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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning all 
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning all
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday "
Fuck off fitty....!  
(I miss you my love, I dont like having to actually work....  ) Xx |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I think it's because the thought of gyms horrifies lots of people who don't go. Whereas horse riding is just something they don't do.
I always think it comes across as a shaming type phrase as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's because the thought of gyms horrifies lots of people who don't go. Whereas horse riding is just something they don't do.
I always think it comes across as a shaming type phrase as well."
Yeah it does doesn’t it. I’d never dream of referring to a group of people who choose not to use a gym as “non gym freaks”.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Morning all
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday
Fuck off fitty....!
(I miss you my love, I dont like having to actually work.... ) Xx"
Work?! Pfft. Get your arse to the gym instead. Be a freak like me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love me or hate me your still obsessed with me (touches arm with finger (tsssssssss) hot ! 
But yeah I find people that have never been in the gym use the term gym freak, I’m not sure if they mean it in a bad way or good way but because I love the gym and if they call gym freak.. well I must just look big enough  |
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I go to the gym regularly....no one calls me a gym freak lol
I hate any type of body shaming and this is no different to that. Usually done by those who are insecure or intimidated by those they choose to run down. Or those white knights on their sturdy stead ready to leap to the defense if those they think will fuck them in thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And what about gym bunny?
Where has that phrase come from?
Never seen a rabbit bench pressing its own body weight"
It came from cardio bunny/gym rat in the sense that rabbit/bunny can run fast for extended periods of time. And they is cute |
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I've been called it a lot, usually by people who have never been anywhere near a gym.
But then the word 'freak' has been used to describe me in different ways all my life
It amuses me... If only they knew |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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Yeah it does doesn’t it. I’d never dream of referring to a group of people who choose not to use a gym as “non gym freaks”. "
Me either I'd never shame anyone for...Well anything really.
I think people tend to feel inferior when they don't do something (I guess we all have this but about different things) I have a colleague who hates the fact that I go to the gym! She even told me I look like I have an eating disorder! (Gee thanks) yet she's the one who is unhappy with her body shape. And guess which person is the one who is most supportive of her diet and exercise plan?....that would be me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Love me or hate me your still obsessed with me (touches arm with finger (tsssssssss) hot !
But yeah I find people that have never been in the gym use the term gym freak, I’m not sure if they mean it in a bad way or good way but because I love the gym and if they call gym freak.. well I must just look big enough "
I think the comment I read was a bit of a put down - it was essentially the view that “gym freaks” have no social or sex life. Oh and also that we “pretend” to enjoy it. Also we don’t drink pints. Or eat pies. 
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I find it as a way of people trying to shame other people for trying to better themselves and give themselves a better appearance by going to the gym so you’re classed as a gym freak you need to be a normal person go home watch TV eat go to bed and then you’re a Norm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love me or hate me your still obsessed with me (touches arm with finger (tsssssssss) hot !
But yeah I find people that have never been in the gym use the term gym freak, I’m not sure if they mean it in a bad way or good way but because I love the gym and if they call gym freak.. well I must just look big enough
I think the comment I read was a bit of a put down - it was essentially the view that “gym freaks” have no social or sex life. Oh and also that we “pretend” to enjoy it. Also we don’t drink pints. Or eat pies.
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Yeah I think it was a put down too but it really doesn’t bother me I do what I want, for
Example I go to the gym everyday but then also go out some weekends and get d*unk and dance then eat a pizza on way home then next day do nothing but eat. If they feel the needs to single my hobbies out and call me a gym freak well then they won’t be getting any my pizzaaa |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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Yeah I think it was a put down too but it really doesn’t bother me I do what I want, for
Example I go to the gym everyday but then also go out some weekends and get d*unk and dance then eat a pizza on way home then next day do nothing but eat. If they feel the needs to single my hobbies out and call me a gym freak well then they won’t be getting any my pizzaaa "
This is off topic but why does the word d*unk get a * in it?
It's hardly offensive. Is it an algorithm? |
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Yeah I think it was a put down too but it really doesn’t bother me I do what I want, for
Example I go to the gym everyday but then also go out some weekends and get d*unk and dance then eat a pizza on way home then next day do nothing but eat. If they feel the needs to single my hobbies out and call me a gym freak well then they won’t be getting any my pizzaaa
This is off topic but why does the word d*unk get a * in it?
