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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne

Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No point in complaining unfortunately. Things will never change.

I’d love it if you could have it so before someone sent you a message, they HAD to find the ‘code word’ on your profile that you want them to use as the message title. So it forces them to read it

My current profile takes 20 seconds to read and people still don’t bother.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just delete their message straight away

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??"

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long

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By *ipseyTwoCouple  over a year ago

Biggleswade


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long "

Oh dear...time for popcorn

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long "

Yes.... I have standards

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"No point in complaining unfortunately. Things will never change.

I’d love it if you could have it so before someone sent you a message, they HAD to find the ‘code word’ on your profile that you want them to use as the message title. So it forces them to read it

My current profile takes 20 seconds to read and people still don’t bother.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just delete their message straight away "

maybe it might have something to do with the fact that your profile is based on the writings of St Paul to the Corinthians,,

People may not have the time for Bible studies on here,

Try concentrate it down,

Or not,

Just a suggestion,

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull

Because you've got boobies on show on your profile image

How the heck are men supposed to read a profile when your boobies are on show and acting as a distraction

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long

Yes.... I have standards

"

I'm not disputing that just alot of men see the length of the profile and CBA to read it, maybe try shortening it if you want more men to read it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long

Yes.... I have standards

I'm not disputing that just alot of men see the length of the profile and CBA to read it, maybe try shortening it if you want more men to read it "

They still don’t read it. People are lazy

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being absolutely honest OP and having read your profile in full (which actually didn't take that long) I'm not surprised you're getting the kind of messages you suggest - whilst towards the bottom it makes it clear that you're not interested in the majority of guys it is also fairly full on and the type of things that would encourage precisely the kind of messages you're getting.

So perhaps give consideration to toning it down a little and things may change.

You also say that the messages you are getting are about what the guys want but playing devils advocate a little, isn't your profile all about what you want rather than a mutually agreeable middle ground?

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By *ocratesrocksMan  over a year ago

school of long licks


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??"

Honestly, I think you may need to change the header of your profile, just me but many men will see that, then your photos and message you without reading the rest.

I read it and enjoyed reading, sets out want you want and what you are after etc, alas i am too old for you

Take care and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"No point in complaining unfortunately. Things will never change.

I’d love it if you could have it so before someone sent you a message, they HAD to find the ‘code word’ on your profile that you want them to use as the message title. So it forces them to read it

My current profile takes 20 seconds to read and people still don’t bother.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just delete their message straight away

maybe it might have something to do with the fact that your profile is based on the writings of St Paul to the Corinthians,,

People may not have the time for Bible studies on here,

Try concentrate it down,

Or not,

Just a suggestion, "

No time to read my profile...

Then I have no time for them.

By the way the Bible is a very interesting read.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Being absolutely honest OP and having read your profile in full (which actually didn't take that long) I'm not surprised you're getting the kind of messages you suggest - whilst towards the bottom it makes it clear that you're not interested in the majority of guys it is also fairly full on and the type of things that would encourage precisely the kind of messages you're getting.

So perhaps give consideration to toning it down a little and things may change.

You also say that the messages you are getting are about what the guys want but playing devils advocate a little, isn't your profile all about what you want rather than a mutually agreeable middle ground?"

Yes it is all about what I want....

So if you fit into my life and my wants then we have a starting point

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Many are just playing the numbers pasting the same message to all on line as fast as possible its a numbers game in the search for any wet hole to fuck the profile "

I agree...

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"No point in complaining unfortunately. Things will never change.

I’d love it if you could have it so before someone sent you a message, they HAD to find the ‘code word’ on your profile that you want them to use as the message title. So it forces them to read it

My current profile takes 20 seconds to read and people still don’t bother.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just delete their message straight away

maybe it might have something to do with the fact that your profile is based on the writings of St Paul to the Corinthians,,

People may not have the time for Bible studies on here,

Try concentrate it down,

Or not,

Just a suggestion,

No time to read my profile...

Then I have no time for them.

By the way the Bible is a very interesting read.

"

Lol yes if your going to base your profile on long books that everyone is loosing interest on, base it on a good one , a classic, maybe Ulysses, that's waaaaayyy to long also but a good read,,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread "

Well said...

Maybe we should meet instead of wasting time with brain-dead guys

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"No point in complaining unfortunately. Things will never change.

I’d love it if you could have it so before someone sent you a message, they HAD to find the ‘code word’ on your profile that you want them to use as the message title. So it forces them to read it

My current profile takes 20 seconds to read and people still don’t bother.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just delete their message straight away

maybe it might have something to do with the fact that your profile is based on the writings of St Paul to the Corinthians,,

People may not have the time for Bible studies on here,

Try concentrate it down,

Or not,

Just a suggestion,

No time to read my profile...

Then I have no time for them.

By the way the Bible is a very interesting read.

Lol yes if your going to base your profile on long books that everyone is loosing interest on, base it on a good one , a classic, maybe Ulysses, that's waaaaayyy to long also but a good read,,

"

My profile is our based on my own life .

My own story not on any book.

What is with you and long old books?

