Currently I’ve have no previous experience with meeting or playing with a couple so my question is this .... does my lack of experience put couples off or intrigue them ? Or does it not even come into it ? Is it just about me being me and connecting with the right ones ? Or am I even over thinking this ?  |
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If you were to message us your lack of pics on your profile would instantly make me ignore your message.
I always look at profiles before opening messages.
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"If you were to message us your lack of pics on your profile would instantly make me ignore your message.
I always look at profiles before opening messages.
Sin."
I totally understand your point 
But can I ask when you say my lack of pics would instantly make you ignore my message because you look at profiles before opening messages do you mean you look at pictures or the actually profile text ? |
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Point taken, my thoughts are simple regarding my pictures, when I first joined which was only a week ago today I had my pictures public but found absolutely nobody took a look at the text where now I’m finding that I get contact from people who actually take the time to read it and get a little understanding about me and I usually attach pictures within the first few messages anyway, admittedly I’m probably restricting myself from some lovely people so might have to rethink my approach. |
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"I disagree cause I am sure if he wants a meet I am sure he will share a pic if just asked. That’s just my opinion maybe I’m wrong I normally am lol"
Absolutely like I stated in my second response after the initial contact I always send with a few messages sometimes even if I get a message asking before the conversation starts but that depends on if the contact is from a profile that intrigues or interests me. |
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But admittedly I might have to rethink if it is putting people off, again like I stated I have found more people read the text and I get a more thought about response rather than just responding about how I look and for me it’s as much about the mind as the body and would like contact from people with a similar outlook, obviously physical attraction is important to. |
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"I disagree cause I am sure if he wants a meet I am sure he will share a pic if just asked. That’s just my opinion maybe I’m wrong I normally am lol"
Lol not wrong, just how you view it.
If it was us however, I wouldn't open the message until I'd checked out the profile. There may be pics in the message but I wouldn't know as I wouldn't bother to open it as theres nothing on the profile to catch my attention.
Profile write up might be well written, but ultimately I want to see what that person looks like before wasting any time messaging and finding there is no initial attraction. |
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"I disagree cause I am sure if he wants a meet I am sure he will share a pic if just asked. That’s just my opinion maybe I’m wrong I normally am lol
Lol not wrong, just how you view it.
If it was us however, I wouldn't open the message until I'd checked out the profile. There may be pics in the message but I wouldn't know
as I wouldn't bother to open it as theres nothing
on the profile to catch my attention.
Everyone has different ways of doing things on here I don’t mind asking for a face pic other people like to see what people look like before msging them. I say every way works for the individual
Profile write up might be well written, but ultimately I want to see what that person looks like before wasting any time messaging and finding there is no initial attraction."
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"I disagree cause I am sure if he wants a meet I am sure he will share a pic if just asked. That’s just my opinion maybe I’m wrong I normally am lol
Lol not wrong, just how you view it.
If it was us however, I wouldn't open the message until I'd checked out the profile. There may be pics in the message but I wouldn't know
as I wouldn't bother to open it as theres nothing
on the profile to catch my attention.
Everyone has different ways of doing things on here I don’t mind asking for a face pic other people like to see what people look like before msging them. I say every way works for the individual
Profile write up might be well written, but ultimately I want to see what that person looks like before wasting any time messaging and finding there is no initial attraction."
I agree. But doesn't have to be face pics on a profile, just a general idea of body type, build etc. |
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"I disagree cause I am sure if he wants a meet I am sure he will share a pic if just asked. That’s just my opinion maybe I’m wrong I normally am lol
Lol not wrong, just how you view it.
If it was us however, I wouldn't open the message until I'd checked out the profile. There
may be pics in the message but I wouldn't know
as I wouldn't bother to open it as theres nothing
on the profile to catch my attention.
Everyone has different ways of doing things on here I don’t mind asking for a face pic other people like to see what people look like before msging them. I say every way works for the individual
Profile write up might be well written, but ultimately I want to see what that person looks like before wasting any time messaging and finding there is no initial attraction.
I agree. But doesn't have to be face pics on a profile, just a general idea of body type, build etc."
Couldn’t agree more |
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"Currently I’ve have no previous experience with meeting or playing with a couple so my question is this .... does my lack of experience put couples off or intrigue them ? Or does it not even come into it ? Is it just about me being me and connecting with the right ones ? Or am I even over thinking this ? "
Why would you tell them you have no experience?
Ideally you'd discuss any rules beforehand. All meets are different and I don't think experience is important. Some will care about lack of experience of course, but then they won't meet you so it's fine.
You could overthink it forever and still not please everyone. Be yourself and it will attract similar people.  |
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"Currently I’ve have no previous experience with meeting or playing with a couple so my question is this .... does my lack of experience put couples off or intrigue them ? Or does it not even come into it ? Is it just about me being me and connecting with the right ones ? Or am I even over thinking this ?
Why would you tell them you have no experience?
Ideally you'd discuss any rules beforehand. All meets are different and I don't think experience is important. Some will care about lack of experience of course, but then they won't meet you so it's fine.
You could overthink it forever and still not please everyone. Be yourself and it will attract similar people. "
I’m definitely over thinking it and just need to be myself x |
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"Actually liked your profile. Especially the bottom bit ref couple's. Would lack of experience put us of. Probably not. Lack of pictures would."
Thank you for taking time to have a look, seems a bit of a pattern and seems I’m missing out on connecting with some decent couples |
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Your profile is very good. Like others have said; add a few pictures.
The problem single guys have with couples is that there are thousands of you, it’s hard to stand out. A well written profile certainly helps with people who like that sort of thing |
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"Your profile is very good. Like others have said; add a few pictures.
The problem single guys have with couples is that there are thousands of you, it’s hard to stand out. A well written profile certainly helps with people who like that sort of thing "
I’m just wanting to stand out for the right couple I’m not looking to connect with loads, appreciate you looking and giving me feedback. Thank you |
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You're overthinking. Lack of experience certainly wouldn't put us off. In fact Mrs would quite enjoy 'teaching'. That is of course, if we met single guys.
Mrs would love a single lady to join us for her 1st MFF experience. |
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