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over a year ago
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Not my cup of tea to be frank.
As a single guy there were too many of us and it didn't feel like that welcoming.
I actually got messaged by 2 ladies after I left which was frustrating (did meet 1 immediately after though) |
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"Not my cup of tea to be frank.
As a single guy there were too many of us and it didn't feel like that welcoming.
I actually got messaged by 2 ladies after I left which was frustrating (did meet 1 immediately after though)"
Was there any ladies there playing at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv never been but from what Iv heard/read, it's seems like a bit of a marmite place.
This is what I’ve heard too! But I still feel the nee to try it lol"
I thought that but Iv had people tell me that a woman can't walk anywhere without a troop of men following and making them feel very uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was there any ladies there playing at all?"
Yes but not my type to be honest.
Consider that most people there were single men, then couples and then single woman.
By all means pop your head in though. |
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over a year ago
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"I thought that but Iv had people tell me that a woman can't walk anywhere without a troop of men following and making them feel very uncomfortable. "
Yes this was evident so I just enjoyed the facilities instead lest I join the legions of the wanking dead. |
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over a year ago
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"Playing? I thought it was a naturist spa type place as opposed to swingers
I thought it was a nightclub in Tottenham! That was a while ago though that was Eltons  "
Was definitely a Rios. I used to go there all the time. Diagonally opposite to Ritzy which I believe is now flats  |
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"Iv never been but from what Iv heard/read, it's seems like a bit of a marmite place.
This is what I’ve heard too! But I still feel the nee to try it lol
I thought that but Iv had people tell me that a woman can't walk anywhere without a troop of men following and making them feel very uncomfortable. "
No it's the opposite....i felt extremely uncomfortable there with the predatory, aggressive behaviour of the males who attended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?"
utter debauchery you'll be totally drained of money and bodily fluids   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh doesn’t sound to good for a straight but nice single guy who doesn’t treat woman like objects"
but when you get them in the hotel room do you move them around a lot? |
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"Oh doesn’t sound to good for a straight but nice single guy who doesn’t treat woman like objectsbut when you get them in the hotel room do you move them around a lot? "
Ok let me clarify, my standard approach is to treat all woman with dignity and respect, then in certain situations if they want to be treated like an object sexually then I will oblige.
Communication is so important |
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"Oh doesn’t sound to good for a straight but nice single guy who doesn’t treat woman like objectsbut when you get them in the hotel room do you move them around a lot?
Ok let me clarify, my standard approach is to treat all woman with dignity and respect, then in certain situations if they want to be treated like an object sexually then I will oblige.
Communication is so important "
i agree but never use text speak they hate it |
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"Oh doesn’t sound to good for a straight but nice single guy who doesn’t treat woman like objectsbut when you get them in the hotel room do you move them around a lot?
Ok let me clarify, my standard approach is to treat all woman with dignity and respect, then in certain situations if they want to be treated like an object sexually then I will oblige.
Communication is so important i agree but never use text speak they hate it "
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You wont know if you don't try...
Having visited on occasions when in london in my opinion the best approach would to treat it aS a spa with the slimmest of chances you might get lucky...
That way you wobt be disappointed... |
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"You wont know if you don't try...
Having visited on occasions when in london in my opinion the best approach would to treat it aS a spa with the slimmest of chances you might get lucky...
That way you wobt be disappointed..."
Where do I start as a first time? What rooms etc. Any advice appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't afford the plane ticket
Hahaha that’s not helpful
At least I made you laugh
Yep 
Buy me a lychee juice then
I guess it is a no 
Afraid so "
I'll go to Janeiro instead |
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over a year ago
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"You wont know if you don't try...
Having visited on occasions when in london in my opinion the best approach would to treat it aS a spa with the slimmest of chances you might get lucky...
That way you wobt be disappointed...
Where do I start as a first time? What rooms etc. Any advice appreciated"
Just literally treat it like a spa ... it's easy |
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"You wont know if you don't try...
Having visited on occasions when in london in my opinion the best approach would to treat it aS a spa with the slimmest of chances you might get lucky...
That way you wobt be disappointed...
Where do I start as a first time? What rooms etc. Any advice appreciated
Just literally treat it like a spa ... it's easy "
Will do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You wont know if you don't try...
Having visited on occasions when in london in my opinion the best approach would to treat it aS a spa with the slimmest of chances you might get lucky...
That way you wobt be disappointed..."
This.
I used to live in kentish town and enjoyed Rios as a spa. But I'd go early in the week knowing it would be quiet. Fridays are horrendous as are Saturdays after midnight but when its quiet it's great just to have a naked sauna, the likelihood of play is minimal to non-existent though |
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I have been many times. I prefer it in the day, before it gets busy. That's often when the testosterone rises.
Sexually frustrated guys trudge about opening doors and peering and looking shifty and edgey. I was that also when I first went. Try not to become that, it's really ugly.
Just have passing banter if it's appropriate, in order to make the place sociable and pleasant.
Get a pair of flipflops to walk in, the floor is hard on the feet. There's free tea but they don't do meals.
It will take several visits till you find what suits you. |
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over a year ago
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We’ve gone with friends. And 99% never had an issue. Twice we have picked guys for me to suck and only once guy was a problem.
It’s a spa fun can happen.
I’m lucky himself is protective. So I feel safe. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"Playing? I thought it was a naturist spa type place as opposed to swingers
I thought it was a nightclub in Tottenham! That was a while ago though that was Eltons
Was definitely a Rios. I used to go there all the time. Diagonally opposite to Ritzy which I believe is now flats "
. I remember Ritzy must be 30 years ago and diagonally opposite Opera House I can’t remember it been Rios but I could be wrong so I am not disputing what you are saying |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Still unsure lol"
You can read the reviews. Everyone can give you their experience and opinion. Only you know you.
