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Rate yourself......

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

... go on!

From 1-20 how perfect are you to most people on fab and why....?

Try to look at the positives, please and tell me your shit, NOT you're shit, ok....

I'll be mostly busy today so probs won't be replying through the day like usual, so no idea how this post will go - it belongs to you, let's call it a gift.....

Nip x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh, and I think I'm a 13, slightly wankerish to some, curiously misunderstood by others, a good heart but definitely plenty of room for improvement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure as Fab is quite a superficial place.

Based on how I was made to feel recently a 5 I guess.

Based on my own judgements, a 10 I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure as Fab is quite a superficial place.

Based on how I was made to feel recently a 5 I guess.

Based on my own judgements, a 10 I suppose."

At last! I'd give you 15 personally, you seem alright

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

(It's a non-scientific experiment btw....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say I’m a 17.5

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I'm imperfectly perfect. Fallible but with a good heart or so I like to think and hope it comes across.

I think those who like me I'm a solid 15.5 - I still fuck up and they know it but accept me for who I am. For those who don't? *shrugs* The important score for me is the clearly arbitary number I've assigned to those who matter.

I might be a needy bitch and ask people but then again probably not.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan over a year ago

london

After a few years on fab and the rejections I’ve lowered myself to a 3 out of 10 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" I would say I’m a 17.5 "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm imperfectly perfect. Fallible but with a good heart or so I like to think and hope it comes across.

I might be a needy bitch and ask people but then again probably not.

I love your attitude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure as Fab is quite a superficial place.

Based on how I was made to feel recently a 5 I guess.

Based on my own judgements, a 10 I suppose.

At last! I'd give you 15 personally, you seem alright

I am who I am

Thanks lol

You are ok too! I'd rate you tbe same tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"After a few years on fab and the rejections I’ve lowered myself to a 3 out of 10 lol"

So that's a 6 out of 20? Why's that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is say I'm a 13 on looks and 15 once you get to know me.

Then a 18.5 once I lick your pussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

20.

Just because like L'Oréal I worth it

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"Is say I'm a 13 on looks and 15 once you get to know me.

Then a 18.5 once I lick your pussy "

You stay away from my Tiddles!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20.

Just because like L'Oréal I worth it "

Maybe he’s born with it

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan over a year ago

london

"After a few years on fab and the rejections I’ve lowered myself to a 3 out of 10 lol

So that's a 6 out of 20? Why's that?"

Fab can be unfriendly at time’s

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I might be somewhere in the middle .

Some may think I'm great , others may not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is say I'm a 13 on looks and 15 once you get to know me.

Then a 18.5 once I lick your pussy "

Have you tasted marmalade yet...?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Firstly, no one’s perfect, least of all me. Secondly, I’m sure we’d all have a variety of ratings from 1 to 20 depending on who’s reading it.

I’m possibly like marmite - either love or hate me.

For those who like me. I’m hoping it’s at *least* an 18

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"I might be somewhere in the middle .

Some may think I'm great , others may not.

I’m in the great camp!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"20.

Just because like L'Oréal I worth it "

Not gonna argue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20.

Just because like L'Oréal I worth it

Maybe he’s born with it

Calm down Stallion I have diarrhea today.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I would say I’m a 17.5 "

I’d upgrade you to 17.7

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I'd say we are around a 13,we are some peoples cup of tea but probably don't appeal to more than most on here given we are only looking for a couple of specific things.

That and we are relatively inexperienced to most on here as we have only been playing for a year or so

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is say I'm a 13 on looks and 15 once you get to know me.

Then a 18.5 once I lick your pussy

You stay away from my Tiddles! "

Is that what you call it....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is say I'm a 13 on looks and 15 once you get to know me.

Then a 18.5 once I lick your pussy

Have you tasted marmalade yet...?"

With the orange peel bits in?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Firstly, no one’s perfect, least of all me. Secondly, I’m sure we’d all have a variety of ratings from 1 to 20 depending on who’s reading it.

I’m possibly like marmite - either love or hate me.

For those who like me. I’m hoping it’s at *least* an 18

Your 20/20 easy ! But your the only no.1 too meee

hahahah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

21.5.....and counting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"After a few years on fab and the rejections I’ve lowered myself to a 3 out of 10 lol

So that's a 6 out of 20? Why's that?

