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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Trouble is OP not everyone is honest about their "straightness" so you'll get guys trying their luck just in case you are one of them.
Best way to counter is, as Lacey says, block single guys from messaging you, or if you're open to chatting to other guys generally, just accept it will happen and delete the messages you don't want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you write a profile bio its not often taken notice of in that folks will message who you’ve expressed you’ve no interest in meeting.
Have no profile bio n folks will moan your profile isn't detailed enough, it doesn't say much/enough about you as a person or who you’d like to meet.
Just gotta take it as it comes on here.  |
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"Haha crazy old place. I've spoken to a few blokes just from fourm having a laugh and chatting about football so don't wanna block yet. "
That's fair. I keep mine open for the same reason and just deal with the inbox traffic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't understand why blokes are sending inbox asking if I'd want my dick sucked and balls grab when it clearly says straight lol"
I don't get those messages lol
You poor thing
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you write a profile bio its not often taken notice of in that folks will message who you’ve expressed you’ve no interest in meeting.
Have no profile bio n folks will moan your profile isn't detailed enough, it doesn't say much/enough about you as a person or who you’d like to meet.
Just gotta take it as it comes on here. "
Yeah I'll update it soon as was just checking this site out so didn't put much up. But if I see a women profile that doesn't fit my age or she only looking for females I leave it. Guess some lads just take a chance |
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"That's strange...filters aren't up yet I never receive those messages. Not that i'm complaining though! 
I'm the same and I'd welcome well thought out messages from other guys  "
*puts on manly voice*
You is a sexy man Mr. Geminiman sir. Fancy crossing swords some time? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"That's strange...filters aren't up yet I never receive those messages. Not that i'm complaining though!
I'm the same and I'd welcome well thought out messages from other guys
*puts on manly voice*
You is a sexy man Mr. Geminiman sir. Fancy crossing swords some time?"
Well purple has always been one of my favourite colours |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"IIts not just men ... I get quite a few messages from couples seeking a bi woman "
Yeah i can image women get it too. If a profile says bi then I get it but a bi person wouldn't say they are straight so I don't understand why these people still message |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Because people see something they like and think they might be your exception. I can put not meeting all over my profile and someone will still message asking for a meet now. Not much you can do about it but filter up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"IIts not just men ... I get quite a few messages from couples seeking a bi woman
Yeah i can image women get it too. If a profile says bi then I get it but a bi person wouldn't say they are straight so I don't understand why these people still message "
on the occasions I've replied to ask they said they've taken a chance in the hope I was really bi or nothing ventured nothing gained etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"IIts not just men ... I get quite a few messages from couples seeking a bi woman "
I get this too! Despite my profile having a clear stance on my sexuality.
Had such a message prior this evening. When I pointed out about reading the profile, I recieved a response of "yes I read it, thought you may of changed your preferences"
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"IIts not just men ... I get quite a few messages from couples seeking a bi woman
Yeah i can image women get it too. If a profile says bi then I get it but a bi person wouldn't say they are straight so I don't understand why these people still message "
As I said further up, a *lot* of bi men *do* say they are straight (because they think it will improve their chances with people that won't meet bi guys being the main reason) and that's why the problem you are having exists - because guys don't know for sure if you *are* straight or bi without asking, so ask anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"IIts not just men ... I get quite a few messages from couples seeking a bi woman
Yeah i can image women get it too. If a profile says bi then I get it but a bi person wouldn't say they are straight so I don't understand why these people still message
As I said further up, a *lot* of bi men *do* say they are straight (because they think it will improve their chances with people that won't meet bi guys being the main reason) and that's why the problem you are having exists - because guys don't know for sure if you *are* straight or bi without asking, so ask anyway"
Yeah i know but I just can't get my head round it. It makes no sense at all. Maybe it's me but you gotta be a bit stupid to join this site and say your straight guy when you ain't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because people see something they like and think they might be your exception. I can put not meeting all over my profile and someone will still message asking for a meet now. Not much you can do about it but filter up."
