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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
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Sorry but real deal for me every time as much as I enjoy my own company |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whaaattttt
What the ffk wrong with your friend,,
Holly Body is great and all but , no replacement for the real thing,
Ever,  "
She's married. Loves sex. Doesn't have it very often anymore but her husband wants off regularly. |
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Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny. "
That is such an intrusive question for a job!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job! "
It is really isn't it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was once in a relationship where I preferred porn and a wank over having sex with the partner in question. Towards the end there was little sexual attraction left between us and the only way I remained sane was porn.
Glad that's over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Porn makes me upset that I'm not having sex too!
I prefer sex - but porn has its place as a singleton when I cant be arsed to meet someone new.
It's quite depressing actually  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whaaattttt
What the ffk wrong with your friend,,
Holly Body is great and all but , no replacement for the real thing,
Ever,
She's married. Loves sex. Doesn't have it very often anymore but her husband wants off regularly."
So she loves sex and he just wanks off ? Sorry confused OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn makes me upset that I'm not having sex too!
I prefer sex - but porn has its place as a singleton when I cant be arsed to meet someone new.
It's quite depressing actually "
I’m exactly the same. In fact when I do have sex it makes me want it more and realise what I’m missing. Depressing really. Been about 3 months since I last had sex ... sob sob |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job!
It is really isn't it lol"
Surely this is never relevant to any job role? I’ve been through many a security check for my line of work, but if anyone asked me about my sex life I’d tell them to do one!!  |
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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend "
No I prefer real sex, I need to kiss him.
But when he is not available audio porn and lube works a treat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job!
It is really isn't it lol
Surely this is never relevant to any job role? I’ve been through many a security check for my line of work, but if anyone asked me about my sex life I’d tell them to do one!! "
Some jobs have a morality clause and some checks are done to make sure you're not susceptible to blackm@il |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn makes me upset that I'm not having sex too!
I prefer sex - but porn has its place as a singleton when I cant be arsed to meet someone new.
It's quite depressing actually
I’m exactly the same. In fact when I do have sex it makes me want it more and realise what I’m missing. Depressing really. Been about 3 months since I last had sex ... sob sob "
Yes me too.
I haven't had sex in a long time and that's because I cant be arsed with the whole new person thing.
I just want someone familiar already! |
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"Whaaattttt
What the ffk wrong with your friend,,
Holly Body is great and all but , no replacement for the real thing,
Ever,
She's married. Loves sex. Doesn't have it very often anymore but her husband wants off regularly."
I guess having the same type of sex with the same ritual and same build up with the same person could get stale after a while.
So yeah I could see porn been more exciting then boring sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job!
It is really isn't it lol
Surely this is never relevant to any job role? I’ve been through many a security check for my line of work, but if anyone asked me about my sex life I’d tell them to do one!! "
I know some governmental roles to do with vulnerable persons and child protection ask certain questions , ie police social work prison. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job!
It is really isn't it lol
Surely this is never relevant to any job role? I’ve been through many a security check for my line of work, but if anyone asked me about my sex life I’d tell them to do one!!
Some jobs have a morality clause and some checks are done to make sure you're not susceptible to blackm@il "
And thought a DBS check was a pain in the arse.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job!
It is really isn't it lol
Surely this is never relevant to any job role? I’ve been through many a security check for my line of work, but if anyone asked me about my sex life I’d tell them to do one!!
I know some governmental roles to do with vulnerable persons and child protection ask certain questions , ie police social work prison. "
In worked in a cat A prison and was security checked to a ridiculous extent. I was never asked about my sex life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job!
It is really isn't it lol
Surely this is never relevant to any job role? I’ve been through many a security check for my line of work, but if anyone asked me about my sex life I’d tell them to do one!!
I know some governmental roles to do with vulnerable persons and child protection ask certain questions , ie police social work prison.
In worked in a cat A prison and was security checked to a ridiculous extent. I was never asked about my sex life. "
Maybe different roles, I know my brother in law was. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whaaattttt
What the ffk wrong with your friend,,
Holly Body is great and all but , no replacement for the real thing,
Ever,
She's married. Loves sex. Doesn't have it very often anymore but her husband wants off regularly.
