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Alternative people becoming a fetish
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed from a lot of my messages that I've become somewhat of a fetish for people, somethings people want to try out. Like I'm something new. The fact is I'm not I just choose to express myself through my appearance. Has any other alternative people had similar experiences and how do they feel about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have noticed from a lot of my messages that I've become somewhat of a fetish for people, somethings people want to try out. Like I'm something new. The fact is I'm not I just choose to express myself through my appearance. Has any other alternative people had similar experiences and how do they feel about it? "
I don't think you look alternative. I think you just look hot. |
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My wife is a bit like the op, goth, any colour clothing is ok as long as it’s black and sexy!
Always wears new rock boots and so on.....
And plenty of people enjoyed her company on here as they loved the alternative look.
Which worked out perfectly for us, we loved it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, I have a weird fetish for hot younger women with great boobs. "
Not just you Vine. You have very hot photos OP. Not being alternative I can’t comment on the fetish. I think maybe you’re just hot? |
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"I have noticed from a lot of my messages that I've become somewhat of a fetish for people, somethings people want to try out. Like I'm something new. The fact is I'm not I just choose to express myself through my appearance. Has any other alternative people had similar experiences and how do they feel about it? "
There are many things that become fetishised, black men guys with their mythical gigantic members probably being the worst. There's very little that you can do about it though apart from refusing to play along.
Personally, I'm quite keen on some of the alternative/goth/rock-chick looks, but it's the person and not the look that attracts me. I like all sorts of people and don't really care what colour/religion or other demographic they may transect.
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"I have noticed from a lot of my messages that I've become somewhat of a fetish for people, somethings people want to try out. Like I'm something new. The fact is I'm not I just choose to express myself through my appearance. Has any other alternative people had similar experiences and how do they feel about it?
I don't think you look alternative. I think you just look hot."
I think she's both. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Alternative to what?
I think people get fetishised for many things: size and colour tend to come up a lot, along with dictionary meaning fetishes. How we respond to them is all we have.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you like to have alternative sex I've always wanted to try that" or "let's do punk sex", "I've always wanted to try someone like you", "I fancy something different", "always wanted to get a goth girl" and so on basically because I look different I somehow do sex different. |
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"I have noticed from a lot of my messages that I've become somewhat of a fetish for people, somethings people want to try out. Like I'm something new. The fact is I'm not I just choose to express myself through my appearance. Has any other alternative people had similar experiences and how do they feel about it? "
Well you had me at ,,, Nipple Tape,,
Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's possibly the combination of being hot and that there aren't a great deal of "alternative" women on the site. Much in the same way that women (and probably some men) of different ethnicities are fetishised by some. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If you reply + quote OP, people will be able to follow who you're responding to.
You are hot OP. I think it's an attempt at starting a conversation with you and talk to you about something they think you'll respond to. (albeit a poor one). Yes, it's a bit crappy. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Alternative fashion is about expression and showing your personality through your appearance."
That's true of all clothes and make-up. Some of us just have more mundane personalities and forms of expression.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Alternative fashion is about expression and showing your personality through your appearance.
That's true of all clothes and make-up. Some of us just have more mundane personalities and forms of expression.
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Yea I get you I think alternative people tend to have big personalitys |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Alternative fashion is about expression and showing your personality through your appearance.
That's true of all clothes and make-up. Some of us just have more mundane personalities and forms of expression.
Yea I get you I think alternative people tend to have big personalitys"
I don't agree. Well I do, but not exclusive to alternative. Personalities are varied and not limited to just clothing and make up, or hairstyle, or tattoos, or piercings etc.
I know a fair few alternative people who are as dull as dog shit, I also know some who are larger than life. I also know people who dress in the most mundane clothing but that could brighten anyone's day with just a chat. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I get a lot of messages from men about my armpit hair from the men who have hairy women fetishes.
It doesn’t bother me because their messages are polite and once i’ve acknowledged their message off they go.
That said i only get a few a day, not hundreds - so i can see how that could get annoying.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Alternative fashion is about expression and showing your personality through your appearance.
That's true of all clothes and make-up. Some of us just have more mundane personalities and forms of expression.
Yea I get you I think alternative people tend to have big personalitys"
Some do, but not all. It can be a mask or a facsimile of the personality they aspire to have.
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