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Lets face it - to some guys the profile doesn't matter - they'd still send a message hoping to get a fuck.

Bloody neanderthals

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We know how you feel OP. We've now resorted to if you can be arsed to read our profile we can't be arsed to reply x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??"

I reckon perhaps coz it’s too long? You could still say what you need to say but in much less words. Its hars for me. To read whilst holding their cocks

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Lets face it - to some guys the profile doesn't matter - they'd still send a message hoping to get a fuck.

Bloody neanderthals "

Is my experience most guys on here just want to chat and not meet.

Too many guys get off on just sending messages

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I could not imagine being a woman on this site or a mf couple the amount of guys wanting to get thier leg over, and some of the things they must ask about

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By *ust_A_Tease_To_PleaseWoman  over a year ago

South Wales: Newport, Chepstow

I have a code word on my profile.

I delete over 80% of messages unread cos they haven't used it in the subject line as requested.

Makes my life much easier.

If they complain, or I catch them sending me multiple messages without reading my profile I block.

I'm disabled and looking for something specific. If they don't have the patience to read my profile, I don't have time for their message and we would clearly be incompatible.

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Lets face it - to some guys the profile doesn't matter - they'd still send a message hoping to get a fuck.

Bloody neanderthals

Is my experience most guys on here just want to chat and not meet.

Too many guys get off on just sending messages

"

Makes it worse for the good guys. Trust me - I know.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"I have a code word on my profile.

I delete over 80% of messages unread cos they haven't used it in the subject line as requested.

Makes my life much easier.

If they complain, or I catch them sending me multiple messages without reading my profile I block.

I'm disabled and looking for something specific. If they don't have the patience to read my profile, I don't have time for their message and we would clearly be incompatible."

That is a good way to deal with it...

I will have to find my own method too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long

Yes.... I have standards

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I reckon perhaps coz it’s too long? You could still say what you need to say but in much less words. Its hars for me. To read whilst holding their cocks "

Sorry poor typo.

Should say..

‘Hard for men to read with a cock in there hand’

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In my opinion it makes it a lot easier to right a decent first message.I actually hate when there is no profile to read or go on. It’s nice to actually send a decent message discussing some of their profile interests or highlights and engage in conversation that way. I think guys don’t bother because a good 87% just think it’s okay to say ‘let’s fuck’ and then get annoyed when they don’t reply, so instead of trying a different approach like reading their profile and taking a wee interest people just complain more and more how women don’t reply to them haha. I liked reading your profile op

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show "

I'm worth the effort...

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By *ackinabox19Man  over a year ago

Harrogate


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??"

It’s not just guys that don’t read profiles trust me !!

I just instantly block people who send totally out of context messages, I made an effort writing it and only takes a slight bit of effort to read !!

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By *ocratesrocksMan  over a year ago

school of long licks


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

"

I am sure you are, still think you need to change your profile header

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"In my opinion it makes it a lot easier to right a decent first message.I actually hate when there is no profile to read or go on. It’s nice to actually send a decent message discussing some of their profile interests or highlights and engage in conversation that way. I think guys don’t bother because a good 87% just think it’s okay to say ‘let’s fuck’ and then get annoyed when they don’t reply, so instead of trying a different approach like reading their profile and taking a wee interest people just complain more and more how women don’t reply to them haha. I liked reading your profile op"

Thanks... Finally an intelligent man

Why do I op next to my username?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In my opinion it makes it a lot easier to right a decent first message.I actually hate when there is no profile to read or go on. It’s nice to actually send a decent message discussing some of their profile interests or highlights and engage in conversation that way. I think guys don’t bother because a good 87% just think it’s okay to say ‘let’s fuck’ and then get annoyed when they don’t reply, so instead of trying a different approach like reading their profile and taking a wee interest people just complain more and more how women don’t reply to them haha. I liked reading your profile op

Thanks... Finally an intelligent man

Why do I op next to my username?

"

We don’t all wear super hero capes

And op = original poster I think e.i person made the thread

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"In my opinion it makes it a lot easier to right a decent first message.I actually hate when there is no profile to read or go on. It’s nice to actually send a decent message discussing some of their profile interests or highlights and engage in conversation that way. I think guys don’t bother because a good 87% just think it’s okay to say ‘let’s fuck’ and then get annoyed when they don’t reply, so instead of trying a different approach like reading their profile and taking a wee interest people just complain more and more how women don’t reply to them haha. I liked reading your profile op

Thanks... Finally an intelligent man

Why do I op next to my username?

"

Original Poster

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

I am sure you are, still think you need to change your profile header"

My header describes me ....

Don't you think so ?

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"In my opinion it makes it a lot easier to right a decent first message.I actually hate when there is no profile to read or go on. It’s nice to actually send a decent message discussing some of their profile interests or highlights and engage in conversation that way. I think guys don’t bother because a good 87% just think it’s okay to say ‘let’s fuck’ and then get annoyed when they don’t reply, so instead of trying a different approach like reading their profile and taking a wee interest people just complain more and more how women don’t reply to them haha. I liked reading your profile op

Thanks... Finally an intelligent man

Why do I op next to my username?

