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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes was really good a while ago had a social and ended up in chams on a Saturday night, first club experience and jumped in at the deep end and loved it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We remember very well. We are so glad we met the couple we did. They opened our eyes to the swinging world. They told us and showed us the way. We were new we were excited. We are still really good friends with them today x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes i remember it well. It was a lovely lady i was nervous as hell but once the nerves had settled i had a fantastic time. Met her 2 or 3 times after that too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No foreplay from guy, just wanted to, in his words ; "get my big cock in and cum."
No idea how to treat a female, he made a big effort with his home and creating the 'ambience' soft lights, low mood music, joss sticks, but he was inconsiderate and disrespectful of both Rea and our boundaries. We had to be repeatedly ask to respect said boundaries.
We used our code word and ended the whole experience.
We left, Rea said it was the worst experience of sex she'd ever had and we should leave fab.
We left the guy some + feedback for the effort he'd put in to setting the ambience and the fact he had a huge cock, but that was about it.
He didn't leave us any and blocked us shortly after.
It went well in the respect of Rea & I escaped uninjured and with some dignity intact.
Not a good first meet, and yes, we'd compromised our Social first, bedroom later principles for, pm's and phone chat for this one meeting, something we'd never repeat.
Of course we didn't leave and have met a couple of chaps from here since.
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"My first experience was meeting a couple then straight into a club on an orgy bed with 90‰ of the club watch me and one of my friends. You on about the deep end"
and meet the female on Facebook of all places
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was awesome. Remember being very nervous meeting in a hotel bar but the couple were lovely and had the best time with them....she was absolutely beautiful |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
I remember mine very fondly to. It was over five years ago. A really lovely woman. We met a few times and then I changed jobs and didn’t visit that part of the country so often. But it was a great start to my fab journey. |
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Really nice guy initially - met for social meet. Then met again with his FWB who was an absolutely lovely lady. Then he got a bit shitty with me (won't share the reasons) so quite a bitter sweet intro into the world of fab.
Every meet since then have been great though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A real contrast.
After a dry and desolate period as a man with no veri, I was at the point of giving up.
Then lady luck shone. A couple on holiday looking to meet up and accommodate at theirs. All those fantasies were about to become real and rather nervously wondering what I'd got into,I met at a pub.
A few drinks later and feeling even so slightly out of my depth, I was invited back....to their tent 
One thing led to another and half way through a passionate moment, a loud voice outside interrupted. Apparently the lamp inside was projecting shadow porn onto the tent walls and several people had complained.
Luckily it was dark as I left, and shortly after I left Fab. |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
" A real contrast.
After a dry and desolate period as a man with no veri, I was at the point of giving up.
Then lady luck shone. A couple on holiday looking to meet up and accommodate at theirs. All those fantasies were about to become real and rather nervously wondering what I'd got into,I met at a pub.
A few drinks later and feeling even so slightly out of my depth, I was invited back....to their tent
One thing led to another and half way through a passionate moment, a loud voice outside interrupted. Apparently the lamp inside was projecting shadow porn onto the tent walls and several people had complained.
Luckily it was dark as I left, and shortly after I left Fab. "
That made me chuckle!! |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
I remember it well, he turned up late at night, in his army uniform driving a military vehicle of some sort. I was on my period, so it was meant to be a friendly chat but we ended up having sex in the front seat anyway. And people say I'm not ladylike.
Did go on to meet him again many times after that in more comfortable surroundings |
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By *0FrankMan
over a year ago
The South! |
We met, went for a walk up some hill in Salisbury... It was a glorious sunny day... Sat in a field... Started kissing, wasn't long before it turned into a blow job... Then we ended up completely naked and she was riding me... Dog walkers passed... I didn't care... Neither did she... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah if I remember I was supposed to be meeting someone all dressed and ready to leave the house waiting for them to give an address but they just disappeared no reply ... I was kind of sad I was all ready for it especially first meet off here I put a status saying I was about it someone let me down and funnily enough I got a few messages and one saying are you still ready come round to ours they had plenty of veris and so I did we had a fantastic night and made good friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He was a great guy, our first threesome only 4 days after joining. Took the time beforehand to sit and talk about what we both wanted and was very attentive in the bedroom. Female loved that he was gentle and male will always remember watching his girlfriend suck another mans cock for the first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" A real contrast.
After a dry and desolate period as a man with no veri, I was at the point of giving up.
