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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago
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I had 2 in one day last week and another the next day. Had another lined up for the evening but he was a no show. Felt like a slut but that was kinda the point lol
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"Do you feel guilty ?
Just a little "
It's your journey, your experience. Don't feel guilty. People go to clubs and fuck more than 1 person.
I hope you had a great time and if not then next time you play it differently x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP what is your definition of a slut?
if I have sex with 2 guys at the same time would that make me any more or less of a 'slut' than if I had sex with them separately yet on the same night?
I think what I am hoping to get across is that it's your own perception and your own standards you live up to, therefore only you can answer your question. |
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"Does this make me a slut?
Neither bareback  "
If you want to use the word about yourself as some do then go right ahead, or don't. You haven't done anything wrong by seeing two people. Sex is available to be enjoyed so enjoy it and don't feel guilty. The only thing to be guilty about is harming people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do your meets know?
Do they need to know?"
Im not judging the OP at all (although the post does actively invite that) but if I was one of them I'd like to know what I was getting into because I usually invest in the PEOPLE I meet....
as long as everyone is clear on the situation and happy with it then it's fine by me  |
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I recently had a really great night with a couple of guys. It was a first for me. I really wanted to experience new things and had never been with 2 guys.
Something to smile about I thought and I was right it is.
Next day though my conscience was pricking me. But I have decided to be me and if that means I want to experience new and different kinds of things then I will... conscience clear. |
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"Do your meets know?
Do they need to know?
Im not judging the OP at all (although the post does actively invite that) but if I was one of them I'd like to know what I was getting into because I usually invest in the PEOPLE I meet....
as long as everyone is clear on the situation and happy with it then it's fine by me "
Totally get that and respect it x |
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"I recently had a really great night with a couple of guys. It was a first for me. I really wanted to experience new things and had never been with 2 guys.
Something to smile about I thought and I was right it is.
Next day though my conscience was pricking me. But I have decided to be me and if that means I want to experience new and different kinds of things then I will... conscience clear."
Not to mention the occasion of multiple guys.....
Go for it if you can get it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel guilty ?
Just a little
It's your journey, your experience. Don't feel guilty. People go to clubs and fuck more than 1 person.
I hope you had a great time and if not then next time you play it differently x"
Well said. Nothing wrong with that at all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do your meets know?
Do they need to know?
Im not judging the OP at all (although the post does actively invite that) but if I was one of them I'd like to know what I was getting into because I usually invest in the PEOPLE I meet....
as long as everyone is clear on the situation and happy with it then it's fine by me "
Not sure how i deleted my last post
I agree with this... if both parties don’t mind then no harm done but personally would feel a little put off by the thought my meet might be rushed so they can get out the door to their next
Im sure ive seen similar posts from men who didn’t get quite as supportive responses and were probably told turning up to give someone sloppy seconds is a bit disrespectful but again i think it comes down to people being aware and ok with that decision
Maybe with men you run more of a risk of them not being able to perform so soon after another session too |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Do your meets know?
Do they need to know?
Im not judging the OP at all (although the post does actively invite that) but if I was one of them I'd like to know what I was getting into because I usually invest in the PEOPLE I meet....
as long as everyone is clear on the situation and happy with it then it's fine by me
Not sure how i deleted my last post
I agree with this... if both parties don’t mind then no harm done but personally would feel a little put off by the thought my meet might be rushed so they can get out the door to their next
Im sure ive seen similar posts from men who didn’t get quite as supportive responses and were probably told turning up to give someone sloppy seconds is a bit disrespectful but again i think it comes down to people being aware and ok with that decision
Maybe with men you run more of a risk of them not being able to perform so soon after another session too "
Agree with this, I wouldn't like to be the first person being rushed, or the second person getting a tired out version of someone.
Then again if I'm meeting someone I put a lot of focus on that one person, so it's just not how I do things. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP what is your definition of a slut?
if I have sex with 2 guys at the same time would that make me any more or less of a 'slut' than if I had sex with them separately yet on the same night?
I think what I am hoping to get across is that it's your own perception and your own standards you live up to, therefore only you can answer your question."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do your meets know?
Do they need to know?
