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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see quite a few profiles where the member describes themselves as shy or put the word in their usernames but on viewing their pictures they seem to be far from it.
This is by no means a criticism, people can describe themselves any way they like, but do you think this is some kind of selling point? With regards to implied innocence do you find this an attractive feature or does it make no difference? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a watcher in big group situations. Takes me a while, or a few drinks, before I come out my shell. Putting pics up is a piece of piss compared to meeting in real life x"
Exactly this  |
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"I'm a watcher in big group situations. Takes me a while, or a few drinks, before I come out my shell. Putting pics up is a piece of piss compared to meeting in real life x
Exactly this "
I get what you're all saying but none of you actually describe yourselves as being shy in your profiles. |
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I'm really shy and awkward. It takes me a while to warm up to people and speak up.
Yet I do most of the messages on fab. It's different behind a screen. There's nobody there and I can retype a message until I'm happy.
It's not really a selling point but more of a warning. |
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It's a selling point for women. It's crazy the amount of messages a new woman profile gets, even without pics or text. Men wanting to get in there before anyone else does. Shyness could indicate not many sexual partners.
Shyness in a man would be offputting. |
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They may not appear shy on here because of their photos or how they post.
However, someone can be shy in group situations as it can be very daunting, but if you take the time to get to know them 1-2-1 you’ll see their true selves, as they relax and become more confident in the situation |
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