So she loves sex and he just wanks off ? Sorry confused OP"
Yep that's it in a nutshell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend "
I prefer both
I enjoy feeling the female body and all its beauty
But only i know what i like and exactly how i like it
And i also enjoy watching
Happy days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each has their merits. Sex is more fun, porn is easier. And sometimes you just want a long leisurely wank. "
I love giving long wanks, holding him right to the edge, then stop and kiss deeply |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
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"Each has their merits. Sex is more fun, porn is easier. And sometimes you just want a long leisurely wank.
I love giving long wanks, holding him right to the edge, then stop and kiss deeply "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Each has their merits. Sex is more fun, porn is easier. And sometimes you just want a long leisurely wank.
Good to know.
Don’t you think?"
I do. Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on a day for me. My OH tends to wake up a few hours after me on our days off so sometimes if I'm really in the mood I just do it myself with the help of porn before he even wakes up and then I can't really be bothered to have a real thing anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends on a day for me. My OH tends to wake up a few hours after me on our days off so sometimes if I'm really in the mood I just do it myself with the help of porn before he even wakes up and then I can't really be bothered to have a real thing anymore. "
Aww I'm sure you could wake him early |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on a day for me. My OH tends to wake up a few hours after me on our days off so sometimes if I'm really in the mood I just do it myself with the help of porn before he even wakes up and then I can't really be bothered to have a real thing anymore.
Aww I'm sure you could wake him early "
He really likes his beauty sleep(he can sleep for 12 hours straight and then still be tired all day) and even when I woke him up with a blowjob a few times in the past, he needed to use the toilet almost immediately and that was a mood killer for me. So porn will do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn makes me upset that I'm not having sex too!
I prefer sex - but porn has its place as a singleton when I cant be arsed to meet someone new.
It's quite depressing actually "
I couldn't put it better myself. This is me!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on a day for me. My OH tends to wake up a few hours after me on our days off so sometimes if I'm really in the mood I just do it myself with the help of porn before he even wakes up and then I can't really be bothered to have a real thing anymore.
Aww I'm sure you could wake him early
He really likes his beauty sleep(he can sleep for 12 hours straight and then still be tired all day) and even when I woke him up with a blowjob a few times in the past, he needed to use the toilet almost immediately and that was a mood killer for me. So porn will do "
I’m very highly sexed my ex used to call me a pest! I wanted it constantly. He made me feel ashamed for wanting sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends on a day for me. My OH tends to wake up a few hours after me on our days off so sometimes if I'm really in the mood I just do it myself with the help of porn before he even wakes up and then I can't really be bothered to have a real thing anymore.
Aww I'm sure you could wake him early
He really likes his beauty sleep(he can sleep for 12 hours straight and then still be tired all day) and even when I woke him up with a blowjob a few times in the past, he needed to use the toilet almost immediately and that was a mood killer for me. So porn will do "
You sound like a wonderful person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend "
Yes. I can't be arsed with the pressure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend
Porn doesn’t want a cuddle when you’ve finished "
That is very true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" I think if you're not careful, expectations of sex will never be met or enjoyed, based on too much porn.
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This is so true. Some of the things in porn actually makes me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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He really likes his beauty sleep(he can sleep for 12 hours straight and then still be tired all day) and even when I woke him up with a blowjob a few times in the past, he needed to use the toilet almost immediately and that was a mood killer for me. So porn will do
I’m very highly sexed my ex used to call me a pest! I wanted it constantly. He made me feel ashamed for wanting sex. "
It seems like most of the guys want a nympho, until they actually have one at home. Then they are not so keen on it anymore   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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He really likes his beauty sleep(he can sleep for 12 hours straight and then still be tired all day) and even when I woke him up with a blowjob a few times in the past, he needed to use the toilet almost immediately and that was a mood killer for me. So porn will do
I’m very highly sexed my ex used to call me a pest! I wanted it constantly. He made me feel ashamed for wanting sex.
It seems like most of the guys want a nympho, until they actually have one at home. Then they are not so keen on it anymore "
This exactly |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny. "
How would paying for sex be anything to do with security? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
How would paying for sex be anything to do with security?"
It's a strange question to ask alright |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
How would paying for sex be anything to do with security?