Fab can be unfriendly at time’s "

Yeah, but its not about fab, it's you compared to say fabulous and bearded at a 20 - you're more than six buddy.....

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I would probably start at 15, and then knock off a couple of points due to my ‘sometimes can’t be arsed’ attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" I would say I’m a 17.5

I’d upgrade you to 17.7

Is that a veri?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rate myself a low 2... or a fab 18 depending on my mood! Confused anyone? Us humans are compex creatures!

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

20. Because i have an overly high opinion of myself and because in person i’m bloody lovely, regardless of how i may come across online.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Firstly, no one’s perfect, least of all me. Secondly, I’m sure we’d all have a variety of ratings from 1 to 20 depending on who’s reading it.

I’m possibly like marmite - either love or hate me.

For those who like me. I’m hoping it’s at *least* an 18

Your 20/20 easy ! But your the only no.1 too meee

hahahah"

I can’t work out if you’re complimenting me or calling me “easy”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After a few years on fab and the rejections I’ve lowered myself to a 3 out of 10 lol

So that's a 6 out of 20? Why's that?

Fab can be unfriendly at time’s

Yeah, but its not about fab, it's you compared to say fabulous and bearded at a 20 - you're more than six buddy....."

The man is more like six nine

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is say I'm a 13 on looks and 15 once you get to know me.

Then a 18.5 once I lick your pussy

Have you tasted marmalade yet...?

With the orange peel bits in?"

Nah the pussy I was sent yesterday by a kind fabber, hes a ginger.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I would say I’m a 17.5

I’d upgrade you to 17.7

Is that a veri?"

I don’t do veris, I only have secret sex. So who knows.... it might be....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Firstly, no one’s perfect, least of all me. Secondly, I’m sure we’d all have a variety of ratings from 1 to 20 depending on who’s reading it.

I’m possibly like marmite - either love or hate me.

For those who like me. I’m hoping it’s at *least* an 18

Your 20/20 easy ! But your the only no.1 too meee

hahahah

I can’t work out if you’re complimenting me or calling me “easy”

Key is the leave them wondering ...while I make a smooth walk away slightly dancing along to the fabulous bee gees stayin alive

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Firstly, no one’s perfect, least of all me. Secondly, I’m sure we’d all have a variety of ratings from 1 to 20 depending on who’s reading it.

I’m possibly like marmite - either love or hate me.

For those who like me. I’m hoping it’s at *least* an 18

I'd give you one..... someone had to say it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"21.5.....and counting

Reach for the stars....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh heck this is a hard one. For those that know and have met us I’d say we’re an 18, but with my experience on the forums I’d say a 7 x

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I’d like to think I’m around the 15 mark... according to a lot of forum topics, the fact that I wash already puts me at an advantage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd say we are around a 13,we are some peoples cup of tea but probably don't appeal to more than most on here given we are only looking for a couple of specific things.

That and we are relatively inexperienced to most on here as we have only been playing for a year or so

Official nippy rating 16.5

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Darn it, I should have gone higher.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"20. Because i have an overly high opinion of myself and because in person i’m bloody lovely, regardless of how i may come across online.

Are you asking for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Darn it, I should have gone higher."

My thoughts exactly....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh heck this is a hard one. For those that know and have met us I’d say we’re an 18, but with my experience on the forums I’d say a 7 x "

Average it out?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No idea, it's not for me to judge. But i do have galaxy chocolate so hopefully i get a nice little bonus point for that

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By *B69Woman over a year ago

Wiltshire

18 always room for improvement

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’d like to think I’m around the 15 mark... according to a lot of forum topics, the fact that I wash already puts me at an advantage. "

Washing helps significantly, yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No idea, it's not for me to judge. But i do have galaxy chocolate so hopefully i get a nice little bonus point for that

All depends on the ratio I would be receiving of choco , could be a 5 it could be a 20...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I might be somewhere in the middle .

Some may think I'm great , others may not.

I’m in the great camp!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"18 always room for improvement "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No idea, it's not for me to judge. But i do have galaxy chocolate so hopefully i get a nice little bonus point for that

All depends on the ratio I would be receiving of choco , could be a 5 it could be a 20..."

