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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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......who don't get on.....
When I came back to the forums (after hiding away for a while) I had zero friends on the forum and very few ppl who would risk talking to me publically. In a way that was a nice feeling, starting from base with no tribes or cares. However, gradually I've made a few really decent friendships here and found some ppl who are great fun to be around and genuinely make me happy and brighten my day 
BUT, my question is this - what do you do when your friends don't like each other or if they clash or fight frequently? Do you ignore that particular thread, do you join in and try to settle things down, or take the side that most agrees with you on that particular subject? Or are there no rules? Or is it just a beautiful fucking problem to have and one should be grateful....? 
TELLLLL MEEEEEEEEE! plz..... 
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I don't have that issue on here as not got any sufficiently close friendships to be bothered.
In real life I have two friends who can't stand each other. I see them separately but they do occasionally bicker on my Facebook posts. I stay out of the whole thing as I don't want to get involved; far as I'm concerned it's not my fight. They're grown-arse adults, they don't need me to hold their hands.
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"I don't have that issue on here as not got any sufficiently close friendships to be bothered.
In real life I have two friends who can't stand each other. I see them separately but they do occasionally bicker on my Facebook posts. I stay out of the whole thing as I don't want to get involved; far as I'm concerned it's not my fight. They're grown-arse adults, they don't need me to hold their hands.
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I'd have to agree with that attitude  |
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"......who don't get on.....
When I came back to the forums (after hiding away for a while) I had zero friends on the forum and very few ppl who would risk talking to me publically. In a way that was a nice feeling, starting from base with no tribes or cares. However, gradually I've made a few really decent friendships here and found some ppl who are great fun to be around and genuinely make me happy and brighten my day
BUT, my question is this - what do you do when your friends don't like each other or if they clash or fight frequently? Do you ignore that particular thread, do you join in and try to settle things down, or take the side that most agrees with you on that particular subject? Or are there no rules? Or is it just a beautiful fucking problem to have and one should be grateful....?
TELLLLL MEEEEEEEEE! plz.....
Nip x"
Lol Nip - you do make me laugh!
I avoid those I don’t like who have a tendency to start controversy
Most of my ‘friends’ here get along
Yep I will sling in the odd snicky comment where I think it’s courted... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama "
Not drama drama!  , just if two of your friends don't get on, it could be the same irl too..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"......who don't get on.....
When I came back to the forums (after hiding away for a while) I had zero friends on the forum and very few ppl who would risk talking to me publically. In a way that was a nice feeling, starting from base with no tribes or cares. However, gradually I've made a few really decent friendships here and found some ppl who are great fun to be around and genuinely make me happy and brighten my day
BUT, my question is this - what do you do when your friends don't like each other or if they clash or fight frequently? Do you ignore that particular thread, do you join in and try to settle things down, or take the side that most agrees with you on that particular subject? Or are there no rules? Or is it just a beautiful fucking problem to have and one should be grateful....?
TELLLLL MEEEEEEEEE! plz.....
Nip x
Lol Nip - you do make me laugh!
I avoid those I don’t like who have a tendency to start controversy
Most of my ‘friends’ here get along
Yep I will sling in the odd snicky comment where I think it’s courted..."
You make me laugh too my lovely 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved."
Even your friends? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm friends with a few who don't get on and I doubt they ever will. They don't really bicker on here and I doubt they ever will, they aren't that type. When it's happened with past forumites if they go beyond a certain point, I'd step in and say something. But to be honest I'd do that with anyone if I see it, regardless of if they are my friends or not. I tend to focus on the post rather than the poster if that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama "
Me too. I don't use this site to make close friends, I have plenty outside of Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm friends with a few who don't get on and I doubt they ever will. They don't really bicker on here and I doubt they ever will, they aren't that type. When it's happened with past forumites if they go beyond a certain point, I'd step in and say something. But to be honest I'd do that with anyone if I see it, regardless of if they are my friends or not. I tend to focus on the post rather than the poster if that makes sense? "
Yeah I get that and agree, the bit I struggle with is that if you're my friend then generally I'm loyal regardless, which I know is a bit twatty, but you cant always be loyal to two ppl who are fighting..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Me too. I don't use this site to make close friends, I have plenty outside of Fab. "
I struggle to fuck someone without trust, but each to their own |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Let them fight it out between themselves and make it clear to both you're not getting involved. Well that's what I would do, if you want to get involved just keep in mind it could backfire on you, and you could end up losing one or both as friends. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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I've been on these forums for years and I've never made a single friend so, no such problems for me.