We don’t all wear super hero capes

And op = original poster I think e.i person made the thread "

I wear a cape.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"In my opinion it makes it a lot easier to right a decent first message.I actually hate when there is no profile to read or go on. It’s nice to actually send a decent message discussing some of their profile interests or highlights and engage in conversation that way. I think guys don’t bother because a good 87% just think it’s okay to say ‘let’s fuck’ and then get annoyed when they don’t reply, so instead of trying a different approach like reading their profile and taking a wee interest people just complain more and more how women don’t reply to them haha. I liked reading your profile op

Thanks... Finally an intelligent man

Why do I op next to my username?

We don’t all wear super hero capes

And op = original poster I think e.i person made the thread "

You don't need to sweetie ??

And thank you

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By *ocratesrocksMan  over a year ago

school of long licks


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

I am sure you are, still think you need to change your profile header

My header describes me ....

Don't you think so ?

"

Busty for sure, dont know you well enough to know if you were tarty.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"In my opinion it makes it a lot easier to right a decent first message.I actually hate when there is no profile to read or go on. It’s nice to actually send a decent message discussing some of their profile interests or highlights and engage in conversation that way. I think guys don’t bother because a good 87% just think it’s okay to say ‘let’s fuck’ and then get annoyed when they don’t reply, so instead of trying a different approach like reading their profile and taking a wee interest people just complain more and more how women don’t reply to them haha. I liked reading your profile op

Thanks... Finally an intelligent man

Why do I op next to my username?

We don’t all wear super hero capes

And op = original poster I think e.i person made the thread

I wear a cape. "

Thanks..

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

I am sure you are, still think you need to change your profile header

My header describes me ....

Don't you think so ?

Busty for sure, dont know you well enough to know if you were tarty. "

I'm a bad girl...

Naughty...

Always dress tarty...

Can't say anymore on here

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I wish you the best of luck.

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"No point in complaining unfortunately. Things will never change.

I’d love it if you could have it so before someone sent you a message, they HAD to find the ‘code word’ on your profile that you want them to use as the message title. So it forces them to read it

My current profile takes 20 seconds to read and people still don’t bother.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just delete their message straight away "

I've not read it but I know you have a magic vagina so I don't need to.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I reckon perhaps coz it’s too long? You could still say what you need to say but in much less words. Its hars for me. To read whilst holding their cocks

Sorry poor typo.

Should say..

‘Hard for men to read with a cock in there hand’"

Guys should realise...

Sex with me is better than a wank

So read my profile and make that extra effort and we will all be happy..

If you are man enough to rise to the occasion..

And dress up obviously

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'm worth the effort...

"

Exactly. You totally are worth the effort. All women are for that matter. If a potential meet can't be bothered or doesn't have time to read a profile then how do you know they have the time and effort to put into a meet? How do you know they will satisfy you sexually if you don't specify what you want or don't want.

IMHO a precise profile saves time in the long run as it deters the casual "any hole is a goal" fuckers, should cut down time wasting on both sides and you have half a chance of finding someone who you are looking for. Well that's the theory

Stick with it OP, you have standards so why drop them?

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"No point in complaining unfortunately. Things will never change.

I’d love it if you could have it so before someone sent you a message, they HAD to find the ‘code word’ on your profile that you want them to use as the message title. So it forces them to read it

My current profile takes 20 seconds to read and people still don’t bother.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just delete their message straight away

I've not read it but I know you have a magic vagina so I don't need to."

So you have heard about me... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No point in complaining unfortunately. Things will never change.

I’d love it if you could have it so before someone sent you a message, they HAD to find the ‘code word’ on your profile that you want them to use as the message title. So it forces them to read it

My current profile takes 20 seconds to read and people still don’t bother.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just delete their message straight away

I've not read it but I know you have a magic vagina so I don't need to."

It’s magical in so many ways

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"

I'm worth the effort...

Exactly. You totally are worth the effort. All women are for that matter. If a potential meet can't be bothered or doesn't have time to read a profile then how do you know they have the time and effort to put into a meet? How do you know they will satisfy you sexually if you don't specify what you want or don't want.

IMHO a precise profile saves time in the long run as it deters the casual "any hole is a goal" fuckers, should cut down time wasting on both sides and you have half a chance of finding someone who you are looking for. Well that's the theory

Stick with it OP, you have standards so why drop them? "

Thanks sweetie...

We are soo a like....

I agree with you. All women are worth the effort...

I will never lower my standards as I do not owe any man anything..

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

"

Please explain...

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By *ocratesrocksMan  over a year ago

school of long licks

I private messaged you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you were looking for ppl to fab your pics you could have just asked.....

Hi btw

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"I private messaged you x"

Did you read my profile first ?

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By *ocratesrocksMan  over a year ago

school of long licks

If you read my message you will have realised I read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

wow

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"If you read my message you will have realised I read your profile"

Im busy yet sweetie ??

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


" wow"

Thanks ??

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"If you were looking for ppl to fab your pics you could have just asked.....

Hi btw "

Snake...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" wow

Thanks ??

