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So, me again!
So since the back end of last week I find myself using the forums part of the site so much more, and I am enjoying using the site a lot more!
My question is, do you use the search function more or forums or any other part of the sute more frequently? I have a flick through a search every few days and possibly the meets page but that's become secondary to a flick through the forums page, got me wondering if people find new friends, meets, playmates etc on forums or just a good old search! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'll occasionally use the search functions but more out of curiosity than anything else and haven't sent a "cold" message to someone I've not interacted with on the forums somehow for about two and a half years.
All my meets have come via the forums and interaction with people on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I log in, look at Noras pics, knock one out and log out. "
Can you tell me when you do that so that were not wanking to Nora at the same time please, it'd feel weird....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I log in, look at Noras pics, knock one out and log out.
Can you tell me when you do that so that were not wanking to Nora at the same time please, it'd feel weird....?"
How about I sit in the middle. I have 2 hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I log in, look at Noras pics, knock one out and log out.
Can you tell me when you do that so that were not wanking to Nora at the same time please, it'd feel weird....?
How about I sit in the middle. I have 2 hands "
You'd need them both for my beast.... 
(second time lucky....  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not looking to meet right now so when I log on it's to have a chat with a few people and use the forums 
Better pic 
Aye aye captain!  "
Sok, you can be my cabin boy woman.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I log in, look at Noras pics, knock one out and log out.
Can you tell me when you do that so that were not wanking to Nora at the same time please, it'd feel weird....?
How about I sit in the middle. I have 2 hands
You'd need them both for my beast....
(second time lucky.... )"
Was just thinking I don’t remember the first time!! Then realised what you meant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I log in, look at Noras pics, knock one out and log out.
Can you tell me when you do that so that were not wanking to Nora at the same time please, it'd feel weird....?
How about I sit in the middle. I have 2 hands
You'd need them both for my beast....
(second time lucky.... )
Was just thinking I don’t remember the first time!! Then realised what you meant "
Am I that forgettable.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to just comment on, or start threads in the forum.
I used to message locals, but there arent many who bother putting up pictures, or writing a profile, so I don't tend to waste my own time in that way.
I've quite a relaxed approach to Fab. Just myself as I am and say what I feel. I don't kiss arse or flatter the Forum for attention. It's made me a few decent friends and I've met some incredible women through the Forum.
I'm after Great Sex and a strong connection, not just bumping uglies because I'm horny. I'm prepared to wait and put the work into that.
Being myself gives me the best chances at finding someone I'm likely to click with emotionally. |
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Nice to know I'm not the only one who is just sticking with forums now lol, most people that come up when I search dont respond or are blank profiles so I'll stick in the forums now, i've already met a few couples.from being on the forums whoch makes a nice change, look forward to speaking to many more people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice to know I'm not the only one who is just sticking with forums now lol, most people that come up when I search dont respond or are blank profiles so I'll stick in the forums now, i've already met a few couples.from being on the forums whoch makes a nice change, look forward to speaking to many more people!"
Group socials have potential to be quite fun. If you cant get your name on a list, you can always organise a local one. I did, was a good night out. |
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"Nice to know I'm not the only one who is just sticking with forums now lol, most people that come up when I search dont respond or are blank profiles so I'll stick in the forums now, i've already met a few couples.from being on the forums whoch makes a nice change, look forward to speaking to many more people!
Group socials have potential to be quite fun. If you cant get your name on a list, you can always organise a local one. I did, was a good night out. "
I tried getting onto 2 but got there too late, I am noticing the scene in yorkshire does seem, how do I put this....a bit cliqued up, like there are always the swme groups on tje socials and club events and when someone new or myself tries to get into socials, seem to get ignored or put on a reserve list, but I am keen to get onto one at some point!
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"Nice to know I'm not the only one who is just sticking with forums now lol, most people that come up when I search dont respond or are blank profiles so I'll stick in the forums now, i've already met a few couples.from being on the forums whoch makes a nice change, look forward to speaking to many more people!
Group socials have potential to be quite fun. If you cant get your name on a list, you can always organise a local one. I did, was a good night out.
I tried getting onto 2 but got there too late, I am noticing the scene in yorkshire does seem, how do I put this....a bit cliqued up, like there are always the swme groups on tje socials and club events and when someone new or myself tries to get into socials, seem to get ignored or put on a reserve list, but I am keen to get onto one at some point!
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Set up your own? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice to know I'm not the only one who is just sticking with forums now lol, most people that come up when I search dont respond or are blank profiles so I'll stick in the forums now, i've already met a few couples.from being on the forums whoch makes a nice change, look forward to speaking to many more people!
Group socials have potential to be quite fun. If you cant get your name on a list, you can always organise a local one. I did, was a good night out.
I tried getting onto 2 but got there too late, I am noticing the scene in yorkshire does seem, how do I put this....a bit cliqued up, like there are always the swme groups on tje socials and club events and when someone new or myself tries to get into socials, seem to get ignored or put on a reserve list, but I am keen to get onto one at some point!
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Yup.. it's just numbers mate, not personal. Anyone who organises one and advertises it gets inundated by men within first day.
Hence why it's an idea to organise your own. I had a female friend help me, I dealt with the men and couples, she dealt with the women. Made sure we had a small eclectic mix of people.
I didn't want to meet an existing cliquey group either. My experience of clubs is a little like that. They're so busy engaging with their existing friends that they dont tend to have much time for newer members, unless ofcourse there is a vested interest of some kind.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We mainly use Fab to keep in touch with people we have met at clubs.