Some women are in the cadbury camp though....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No idea, it's not for me to judge. But i do have galaxy chocolate so hopefully i get a nice little bonus point for that

All depends on the ratio I would be receiving of choco , could be a 5 it could be a 20...

Some women are in the cadbury camp though...."

A real man eats all and any chocolate he chooses regardless of choco camps

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" I would say I’m a 17.5

I’d upgrade you to 17.7

Is that a veri?

I don’t do veris, I only have secret sex. So who knows.... it might be....

I'm sooooo doing a veri for you now...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d like to think I’m around the 15 mark... according to a lot of forum topics, the fact that I wash already puts me at an advantage. "

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

From the lack of message responses and replies in the kiss, suck, avoid type threads I'd say I'm very lowly rated on fab.

I'm certainly not perfect but I've got a good heart, loyal, fun and friendly and I do my best as a single dad so I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

High standards

My other name is Gillette.. Better than a bic good investment. ...lol...

Rate 19... As been lower than a zero by someone never there again took years to get to 19.no fxxker doing that again. Whatever you agree or disagree I'm still a 19. My head rules me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No idea, it's not for me to judge. But i do have galaxy chocolate so hopefully i get a nice little bonus point for that

All depends on the ratio I would be receiving of choco , could be a 5 it could be a 20...

Some women are in the cadbury camp though....

A real man eats all and any chocolate he chooses regardless of choco camps"

I thought real men did Yorkie bars and drove trucks....?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"From the lack of message responses and replies in the kiss, suck, avoid type threads I'd say I'm very lowly rated on fab.

I'm certainly not perfect but I've got a good heart, loyal, fun and friendly and I do my best as a single dad so I'm happy

Number?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From the lack of message responses and replies in the kiss, suck, avoid type threads I'd say I'm very lowly rated on fab.

I'm certainly not perfect but I've got a good heart, loyal, fun and friendly and I do my best as a single dad so I'm happy

Rocket scientist spy gets a 20 for me haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No idea, it's not for me to judge. But i do have galaxy chocolate so hopefully i get a nice little bonus point for that

All depends on the ratio I would be receiving of choco , could be a 5 it could be a 20...

Some women are in the cadbury camp though....

A real man eats all and any chocolate he chooses regardless of choco camps

I thought real men did Yorkie bars and drove trucks....?"

My truck is more a bike with a wee cookie trailer on the back

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By *rebs001Man over a year ago

Widnes

I'll lurk in the minus numbers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"High standards

My other name is Gillette.. Better than a bic good investment. ...lol...

Rate 19... As been lower than a zero by someone never there again took years to get to 19.no fxxker doing that again. Whatever you agree or disagree I'm still a 19. My head rules me"

Awww I like that attitude, I think I'm similar in a way. It comes from inside, right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... go on!

From 1-20 how perfect are you to most people on fab and why....?

Because I'm not what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hi 0/ 100

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I’m a 19 out of 20

You’ll always get one or two silly men that don’t find me attractive.... but they’re definitely in the minority !!

I’m fabulous !!

Ha !!

But seriously..... I’m happy in my own skin, I’m a positive person, I’m confident, I have a sense of humour, my life is good, all it lacks is a gorgeous kinky swinging sex god to share it with me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No idea, it's not for me to judge. But i do have galaxy chocolate so hopefully i get a nice little bonus point for that

All depends on the ratio I would be receiving of choco , could be a 5 it could be a 20...

Some women are in the cadbury camp though....

A real man eats all and any chocolate he chooses regardless of choco camps

I thought real men did Yorkie bars and drove trucks....?

My truck is more a bike with a wee cookie trailer on the back "

Chicks love dem bikes, that's like triple word score!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

10 maybe 12 as im a nice person( most of tge time).

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"... go on!

From 1-20 how perfect are you to most people on fab and why....?

Because I'm not what they're looking for. "

How do you know this mave?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No idea, it's not for me to judge. But i do have galaxy chocolate so hopefully i get a nice little bonus point for that

All depends on the ratio I would be receiving of choco , could be a 5 it could be a 20...

Some women are in the cadbury camp though....

A real man eats all and any chocolate he chooses regardless of choco camps

I thought real men did Yorkie bars and drove trucks....?