It's hardly offensive. Is it an algorithm?"
Yep. Think they have had to bring it in. Can't rem_mber why though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Almost time for me to go to the gym and get my freak on
Well....sounds good in my head anyway lol
Yeah I think it does come from people who dont go near a gym but are envious of others who do, so they label us to make themselves feel better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" I find it as a way of people trying to shame other people for trying to better themselves and give themselves a better appearance by going to the gym so you’re classed as a gym freak you need to be a normal person go home watch TV eat go to bed and then you’re a Norm "
I go home and watch TV and eat *after* the gym. Pizza. Usually |
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Yes it was definitely being used as a put down, but then it happens all the time on the forums and has done for years. I would never in a million years body shame somebody else, it’s disgusting behaviour however,I read comments about not wanting to fuck a bag of bones, skeletons, people who use the gym having no personality regularly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've seen the term freak applied to a wide range of activities. I think it's more an observation about dedication than an insult...I wouldn't sweat it...unless you're sweaty at the gym... |
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"I've seen the term freak applied to a wide range of activities. I think it's more an observation about dedication than an insult...I wouldn't sweat it...unless you're sweaty at the gym..."
I haven’t sweated it. Not one tiny bit. Hence my comment about it being a curious and light hearted musing. I have a natural inclination to understanding human behaviour ... especially rude or odd behaviour. I can’t switch it off ... it’s a gift |
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"Yes it was definitely being used as a put down, but then it happens all the time on the forums and has done for years. I would never in a million years body shame somebody else, it’s disgusting behaviour however,I read comments about not wanting to fuck a bag of bones, skeletons, people who use the gym having no personality regularly.
the “no personality” one is hilarious. Note to self - I *must* stop using that machine in the gym, you know the one .... it zaps your personality and very soul from your body as you use it? You can see it being sucked out of you as you flex your muscles. Maybe, just maybe... if I keep away from that machine, my personality will be restored? Worth a try innit "
Definitely worth a shot! In fact I have a day off work today but instead of the gym I am actually going to go to the local and get some pints in me and some pie and see if it works, purely for scientific research you understand |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it was definitely being used as a put down, but then it happens all the time on the forums and has done for years. I would never in a million years body shame somebody else, it’s disgusting behaviour however,I read comments about not wanting to fuck a bag of bones, skeletons, people who use the gym having no personality regularly.
the “no personality” one is hilarious. Note to self - I *must* stop using that machine in the gym, you know the one .... it zaps your personality and very soul from your body as you use it? You can see it being sucked out of you as you flex your muscles. Maybe, just maybe... if I keep away from that machine, my personality will be restored? Worth a try innit
Definitely worth a shot! In fact I have a day off work today but instead of the gym I am actually going to go to the local and get some pints in me and some pie and see if it works, purely for scientific research you understand "
I’m off work today too ! Pies all round yay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen the term freak applied to a wide range of activities. I think it's more an observation about dedication than an insult...I wouldn't sweat it...unless you're sweaty at the gym...
I haven’t sweated it. Not one tiny bit. Hence my comment about it being a curious and light hearted musing. I have a natural inclination to understanding human behaviour ... especially rude or odd behaviour. I can’t switch it off ... it’s a gift "
I know what you mean, the human condition is endlessly fascinating and often disturbing. Pull up a chair and come people watch with me. It's fun. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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While it is still an insult and shaming, it was originally about those that workout constantly like an addiction. As most it just got overused to then refer to all gym users. Just own it I say like us geeks and nerds do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No a gym "freak" is an actual thing. It's when someone doesn't just go to the gym. It's when they are obsessed and it takes over their whole life
I go to the gym 5 times a week. When I'm done I'm done. I go cos it makes me look and feel good
My mate goes twice a day. Eats sleeps and breaths it. It takes over his life and doesn't go to nights out so he can have a morning "sesh"
There is a big difference |
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"Is it similar to IT geek?
