"I don’t think you can ‘make’ someone cheat. You can tempt and you can enable, but the cheating is their choice. "
This ^ I had a lady come and stop at mine for a couple of nights, she told her hubby that she was going to see a girlfriend in Sheffield.
In the end it was her decision to come and stay at mine twice. |
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Often when I am out women who have boyfriends/Husbands give me to look.
You know the look, they are undressing you with their eyes. Sometimes it's embarrassing cause their partner is right there.
I class it as cheating, cause they should be able to control their thoughts and not be looking me up and down like they have an unquenchable thirst. |
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Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
Not turned on by "cheaters", but it happens and if I didn't shag them, someone else would  "
Lol I actually have a thing for cheating women to be honest. Most of the best sex I have had was with cheating women. |
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Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
Not turned on by "cheaters", but it happens and if I didn't shag them, someone else would
Lol I actually have a thing for cheating women to be honest. Most of the best sex I have had was with cheating women. "
I get the fact that you can hand her back with no repercussions type thing, but its not something that I go looking for specifically, it just seems to happen occasionally  |
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Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
Not turned on by "cheaters", but it happens and if I didn't shag them, someone else would
Lol I actually have a thing for cheating women to be honest. Most of the best sex I have had was with cheating women.
I get the fact that you can hand her back with no repercussions type thing, but its not something that I go looking for specifically, it just seems to happen occasionally "
No I am saying that I have been with a few and it was a turn on. One in particular loved to have really risky sex. As in places where we might be caught ect. She fucked me up against the front door of her house and her boyfriend was inside stuff like that. |
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"So you're talking about risky sex then OP?
Not really I am not really sure how to explain it to be honest.
Would the hubby or other half know about it, if so it might just be a fantasy cheat?"
No they never knew about it. |
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over a year ago
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"My experience u cant make somebody do things there not already willing to do
Exactly  "
thats not me judging btw i have no feeling or conscience one way or another about it |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"My experience u cant make somebody do things there not already willing to do
Exactly
That is true but you can sway them "
Most people I dont think so. I'd never do this, I think there has to be intent already there xx |
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over a year ago
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"My experience u cant make somebody do things there not already willing to do
Exactly
That is true but you can sway them "
swaying them still means part of them wanted to to begin with |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"Often when I am out women who have boyfriends/Husbands give me to look.
You know the look, they are undressing you with their eyes. Sometimes it's embarrassing cause their partner is right there.
I class it as cheating, cause they should be able to control their thoughts and not be looking me up and down like they have an unquenchable thirst."
Hardly cheating if they do nothing more than look.
Do you feel objectified when they do this though? Welcome to our world lol |
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"Often when I am out women who have boyfriends/Husbands give me to look.
You know the look, they are undressing you with their eyes. Sometimes it's embarrassing cause their partner is right there.
I class it as cheating, cause they should be able to control their thoughts and not be looking me up and down like they have an unquenchable thirst.
Hardly cheating if they do nothing more than look.
Do you feel objectified when they do this though? Welcome to our world lol"
Anyway I think we are all going a bit off topic here. I think it more means has anyone ever been with a cheater more so. |
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Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
Not turned on by "cheaters", but it happens and if I didn't shag them, someone else would
Lol I actually have a thing for cheating women to be honest. Most of the best sex I have had was with cheating women. "
You need to meet better women |
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Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
Not turned on by "cheaters", but it happens and if I didn't shag them, someone else would
Lol I actually have a thing for cheating women to be honest. Most of the best sex I have had was with cheating women.
You need to meet better women "
Have you ever been with a cheater?
For me I find it a bit of a turn on for some reason I don't really know why. |
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"When I was younger I needed cock a lot and this lead to cheating. Now days I wouldn't do it. Ms"
I have only ever cheated once and the guilt got to me I broke up with the girl and told her why. But I have a thing for cheating women. |
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"So you're talking about risky sex then OP?
Not really I am not really sure how to explain it to be honest.
Would the hubby or other half know about it, if so it might just be a fantasy cheat?
No they never knew about it. "
If it's a particular "thing" that turns you on,then go fill yer boots OP,but as I said earlier...... |
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"So you're talking about risky sex then OP?
Not really I am not really sure how to explain it to be honest.
Would the hubby or other half know about it, if so it might just be a fantasy cheat?
No they never knew about it.
If it's a particular "thing" that turns you on,then go fill yer boots OP,but as I said earlier......"
I have done as I said earlier on just not in years now. |
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"So you're talking about risky sex then OP?
Not really I am not really sure how to explain it to be honest.
Would the hubby or other half know about it, if so it might just be a fantasy cheat?
No they never knew about it.
If it's a particular "thing" that turns you on,then go fill yer boots OP,but as I said earlier......
I have done as I said earlier on just not in years now. "
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"So you're talking about risky sex then OP?
Not really I am not really sure how to explain it to be honest.
Would the hubby or other half know about it, if so it might just be a fantasy cheat?
No they never knew about it.
If it's a particular "thing" that turns you on,then go fill yer boots OP,but as I said earlier......
I have done as I said earlier on just not in years now. "
I have a few offers recently but I don't think I would go there with her. |
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I have done as I said earlier on just not in years now.
You are not the OP though 
No just joined in the conversation "
How dare you, anyone would think that the forums were here to form an opinion ffs   |
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I have done as I said earlier on just not in years now.
You are not the OP though
No just joined in the conversation
How dare you, anyone would think that the forums were here to form an opinion ffs "
Sorry? If you look at the very first messages on here you would see it wasn't me that started the thread. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t think you can ‘make’ someone cheat. You can tempt and you can enable, but the cheating is their choice.
Exactly that! X
Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?"
I'm turned off by them usually. |
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"I don’t think you can ‘make’ someone cheat. You can tempt and you can enable, but the cheating is their choice.
Exactly that! X
Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
I'm turned off by them usually. "
They have only ever been fb's and 2 were ons's |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t think you can ‘make’ someone cheat. You can tempt and you can enable, but the cheating is their choice.
Exactly that! X
Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
I'm turned off by them usually. "
Same here, just not for me xx |
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"I don’t think you can ‘make’ someone cheat. You can tempt and you can enable, but the cheating is their choice.
Exactly that! X
Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
I'm turned off by them usually.
Same here, just not for me xx"
Yeah I can totally understand and appreciate that I don't actually know what it is that turns me on about it to be honest. |
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I don't understand the concept.
Cheating is something somebody is not supposed to do.
If you make them do something then presumably want them to do it.
Ergo making somebody cheat is an oxymoron.
QED
Please explain. |
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Is it just me or is anyone else turned on by cheaters?
Not turned on by "cheaters", but it happens and if I didn't shag them, someone else would
Lol I actually have a thing for cheating women to be honest. Most of the best sex I have had was with cheating women.
You need to meet better women
Have you ever been with a cheater?
For me I find it a bit of a turn on for some reason I don't really know why."
Yes. It broke my heart |
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"I don't understand the concept.
Cheating is something somebody is not supposed to do.
If you make them do something then presumably want them to do it.
Ergo making somebody cheat is an oxymoron.
QED
Please explain. "
Making your wife cheat on you is not cheating. Someone tempting your wife to cheat in you without your knowledge is.....I think  |
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"So who has ever managed to make somebody cheat?"
I did in Saturday night! I was at an annual awards dinner, and there were several quiz sheets on the table, including anagrams about cartoon characters to unscramble. I managed to coerce others on my table to get their phones out........ |
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