My truck is more a bike with a wee cookie trailer on the back

Chicks love dem bikes, that's like triple word score!"

They come a running

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

forum rating probably 14 as I come across a bit average & quiet, I don't start threads and avoid confrontational topics

in "real life" im probably about 17.5, im very talkative, open, kind and flirty

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"10 maybe 12 as im a nice person( most of tge time)."

18* official nippy rating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t rate myself. Never thought about it before. I think a lot of people on here don’t particularly like me because I’m too honest and don’t bullshit or sugarcoat or they simply just don’t get me at all. The friends who know me know what I’m really like and seem to like me a lot so that’s what matters to me. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I am 0/ 100 not interest ever that’s what happens when your 50

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"forum rating probably 14 as I come across a bit average & quiet, I don't start threads and avoid confrontational topics

in "real life" im probably about 17.5, im very talkative, open, kind and flirty

I wasnt sure until we chatted, I'd give you 17 from yesterday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t rate myself. Never thought about it before. I think a lot of people on here don’t particularly like me because I’m too honest and don’t bullshit or sugarcoat or they simply just don’t get me at all. The friends who know me know what I’m really like and seem to like me a lot so that’s what matters to me. x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Give me a number woman. This is the experiment!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmm. Difficult for me to say. An old fwb messaged me to say that he had had a meet with a lovely lady, but it wouldn't come to.anything as he was 'punching above his weight'. So what does that make me I'm wondering?! Therefore it's difficult for me to give myself a score.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"forum rating probably 14 as I come across a bit average & quiet, I don't start threads and avoid confrontational topics

in "real life" im probably about 17.5, im very talkative, open, kind and flirty

I wasnt sure until we chatted, I'd give you 17 from yesterday

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"From the lack of message responses and replies in the kiss, suck, avoid type threads I'd say I'm very lowly rated on fab.

I'm certainly not perfect but I've got a good heart, loyal, fun and friendly and I do my best as a single dad so I'm happy

Number?"

Not for me to score myself, I'll let others decide that

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

So about a 16 yeah?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Shush!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So about a 16 yeah?

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By *atebanksMan over a year ago

North London

I think based on my experience on Fab it's prob a 7 or so (maybe lower), but outside of Fab for people I've met and got to know me it's up around the 17 mark.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"From the lack of message responses and replies in the kiss, suck, avoid type threads I'd say I'm very lowly rated on fab.

I'm certainly not perfect but I've got a good heart, loyal, fun and friendly and I do my best as a single dad so I'm happy

Number?

Not for me to score myself, I'll let others decide that"

Ihhhh ehhhhhh XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"From the lack of message responses and replies in the kiss, suck, avoid type threads I'd say I'm very lowly rated on fab.

I'm certainly not perfect but I've got a good heart, loyal, fun and friendly and I do my best as a single dad so I'm happy

Number?

Not for me to score myself, I'll let others decide that

Ihhhh ehhhhhh XXX"

Family fortunes sound^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So about a 16 yeah?

. Don’t be silly. If I had to rate myself it would be a 20

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By *reya73Woman over a year ago

Whitley Bay

It's completely relative, subjective..

so obvs I'm a 20 .. to anyone who is looking for someone just like me.

I'm not comforatble rating myself or others. There are way too many layers to us humans to score. If I was a Top trumps card however... I would be one not to lose x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think based on my experience on Fab it's prob a 7 or so (maybe lower), but outside of Fab for people I've met and got to know me it's up around the 17 mark."

That's actually a good insight into how fab can affect a guys confidence. If you can just flip that, internally, you'll reap the rewards though....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading this thread just reminds me of Monica on friends when talking abit ‘her numbers’ 1, 2, 1, 2, 3, 3, 5, 4, 3, 2, 2, a 2, 4, 6, 2, 4, 6, 4, 2, 2, 4, 7, 5, 7, 6, 7, 7, 7 (google checked) if you know then you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So about a 16 yeah?

. Don’t be silly. If I had to rate myself it would be a 20"

Hoorahhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Reading this thread just reminds me of Monica on friends when talking abit ‘her numbers’ 1, 2, 1, 2, 3, 3, 5, 4, 3, 2, 2, a 2, 4, 6, 2, 4, 6, 4, 2, 2, 4, 7, 5, 7, 6, 7, 7, 7 (google checked) if you know then you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So about a 16 yeah?