Surely you can be accomplished in IT and not be a Geek? Or am I pushing it there? "
No it’s the same thing, Like people who like space or sci fi movies, are nerds people who like reading are book worms etc |
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"Definitely worth a shot! In fact I have a day off work today but instead of the gym I am actually going to go to the local and get some pints in me and some pie and see if it works, purely for scientific research you understand
I’m off work today too ! Pies all round yay "
Steak and Ale with loads of gravy for me! Winning at life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No a gym "freak" is an actual thing. It's when someone doesn't just go to the gym. It's when they are obsessed and it takes over their whole life
I go to the gym 5 times a week. When I'm done I'm done. I go cos it makes me look and feel good
My mate goes twice a day. Eats sleeps and breaths it. It takes over his life and doesn't go to nights out so he can have a morning "sesh"
There is a big difference "
That's what I mean though. Anyone who takes their chosen activity to what others consider an extreme might be termed a freak, not just gym users.. |
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I'm a science geek and most definitely a bookworm. We all use terms to describe people's hobbies.
Think it is used derogatory sometimes, and I'm probably guilty of it. As I share an office with a guy who constantly tells me what he's done in the gym that morning and I zero interest in it.
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"Going to the gym doesn't count until you have told someone you have been . "
Haha you're so right....gym wankers haha there's loads of free lockers but they still walk around with a massive bag.....what have you guys got in the bag....wankers ???????? |
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"Morning all
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday "
As a PT I don’t have an answer I’m not sure where it came from why it’s not used in other activities great pictures by the way I’ve taken a spin and abs class this morning at 7 it was freezing this morning but soon got all the ladies got and sweaty |
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"Going to the gym doesn't count until you have told someone you have been . "
Then posted on social media along with a "gym selfie" telling everyone how you " smashed it at the gym" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm a science geek and most definitely a bookworm. We all use terms to describe people's hobbies.
Think it is used derogatory sometimes, and I'm probably guilty of it. As I share an office with a guy who constantly tells me what he's done in the gym that morning and I zero interest in it.
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Surely that makes him a “gym bore” instead? I don’t tell others about it, god I’d die of boredom listening to someone talk about their own hobby day in day out. I wouldn’t inflict that on others. |
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"Going to the gym doesn't count until you have told someone you have been .
Then posted on social media along with a "gym selfie" telling everyone how you " smashed it at the gym" "
Literally said that 5 mins ago  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Morning all
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday
As a PT I don’t have an answer I’m not sure where it came from why it’s not used in other activities great pictures by the way I’ve taken a spin and abs class this morning at 7 it was freezing this morning but soon got all the ladies got and sweaty "
well done you! I did Bodypump and abs class last night I hate spinning I’ve got to admit.
Did you keep away from the personality zapping machines? |
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"Going to the gym doesn't count until you have told someone you have been .
Then posted on social media along with a "gym selfie" telling everyone how you " smashed it at the gym"
Literally said that 5 mins ago "
Gotta put it on Insta, along with a flexing muscles selfie. Or it didn’t happen. That’s when you can progress from Gym Freak to Super Gym Freak |
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"Going to the gym doesn't count until you have told someone you have been .
Then posted on social media along with a "gym selfie" telling everyone how you " smashed it at the gym"
Literally said that 5 mins ago "
Oops, sorry ignore my comment everyone.it's old news.....apparently |
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"Going to the gym doesn't count until you have told someone you have been .
Then posted on social media along with a "gym selfie" telling everyone how you " smashed it at the gym"
Literally said that 5 mins ago
Gotta put it on Insta, along with a flexing muscles selfie. Or it didn’t happen. That’s when you can progress from Gym Freak to Super Gym Freak "
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"Going to the gym doesn't count until you have told someone you have been .
Then posted on social media along with a "gym selfie" telling everyone how you " smashed it at the gym"
Literally said that 5 mins ago
Oops, sorry ignore my comment everyone.it's old news.....apparently "
Well it’s factual not apparently |
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"I'm a science geek and most definitely a bookworm. We all use terms to describe people's hobbies.
Think it is used derogatory sometimes, and I'm probably guilty of it. As I share an office with a guy who constantly tells me what he's done in the gym that morning and I zero interest in it.