It's a strange question to ask alright "
Some roles are susceptible to black mail and sex money are high up there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say sex every time. I think if you're choosing porn over sex in a relationship then that's probably an indication you need a good chat! "
Ayeeee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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He really likes his beauty sleep(he can sleep for 12 hours straight and then still be tired all day) and even when I woke him up with a blowjob a few times in the past, he needed to use the toilet almost immediately and that was a mood killer for me. So porn will do
I’m very highly sexed my ex used to call me a pest! I wanted it constantly. He made me feel ashamed for wanting sex.
It seems like most of the guys want a nympho, until they actually have one at home. Then they are not so keen on it anymore "
Dated one for a while and we hardly got anything done. Working from home meant both of us totally naked and the house smelling of sex. We'd go on vacation and hardly leave the hotel. |
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job!
It is really isn't it lol
Surely this is never relevant to any job role? I’ve been through many a security check for my line of work, but if anyone asked me about my sex life I’d tell them to do one!! "
It's standard procedure where you will be in a position you could either leak sensitive info at pillowtalk, or be vulnerable to suggestive coercion from historic pics, video, cctv etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
That is such an intrusive question for a job!
It is really isn't it lol
Surely this is never relevant to any job role? I’ve been through many a security check for my line of work, but if anyone asked me about my sex life I’d tell them to do one!!
It's standard procedure where you will be in a position you could either leak sensitive info at pillowtalk, or be vulnerable to suggestive coercion from historic pics, video, cctv etc."
Yes and vulnerable to black mail |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Porn is cheaper, but apart from that I have always preferred the real thing.
I used to work in government circles and had to go through security questioning. One of the questions was "Have yo ever paid for sex?" My answer was "Yes, from the moment I got married." They didn't find that very funny.
How would paying for sex be anything to do with security?
It's a strange question to ask alright
Some roles are susceptible to black mail and sex money are high up there. "
Thats how the government works and why Maggie Thatcher was able to stay in power for so long. She knew all the secrets and everything about everyone so she black mailed them and used it against them to get her own way.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe I'm greedy because I want to shag in the doggy position whilst I'm watching pornhub on my phone
No it’s got to be sex nothing can substitute it x"
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"I’ll always prefer the real thing unless it’s the end of a really long day and you just want to cum quick and go to sleep. Lol"
Cum quick god I'd love to be able to do that lol takes me hours even over porn lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Theres nothing like the re thing but I get so horny all the time I always use porn to cum alot and sometimes use toys to mix it up abit "
Given the chance would you choose porn or a person? |
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"Theres nothing like the re thing but I get so horny all the time I always use porn to cum alot and sometimes use toys to mix it up abit
Given the chance would you choose porn or a person?"
Obviously given the chance I'd much prefer a real woman I can cuddle and kiss all night and have real sex but it's been 4 months since I've had sex so until it happens again porn helps keep my high sex drive at bay lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say sex every time. I think if you're choosing porn over sex in a relationship then that's probably an indication you need a good chat!
Oh I couldn't agree more with this statement "
So true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend
Having sex with a partner is always better "
If you have one. |
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend
Having sex with a partner is always better
If you have one."
Well if you don't have a partner then I guess madam palm and her 5 sisters will be paying a visit until a partner is found. Watching people having sex is great but your not feeling, smelling and tasting what your watching, the real thing is always best. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend
Having sex with a partner is always better
If you have one.
Well if you don't have a partner then I guess madam palm and her 5 sisters will be paying a visit until a partner is found. Watching people having sex is great but your not feeling, smelling and tasting what your watching, the real thing is always best."
So true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend
Nope prefer to have my man whilst watching together"
Hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend "
Porn doesn't do anything for me. Sex without connection or passion doesn't do anything for me either |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend
Porn doesn't do anything for me. Sex without connection or passion doesn't do anything for me either "
A good way to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend
Porn doesn't do anything for me. Sex without connection or passion doesn't do anything for me either
A good way to be."
I thought you would call me wierd
Thanks anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone prefer getting themselves off to porn rather than having actual sex with a partner. If so why?
Asking for a friend
Porn doesn't do anything for me. Sex without connection or passion doesn't do anything for me either
A good way to be.
I thought you would call me wierd
Thanks anyway "
Not at all |
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