Then lady luck shone. A couple on holiday looking to meet up and accommodate at theirs. All those fantasies were about to become real and rather nervously wondering what I'd got into,I met at a pub.
A few drinks later and feeling even so slightly out of my depth, I was invited back....to their tent
One thing led to another and half way through a passionate moment, a loud voice outside interrupted. Apparently the lamp inside was projecting shadow porn onto the tent walls and several people had complained.
Luckily it was dark as I left, and shortly after I left Fab.
That made me chuckle!! "
That’s like a live Carry on film |
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Total disaster, it was with a couple, her mission was to keep R out of the way while her partner tried to see how many times he could cum by fucking me, no foreplay just straight in there. He managed 5 times in 30 minutes before we put a stop to it. A learning curve for us both though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you remember it? How did it go? Do you have fond memories of it? "
Like it was yesterday, it went better than my expectations and set my life on a very interesting and Awakening course, so yes, very fond memory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was a drink in my favourite bar. I wasn't fond of a guy. Finished my drink and went home. Alone of course.
My second meet was a success, went to mine after the social, stayed overnight and became my regular fabber. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Yes, we went on a hike and it nearly killed me! He tried to kiss me and i couldn’t breathe because i was so breathless from the walk and that made me giggle into his mouth. And my top lip was super sweaty because it was a warm day and i had a cagoule on and was overheating. Not my sexiest moment!!
He wanted to see me again though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Terrible. Met a couple in a local park after midnight for some outdoor fun, they started arguing and it ended before it got going. I suspect it was a prearranged escape plan for them. |
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"Yes, we went on a hike and it nearly killed me! He tried to kiss me and i couldn’t breathe because i was so breathless from the walk and that made me giggle into his mouth. And my top lip was super sweaty because it was a warm day and i had a cagoule on and was overheating. Not my sexiest moment!!
He wanted to see me again though. "
You do make me laugh. |
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indeed i do even it was a social unfortunately I was slightly late tho my meet was very understanding.
After chatting and gazing at each other we couldn't keep our hands off each other under the table and led to some car park fondling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He was ok but neglected to tell me what I deemed as an offensive tattoo on his arm. Kind of threw me off.
And I am ok with tattoos before this gets blown put of proportion. He was a gentlemen as well. I just could not move past the tattoo. It was very off putting. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I remember it very clearly.
The person who put me on this site, so that 'we' could meet couples, and I met a couple together. They wanted shaved and he persuaded me, against my better judgement, to shave. We all got on well and I have bumped into them at clubs over the years. The male half gives a wonderful *full* massage.
It would be nice to see them before I leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember it very well... spotted on webcam and I was invited over. 45 minutes later we were kissing.
Very fond memory and still speak to the lady in question from time to time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was a very long time ago. In a hotel in Leeds. We had chatted for a while . Didn't even bother with a social. Went straight to a rather hot scenario. It was quite a night. We saw each other a few times and continue to keep in touch occasionally. I think he's possibly still around on here too . |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Mine was a bit odd. We had spoken for quite a while on here and seems to get on well but when we met there was just nothing there. The guy was nice enough but told me he was looking for a wife and wouldn't kiss or anything until the 5th date. To be honest the minute he mentioned he was looking for a wife was enough to stop it going any farther.He had tried a dating site but thought he'd have more luck on here. I don't think he did as he left shorty after. |
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Mine was with my ex. Had a couples profile back then. She loved the idea of being watched so we arranged a dogging meet type set up with a guy on here. I fucked her on the bonnet of my car while he watched us and wanked off. She was so turned on by it. Great times were had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, still remember it. We chatted for a while, before our schedules finally aligned. We decided to meet for a drink. I went to the designed place and waited...for a long time. Fed up, I left.
The day after I saw a new veri on her profile. Apparently, she had received a better offer that day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, still remember it. We chatted for a while, before our schedules finally aligned. We decided to meet for a drink. I went to the designed place and waited...for a long time. Fed up, I left.
The day after I saw a new veri on her profile. Apparently, she had received a better offer that day."
Well, I suppose it's helpful for a single guy to learn his place early. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Yep, still remember it. We chatted for a while, before our schedules finally aligned. We decided to meet for a drink. I went to the designed place and waited...for a long time. Fed up, I left.
The day after I saw a new veri on her profile. Apparently, she had received a better offer that day.
Well, I suppose it's helpful for a single guy to learn his place early. "
As a single woman it happens to me so often I might as well be a single man on Fab.