Surely that makes him a “gym bore” instead? I don’t tell others about it, god I’d die of boredom listening to someone talk about their own hobby day in day out. I wouldn’t inflict that on others. "
Can you come this idiot in my office this please? And God yes he's the most boring person ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Going to the gym doesn't count until you have told someone you have been .
Then posted on social media along with a "gym selfie" telling everyone how you " smashed it at the gym"
Literally said that 5 mins ago
Oops, sorry ignore my comment everyone.it's old news.....apparently
Well it’s factual not apparently "
Again I apologise then. Ignore my last comment everyone....the facts speak for themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think some use the term in a derogatory context to pacify their own body image issues you will find most people who regularly use the gym and often labelled it let it brush off them. I think if you started labelling some people food freaks they would be much more likley to take offence. |
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I guess it's a rather derogatory remark?
More aimed at those who spend time going to the gym for appearance as opposed to performance?
I dont know? I hate gyms and just aim to do sport and circuits in my own time. They just feel a bit manufactured for me?
But if it makes you happy, crack on, but you will bore me shirtless if you have to carry a shake with you and tell me about your burning quads after a leg session. |
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" I guess it's a rather derogatory remark?
More aimed at those who spend time going to the gym for appearance as opposed to performance?
I dont know? I hate gyms and just aim to do sport and circuits in my own time. They just feel a bit manufactured for me?
But if it makes you happy, crack on, but you will bore me shirtless if you have to carry a shake with you and tell me about your burning quads after a leg session."
Oh yes, I agree about the boring other with your own interests and hobbies aspect. I mean, if someone I worked with went to a knitting club and told me about every day, I’d lose the will to live because I have no interest in it. I wouldn’t call them a “knitting freak” though. So I agree with others that the derogatory aspect likely comes from insecurity / people feeling intimidated about things they don’t understand or do themselves. Shame for those people, really. |
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" I guess it's a rather derogatory remark?
More aimed at those who spend time going to the gym for appearance as opposed to performance?
I dont know? I hate gyms and just aim to do sport and circuits in my own time. They just feel a bit manufactured for me?
But if it makes you happy, crack on, but you will bore me shirtless if you have to carry a shake with you and tell me about your burning quads after a leg session.
Oh yes, I agree about the boring other with your own interests and hobbies aspect. I mean, if someone I worked with went to a knitting club and told me about every day, I’d lose the will to live because I have no interest in it. I wouldn’t call them a “knitting freak” though. So I agree with others that the derogatory aspect likely comes from insecurity / people feeling intimidated about things they don’t understand or do themselves. Shame for those people, really. "
I agree there are insecurities from non sporty types.
Mention an endurance event, like Ironman for instance and many will ask why would you put yourself through it? It's a challenge of course.
But there are many derogatory terms for other activities...being called a geek for enjoying trains or scifi?
I think a lot dont understand the enjoyment you can get by being active, and as a consequence assume you're going for aesthetic reasons alone. |
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"Morning all
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday "
I have been called a swim freak. I used to do a lot of 5k and 10k swims - I'm not competitive enough to want to race but I like the challenge of an endurance event.
I'm lardy as, so it definitely wasn't body shape insecurities, I think it was just a general shaming of anything "other". If you spend Friday night on the sesh and all day Saturday recovering from a hangover it must be really hard to understand someone who wants to spend hours pushing themselves to the point of total exhaustion.
Didn't put me off, let them judge if they want to. Live and let live. |
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" I guess it's a rather derogatory remark?
More aimed at those who spend time going to the gym for appearance as opposed to performance?
I dont know? I hate gyms and just aim to do sport and circuits in my own time. They just feel a bit manufactured for me?
But if it makes you happy, crack on, but you will bore me shirtless if you have to carry a shake with you and tell me about your burning quads after a leg session.
Oh yes, I agree about the boring other with your own interests and hobbies aspect. I mean, if someone I worked with went to a knitting club and told me about every day, I’d lose the will to live because I have no interest in it. I wouldn’t call them a “knitting freak” though. So I agree with others that the derogatory aspect likely comes from insecurity / people feeling intimidated about things they don’t understand or do themselves. Shame for those people, really.
I agree there are insecurities from non sporty types.
