I know I don't have any photos on my account but is there really anything I can do to make my account more enticing? I don't have too much luck on here, I have only ever met 1 couple apart from that I get deleted messages and a lot of people that don't send me a response |
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If I coudld say anything its fill out your profile a bit more, yes some pictures would be good, but adding things like what you enjoy, what your open too and what males you interesting and why people should respond too you, I didnt have much luck untill I came on the forums and started looking and asking, your at a massive disadvantage being a single guy as there are si many so you need to stand out in a good way! But also being a young guy like me, age may be a factor holding back! But good luck! |
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over a year ago
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"So it's literally just the fact that I don't have any photos, or a profile pic hahah, what ever happened to being discreet, perhaps saying that I will send images when we get talking? "
But how do you expect anyone to speak with you without a pic,? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.
Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?
Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.
Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
South of Ipswich |
"So it's literally just the fact that I don't have any photos, or a profile pic hahah, what ever happened to being discreet, perhaps saying that I will send images when we get talking? "
I think most people won't even bother looking at a pictureless profile
You can still be discreet with a body pic fella  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"So it's literally just the fact that I don't have any photos, or a profile pic hahah, what ever happened to being discreet, perhaps saying that I will send images when we get talking? "
I won't even talk to someone if they have no pics, it's feck all to do with discretion, you could do a torso or bum shot |
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"Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.
Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?
Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.
Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.
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Thanks for your help, Im young and I should get off Fab and meet people but I have always wanted to try swinging lol |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.
Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?
Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.
Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.
Thanks for your help, Im young and I should get off Fab and meet people but I have always wanted to try swinging lol"
It is possible to go out and about in the real world and be here, just not if you pin everything on being here.
You've had a meet - that really is more than quite a lot of men with no pictures.
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
South of Ipswich |
"Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.
Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?
Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.
Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.
Thanks for your help, Im young and I should get off Fab and meet people but I have always wanted to try swinging lol"
You do come across as sounding very young and naive. That's not your fault by the way
But do take people's advice on the pic situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.
Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?
Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.
Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.
Thanks for your help, Im young and I should get off Fab and meet people but I have always wanted to try swinging lol"
Just be yourself OP. X |
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Generally men have to work to sell themselves really cleverly, due to the high levels of competition. Always ask yourself how well anyone could determine if they find you attractive to them, as well as know if you will be a good match sexually. The less they are able to do this, the faster they will move on to the guys who make it clear and simple.
Check out the forum posts on topics like how to improve profiles, using local socials to get to know people, the benefits of clubs likewise. |
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If you added some personality and humour to your text you would help yourself a lot. At the moment it looks like you don'thhave anything interesting to say and don't want to make any effort. Why would somebody want to meet you if that's the impression you give?
Your profile is your shop window. Use it. |
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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago
Great Harwood, Blackburn |
Add some pics to your profile if your after discretion use a body pic or something.
Your age puts you in a minority area but some people will jump on it so be patient.
Your age range is set to will meet up to 99 year old, pretty much says your willing to do anyone, try filter the top end down.
Add some more info a out yourself dosent have to be loads but sell yourself more as us single guys well outweigh the single female and couples on here.
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
local, but not too local |
"Why is discretion so important to you ? I find it offputting to see on a profile. "
For me it’s important because of my career and how I feel about being perceived by potentially judgey people. |
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"Why is discretion so important to you ? I find it offputting to see on a profile.
For me it’s important because of my career and how I feel about being perceived by potentially judgey people. "
But these "judgey people" have Fab profiles themselves |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Why is discretion so important to you ? I find it offputting to see on a profile. "
Agreed, I find it a boring thing that people just add on there because they've seen it on other profiles. I don't expect they've any more or less discretion than anyone who doesn't state it. |
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