"

Wasn't a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Haven’t read through all the posts but i’m guessing someone has already said that some guys will just chance their arm without reading profiles.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


" wow

Thanks ??

Wasn't a compliment "

Why not ?

I'm used to compliments.

So what are you saying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" wow

Thanks ??

Wasn't a compliment

Why not ?

I'm used to compliments.

So what are you saying

"

I'm young and been checking you out locally for years am I in lube for a bang ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

"

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


" wow

Thanks ??

Wasn't a compliment

Why not ?

I'm used to compliments.

So what are you saying

I'm young and been checking you out locally for years am I in lube for a bang ? "

So am I sexy and classy and tarty?

Message me in private..

Read my profile first

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By *rAngleseyMan  over a year ago

Anglesey

Perhaps a set of questions that they have to answer at the bottom of the profile.. Although they might not read that either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??"

It's a lot to read, fancy a fuck?

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

It's a lot to read, fancy a fuck?"

Does that work for you?

Never works on me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive. "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were looking for ppl to fab your pics you could have just asked.....

Hi btw

Snake...

"

Care to explain....?

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread "

you do realize that people with hyperactive tendencies have stamina to burn but not the concentration levels to read the user manual of a fusion reactor,,

So your statement is flawed ,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a lot to read, fancy a fuck?

Does that work for you?

Never works on me

"

It actually has in face to face meet ups, but I never message to meet anyone from here, so really never tried any approach except as a couple, where I never employed that tactic.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread

you do realize that people with hyperactive tendencies have stamina to burn but not the concentration levels to read the user manual of a fusion reactor,,

So your statement is flawed , "

I don't know, some profiles do feel like the 100 meter hurdles sometimes

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive. "

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" wow

Thanks ??

Wasn't a compliment

Why not ?

I'm used to compliments.

So what are you saying

I'm young and been checking you out locally for years am I in lube for a bang ?

So am I sexy and classy and tarty?

Message me in private..

Read my profile first

"

Thanks just DMd u

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By *ocratesrocksMan  over a year ago

school of long licks

Maybe you could be respectful and read my message, after the time I took to read your profile. You had time to check my profile out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For a more positive result, ALWAYS begin every communication with something positive and introduce yourself, say Hi etc, even if you're gonna then unleash hell on all those naughty little men who didn't do as you were hoping.....

....I'd love it if all women who looked at my profile were free tonight and wanted to shag my brains out and would let me do anything I like in any hole. It's a world of disappointments though, innit....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long

Yes.... I have standards

I'm not disputing that just alot of men see the length of the profile and CBA to read it, maybe try shortening it if you want more men to read it "

Having a short profile makes no difference whatsoever. The bit at the top is one paragraph, it still gets ignored. I return the favour by ignoring their messages.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

"

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"It's a lot to read, fancy a fuck?

Does that work for you?

Never works on me

It actually has in face to face meet ups, but I never message to meet anyone from here, so really never tried any approach except as a couple, where I never employed that tactic. "

It all about chemistry in person

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread

you do realize that people with hyperactive tendencies have stamina to burn but not the concentration levels to read the user manual of a fusion reactor,,

So your statement is flawed ,

I don't know, some profiles do feel like the 100 meter hurdles sometimes"

Mate I'm not sure about 100mts I was a 800 and 1500 m runner and I'm telling you I ran some of those races quicker then I'd read some profiles on here

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long

Yes.... I have standards

I'm not disputing that just alot of men see the length of the profile and CBA to read it, maybe try shortening it if you want more men to read it

Having a short profile makes no difference whatsoever. The bit at the top is one paragraph, it still gets ignored. I return the favour by ignoring their messages. "

It's not getting any better on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread

you do realize that people with hyperactive tendencies have stamina to burn but not the concentration levels to read the user manual of a fusion reactor,,

So your statement is flawed , "

It’s not flawed, it’s how I decide to meet people so if they can’t concentrate I don’t want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

"

Thankyou for proving my point so perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some women seem to think men have a short attention span.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you don’t want men that aren’t in your preferred age range messaging you, you can change your message filters so they can’t

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread

you do realize that people with hyperactive tendencies have stamina to burn but not the concentration levels to read the user manual of a fusion reactor,,

So your statement is flawed ,

I don't know, some profiles do feel like the 100 meter hurdles sometimes"

If the profile doesn’t appeal, then they aren’t for you.

Surely that is clear

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab "

Me too, I’m trying to figure out what Google manners are...

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think your profile is long, but it does seem a little angry. The guys are just trying it on but with lines like .. 'I want to get laid by all those guys who having been checking me out locally for years now', what do you expect?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab "

Thanks x

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab "

Why have you copied the conversation I was having with that other chap and now confusing every body by making it look as I was having this conversation with you ?

Sad dirty tricks...

I did not have any conversations that you previously ...

I was talking to a bloke not a lady..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab

Why have you copied the conversation I was having with that other chap and now confusing every body by making it look as I was having this conversation with you ?

Sad dirty tricks...

I did not have any conversations that you previously ...

I was talking to a bloke not a lady..

"

I'm going to bet that nobody was confused by this what so ever!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab

Why have you copied the conversation I was having with that other chap and now confusing every body by making it look as I was having this conversation with you ?