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
South of Ipswich |
"Yep, still remember it. We chatted for a while, before our schedules finally aligned. We decided to meet for a drink. I went to the designed place and waited...for a long time. Fed up, I left.
The day after I saw a new veri on her profile. Apparently, she had received a better offer that day."
I hope you blocked her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single woman it happens to me so often I might as well be a single man on Fab.
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People are fickle and prone to change their mind. Female or male makes no difference. Everyone might get cold feet, everyone might get a better offer, or decide that in the end a wank would be better than meeting a stranger. It's part of the game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope you blocked her
Nah...it's part of the game. Sometimes you get lucky, sometimes you don't."
True, but it shouldn't be. Sadly there are no repurcussions in this "community" for scum treating people that way. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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As a single woman it happens to me so often I might as well be a single man on Fab.
People are fickle and prone to change their mind. Female or male makes no difference. Everyone might get cold feet, everyone might get a better offer, or decide that in the end a wank would be better than meeting a stranger. It's part of the game."
I know, and I'm definitely Marmite at the best of times. I accept that I am the common denominator in my failure on here.
People like me for a social. I give good veri.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was a social meet with a lady a few years older than me. Hit it off straight away. Met regularly for several years & had some great sex. Unfortunately she stopped playing due to health issues. |
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Went for a coffee. He was gorgeous but the fact he had met so many off Fab put me off. Made him wait three months to meet again...it was not worth it. Climaxed after five minutes then got up and left. Twat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes he was a perfect gentleman and we saw each other several times after.
I've been looking out for him since I've been back, I'm hoping he's lurking behind a new username. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Went for a coffee. He was gorgeous but the fact he had met so many off Fab put me off. Made him wait three months to meet again...it was not worth it. Climaxed after five minutes then got up and left. Twat. "
Why do you think he'd met so many? 
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
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As a single woman it happens to me so often I might as well be a single man on Fab.
People are fickle and prone to change their mind. Female or male makes no difference. Everyone might get cold feet, everyone might get a better offer, or decide that in the end a wank would be better than meeting a stranger. It's part of the game.
I know, and I'm definitely Marmite at the best of times. I accept that I am the common denominator in my failure on here.
People like me for a social. I give good veri. "
we have met you and you are lovely, shorter than I expected but funny, articulate and have cracking tits.
Shame on them
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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago
North West & Dublin |
My first meet was about a week or 2 after I signed up, with a couple who messaged me first. It was a dark summers nite in a rural forest car park, but local to us both. I was excited but was also afraid it was a set up and I’d get robbed or something. Luckily it was genuine and I enjoyed a good outdoor fuck, MFM. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely, although it wasn’t her first it was mine and ended up not at all as either of us planned. She never got involved and I had absolutely no intention of doing so (it’s fab not PoF) but ..... 3 years on and we’re living together and very happy.
Had a few more since though  |
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By *hongguyMan
over a year ago
heckmondwike |
yes remember it like it was yesterday arranged to meet a smooth guy in hudds and was still married just was shitting myself as I walked to his place when inside I was nervbous as hell then we got naked etc he touched my cock and I nearly cum on the spot I tried his sexy thongs on took pics etc got hold of my first cock and wanked him then it happened he was playing with me and I just cum all over the place still see him now regard him as a friend id meet anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup, We agreed to meet at a cougars and cubs night. We met and got along but she wanted to be gang banged (and she was) but I didn't want to be part of it. At least not for a first meet. Enjoyed the night thoroughly though even if it was just soft play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK but personally I wouldn't let anybody treat me like a doormat  "
And, beside venting a bit of anger in a petty way, what would blocking her accomplish in the end? Even if I reported her profile, nothing would have happened. So, I just carried on with my life, after wishing she got an innumerable amount of STI from her meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was great! This is my third profile on the site and the two previous ones, produced women with who I became great friends as well as a lover.
Each was in a relationship and like me, needed the release. My first.. Jude was a lovely, sexy woman, it was an afternoon hotel meet and we had 3 hours or so of great and mutually rewarding sex.
Met often for a year, until circumstances changed. But we still exchange messages fairly regularly, though live at opposite ends of the country. Sigh.. |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
South of Ipswich |
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OK but personally I wouldn't let anybody treat me like a doormat
And, beside venting a bit of anger in a petty way, what would blocking her accomplish in the end? Even if I reported her profile, nothing would have happened. So, I just carried on with my life, after wishing she got an innumerable amount of STI from her meet "
Haha I'm glad you have some fire in your belly |
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