Plus, I steering clear of a thread if it turns toxic. I come into the Forum for a laugh and to keep it light. |
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Not drama drama! , just if two of your friends don't get on, it could be the same irl too....."
on here most of my friends dont know the forums exist and dont know each other. In real life all my friends get on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Let them fight it out between themselves and make it clear to both you're not getting involved. Well that's what I would do, if you want to get involved just keep in mind it could backfire on you, and you could end up losing one or both as friends. "
Thanks my lovely, and thanks also for answering with something more than "I don't so drama ". Ppl who don't do drama usually do do drama - would you expect a mad axe murderer to own up to his axe fetish.....? It's not relating to anything or anyone specific I just struggle with watching ppl I semi-care about arguing frantically over something which is usually a waste of time.... Maybe the solutions is just not to watch it...? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been on these forums for years and I've never made a single friend so, no such problems for me.
Plus, I steering clear of a thread if it turns toxic. I come into the Forum for a laugh and to keep it light."
That's sad about not making one friend. I get what you mean about toxic posts, I can usually spot them from the topic but when ppl start getting angry it's time to find another form of entertainment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Not drama drama! , just if two of your friends don't get on, it could be the same irl too.....on here most of my friends dont know the forums exist and dont know each other. In real life all my friends get on"
I guess you're lucky then |
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Not on here, but in real life I do tend to get involved. I don't like seeing people I care about making each other unhappy. If I can help I will try, for example talk to both sides to see what the actual problem is. Often it's a misunderstanding that's gotten out of hand. I argued with a mate I had since the first day in secondary school and out friends decided to keep out. So we didn't talk for well nearly a decade, we both grew up and decided to talk to each other and we're now mates again. Looking back we're both sure if some of our friends had sat us down it could have been resolved much sooner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Me too. I don't use this site to make close friends, I have plenty outside of Fab.
I struggle to fuck someone without trust, but each to their own "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have that issue on here as not got any sufficiently close friendships to be bothered.
In real life I have two friends who can't stand each other. I see them separately but they do occasionally bicker on my Facebook posts. I stay out of the whole thing as I don't want to get involved; far as I'm concerned it's not my fight. They're grown-arse adults, they don't need me to hold their hands.
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Just been through this... that's my tact too missus  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not on here, but in real life I do tend to get involved. I don't like seeing people I care about making each other unhappy. If I can help I will try, for example talk to both sides to see what the actual problem is. Often it's a misunderstanding that's gotten out of hand. I argued with a mate I had since the first day in secondary school and out friends decided to keep out. So we didn't talk for well nearly a decade, we both grew up and decided to talk to each other and we're now mates again. Looking back we're both sure if some of our friends had sat us down it could have been resolved much sooner "
I quite like having friends that would never in a million years be friends though, I mean because they're so different. I find that if my group of ppl are all linked like a tribe then I start to lose my individuality and thirst for learning because theres nothing new to learn when we all synchronise.....? Friends who are similar are easy to sort |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Me too. I don't use this site to make close friends, I have plenty outside of Fab.
I struggle to fuck someone without trust, but each to their own
If you have something you wish to direct at me, please feel free to message "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't have that issue on here as not got any sufficiently close friendships to be bothered.
In real life I have two friends who can't stand each other. I see them separately but they do occasionally bicker on my Facebook posts. I stay out of the whole thing as I don't want to get involved; far as I'm concerned it's not my fight. They're grown-arse adults, they don't need me to hold their hands.
Just been through this... that's my tact too missus "
Makes sense dunnit.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not on here, but in real life I do tend to get involved. I don't like seeing people I care about making each other unhappy. If I can help I will try, for example talk to both sides to see what the actual problem is. Often it's a misunderstanding that's gotten out of hand. I argued with a mate I had since the first day in secondary school and out friends decided to keep out. So we didn't talk for well nearly a decade, we both grew up and decided to talk to each other and we're now mates again. Looking back we're both sure if some of our friends had sat us down it could have been resolved much sooner
I quite like having friends that would never in a million years be friends though, I mean because they're so different. I find that if my group of ppl are all linked like a tribe then I start to lose my individuality and thirst for learning because theres nothing new to learn when we all synchronise.....? Friends who are similar are easy to sort "
I agree with this, I love having disparate characters as friends, it gives you a great insight into so many differing opinions and thoughts. It is challenging and exciting... Wine helps...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have that issue on here as not got any sufficiently close friendships to be bothered.