Im not judging the OP at all (although the post does actively invite that) but if I was one of them I'd like to know what I was getting into because I usually invest in the PEOPLE I meet....
as long as everyone is clear on the situation and happy with it then it's fine by me
Not sure how i deleted my last post
I agree with this... if both parties don’t mind then no harm done but personally would feel a little put off by the thought my meet might be rushed so they can get out the door to their next
Im sure ive seen similar posts from men who didn’t get quite as supportive responses and were probably told turning up to give someone sloppy seconds is a bit disrespectful but again i think it comes down to people being aware and ok with that decision
Maybe with men you run more of a risk of them not being able to perform so soon after another session too "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does this make me a slut?
Neither bareback
I wouldnt say so... you're just horny 
By the way... I'm down that way next week  "
Hahaha if you don't ask you don't get. Well played |
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"I recently had a really great night with a couple of guys. It was a first for me. I really wanted to experience new things and had never been with 2 guys.
Something to smile about I thought and I was right it is.
Next day though my conscience was pricking me. But I have decided to be me and if that means I want to experience new and different kinds of things then I will... conscience clear.
Not to mention the occasion of multiple guys.....
Go for it if you can get it!!"
That was the occasion... was meant to be 2 but the night took on a night of it's own. |
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Well I enjoyed three guys last week all on the same day and it was FAB!! Feeling a slut is part of the fun. Only problem is getting the timing right so I can clean up and have a quick cuppa. Enjoy yourself and let the good times role! |
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"I recently had a really great night with a couple of guys. It was a first for me. I really wanted to experience new things and had never been with 2 guys.
Something to smile about I thought and I was right it is.
Next day though my conscience was pricking me. But I have decided to be me and if that means I want to experience new and different kinds of things then I will... conscience clear.
Not to mention the occasion of multiple guys.....
Go for it if you can get it!!
That was the occasion... was meant to be 2 but the night took on a night of it's own."
Sounds like you're definitely living your best life Anabelle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Others opinions are not important, it is your opinion of yourself and if you are happy all good. We do not have to justify or label ourselves according to others views. |
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"I recently had a really great night with a couple of guys. It was a first for me. I really wanted to experience new things and had never been with 2 guys.
Something to smile about I thought and I was right it is.
Next day though my conscience was pricking me. But I have decided to be me and if that means I want to experience new and different kinds of things then I will... conscience clear.
Not to mention the occasion of multiple guys.....
Go for it if you can get it!!
That was the occasion... was meant to be 2 but the night took on a night of it's own.
Sounds like you're definitely living your best life Anabelle "
I am you know and it feels liberating. Having been in 2 very long term relationships I now feel more confident in me... it's been a journey and one I'm very happy that I've chance to make. Where it leads to I don't know x |
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"I recently had a really great night with a couple of guys. It was a first for me. I really wanted to experience new things and had never been with 2 guys.
Something to smile about I thought and I was right it is.
Next day though my conscience was pricking me. But I have decided to be me and if that means I want to experience new and different kinds of things then I will... conscience clear.
Not to mention the occasion of multiple guys.....
Go for it if you can get it!!
That was the occasion... was meant to be 2 but the night took on a night of it's own.
Sounds like you're definitely living your best life Anabelle
I am you know and it feels liberating. Having been in 2 very long term relationships I now feel more confident in me... it's been a journey and one I'm very happy that I've chance to make. Where it leads to I don't know x"
That's so wonderful to read . I hope it leads to somewhere wonderful for you or maybe the journey is the destination, in which case I hope you continue to enjoy it! |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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Darling, how is it very much different to two at the same time, three or more?
It's your body, your choice. It's not your responsibility to parent your partners .. they can say what they want or don't want. You played safe and responsibly out of respect for Yourself and them.
I would encourage you to tune into what feels ok for you .. if it brings up tricky complex feelings then may be you could keep it more simple in future.
Guilt and shame are often external.. I'd be trying to look at where that comes from rather than judging myself.
I have sometimes felt so switched on after a meet that I could easily go get another!! Other times so utterly fucked I couldn't possibly for days.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Darling, how is it very much different to two at the same time, three or more?
It's your body, your choice. It's not your responsibility to parent your partners .. they can say what they want or don't want. You played safe and responsibly out of respect for Yourself and them.
I would encourage you to tune into what feels ok for you .. if it brings up tricky complex feelings then may be you could keep it more simple in future.