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"IIts not just men ... I get quite a few messages from couples seeking a bi woman
Yeah i can image women get it too. If a profile says bi then I get it but a bi person wouldn't say they are straight so I don't understand why these people still message
As I said further up, a *lot* of bi men *do* say they are straight (because they think it will improve their chances with people that won't meet bi guys being the main reason) and that's why the problem you are having exists - because guys don't know for sure if you *are* straight or bi without asking, so ask anyway
Yeah i know but I just can't get my head round it. It makes no sense at all. Maybe it's me but you gotta be a bit stupid to join this site and say your straight guy when you ain't. "
Ultimately each to their own, personally as a bisexual guy, I wouldn't meet a guy who was lying about his sexuality, as it would make me wonder what else he was lying about, but plenty do, for the reason I have above, and others beside.
Whether that is a good move or not, is another matter, personally I think they're deluding themselves if they think it will increase their chances of a meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"IIts not just men ... I get quite a few messages from couples seeking a bi woman
Yeah i can image women get it too. If a profile says bi then I get it but a bi person wouldn't say they are straight so I don't understand why these people still message
As I said further up, a *lot* of bi men *do* say they are straight (because they think it will improve their chances with people that won't meet bi guys being the main reason) and that's why the problem you are having exists - because guys don't know for sure if you *are* straight or bi without asking, so ask anyway
Yeah i know but I just can't get my head round it. It makes no sense at all. Maybe it's me but you gotta be a bit stupid to join this site and say your straight guy when you ain't.
Ultimately each to their own, personally as a bisexual guy, I wouldn't meet a guy who was lying about his sexuality, as it would make me wonder what else he was lying about, but plenty do, for the reason I have above, and others beside.
Whether that is a good move or not, is another matter, personally I think they're deluding themselves if they think it will increase their chances of a meet"
Exactly that pal if they were bi and stated it surly you would get more bi guys talking to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's strange...filters aren't up yet I never receive those messages. Not that i'm complaining though! "
Same here. Plenty of views but no messages! I feel left out! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"That's strange...filters aren't up yet I never receive those messages. Not that i'm complaining though!
Same here. Plenty of views but no messages! I feel left out!"
Brotherly hug my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't understand why blokes are sending inbox asking if I'd want my dick sucked and balls grab when it clearly says straight lol"
We rarely get messages these days lol, so its not something we ever have to worry about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't understand why blokes are sending inbox asking if I'd want my dick sucked and balls grab when it clearly says straight lol
We rarely get messages these days lol, so its not something we ever have to worry about "
After reading your profile and saying no longer looking for meets and no single men I'd say that's why lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't understand why blokes are sending inbox asking if I'd want my dick sucked and balls grab when it clearly says straight lol
We rarely get messages these days lol, so its not something we ever have to worry about
After reading your profile and saying no longer looking for meets and no single men I'd say that's why lol"
Does this mean profiles are actually read ??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't understand why blokes are sending inbox asking if I'd want my dick sucked and balls grab when it clearly says straight lol
We rarely get messages these days lol, so its not something we ever have to worry about
After reading your profile and saying no longer looking for meets and no single men I'd say that's why lol
Does this mean profiles are actually read ??? "
Haha I'll always read but that's just me. Unless I was sending a message to give that person a complement and that's it not asking for a meet as that's never gonna happen. |
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The real world - not that fab is the full real world - is often quite different to the world that we perceive we are in.
A lot of men have some form of sexual interaction with other men, outside of the world of those who think of themselves as gay or bi. Sure, there are men who use a false label here, because they think it improves their odds for sex with women - but there's more complexity in play.
I assume that these apparently high volume cock demands messages must work enough, for them to be sent so much |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The real world - not that fab is the full real world - is often quite different to the world that we perceive we are in.
A lot of men have some form of sexual interaction with other men, outside of the world of those who think of themselves as gay or bi. Sure, there are men who use a false label here, because they think it improves their odds for sex with women - but there's more complexity in play.
I assume that these apparently high volume cock demands messages must work enough, for them to be sent so much "
I'm just a straight up and normal lad as I see it as if you gay bi then be it that's fine but I get what you mean about here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you write a profile bio its not often taken notice of in that folks will message who you’ve expressed you’ve no interest in meeting.
Have no profile bio n folks will moan your profile isn't detailed enough, it doesn't say much/enough about you as a person or who you’d like to meet.
Just gotta take it as it comes on here. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my filters sorted so guys can’t message me, they still fab my pics though it does nothing for me.
Call me weird but I always read a woman’s profile before messaging for the 1st time. I like to include something that she can relate to.
Rarely get replies so probably doing it all wrong, never tried it but should I just send my dick pic like others do? |
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