? I'm not saying you should, I'm just curious regarding the phycology of putting it off and whether it's a serious thing....?
Nip x"
The reason is my business which is my first baby. Things start to wind up around this time of the year. This the time I feel the loneliest! I am back to business in the new year and our busiest period is Jan to Easter. Hence the decision! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Why quit at the end of the year and not right now? I'm not saying you should, I'm just curious regarding the phycology of putting it off and whether it's a serious thing....?
Nip x
The reason is my business which is my first baby. Things start to wind up around this time of the year. This the time I feel the loneliest! I am back to business in the new year and our busiest period is Jan to Easter. Hence the decision! "
Just hide your profile, if you can do that and not be tempted to look at it. You won't be starting from scratch when you do return.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why quit at the end of the year and not right now? I'm not saying you should, I'm just curious regarding the phycology of putting it off and whether it's a serious thing....?
Nip x
The reason is my business which is my first baby. Things start to wind up around this time of the year. This the time I feel the loneliest! I am back to business in the new year and our busiest period is Jan to Easter. Hence the decision! "
Ah, gotcha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like to find someone special before I go. I’m struggling a bit with this site as feel out of my depth and my hopes of finding what I wanted are fading but it might be partially my fault. I don’t know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d like to find someone special before I go. I’m struggling a bit with this site as feel out of my depth and my hopes of finding what I wanted are fading but it might be partially my fault. I don’t know. "
Awww! Be positive. I am sure you will find what you are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d like to find someone special before I go. I’m struggling a bit with this site as feel out of my depth and my hopes of finding what I wanted are fading but it might be partially my fault. I don’t know. "
Keep heart and faith found my other half on another site 7 years and it and has been some of the best years. My life really did start in 40s. You hear a lot about males finding it difficult but if you are looking for something other than mainstream swapping. It is difficult solo fem and couples keep heart and Mr right (or Mrs) will find you |
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