Sad dirty tricks...

I did not have any conversations that you previously ...

I was talking to a bloke not a lady..

"

I quoted your reply, so I could reply to it. No dirty tricks. I was joining in on a conversation. I’m well aware you were replying to a man - and I was agreeing with that man.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread

you do realize that people with hyperactive tendencies have stamina to burn but not the concentration levels to read the user manual of a fusion reactor,,

So your statement is flawed ,

I don't know, some profiles do feel like the 100 meter hurdles sometimes

If the profile doesn’t appeal, then they aren’t for you.

Surely that is clear"

Not once did I say anything that would indicate that I thought they would be for me

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"If they don’t have the stamina to read my profile they won’t have the stamina for fun, it’s clear at the start of my profile so I can tell who has ignored it before I open a message.

I delete unread

you do realize that people with hyperactive tendencies have stamina to burn but not the concentration levels to read the user manual of a fusion reactor,,

So your statement is flawed ,

I don't know, some profiles do feel like the 100 meter hurdles sometimes

If the profile doesn’t appeal, then they aren’t for you.

Surely that is clear"

I agree

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By *mmmMaybeCouple  over a year ago

West Wales

OP do you search/read guys profiles & then messages those you like the look of?

Just asking as we would have thought blocking them all & searching yourself would save a lot of aggro & all the shite messages.

S&H

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

"

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab

Why have you copied the conversation I was having with that other chap and now confusing every body by making it look as I was having this conversation with you ?

Sad dirty tricks...

I did not have any conversations that you previously ...

I was talking to a bloke not a lady..

I quoted your reply, so I could reply to it. No dirty tricks. I was joining in on a conversation. I’m well aware you were replying to a man - and I was agreeing with that man. "

So why reply like I was talking to you personally...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab

Why have you copied the conversation I was having with that other chap and now confusing every body by making it look as I was having this conversation with you ?

Sad dirty tricks...

I did not have any conversations that you previously ...

I was talking to a bloke not a lady..

I quoted your reply, so I could reply to it. No dirty tricks. I was joining in on a conversation. I’m well aware you were replying to a man - and I was agreeing with that man.

So why reply like I was talking to you personally...

"

I’ve literally just explained myself

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin

Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here, "

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true"

Seriously.

You sound like a detective..

Chill out...

What evidence do you need

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"OP do you search/read guys profiles & then messages those you like the look of?

Just asking as we would have thought blocking them all & searching yourself would save a lot of aggro & all the shite messages.

S&H"

Thanks..

It is a possible option .

Have a good day ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab

Why have you copied the conversation I was having with that other chap and now confusing every body by making it look as I was having this conversation with you ?

Sad dirty tricks...

I did not have any conversations that you previously ...

I was talking to a bloke not a lady..

"

You dont get to choose who replies to you in a public forum.

It is obvious to everyone that she was quoting the conversation to show what it was what she was refering to, and agreeing with.

This is standard, accepted and expected behaviour.

As for dirty tricks, you are the one trying to deflect attention and avoid the comments by throwing around accusations and insults.

All you have achieved is showing your true colours.

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash "

lol

Pal I'm up to 100k adventure racing now , run, bike, canoe, climb and it's touch and go if I'd get that any quicker

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true

Seriously.

You sound like a detective..

Chill out...

What evidence do you need"

Any sense of decent behaviour would be a start

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash lol

Pal I'm up to 100k adventure racing now , run, bike, canoe, climb and it's touch and go if I'd get that any quicker "

Immature....

Going off topic....

I like polite friendly men who can respect me because I'm a sexy blonde pornstar...

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash lol

Pal I'm up to 100k adventure racing now , run, bike, canoe, climb and it's touch and go if I'd get that any quicker

Immature....

Going off topic....

I like polite friendly men who can respect me because I'm a sexy blonde pornstar...

"

Now there is a statement I can read,

Full of holes but I'll give one thing

The Blonde part is correct.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true

Seriously.

You sound like a detective..

Chill out...

What evidence do you need

Any sense of decent behaviour would be a start

I'm indecent because I always ignore your private messages. ..

Bitter man..

"

....I havent messaged you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you were more respectful of men you may get more respectful men messaging.

Please explain...

I dont think it needs much explaining however i will humour you.

You call men pathetic wankers (or words to that effect) on your profile among other things. You start a post generalising that men are scum for daring to express an interest in you. Etc etc.

No self respecting man would tolerate being portrated that way or desire to meet someone that shows a complete lack of respect and a superiority complex.

That just leaves the desperate and the fantasitsts/time wasters and so it is no surprise that this is the type of messages you receive.

Poor chap.

Hope you feel a lot more positive about life and women soon .

Your interpretation of my profile is very different to what I am actually saying.

Read it again...

I am very respectful to men...

It is men who need to show respect to women and that is all I'm asking for in my profile .

So stop being so upset because you can't get laid on here..

I read your profile the same way he did, and I’m a woman and can certainly get ‘laid’ on here.