In real life I have two friends who can't stand each other. I see them separately but they do occasionally bicker on my Facebook posts. I stay out of the whole thing as I don't want to get involved; far as I'm concerned it's not my fight. They're grown-arse adults, they don't need me to hold their hands.
Just been through this... that's my tact too missus
Makes sense dunnit.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"......who don't get on.....
When I came back to the forums (after hiding away for a while) I had zero friends on the forum and very few ppl who would risk talking to me publically. In a way that was a nice feeling, starting from base with no tribes or cares. However, gradually I've made a few really decent friendships here and found some ppl who are great fun to be around and genuinely make me happy and brighten my day
BUT, my question is this - what do you do when your friends don't like each other or if they clash or fight frequently? Do you ignore that particular thread, do you join in and try to settle things down, or take the side that most agrees with you on that particular subject? Or are there no rules? Or is it just a beautiful fucking problem to have and one should be grateful....?
TELLLLL MEEEEEEEEE! plz.....
Nip x"
Simply have and still make it clear I do not take sides. The issue they have is between them and not us individually.
Awwww Nippy you have ladies fighting over you, such a drag
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"Not on here, but in real life I do tend to get involved. I don't like seeing people I care about making each other unhappy. If I can help I will try, for example talk to both sides to see what the actual problem is. Often it's a misunderstanding that's gotten out of hand. I argued with a mate I had since the first day in secondary school and out friends decided to keep out. So we didn't talk for well nearly a decade, we both grew up and decided to talk to each other and we're now mates again. Looking back we're both sure if some of our friends had sat us down it could have been resolved much sooner
I quite like having friends that would never in a million years be friends though, I mean because they're so different. I find that if my group of ppl are all linked like a tribe then I start to lose my individuality and thirst for learning because theres nothing new to learn when we all synchronise.....? Friends who are similar are easy to sort "
Oh well then you chose your mates for their specific uniqueness. To try and make them get on would be trying to make them less them, and then may take away what drew you to them in the first place. People don't have to get along to be respectful towards one another though and that's where I would draw the line |
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I prefer not to get involved, a little ribbing here and there where I know someone can take it and give as good as they get. I first started on fab many many moons ago and some know me, though many choose not too
The forums have not changed but the faces do. There seem to be archetypes which must be filled when one leaves another arises
I used to make friends with other forum users but now I avoid this, lamp post pissing, bully groups, and the like wear thin. As does jealousy and obsessive behaviour.
Now I just pop in, post something inane (like this) and the whoosh away. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I prefer not to get involved, a little ribbing here and there where I know someone can take it and give as good as they get. I first started on fab many many moons ago and some know me, though many choose not too
The forums have not changed but the faces do. There seem to be archetypes which must be filled when one leaves another arises
I used to make friends with other forum users but now I avoid this, lamp post pissing, bully groups, and the like wear thin. As does jealousy and obsessive behaviour.
Now I just pop in, post something inane (like this) and the whoosh away. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not on here, but in real life I do tend to get involved. I don't like seeing people I care about making each other unhappy. If I can help I will try, for example talk to both sides to see what the actual problem is. Often it's a misunderstanding that's gotten out of hand. I argued with a mate I had since the first day in secondary school and out friends decided to keep out. So we didn't talk for well nearly a decade, we both grew up and decided to talk to each other and we're now mates again. Looking back we're both sure if some of our friends had sat us down it could have been resolved much sooner
I quite like having friends that would never in a million years be friends though, I mean because they're so different. I find that if my group of ppl are all linked like a tribe then I start to lose my individuality and thirst for learning because theres nothing new to learn when we all synchronise.....? Friends who are similar are easy to sort
Oh well then you chose your mates for their specific uniqueness. To try and make them get on would be trying to make them less them, and then may take away what drew you to them in the first place. People don't have to get along to be respectful towards one another though and that's where I would draw the line "
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"Not on here, but in real life I do tend to get involved. I don't like seeing people I care about making each other unhappy. If I can help I will try, for example talk to both sides to see what the actual problem is. Often it's a misunderstanding that's gotten out of hand. I argued with a mate I had since the first day in secondary school and out friends decided to keep out. So we didn't talk for well nearly a decade, we both grew up and decided to talk to each other and we're now mates again. Looking back we're both sure if some of our friends had sat us down it could have been resolved much sooner
I quite like having friends that would never in a million years be friends though, I mean because they're so different. I find that if my group of ppl are all linked like a tribe then I start to lose my individuality and thirst for learning because theres nothing new to learn when we all synchronise.....? Friends who are similar are easy to sort
I agree with this, I love having disparate characters as friends, it gives you a great insight into so many differing opinions and thoughts. It is challenging and exciting... Wine helps... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have that issue on here as not got any sufficiently close friendships to be bothered.