^^ this and forums "
I've also attended an arranged social and might do again as it was a great night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So setting up a social, how do you guys do it? Im curious now as I would love to do something like that"
invite some of the local people who interest you to a pub. Keep it on the down low. Create a group chat. Try to make sure there are at least 2-3 options for each person going. Give plenty of notice. Maintain conversations till the night arrives. On the night, go into host mode and make sure nobody is being left out. Forget about getting your own leg over for a bit. Your effort and attention will get noticed. |
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"So setting up a social, how do you guys do it? Im curious now as I would love to do something like that
invite some of the local people who interest you to a pub. Keep it on the down low. Create a group chat. Try to make sure there are at least 2-3 options for each person going. Give plenty of notice. Maintain conversations till the night arrives. On the night, go into host mode and make sure nobody is being left out. Forget about getting your own leg over for a bit. Your effort and attention will get noticed."
See that scenario would work if the people close enough wern't already part of that clique that is already formed, like in my local area the new people, like myself tend to struggle to get gping, or so I've seen, because the area local too us is kind of a bit closed off, either already in the group who use clubs or are already set up with each other, and then us newbies are kind of left with either using the clubs and risk being on the outskirts kind off floating or trying to mert with each other, which is difficult if the 2 parites don't mix well, guess what im trying to say is, the people who would come, already are psrt of that clique, they all seem nice enough but when it comes down too it, they already have there group of friends and dont want to open it up, may seem like a downer but it is kinda true, like I do try arrange socials ehich is hard enough, so getting people together strikes me as neigh on impossible around where I live |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, me again!
So since the back end of last week I find myself using the forums part of the site so much more, and I am enjoying using the site a lot more!
My question is, do you use the search function more or forums or any other part of the sute more frequently? I have a flick through a search every few days and possibly the meets page but that's become secondary to a flick through the forums page, got me wondering if people find new friends, meets, playmates etc on forums or just a good old search!"
Im on here just to have a laugh... if I will fancy someone in between that's a bonus |
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"So, me again!
So since the back end of last week I find myself using the forums part of the site so much more, and I am enjoying using the site a lot more!
My question is, do you use the search function more or forums or any other part of the sute more frequently? I have a flick through a search every few days and possibly the meets page but that's become secondary to a flick through the forums page, got me wondering if people find new friends, meets, playmates etc on forums or just a good old search!
Im on here just to have a laugh... if I will fancy someone in between that's a bonus "
Sounds very much like me now, i almost got to the point of deleting the account and then as soon as I started in the forums, became so much more fun, I really enjoy this side of it, if someone takes my fancy then great, I'll try, if we click even better but I'm enjoying myself along the way now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So setting up a social, how do you guys do it? Im curious now as I would love to do something like that
invite some of the local people who interest you to a pub. Keep it on the down low. Create a group chat. Try to make sure there are at least 2-3 options for each person going. Give plenty of notice. Maintain conversations till the night arrives. On the night, go into host mode and make sure nobody is being left out. Forget about getting your own leg over for a bit. Your effort and attention will get noticed.
See that scenario would work if the people close enough wern't already part of that clique that is already formed, like in my local area the new people, like myself tend to struggle to get gping, or so I've seen, because the area local too us is kind of a bit closed off, either already in the group who use clubs or are already set up with each other, and then us newbies are kind of left with either using the clubs and risk being on the outskirts kind off floating or trying to mert with each other, which is difficult if the 2 parites don't mix well, guess what im trying to say is, the people who would come, already are psrt of that clique, they all seem nice enough but when it comes down too it, they already have there group of friends and dont want to open it up, may seem like a downer but it is kinda true, like I do try arrange socials ehich is hard enough, so getting people together strikes me as neigh on impossible around where I live"
Have a word. You're in a multi-metropolitan area. The amount of people within half an hours drive of you makes where I live in Worcestershire look like Timbuktu.
I have two small cities within half an hours drive and two large ones within an hours drive.
Does it matter if they are a part of other groups if they come to your social? Perhaps you'll get an invite into one of their groups in return..?
Oooh look, here's a down to earth man with some get up and go about him, steers his own ship, master of his own fate? Social? Charming? |
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"So setting up a social, how do you guys do it? Im curious now as I would love to do something like that
invite some of the local people who interest you to a pub. Keep it on the down low. Create a group chat. Try to make sure there are at least 2-3 options for each person going. Give plenty of notice. Maintain conversations till the night arrives. On the night, go into host mode and make sure nobody is being left out. Forget about getting your own leg over for a bit. Your effort and attention will get noticed.
See that scenario would work if the people close enough wern't already part of that clique that is already formed, like in my local area the new people, like myself tend to struggle to get gping, or so I've seen, because the area local too us is kind of a bit closed off, either already in the group who use clubs or are already set up with each other, and then us newbies are kind of left with either using the clubs and risk being on the outskirts kind off floating or trying to mert with each other, which is difficult if the 2 parites don't mix well, guess what im trying to say is, the people who would come, already are psrt of that clique, they all seem nice enough but when it comes down too it, they already have there group of friends and dont want to open it up, may seem like a downer but it is kinda true, like I do try arrange socials ehich is hard enough, so getting people together strikes me as neigh on impossible around where I live
Have a word. You're in a multi-metropolitan area. The amount of people within half an hours drive of you makes where I live in Worcestershire look like Timbuktu.
I have two small cities within half an hours drive and two large ones within an hours drive.
Does it matter if they are a part of other groups if they come to your social? Perhaps you'll get an invite into one of their groups in return..?
Oooh look, here's a down to earth man with some get up and go about him, steers his own ship, master of his own fate? Social? Charming? "
That's true, i do try but I think the lack of like social meets regularly may have put me off, may just try get something going |
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