. Don’t be silly. If I had to rate myself it would be a 20"

See. I got confused about the question. I thought we were saying how do we think *others* would rate us? But If I’m rating myself outta 20 it’s a 25 every time and I don’t even care if that sounds narcissistic... it’s taken a lot of soul searching and a course of therapy for me to say that about myself - I’m owning it!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's completely relative, subjective..

so obvs I'm a 20 .. to anyone who is looking for someone just like me.

I'm not comforatble rating myself or others. There are way too many layers to us humans to score. If I was a Top trumps card however... I would be one not to lose x

This was part of the experiment. I see posts here asking ppl to rate them and everyone offers advice, yet when it comes to ourselves it's a different story and humanity suddenly returns and we remember its real life.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So about a 16 yeah?

. Don’t be silly. If I had to rate myself it would be a 20

I'd have you at infinity my darling, official Nippy rating....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's completely relative, subjective..

so obvs I'm a 20 .. to anyone who is looking for someone just like me.

I'm not comforatble rating myself or others. There are way too many layers to us humans to score. If I was a Top trumps card however... I would be one not to lose x

I love how all lovely friendly reinforcements kinda, spreading the good vibes with my hippy hop dance

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right Gtg, feel free to carry on and I'll check in later xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a 20/20

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So about a 16 yeah?

. Don’t be silly. If I had to rate myself it would be a 20

Go girl! It’s probably me who misinterpreted the question. It usually is

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

If I think about myself I'd say there's always room for improvement so probably a 12. Hopefully on fab a similar ish score, try and be friendly and non judgemental. But do stand my ground which I know probs puts some people's backs up

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By *atebanksMan over a year ago

North London

"I think based on my experience on Fab it's prob a 7 or so (maybe lower), but outside of Fab for people I've met and got to know me it's up around the 17 mark.

That's actually a good insight into how fab can affect a guys confidence. If you can just flip that, internally, you'll reap the rewards though....

That could very well be true, hard to flip tho, although I'm trying! I won't let it knock my confidence tho, I'm fairly confident in myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... go on!

From 1-20 how perfect are you to most people on fab and why....?

Because I'm not what they're looking for.

How do you know this mave?"

Experience nip

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On fab id say a 10.. In real life im a 15 hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people will get you on here too.

Text/ written word doesn't always convey humour or intent.

I've met people who didn't get me till we met face to face. ...Some hated me more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... go on!

From 1-20 how perfect are you to most people on fab and why....?

Because I'm not what they're looking for.

How do you know this mave?

Experience nip

They’re looking for women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... go on!

From 1-20 how perfect are you to most people on fab and why....?

Because I'm not what they're looking for.

How do you know this mave?

Experience nip

They’re looking for women"

*scratches bollocks and sniffs fingers*

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By *ourayloversCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

7 on a work day 9 when I go out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh.. If you need someone's else's opinion for it to matter you. Then the day is just wrong for you..

Wake up and realise only you matter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... go on!

From 1-20 how perfect are you to most people on fab and why....?

Because I'm not what they're looking for.

How do you know this mave?

Experience nip

They’re looking for women

*scratches bollocks and sniffs fingers*"

Can I have a sniff?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No thanks

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Underestimate, overdeliver.

It's an entirely arbitrary value based on how we view ourselves against how others do.

The only value that matters is how we view ourselves and whether we consider we have more to learn, do and grow.

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By *liviaGTV/TS over a year ago

Preston

Rate Me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would rate myself a 12.87 I think on fab...over 10 because I have a vagina but I dont play the fab game well haha.

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

I'd rate myself a 13 , it's my club number lol

But if your not into ginger bearded Celts then I reckon that number might drop way down,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I am 0 out of 100 because I am 50 not longer sexy to any ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Used to be 10000 until they got the hump cos they cant have my penis so who knows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like me and would give myself a 20 but the people of fab......probably about 8-10 at best lol

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By *lex46TV/TS over a year ago

Near Wells

On a Friday or Saturday night my fab rating goes up to 19.5

A lot of guys coming back from the pub 7/clubs.