In real life I have two friends who can't stand each other. I see them separately but they do occasionally bicker on my Facebook posts. I stay out of the whole thing as I don't want to get involved; far as I'm concerned it's not my fight. They're grown-arse adults, they don't need me to hold their hands.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ain t got enough friends on here or in real life to worry about it...I'm choosy where friends are concerned..don t want another tribe for sake of it..if no tribe then I'm happy with just gf  |
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I haven't really noticed any of my friends clashing as such. There will be opposing sides of an argument or debate on certain topics alright, but my friends seem to be sufficiently intelligent enough to know that's just a difference of opinions and nothing personal.
I think though if any of my friends disliked someone enough to warrant constant clashing, I would have my own internal review... My friends tend to be good judges of character and if they find someone suspect or disagreeable, it's generally with good reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you mean 'friends'?
Real life met, friends list, people who pm, ?"
I meant both, but it's more of a general question, could apply to friends at work or home too. |
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"Ain t got enough friends on here or in real life to worry about it...I'm choosy where friends are concerned..don t want another tribe for sake of it..if no tribe then I'm happy with just gf "
I agree, when there are too many ppl all thinking the same way then things get stale and ppl become lazy....
I want to be your friend though, I find you really intriguing and unique |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I haven't really noticed any of my friends clashing as such. There will be opposing sides of an argument or debate on certain topics alright, but my friends seem to be sufficiently intelligent enough to know that's just a difference of opinions and nothing personal.
I think though if any of my friends disliked someone enough to warrant constant clashing, I would have my own internal review... My friends tend to be good judges of character and if they find someone suspect or disagreeable, it's generally with good reason. "
Haha, I like that, an internal review! I'm rubbish at being mean though, I'm too soft..... |
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"Ain t got enough friends on here or in real life to worry about it...I'm choosy where friends are concerned..don t want another tribe for sake of it..if no tribe then I'm happy with just gf
I agree, when there are too many ppl all thinking the same way then things get stale and ppl become lazy....
I want to be your friend though, I find you really intriguing and unique "
Hi friend...well that's probably best way to describe me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved."
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah "
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....? |
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"Ain t got enough friends on here or in real life to worry about it...I'm choosy where friends are concerned..don t want another tribe for sake of it..if no tribe then I'm happy with just gf
I agree, when there are too many ppl all thinking the same way then things get stale and ppl become lazy....
I want to be your friend though, I find you really intriguing and unique
Hi friend...well that's probably best way to describe me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just a slight deviation from the post theme but linked to the title, but what are people looking for from friends here? Do they do they differ male to female ?
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others."
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....? |
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"Just a slight deviation from the post theme but linked to the title, but what are people looking for from friends here? Do they do they differ male to female ?
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Men look for a vagina and women look for a supply of cake, ok? |
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....? "
No. I have no feelings. |
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
No. I have no feelings. "
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
No. I have no feelings.
Can I have a feel...? "
Again? Bloody hell ... go on then |
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
No. I have no feelings.
Can I have a feel...?
Again? Bloody hell ... go on then "
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
No. I have no feelings.
Can I have a feel...?
Again? Bloody hell ... go on then
Can I have a veri pleas? "
“He groped my tits and arse so well, I almost had an orgasm without removing any clothes. And he *always* asks for consent before he grabs. He’s good ladies, don’t pass him by.”
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....? "
As I said in my comment, we use Fab for escapism. For us it’s a world away from real life.
I love the forums but have seen threads turn very nasty. People tearing each other apart. I want no part in that. I don’t fear it but it’s certainly very different to regular life. Your real friends don’t delete themselves never to be seen again. It’s a regular occurrence on the Fab forums, often with those you thought you had built a bond with.
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
No. I have no feelings.
Can I have a feel...?
Again? Bloody hell ... go on then
Can I have a veri pleas?
“He groped my tits and arse so well, I almost had an orgasm without removing any clothes. And he *always* asks for consent before he grabs. He’s good ladies, don’t pass him by.”
Any good? "
Make it official and don't forget about that thing I do with my little finger in your ear hole, ok |
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
As I said in my comment, we use Fab for escapism. For us it’s a world away from real life.