However it’s your profile. That’s how you have chosen to write it. People will choose whether they want to read it or not. People can also choose how they will interpret your profile. That’s fab

Why have you copied the conversation I was having with that other chap and now confusing every body by making it look as I was having this conversation with you ?

Sad dirty tricks...

I did not have any conversations that you previously ...

I was talking to a bloke not a lady..

I'm going to bet that nobody was confused by this what so ever!

I wasn't confused, I had read the thread. "

Nope, no confusion here either.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash lol

Pal I'm up to 100k adventure racing now , run, bike, canoe, climb and it's touch and go if I'd get that any quicker

Immature....

Going off topic....

I like polite friendly men who can respect me because I'm a sexy blonde pornstar...

Now there is a statement I can read,

Full of holes but I'll give one thing

The Blonde part is correct.

"

Finally we can agree....

But do I care what you think?

Not at all....

Its all banter and fun sweetie ??

But I am a real pornstar as many of you guys know...

So make that extra effort guys

I'm worth it ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true

Seriously.

You sound like a detective..

Chill out...

What evidence do you need

Any sense of decent behaviour would be a start

I'm indecent because I always ignore your private messages. ..

Bitter man..

....I havent messaged you "

Maybe not today yet...

But every other day...

Take it as a NO...

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ? "

it's a sales pitch

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

Right

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true

Seriously.

You sound like a detective..

Chill out...

What evidence do you need

Any sense of decent behaviour would be a start

I'm indecent because I always ignore your private messages. ..

Bitter man..

....I havent messaged you

Maybe not today yet...

But every other day...

Take it as a NO...

"

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By *ntrigued32Couple  over a year ago

Nottingham

Well this has been a very interesting read

D.

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash lol

Pal I'm up to 100k adventure racing now , run, bike, canoe, climb and it's touch and go if I'd get that any quicker

Immature....

Going off topic....

I like polite friendly men who can respect me because I'm a sexy blonde pornstar...

Now there is a statement I can read,

Full of holes but I'll give one thing

The Blonde part is correct.

Finally we can agree....

But do I care what you think?

Not at all....

Its all banter and fun sweetie ??

But I am a real pornstar as many of you guys know...

So make that extra effort guys

I'm worth it ??

"

ohh sweetie I'm all about banter and fun

We wrote the book on Banter some might say.

I'm just not seeing much of it above is all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true

Seriously.

You sound like a detective..

Chill out...

What evidence do you need

Any sense of decent behaviour would be a start

I'm indecent because I always ignore your private messages. ..

Bitter man..

....I havent messaged you

Maybe not today yet...

But every other day...

Take it as a NO...

"

That's brutal I had a reply within minutes

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ? "

Guess ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Guess ?"

Well I have no idea why people should, which is why I asked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true

Seriously.

You sound like a detective..

Chill out...

What evidence do you need

Any sense of decent behaviour would be a start

I'm indecent because I always ignore your private messages. ..

Bitter man..

....I havent messaged you

Maybe not today yet...

But every other day...

Take it as a NO...

"

I've never messaged you

But I give you my full consent to screenshot the messages I've sent you to show other people

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"Well this has been a very interesting read

D."

totally right and I've no idea why

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"I’m surprised the ones that read your profile contact you at all with the list of demands on show

I'm worth the effort...

You keep saying things like this on here and on your profile, but I'm yet to see any shred of evidence that makes this remotely true

Seriously.

You sound like a detective..

Chill out...

What evidence do you need

Any sense of decent behaviour would be a start

I'm indecent because I always ignore your private messages. ..

Bitter man..

....I havent messaged you

Maybe not today yet...

But every other day...

Take it as a NO...

I've never messaged you

But I give you my full consent to screenshot the messages I've sent you to show other people"

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash lol

Pal I'm up to 100k adventure racing now , run, bike, canoe, climb and it's touch and go if I'd get that any quicker

Immature....

Going off topic....

I like polite friendly men who can respect me because I'm a sexy blonde pornstar...

Now there is a statement I can read,

Full of holes but I'll give one thing

The Blonde part is correct.

Finally we can agree....

But do I care what you think?

Not at all....

Its all banter and fun sweetie ??

But I am a real pornstar as many of you guys know...

So make that extra effort guys

I'm worth it ??

ohh sweetie I'm all about banter and fun

We wrote the book on Banter some might say.

I'm just not seeing much of it above is all. "

Perception...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I must say it is a shame you’re getting messages from people without them reading your profile.

However, after seeing your comments here and reading all of your profile I couldn’t imagine messaging you. It’s somewhat hostile..

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By *ntrigued32Couple  over a year ago

Nottingham


"Well this has been a very interesting read

D. totally right and I've no idea why "

Same here I don’t think I’ve ever read this much of a thread! And I have read the OPs profile! This much reading has just made my eyes tired

D.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pornstar......?????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hey OP. I have no idea who you are as I don’t do porn. However I did read your profile and it’s rather confusing. I think you could make it much shorter and clearer by just saying once that you’re looking for younger, local guys.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Guess ?

Well I have no idea why people should, which is why I asked"

Maybe start a new thread and ask all the men on here...