Deciding to give it a try isn't a commitment for life. If you don't like it you'll know. You may decide you need two or three visits. You may love it the first time and hate the second. It depends who is there, your mood and expectations and the interactions you have.
Personally, I don't like it there but I know others who really enjoy it. |
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"Iv never been but from what Iv heard/read, it's seems like a bit of a marmite place.
This is what I’ve heard too! But I still feel the nee to try it lol
I thought that but Iv had people tell me that a woman can't walk anywhere without a troop of men following and making them feel very uncomfortable. "
Maybe in the corridor between the rooms. Never been followed in the spa. |
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"You wont know if you don't try...
Having visited on occasions when in london in my opinion the best approach would to treat it aS a spa with the slimmest of chances you might get lucky...
That way you wobt be disappointed...
Where do I start as a first time? What rooms etc. Any advice appreciated"
Just use the spa. Don't be needy. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?"
. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do."
So would you say an afternoon is better for a first visit? |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
So would you say an afternoon is better for a first visit?"
. If you want to use the facilities without been overcrowded yes.There maybe a couple or a single lady in the afternoon but more likely to be after 5.00.Also sometime during the day there are guys looking for guys I normally say politely sorry I am straight and walk away. |
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
So would you say an afternoon is better for a first visit?. If you want to use the facilities without been overcrowded yes.There maybe a couple or a single lady in the afternoon but more likely to be after 5.00.Also sometime during the day there are guys looking for guys I normally say politely sorry I am straight and walk away."
Oh really? Not my thing |
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over a year ago
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
So would you say an afternoon is better for a first visit?. If you want to use the facilities without been overcrowded yes.There maybe a couple or a single lady in the afternoon but more likely to be after 5.00.Also sometime during the day there are guys looking for guys I normally say politely sorry I am straight and walk away.
Oh really? Not my thing"
. Not my thing either but as you are thinking of going for the first time only thought it fair to let you know it has happened to me and no doubt other guys.I thought it correct to let you know and I hope it doesn’t put you off. |
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
So would you say an afternoon is better for a first visit?. If you want to use the facilities without been overcrowded yes.There maybe a couple or a single lady in the afternoon but more likely to be after 5.00.Also sometime during the day there are guys looking for guys I normally say politely sorry I am straight and walk away.
Oh really? Not my thing. Not my thing either but as you are thinking of going for the first time only thought it fair to let you know it has happened to me and no doubt other guys.I thought it correct to let you know and I hope it doesn’t put you off."
Well it’s my worst nightmare as a 100% straight guy |
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over a year ago
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
So would you say an afternoon is better for a first visit?. If you want to use the facilities without been overcrowded yes.There maybe a couple or a single lady in the afternoon but more likely to be after 5.00.Also sometime during the day there are guys looking for guys I normally say politely sorry I am straight and walk away.
Oh really? Not my thing. Not my thing either but as you are thinking of going for the first time only thought it fair to let you know it has happened to me and no doubt other guys.I thought it correct to let you know and I hope it doesn’t put you off.
Well it’s my worst nightmare as a 100% straight guy"
. Mine as well I met a couple there one evening who invited me to join them in the private / rest rooms for some adult fun.The guy then told me he was bi and told me what he and his lady wanted from me.When I told him it wasn’t for me and could I leave the room he respected my wishes and allowed me to leave. |
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over a year ago
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
So would you say an afternoon is better for a first visit?. If you want to use the facilities without been overcrowded yes.There maybe a couple or a single lady in the afternoon but more likely to be after 5.00.Also sometime during the day there are guys looking for guys I normally say politely sorry I am straight and walk away.
Oh really? Not my thing. Not my thing either but as you are thinking of going for the first time only thought it fair to let you know it has happened to me and no doubt other guys.I thought it correct to let you know and I hope it doesn’t put you off.
Well it’s my worst nightmare as a 100% straight guy"
Being approached by a gay or bi man and saying no is your worst nightmare as a 100% straight guy? It's really no different to women being approached by men and having to say no.
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"I live near Rio’s but have never ventured in. Can someone give me an honest opinion of what it’s like for a single guy?. I am a single guy and I have been many times I go with no expectations other than to enjoy the facilities and anything else is a bonus.After 5.00 pm on weeknights you can expect the ratio to be 10 guys to one lady but please treat that lady with the respect she deserves as she maybe ther with her husband or partner or just there to enjoy the facilities.The reviews are hit and miss as some have already said it’s like marmite.I have been weekdays afternoon and evenings and from my experiences no two visits are the same As you live close by it maybe worth you popping various days and times.May also be worth checking Fabs meet and events page in case any couples or ladies are going.Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
So would you say an afternoon is better for a first visit?. If you want to use the facilities without been overcrowded yes.There maybe a couple or a single lady in the afternoon but more likely to be after 5.00.Also sometime during the day there are guys looking for guys I normally say politely sorry I am straight and walk away.
Oh really? Not my thing. Not my thing either but as you are thinking of going for the first time only thought it fair to let you know it has happened to me and no doubt other guys.I thought it correct to let you know and I hope it doesn’t put you off.
Well it’s my worst nightmare as a 100% straight guy
Being approached by a gay or bi man and saying no is your worst nightmare as a 100% straight guy? It's really no different to women being approached by men and having to say no.
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