I love the forums but have seen threads turn very nasty. People tearing each other apart. I want no part in that. I don’t fear it but it’s certainly very different to regular life. Your real friends don’t delete themselves never to be seen again. It’s a regular occurrence on the Fab forums, often with those you thought you had built a bond with.
V
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Awww ok, I get you now and I'm sorry to hear that . When threads get really nasty and I cant diffuse things I just log off or talk elsewhere. A friend isn't a proper friend unless they have my number and vice versa..... I had one brilliant friend send me their postcode out of the blue yesterday lololol (no escape now!).... |
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
As I said in my comment, we use Fab for escapism. For us it’s a world away from real life.
I love the forums but have seen threads turn very nasty. People tearing each other apart. I want no part in that. I don’t fear it but it’s certainly very different to regular life. Your real friends don’t delete themselves never to be seen again. It’s a regular occurrence on the Fab forums, often with those you thought you had built a bond with.
V
Awww ok, I get you now and I'm sorry to hear that . When threads get really nasty and I cant diffuse things I just log off or talk elsewhere. A friend isn't a proper friend unless they have my number and vice versa..... I had one brilliant friend send me their postcode out of the blue yesterday lololol (no escape now!).... "
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
As I said in my comment, we use Fab for escapism. For us it’s a world away from real life.
I love the forums but have seen threads turn very nasty. People tearing each other apart. I want no part in that. I don’t fear it but it’s certainly very different to regular life. Your real friends don’t delete themselves never to be seen again. It’s a regular occurrence on the Fab forums, often with those you thought you had built a bond with.
V
Awww ok, I get you now and I'm sorry to hear that . When threads get really nasty and I cant diffuse things I just log off or talk elsewhere. A friend isn't a proper friend unless they have my number and vice versa..... I had one brilliant friend send me their postcode out of the blue yesterday lololol (no escape now!)....
Ahh I’m a “proper friend” "
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
As I said in my comment, we use Fab for escapism. For us it’s a world away from real life.
I love the forums but have seen threads turn very nasty. People tearing each other apart. I want no part in that. I don’t fear it but it’s certainly very different to regular life. Your real friends don’t delete themselves never to be seen again. It’s a regular occurrence on the Fab forums, often with those you thought you had built a bond with.
V
Awww ok, I get you now and I'm sorry to hear that . When threads get really nasty and I cant diffuse things I just log off or talk elsewhere. A friend isn't a proper friend unless they have my number and vice versa..... I had one brilliant friend send me their postcode out of the blue yesterday lololol (no escape now!).... "
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
As I said in my comment, we use Fab for escapism. For us it’s a world away from real life.
I love the forums but have seen threads turn very nasty. People tearing each other apart. I want no part in that. I don’t fear it but it’s certainly very different to regular life. Your real friends don’t delete themselves never to be seen again. It’s a regular occurrence on the Fab forums, often with those you thought you had built a bond with.
V
Awww ok, I get you now and I'm sorry to hear that . When threads get really nasty and I cant diffuse things I just log off or talk elsewhere. A friend isn't a proper friend unless they have my number and vice versa..... I had one brilliant friend send me their postcode out of the blue yesterday lololol (no escape now!)....
Ahh I’m a “proper friend”
No baby, you're a lover "
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....?
As I said in my comment, we use Fab for escapism. For us it’s a world away from real life.
I love the forums but have seen threads turn very nasty. People tearing each other apart. I want no part in that. I don’t fear it but it’s certainly very different to regular life. Your real friends don’t delete themselves never to be seen again. It’s a regular occurrence on the Fab forums, often with those you thought you had built a bond with.
V
Awww ok, I get you now and I'm sorry to hear that . When threads get really nasty and I cant diffuse things I just log off or talk elsewhere. A friend isn't a proper friend unless they have my number and vice versa..... I had one brilliant friend send me their postcode out of the blue yesterday lololol (no escape now!)....
Ahh I’m a “proper friend”
No baby, you're a lover
Well get your arse up here then. I need some lovin "
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Even your friends?"
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Even your friends?
Yep"
Fair enough I guess.
You do realise we cannot be friends now... |
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"Im not that close to anyone to even know who argues with who. I keep out of forum drama
Agree with this...other people's drama or issues are not my concern...life's too short to get involved.
Absolutely this. We don’t do drama in real life. Certainly not going to do it on Fab. This is our escapism where we look for likeminded others.
I think some ppl have an problem online with the word drama. If I'd asked "what should you do if two of your good friends who you love dearly are arguing over something silly?" (which is essentially what I was asking), then I may have received some very different responses involving a lot less use if the word drama or online.... why do pll fear fab drama so much, I dont get it, it's no different from regular life, the ppl are still real with feelings, aren't they....? "
I don't know why people think online is different to real life. They are still real people.