If I respond to your question I Will be accused of advertising or marketing myself...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Guess ?

Well I have no idea why people should, which is why I asked

Maybe start a new thread and ask all the men on here...

If I respond to your question I Will be accused of advertising or marketing myself...

"

Okay will do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ? "

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

42......??????

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously.. "

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

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By *oul BrothaMan  over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I've read the profile and the spelling and grammar errors, passive aggressive tone, among other things would prevent me from messaging.

I hope you get what you're looking for.

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"Hey OP. I have no idea who you are as I don’t do porn. However I did read your profile and it’s rather confusing. I think you could make it much shorter and clearer by just saying once that you’re looking for younger, local guys. "
bingo with ffking bells and whistles on it,,

As I said aim for 1 5star dish not a slow cooked stew,,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is it already thursday? lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"42......??????"

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's your profile and your choice to do with it as you will ofc. Unfortunately, many people won't respect your preferences regardless of what you write and will message anyway.

I'm attracted to people who have a positive vibe about them and many others are as well. Unfortunately, your profile couldn't be further from this. It comes across as ranty, hostile, and makes sweeping generalisations of men. Again, you're entitled to do as you please but I wouldn't be surprised if its contents are putting off a lot of potentially compatible people from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

I'm gonna hazard a guess and say because the profile is extremely long

Yes.... I have standards

"

You don't need a long profile, to withhold standards. You wrote it in 4 words

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman  over a year ago

London

Guys, let me enlighten you about long profiles. You only ever need to read the first few lines to know if it is worth continuing to read. Also, the main reason for long profiles is so many men's lack of manners and social skills. No one sets out to write a long profile.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple  over a year ago

West Wales


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

"

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Guys, let me enlighten you about long profiles. You only ever need to read the first few lines to know if it is worth continuing to read. Also, the main reason for long profiles is so many men's lack of manners and social skills. No one sets out to write a long profile."

Spot on sweetie ??

I'm on here to meet nice guys...

Not be the amusement of trolls and hater...

The whole point of my profile is to show women respect especially if you are seriously interested in her...

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester

People in general don't read bio, ours isn't overly long but judging by messages we get it's clear only look at pics, infact many confess to doing so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S"

Quit being lazy and up your bloody game ffs!

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??"

And the award for todays have a go at guys. ..goes to.. . If you look into the archives this is a topic that's done most days.

I however have not read your profile.. I do however offer a suggestion. I did a thread called junk mail a while ago, in it I suggested in real life we all receive junk mail, hard to board up your post box ... on here its easier.

Block those genders causing you angst stress grief and search and message yourself.. simples..

I now await the we shouldn't have to.. my answer we change alter our behaviour in the real world all of the time. Why not on here?

I might miss a diamond... yep you might, you might anyway in the full mailbox.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S"

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

"

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??

And the award for todays have a go at guys. ..goes to.. . If you look into the archives this is a topic that's done most days.

I however have not read your profile.. I do however offer a suggestion. I did a thread called junk mail a while ago, in it I suggested in real life we all receive junk mail, hard to board up your post box ... on here its easier.

Block those genders causing you angst stress grief and search and message yourself.. simples..

I now await the we shouldn't have to.. my answer we change alter our behaviour in the real world all of the time. Why not on here?

I might miss a diamond... yep you might, you might anyway in the full mailbox.

"

Thanks ??

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get "

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone fancy a bum?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

"

Do you have any filters on? You can stop men 40+ from messaging you if that’s not who you want messaging you. Would maybe help. Whenever I don’t have any filters on I can get up to that many messages as well. And my profile is boring

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By *r AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"Guys, let me enlighten you about long profiles. You only ever need to read the first few lines to know if it is worth continuing to read. Also, the main reason for long profiles is so many men's lack of manners and social skills. No one sets out to write a long profile."

not in this case,

In this case it was written on paper first, then checked over then typed here, and was intentionally long that, or OP has a nasty Stutter

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP? What, in three sentences are you actually looking for on fab? Do you actually like the man the penis is attached to or is it all just mechanical and ego boosting?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a bum? "

Are you a pornstar?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Guess ?

Well I have no idea why people should, which is why I asked"

Umm me too?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Op I'm young and fit and would defo bang you but I will not read your profile

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I don't think it's the men who are bitter on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

"

Maybe your time would be better spent reading/replying to all them messages rather than moaning about the people who send them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash lol

Pal I'm up to 100k adventure racing now , run, bike, canoe, climb and it's touch and go if I'd get that any quicker

Immature....

Going off topic....

I like polite friendly men who can respect me because I'm a sexy blonde pornstar...

"

Oh dear...Mic drop!

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Guys, let me enlighten you about long profiles. You only ever need to read the first few lines to know if it is worth continuing to read. Also, the main reason for long profiles is so many men's lack of manners and social skills. No one sets out to write a long profile.

Spot on sweetie ??

I'm on here to meet nice guys...

Not be the amusement of trolls and hater...

The whole point of my profile is to show women respect especially if you are seriously interested in her...

"

Not really showing respect to women, when you have sentences like boring ugly girlfriend in your profile are you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

"

Im not sure i believe that.

