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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all know about sub drop and how it can effect us emotionally, how about “meet drop” when you have a build up for days maybe weeks and then you meet.
You feel great and warm inside, then you meet and it’s not how you planned or maybe the opposite and you feel like “omg yes I wanna rip his clothes off “! But your left feeling kinda , mehhhhhhh.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't build up expectations for a meet anymore. I can only control my element of the meet. People have off days and it doesn't always work out.
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Yes I agree, just sometimes I have feelings of low after meeting, even if it went really well and was just a social. I think my personality and my confidence has a way with me having negative feelings even when there’s no reason to think negative |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always thought it was just me that felt this way but then there was a thread discussing it and many people felt the same. Similar to sub drop, like a drop in adrenaline/ hormones/ happy feelings. Like looking forward to a holiday then feeling crap when it's over.
Treat yourself kindly afterwards. I find it got easier when I expected it because I didn't 'beat myself up' about it anymore. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Haven’t had this but have experienced the low after a great meet. A friend in here said it was natural due to the buildup and excitement beforehand  "
I had this recently, we had weeks of build up and had an amazing night and then I was majorly fed up after, it's natural after being on a high to get a low. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Yeah it can happen - especially with a meet you have been looking forward to and as you say there has been a build up beforehand, everything goes great and you feel really comfortable in each other's company - there then might be a period of euphoria for a day or so after before the post-meet come down kicks in and perhaps the pre-meet regular messages etc die down a little as you each move on - it's only natural to feel a little wistfulness for the time spent together.
The key is how you deal with it and maintain the connection until the next time that things start to ramp up to meeting again and the excitement kicks in once more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always thought it was just me that felt this way but then there was a thread discussing it and many people felt the same. Similar to sub drop, like a drop in adrenaline/ hormones/ happy feelings. Like looking forward to a holiday then feeling crap when it's over.
Treat yourself kindly afterwards. I find it got easier when I expected it because I didn't 'beat myself up' about it anymore. "
Yes exactly what I’m trying to explain,, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel this way about clothes sometimes. Looks great in the store, you bring it home and then go....oh why the fuck did I buy that? "
Oh god I have this always. I never shop online |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haven’t had this but have experienced the low after a great meet. A friend in here said it was natural due to the buildup and excitement beforehand
I had this recently, we had weeks of build up and had an amazing night and then I was majorly fed up after, it's natural after being on a high to get a low. "
Poop isn’t it |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Haven’t had this but have experienced the low after a great meet. A friend in here said it was natural due to the buildup and excitement beforehand
I had this recently, we had weeks of build up and had an amazing night and then I was majorly fed up after, it's natural after being on a high to get a low.
Poop isn’t it "
I dunno cos I have some amazing memories, pics and videos  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haven’t had this but have experienced the low after a great meet. A friend in here said it was natural due to the buildup and excitement beforehand
I had this recently, we had weeks of build up and had an amazing night and then I was majorly fed up after, it's natural after being on a high to get a low.
Poop isn’t it
I dunno cos I have some amazing memories, pics and videos "
I don’t do pics or vids in every day life. I’m really self conscious. So won’t do them sexually. Just me hey |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Haven’t had this but have experienced the low after a great meet. A friend in here said it was natural due to the buildup and excitement beforehand
I had this recently, we had weeks of build up and had an amazing night and then I was majorly fed up after, it's natural after being on a high to get a low.
Poop isn’t it
I dunno cos I have some amazing memories, pics and videos
I don’t do pics or vids in every day life. I’m really self conscious. So won’t do them sexually. Just me hey"
I don't usually, this was a special case  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't say I've ever felt this. Mostly because I meet so rarely and am so picky.
Plus, I have the advantage of my OH coming home ... the rare meet thats gone wrong gets swiftly forgotten."
I don’t meet often I’d say once every 3 months maybe on average 6 times a year give or take. |
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
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"Can't say I've ever felt this. Mostly because I meet so rarely and am so picky.
Plus, I have the advantage of my OH coming home ... the rare meet thats gone wrong gets swiftly forgotten.