In answer to the OP I don't think I've ever been in a situation where my friends don't get on. |
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....?"
No because they’ll take advantage |
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I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here |
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....?
No because they’ll take advantage "
In what way ? |
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....?
No because they’ll take advantage
In what way ? "
I heard that some ppl ask money ! Can you believe that !? |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here"
I think you’re nice |
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....?
No because they’ll take advantage
In what way ? "
Start being needy for one & require propping up emotionally, generally find people only want to fill your time with their dramas,find it quite draining & negative whereas we’re both very positive people |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice "
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping ! |
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....?
No because they’ll take advantage
In what way ?
Start being needy for one & require propping up emotionally, generally find people only want to fill your time with their dramas,find it quite draining & negative whereas we’re both very positive people "
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping ! "
And when it gapes away... The sounds it makes when you clenches is 'F&B did it'
F&b did it |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping ! "
What a wonderful thought |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping !
And when it gapes away... The sounds it makes when you clench* is 'F&B did it'
F&b did it "
Fix it |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping !
And when it gapes away... The sounds it makes when you clenches is 'F&B did it'
F&b did it "
I’ll then go “ ner ner ner ner ner “ |
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....?
No because they’ll take advantage
In what way ?
I heard that some ppl ask money ! Can you believe that !?"
Can you lend me a fiver? |
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....?
No because they’ll take advantage
In what way ?
I heard that some ppl ask money ! Can you believe that !?
Can you lend me a fiver? "
Sure buddy x |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping !
And when it gapes away... The sounds it makes when you clench* is 'F&B did it'
F&b did it
Fix it"
I love you F&B and you're still my number two forumite, but wtf are you on about? |
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"We don’t have friends only acquaintances, to much hassle jealousy ,needy blah blah blah
Isn't it nice to let your guard down a little now and then.....?
No because they’ll take advantage
In what way ?
I heard that some ppl ask money ! Can you believe that !?
Can you lend me a fiver?
Sure buddy x"
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping !
And when it gapes away... The sounds it makes when you clench* is 'F&B did it'
F&b did it
Fix it
I love you F&B and you're still my number two forumite, but wtf are you on about? "
Even I don't know so don't count on me to explain my random posts dude.
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My two main best friends don't get on! Partly because they're quite similar and antisocial.
Forum wise stay true to yourself and voice your own opinion. If they are your friend then they'll know its meant in the way you've intended. If they take it personally then screw them! |
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"No I just let them get on with it if they need to sound off to me then that's what's friends are for "
This seems to be the common answer, and probably the best |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping !
And when it gapes away... The sounds it makes when you clench* is 'F&B did it'
F&b did it
Fix it
I love you F&B and you're still my number two forumite, but wtf are you on about?
Even I don't know so don't count on me to explain my random posts dude.
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So, it's ok if I just assume and make shit up and say like for example "that F&B dude, he likes fucking melons when they're not even ripe!" yeah....? |
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"My two main best friends don't get on! Partly because they're quite similar and antisocial.
Forum wise stay true to yourself and voice your own opinion. If they are your friend then they'll know its meant in the way you've intended. If they take it personally then screw them! "
Screw as in fuck them.....? |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping !
And when it gapes away... The sounds it makes when you clench* is 'F&B did it'
F&b did it
Fix it
I love you F&B and you're still my number two forumite, but wtf are you on about?
Even I don't know so don't count on me to explain my random posts dude.
So, it's ok if I just assume and make shit up and say like for example "that F&B dude, he likes fucking melons when they're not even ripe!" yeah....?"
That is about it. Talk a bit about anus and rectum. Rectum make you sound like you know your shit (literally) |
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"I don't have friends (except you( -have to protect some ppl's feelings- I only know people with holes I can pound away during weekend so I just say what I think on here
I think you’re nice
You say that because you want your anus to be gapping !
And when it gapes away... The sounds it makes when you clench* is 'F&B did it'
F&b did it
Fix it
I love you F&B and you're still my number two forumite, but wtf are you on about?
Even I don't know so don't count on me to explain my random posts dude.
So, it's ok if I just assume and make shit up and say like for example "that F&B dude, he likes fucking melons when they're not even ripe!" yeah....?
That is about it. Talk a bit about anus and rectum. Rectum make you sound like you know your shit (literally)"
I am NOT shit!!!! |
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