One thing, you ask for respect if they want to meet you socially/personally but then you say there are other ways to meet you..

So there are other ways to meet where your standards and expectations fall by the wayside?

If the standards are flexible then they arent really standards...

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

Maybe your time would be better spent reading/replying to all them messages rather than moaning about the people who send them "

I have never moaned....

Read the thread ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

Maybe your time would be better spent reading/replying to all them messages rather than moaning about the people who send them

I have never moaned....

Read the thread ....

"

Its behind you.....!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Guess ?

Well I have no idea why people should, which is why I asked

Maybe start a new thread and ask all the men on here...

If I respond to your question I Will be accused of advertising or marketing myself...

Okay will do"

I still have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

Maybe your time would be better spent reading/replying to all them messages rather than moaning about the people who send them

I have never moaned....

Read the thread ....

"

I have, your original post is a moan is it not ?

I’m not a porn star by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

"

You can delete all of those with 3 clicks and set filters. You're not the chosen one unless you claim to be.

Like someone else mentioned about junk mail. Bin it, in the blue bin of course.

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By *ourneblonde OP   Woman  over a year ago

Bourne


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Im not sure i believe that.

One thing, you ask for respect if they want to meet you socially/personally but then you say there are other ways to meet you..

So there are other ways to meet where your standards and expectations fall by the wayside?

If the standards are flexible then they arent really standards..."

Wtf

Stop pschoanaysing my profile....

Line by line...

Fab is just a bit of fun.

I never said my standards Caruso stop twisting it.

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

Maybe your time would be better spent reading/replying to all them messages rather than moaning about the people who send them

I have never moaned....

Read the thread ....

Its behind you.....! "

Oh no it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there soo many guys on here who simply don't read my profile or ignore it completely

Why message me and tell me what you are looking for....

I have an ad .... Profile on here...

If it is you or similar to what you are looking for the contact me otherwise move on

Stop wasting my time ...

I'm not a free prostitute to fulfill your most dirty fantasies.

Just because I am on here it does not mean I have to be available to every guy for their fantasy experience....

Try reading my profile...

Now enjoy your day ??"

Because they can’t be arsed ??

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Ok I've made 4 attempts at reading it now, in full,,

And honestly on last attempt I got a little further but then I woke up I had to check my phone to see what year it was and had my beard become overgrown,

And really after the second paragraph I learned nothing new,

So OP dust it off, Spring it up, make a statement, or 3

Or Hell keep it to single figure statements,

Aim for a 5 star dish not a slow cooked Stew ,

Peace,.

Yours faithfully,

Someone who also gets laid on here,

Mate, would be easier to do another 1500 meter dash lol

Pal I'm up to 100k adventure racing now , run, bike, canoe, climb and it's touch and go if I'd get that any quicker

Immature....

Going off topic....

I like polite friendly men who can respect me because I'm a sexy blonde pornstar...

Oh dear...Mic drop!"

Hilarious isn't it?

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I wonder if this is how the op thought the thread would go ?

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By *ocratesrocksMan  over a year ago

school of long licks

Lost for words

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

Do you have any filters on? You can stop men 40+ from messaging you if that’s not who you want messaging you. Would maybe help. Whenever I don’t have any filters on I can get up to that many messages as well. And my profile is boring "

She’s right OP. I have over 800 at the end of each week and I have strict filters. I just bulk delete them. This is Fab, not your personal fan club. Many of the single guys are sending the same message to several women...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple  over a year ago

West Wales


"Why should people make an extra effort just because you’re a ‘porn star’ ?

Because she (thinks she) is better than the rest of us, obviously..

I have high standards...

I'm very fussy...

Never compare myself with anybody else...

Maybe not, but your high up on the belittling league

No sex life.

Or with a boring ugly girlfriend....

If you want a woman like me you need to up your game....

Really? I find it a touch tough to believe any "Fit & Younger" would need to "Up their game" at all tbh.

S

Do you know how many messages a day I get from guys saying they have no sex life or saying they have a boring or ugly girlfriend?

And they number of guys who message me saying they are fit and younger yet when I meet them they have bad hygiene and are far from fit or younger...

Probably the same amount as most women or couples on here get

At present I have over 800 plus unread messages...

Maybe your time would be better spent reading/replying to all them messages rather than moaning about the people who send them

I have never moaned....

Read the thread ....

"

As I said though, block all men & message those you like the look of. Rework the profile because you'd no longer need all the ranty crap, point out your credentials ie "Porn star" Etc. Those that message back will obviously be those that would like to meet said PS...

According to me you've pretty much solved the problem....Unless of course.....

you are not as confident as you seem & couldn't take the butt hurt of the no responses etc..Which you'd get...we all do..

S

S

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it.

To all those people who did the above, you broke rules

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman  over a year ago

London


"People in general don't read bio, ours isn't overly long but judging by messages we get it's clear only look at pics, infact many confess to doing so"

Judging by the fact I get 3-5 messages a day and not 300 from new people, most do read them. Unfortunately we have to deal with the ones who don't. Well, the block button is working fine.

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