Mention an endurance event, like Ironman for instance and many will ask why would you put yourself through it? It's a challenge of course.
But there are many derogatory terms for other activities...being called a geek for enjoying trains or scifi?
I think a lot dont understand the enjoyment you can get by being active, and as a consequence assume you're going for aesthetic reasons alone."
Yes I completely agree that there is a huge misconception around being physically active. Many assume we Gym / running types are just “enduring” or “tolerating” it to look good. I get a massive endorphin rush from a run, and I not only get that from my gym sessions but also the social aspect when I do classes etc. The aesthetic benefits are secondary for me. |
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" I guess it's a rather derogatory remark?
More aimed at those who spend time going to the gym for appearance as opposed to performance?
I dont know? I hate gyms and just aim to do sport and circuits in my own time. They just feel a bit manufactured for me?
But if it makes you happy, crack on, but you will bore me shirtless if you have to carry a shake with you and tell me about your burning quads after a leg session."
I don't see the shame in going to the gym just for appearance. If i was an 18 stone salad dodger, and wanted to look like i might live to see retirement, I'd hope i had the self discipline to try and "look good". |
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I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday
I have been called a swim freak. I used to do a lot of 5k and 10k swims - I'm not competitive enough to want to race but I like the challenge of an endurance event.
I'm lardy as, so it definitely wasn't body shape insecurities, I think it was just a general shaming of anything "other". If you spend Friday night on the sesh and all day Saturday recovering from a hangover it must be really hard to understand someone who wants to spend hours pushing themselves to the point of total exhaustion.
Didn't put me off, let them judge if they want to. Live and let live."
This is also a good point - pushing yourself and seeing what your body can actually do is in itself satisfying isn’t it. |
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" I guess it's a rather derogatory remark?
More aimed at those who spend time going to the gym for appearance as opposed to performance?
I dont know? I hate gyms and just aim to do sport and circuits in my own time. They just feel a bit manufactured for me?
But if it makes you happy, crack on, but you will bore me shirtless if you have to carry a shake with you and tell me about your burning quads after a leg session.
I don't see the shame in going to the gym just for appearance. If i was an 18 stone salad dodger, and wanted to look like i might live to see retirement, I'd hope i had the self discipline to try and "look good"."
No I don’t see the shame in this either. Like I said for me the “how I look” benefits are secondary to the various other social and psychological benefits I get from being physically active. But if that was someone’s primarily motivating factor - so what? And by this logic should people also be shamed for going to the hairdressers / nail salon etc to look better? |
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"I posted "gym freaks"the other day was that the post you saw op"
No I wasn’t your post I was referring to actually. But I’d be interested in the context you used it in and what your views are? |
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"Morning all
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday
I have been called a swim freak. I used to do a lot of 5k and 10k swims - I'm not competitive enough to want to race but I like the challenge of an endurance event.
I'm lardy as, so it definitely wasn't body shape insecurities, I think it was just a general shaming of anything "other". If you spend Friday night on the sesh and all day Saturday recovering from a hangover it must be really hard to understand someone who wants to spend hours pushing themselves to the point of total exhaustion.
Didn't put me off, let them judge if they want to. Live and let live.
This is also a good point - pushing yourself and seeing what your body can actually do is in itself satisfying isn’t it. "
I love it. Being the size I am there's no way I'm going to be running any time soon, but swimming comes easily - physics dictates I'm extremely buoyant!
I find swimming meditative, and although I do fewer endurance events because I have less time available I still swim a mile three or four mornings a week and fit events in every few months. It's good for my mental health as much as it is physical I find. |
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"Morning all
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday
I have been called a swim freak. I used to do a lot of 5k and 10k swims - I'm not competitive enough to want to race but I like the challenge of an endurance event.
I'm lardy as, so it definitely wasn't body shape insecurities, I think it was just a general shaming of anything "other". If you spend Friday night on the sesh and all day Saturday recovering from a hangover it must be really hard to understand someone who wants to spend hours pushing themselves to the point of total exhaustion.
Didn't put me off, let them judge if they want to. Live and let live.
This is also a good point - pushing yourself and seeing what your body can actually do is in itself satisfying isn’t it.
