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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I joined this app to , well basically improve my sex life , finished a toxic relationship and have myself time to heal ... now that I’m single and interested in having fun it seems like no one else is hahaha , well not with me anyways . Still waiting for my first fab meet nearly 3 months later and it’s wearing annoying on me  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Oh OP, you seem lovely. Your age will put some people off as you're very young, what are you sending in your messages? Maybe that's putting them off? Remember there's loads more men than women on here so you're playing against the odds a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean I completely understand the age problem ... I guess it’s hard being a guy with a kink for older women haha , my messages seem to be down to earth , long , and not just jumping the gun in terms of “ hey wanna see my cock “ or “ hey we should fuck “ , also the guy to girl ratio if you want to call it that is fairly shitty , but still I feel like its disheartening seeing so many horny and kinky women and not even being able to have fun with just 1 |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Welcome.
Three months is a short time on here. It's not a straightforward sex site for many of us. If you want that you might be better going for a swipe type app.
Your age will be an issue for a lot of people, not all, but many.
Get out and about and meet people away from here. Join in on here and tailor your messages.
Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah that’s a good call , I was just directed here by a friend who said it worked for her .... maybe it’s easier as a female due to the ratio but only time will tell |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah that’s a good call , I was just directed here by a friend who said it worked for her .... maybe it’s easier as a female due to the ratio but only time will tell "
My experience is that men do better for sex on dating sites. Women do better on sites like this if they want sex.
Not all of us, but most.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome.
Three months is a short time on here. It's not a straightforward sex site for many of us. If you want that you might be better going for a swipe type app.
Your age will be an issue for a lot of people, not all, but many.
Get out and about and meet people away from here. Join in on here and tailor your messages.
Good luck.
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Listen to this one OP, she is very wise. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to clubs, particularly those with spa facilities. Chat to people, be polite, be courteous, be amusing without being a joker and don’t push anything.
I did all these things today and unexpectedly struck gold.
I wasn’t even looking for anything, I was chatting to my mate in a jacuzzi about work and this couple asked if they could join us.
Sometimes it just happens that way. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Go to clubs, particularly those with spa facilities. Chat to people, be polite, be courteous, be amusing without being a joker and don’t push anything.
I did all these things today and unexpectedly struck gold.
I wasn’t even looking for anything, I was chatting to my mate in a jacuzzi about work and this couple asked if they could join us.
Sometimes it just happens that way. "
That might be trickier in Ireland and too expensive for a young person.
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Improve your sex life? Op, swinging is a lifestyle. It's a journey and discovery of yourself and engaging with others sexually. It's not dail a shag. Your age, greatly goes against. A high % of us have children your age. Plus, you a another fish in the sea of many.
Maybe a differant mindset would help you.
We would not meet you. 1, too young. 2, you mention dominant, again, to young for us.
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"Welcome.
Three months is a short time on here. It's not a straightforward sex site for many of us. If you want that you might be better going for a swipe type app.
Your age will be an issue for a lot of people, not all, but many.
Get out and about and meet people away from here. Join in on here and tailor your messages.
Good luck.
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This really is great advice 
Try and get involved on the forum. There are some great people and in getting to know them and them you, new possibilities may open up. At the very least you can have the crack have a bit
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