I don’t meet often I’d say once every 3 months maybe on average 6 times a year give or take. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sub drop I know like I know my own face. It's got less severe over the years. I actually feel really good after a meet if it went well, I'm usually glowing for a day or two and little details will come back to me and make me smile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sub drop I know like I know my own face. It's got less severe over the years. I actually feel really good after a meet if it went well, I'm usually glowing for a day or two and little details will come back to me and make me smile. "
Hmmm I know what your saying I really do. I mean like a drop of emotions when you question your own feelings kind of, like when your vulnerable after a kink meet, and feeling emotional |
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"I've not had a bad meet, sorry to hear you have OP 
I haven’t had a bad meet , kinda the opposite. But left me feeling a bit mehhhh"
Sorry I misread your OP
I'd say your feelings are natural and aren't anything to worry about. It's a bit shit feeling mehhhh, but it's better than feeling hurt/afraid etc |
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"Haven’t had this but have experienced the low after a great meet. A friend in here said it was natural due to the buildup and excitement beforehand
I had this recently, we had weeks of build up and had an amazing night and then I was majorly fed up after, it's natural after being on a high to get a low.
Poop isn’t it
I dunno cos I have some amazing memories, pics and videos
I don’t do pics or vids in every day life. I’m really self conscious. So won’t do them sexually. Just me hey"
dont know why your self concious your stunning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sub drop I know like I know my own face. It's got less severe over the years. I actually feel really good after a meet if it went well, I'm usually glowing for a day or two and little details will come back to me and make me smile.
Hmmm I know what your saying I really do. I mean like a drop of emotions when you question your own feelings kind of, like when your vulnerable after a kink meet, and feeling emotional "
I know exactly what you mean. I see it as a side effect of pursuing our dreams and living rather than just existing. Living in the moment can be scary and unsettling at tines but fuck it.. I'm doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Haven’t had this but have experienced the low after a great meet. A friend in here said it was natural due to the buildup and excitement beforehand
I had this recently, we had weeks of build up and had an amazing night and then I was majorly fed up after, it's natural after being on a high to get a low.
Poop isn’t it
I dunno cos I have some amazing memories, pics and videos
I don’t do pics or vids in every day life. I’m really self conscious. So won’t do them sexually. Just me hey dont know why your self concious your stunning "
All subjective, but thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sub drop I know like I know my own face. It's got less severe over the years. I actually feel really good after a meet if it went well, I'm usually glowing for a day or two and little details will come back to me and make me smile.
Hmmm I know what your saying I really do. I mean like a drop of emotions when you question your own feelings kind of, like when your vulnerable after a kink meet, and feeling emotional
I know exactly what you mean. I see it as a side effect of pursuing our dreams and living rather than just existing. Living in the moment can be scary and unsettling at tines but fuck it.. I'm doing it. "
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I have the lowest of expectations. Even being of the correct sex is a bonus The age will be a big fat lie. Likely they won't show up anyway so always have a plan B, like shopping or sticking lego up my nose and going to A&E |
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"I have the lowest of expectations. Even being of the correct sex is a bonus The age will be a big fat lie. Likely they won't show up anyway so always have a plan B, like shopping or sticking lego up my nose and going to A&E"
Do women clock their ages too? Ffs... I tell you what I am NEVER buying a second hand car from any fucker here |
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"I have the lowest of expectations. Even being of the correct sex is a bonus The age will be a big fat lie. Likely they won't show up anyway so always have a plan B, like shopping or sticking lego up my nose and going to A&E
Do women clock their ages too? Ffs... I tell you what I am NEVER buying a second hand car from any fucker here "
My head gasket has just gone on mine. I wanna cry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have the lowest of expectations. Even being of the correct sex is a bonus The age will be a big fat lie. Likely they won't show up anyway so always have a plan B, like shopping or sticking lego up my nose and going to A&E
Do women clock their ages too? Ffs... I tell you what I am NEVER buying a second hand car from any fucker here
I don’t think I’d be disappointed if I was lucky enough to meet you x
My head gasket has just gone on mine. I wanna cry "
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"I have the lowest of expectations. Even being of the correct sex is a bonus The age will be a big fat lie. Likely they won't show up anyway so always have a plan B, like shopping or sticking lego up my nose and going to A&E
Do women clock their ages too? Ffs... I tell you what I am NEVER buying a second hand car from any fucker here
My head gasket has just gone on mine. I wanna cry "
Didn't buy an old Rover did you? |
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