I love it. Being the size I am there's no way I'm going to be running any time soon, but swimming comes easily - physics dictates I'm extremely buoyant!
I find swimming meditative, and although I do fewer endurance events because I have less time available I still swim a mile three or four mornings a week and fit events in every few months. It's good for my mental health as much as it is physical I find. "
Wow that’s impressive
And yes, I notice a significant dip in my own mood and mental health when I haven’t ran or been active for a good few days. The link for me is so strong hence why I place such importance on it |
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"I posted "gym freaks"the other day was that the post you saw op
No I wasn’t your post I was referring to actually. But I’d be interested in the context you used it in and what your views are? "
the thread was called blocking and asking why block and I said if a profile states that I am not their cup of tea I'll block for example "no gym freaks" on a profile. I'd block that to save confusion after. Also of inwas called a gym freak I'd take it as a compliment as they can obviously see I've put the work in |
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over a year ago
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Interesting thread OP.
I think as others have said; there's a very dismissive aspect to how many people view others who don't share their pass times or show a level of dedication to something that they can't grasp. Gym freak, geek, nerd, etc, etc.
Personally I have quite a passionate and mildly addictive personality, if I like or gain pleasure from something then I will be passionate about it and jump into it.
How others view that or if they choose to snub their noses, that's up to them. I'll be happily reading comics, wearing my marathon medal whilst at the gym!
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I think sometimes it's defensive. In wider society larger people do still pay, socially and otherwise, for being larger. People assuming negative things about them and in some cases it may even rise to size discrimination. In the gym may be, so it goes, the popular ones doing what they're supposed to do and being socially rewarded for it.
It's not healthy, but I can understand a bit of "well you're crap too" to make people feel better.
I used to be intimidated by the gym and I do kind of see both sides. |
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"Morning all
I just read on another thread someone referring to people who use gyms as “gym freaks”. This got me pondering the question... where on earth does this phrase come from? I’ve never heard it in reference to any other hobby or sport. E.g. “horse riding freak”; “swimming freak”; “knitting freak”.... etc. In fact, even “running freak” isn’t something I’ve heard. But “gym freak” seems a popular one.
Is this just a phrase people who are physically unfit use to shame or dismiss those of us who enjoy keeping our bodies in shape using gym equipment? And why is this a statement limited to those who attend the gym, as opposed to other forms of physical activity?
Not a serious thread - just a lighthearted pondering.
Happy Wednesday
I have been called a swim freak. I used to do a lot of 5k and 10k swims - I'm not competitive enough to want to race but I like the challenge of an endurance event.
I'm lardy as, so it definitely wasn't body shape insecurities, I think it was just a general shaming of anything "other". If you spend Friday night on the sesh and all day Saturday recovering from a hangover it must be really hard to understand someone who wants to spend hours pushing themselves to the point of total exhaustion.
Didn't put me off, let them judge if they want to. Live and let live.
This is also a good point - pushing yourself and seeing what your body can actually do is in itself satisfying isn’t it. "
Nah, I endure it simply to be more healthy. I do not enjoy the gym.... |
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"I think sometimes it's defensive. In wider society larger people do still pay, socially and otherwise, for being larger. People assuming negative things about them and in some cases it may even rise to size discrimination. In the gym may be, so it goes, the popular ones doing what they're supposed to do and being socially rewarded for it.
It's not healthy, but I can understand a bit of "well you're crap too" to make people feel better.