Guilt and shame are often external.. I'd be trying to look at where that comes from rather than judging myself.
I have sometimes felt so switched on after a meet that I could easily go get another!! Other times so utterly fucked I couldn't possibly for days.
X "
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"5 in a day is my record but I am a slut.
Meets not meats.
Sorry, thought we were talking sausage.
For some of us, meets are all about the sausage!
Miss.Red will be disappointed"
Faux sausages will suffice! |
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"I recently had a really great night with a couple of guys. It was a first for me. I really wanted to experience new things and had never been with 2 guys.
Something to smile about I thought and I was right it is.
Next day though my conscience was pricking me. But I have decided to be me and if that means I want to experience new and different kinds of things then I will... conscience clear.
Not to mention the occasion of multiple guys.....
Go for it if you can get it!!
That was the occasion... was meant to be 2 but the night took on a night of it's own.
Sounds like you're definitely living your best life Anabelle
I am you know and it feels liberating. Having been in 2 very long term relationships I now feel more confident in me... it's been a journey and one I'm very happy that I've chance to make. Where it leads to I don't know x
That's so wonderful to read . I hope it leads to somewhere wonderful for you or maybe the journey is the destination, in which case I hope you continue to enjoy it! "
That's so true Lacey, the journey could be the destination. I never thought about it that way..and thank you xx |
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I have done it a couple of times. Wasnt planned. Had one guy over,had some fun then they left. I was bored so invited another guy over. I was honest though and told he I had already had a meet but he didnt mind n   |
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"Do you feel guilty ?
Just a little "
If you're feeling guilty it's because something about it isn't sitting right with you, and someone else's opinion isn't going to matter. There's no right or wrong in this scenario, just how it makes you feel. If it doesn't feel good, at least you've learned something about yourself going forward |
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"5 in a day is my record but I am a slut.
Meets not meats.
Sorry, thought we were talking sausage.
For some of us, meets are all about the sausage!
Miss.Red will be disappointed
Faux sausages will suffice!"
I can go vegetarian every once in a while
Red |
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"5 in a day is my record but I am a slut.
Meets not meats.
Sorry, thought we were talking sausage.
For some of us, meets are all about the sausage!
Miss.Red will be disappointed
Faux sausages will suffice!
I can go vegetarian every once in a while
Red"
Didn't you mean Vagitarian?
M |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say, who the f***k are we to judge you? Whatever makes you feel good, do it don't give Damm. If you are not meeting people will say something. just thinking how are those 2 guys? nevermind to my jokes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hehehehe I’d say: Congrats!
It’s naughty but quite fun... if others here could pull the same we would do it too
Life is too short to worry about little things
Just enjoy... and be naughty... if it can be with me, even better  |
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"Does this make me a slut?
Neither bareback
No!
Does not make you a slut.
A little looser perhaps, in the vag region, but if smiles were had, all good
Who said it was her vag???"
Oh! Look!
Over there!
Theres a real life waiting for you.
Go! Grab it |
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By *asilForty77Man
over a year ago
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Not at all you enjoy yourself labels and boxes orwellian society is what the powers that be would love I always follow my gut feeling,so do what suits you best as another thread said all ways have a safety person enough odd bods out there be safe and have Fun ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope! Club life is more then two!
If it makes you feel bad don’t do it though. Personally, i think it fun but generally find there’s no need, no time or no energy after some meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel guilty ?
Just a little "
Why?
I've had 6 guys in one night, if you are single and protected who are you hurting? Sex should never make you feel guilty. Enjoy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An it harm none, do as ye will. If you didn't do anything to hurt anyone you have NOTHING to feel guilty about. You should be feeling like a bad mamajama one for your memoirs. Nice work |
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"5 in a day is my record but I am a slut.
Meets not meats.
Sorry, thought we were talking sausage.
For some of us, meets are all about the sausage!
Miss.Red will be disappointed
Faux sausages will suffice!
I can go vegetarian every once in a while
Red
Didn't you mean Vagitarian?
M"
You two are cracking me up!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5 in a day is my record but I am a slut.
Meets not meats.
I have had 5 meats in a day .... sometimes when I am really in the mood can handle 7 or 8 meats"
Argentinean buffet? |
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