I used to be intimidated by the gym and I do kind of see both sides. "
I can understand what you’re saying about the negative associations of being a larger person. But what I can’t even begin to understand and never will to be honest is pulling others down to make yourself (collective you, not personally you) feel better. An example might be, I lost my mum as a child and was raised by my dad in what were basically poverty strikes circumstances. I could have taken on a victim mentality about this and decided as an adult to pull everyone down who had a more conventional and less traumatic childhood than myself. I didn’t and I don’t. I looked to those people and what they achieved and how they approached life and I was inspired - and I did things to improve my life. I’m now a very successful professional with good mental health but it’s taken a *lot* of personal development, courage, and dedication to get here. I’m now reaping the rewards of my own hard work and flood sweat and tears. Never once, throughout the course of my journey, did I feel the need to pull down anyone else who had more or seemed to have it easier (on the surface at least). This is why I cannot abide this mentality of “I feel crap so I’ll pull you down”. |
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I think Lucie that when you have been at the bottom, not same circumstances as you but my childhood was traumatic as hell. You don't waste your energy on pulling others down. You concentrate on working damn hard so you never return to that situation and that's your main focus. Pulling others down does not elevate you |
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"I think Lucie that when you have been at the bottom, not same circumstances as you but my childhood was traumatic as hell. You don't waste your energy on pulling others down. You concentrate on working damn hard so you never return to that situation and that's your main focus. Pulling others down does not elevate you "
Very true. Not only does it not elevate me, it also doesn’t fit with my personality. I actually enjoy seeing others succeed and do well in life. I feed off it, it inspires me. Maybe that’s the difference eh |
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"I think Lucie that when you have been at the bottom, not same circumstances as you but my childhood was traumatic as hell. You don't waste your energy on pulling others down. You concentrate on working damn hard so you never return to that situation and that's your main focus. Pulling others down does not elevate you
Very true. Not only does it not elevate me, it also doesn’t fit with my personality. I actually enjoy seeing others succeed and do well in life. I feed off it, it inspires me. Maybe that’s the difference eh "
Totally agree with you, I personally believe success breeds success. I like to surround myself with positive people, who are my cheerleaders in my life in a way, as I hope I am in theirs |
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"I think Lucie that when you have been at the bottom, not same circumstances as you but my childhood was traumatic as hell. You don't waste your energy on pulling others down. You concentrate on working damn hard so you never return to that situation and that's your main focus. Pulling others down does not elevate you
Very true. Not only does it not elevate me, it also doesn’t fit with my personality. I actually enjoy seeing others succeed and do well in life. I feed off it, it inspires me. Maybe that’s the difference eh
Totally agree with you, I personally believe success breeds success. I like to surround myself with positive people, who are my cheerleaders in my life in a way, as I hope I am in theirs "
Absolutely. That will be why I was instantly drawn to you on the forums I imagine. You’re one of “my” type of positive people |
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"I think Lucie that when you have been at the bottom, not same circumstances as you but my childhood was traumatic as hell. You don't waste your energy on pulling others down. You concentrate on working damn hard so you never return to that situation and that's your main focus. Pulling others down does not elevate you
Very true. Not only does it not elevate me, it also doesn’t fit with my personality. I actually enjoy seeing others succeed and do well in life. I feed off it, it inspires me. Maybe that’s the difference eh
Totally agree with you, I personally believe success breeds success. I like to surround myself with positive people, who are my cheerleaders in my life in a way, as I hope I am in theirs
Absolutely. That will be why I was instantly drawn to you on the forums I imagine. You’re one of “my” type of positive people "
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"I think Lucie that when you have been at the bottom, not same circumstances as you but my childhood was traumatic as hell. You don't waste your energy on pulling others down. You concentrate on working damn hard so you never return to that situation and that's your main focus. Pulling others down does not elevate you
Very true. Not only does it not elevate me, it also doesn’t fit with my personality. I actually enjoy seeing others succeed and do well in life. I feed off it, it inspires me. Maybe that’s the difference eh
Totally agree with you, I personally believe success breeds success. I like to surround myself with positive people, who are my cheerleaders in my life in a way, as I hope I am in theirs
Absolutely. That will be why I was instantly drawn to you on the forums I imagine. You’re one of “my” type of positive people
Aw thanks "
I’m an excellent judge of character, even via an online forum |
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By *mberWoman
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Yeah I think it was a put down too but it really doesn’t bother me I do what I want, for
Example I go to the gym everyday but then also go out some weekends and get d*unk and dance then eat a pizza on way home then next day do nothing but eat. If they feel the needs to single my hobbies out and call me a gym freak well then they won’t be getting any my pizzaaa
This is off topic but why does the word d*unk get a * in it?
It's hardly offensive. Is it an algorithm?
Yep. Think they have had to bring it in. Can't rem_mber why though "
Oh...I did wonder. Maybe it's to do with being drink and giving consent ???? although a missing r doesn't make a difference.
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