I would give myself 20 as no one has complained about me but if I'm serious it will would be 12.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d probably give myself a 6 or 7

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hi I rate. Myself 0/100 because no woman find older men sexy

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s irrelevant how I score myself or how others score me.

All that matters is how I feel about myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m quite a modest individual, but in regards to manners, kindness and politeness. I’d score myself a 15

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

"I’d probably give myself a 6 or 7 "

All will you stop ffs

We're you that bad at sums in school

Will ya stick a 10 to the end of those quick smart ,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm a little above average, so 12-14 maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I'm a little above average, so 12-14 maybe.

Your like a twelve on one leg alone my friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I'm a little above average, so 12-14 maybe.

Your like a twelve on one leg alone my friend "

So 3 legs makes 36 then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well the tripod counts a plus 20 bonus haha

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By *B69Woman over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I'd rate myself a 13 , it's my club number lol

But if your not into ginger bearded Celts then I reckon that number might drop way down, "

Lots of fun to be had with beards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Combined around 16-17

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Underestimate, overdeliver.

It's an entirely arbitrary value based on how we view ourselves against how others do.

The only value that matters is how we view ourselves and whether we consider we have more to learn, do and grow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i must be over 18 I'm an adult

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s irrelevant how I score myself or how others score me.

All that matters is how I feel about myself

To you (if you're sure) but I think we all are a little bit what others think of us and we most definitely should care what we think of ourselves. The purpose of the post was to see if you would rate yourself, not what score you'd give. It's fascinating....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think I'm a little above average, so 12-14 maybe.

Your like a twelve on one leg alone my friend "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"hi I rate. Myself 0/100 because no woman find older men sexy "

I shagged a 26 year old not too long ago. I'm an old bastard. Stick at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’d probably give myself a 6 or 7 "

Out of 20??? Do you mean 12-14?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like me and would give myself a 20 but the people of fab......probably about 8-10 at best lol"

Why the difference between the two do you think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Used to be 10000 until they got the hump cos they cant have my penis so who knows

What's the scale?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would rate myself a 12.87 I think on fab...over 10 because I have a vagina but I dont play the fab game well haha.

I beg to differ

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Between 5 and maybe 10...my issues make me odd to most and my whacky Ness at age of 54 when most are settled etc make me erm....unique lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Rate Me

100% of 20 for the confidence alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Underestimate, overdeliver.

It's an entirely arbitrary value based on how we view ourselves against how others do.

The only value that matters is how we view ourselves and whether we consider we have more to learn, do and grow.

Is that so....?

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

When I first joined I would've said 10,

But now......13.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

You’ve confused me by saying it’s out of 20

I am going to go with 12. Based on personality alone I would go higher but my including body I would say 12. I know what I am and what I’m not and I’m comfortable with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No thanks "

16, would have been 18 with participation and positivity

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"You’ve confused me by saying it’s out of 20

I am going to go with 12. Based on personality alone I would go higher but my including body I would say 12. I know what I am and what I’m not and I’m comfortable with that

I'd give you a 16 just for your bum alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You’ve confused me by saying it’s out of 20

I am going to go with 12. Based on personality alone I would go higher but my including body I would say 12. I know what I am and what I’m not and I’m comfortable with that

And that last line alone makes you an 18

I think you have a brilliant attitude to fab Babs xx

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"You’ve confused me by saying it’s out of 20

I am going to go with 12. Based on personality alone I would go higher but my including body I would say 12. I know what I am and what I’m not and I’m comfortable with that

I'd give you a 16 just for your bum alone.

Aww thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When I first joined I would've said 10,

But now......13.

I think you underestimate yourself CG

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Between 5 and maybe 10...my issues make me odd to most and my whacky Ness at age of 54 when most are settled etc make me erm....unique lol

But when you find a match who is equally unique, isn't that sooooo special....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... go on!

From 1-20 how perfect are you to most people on fab and why....?

Try to look at the positives, please and tell me your shit, NOT you're shit, ok....

I'll be mostly busy today so probs won't be replying through the day like usual, so no idea how this post will go - it belongs to you, let's call it a gift.....

Nip x

I have 3 orifices, surely that means a 20?

If I were to rate myself it'd be anywhere between 1 and average.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Used to be 10000 until they got the hump cos they cant have my penis so who knows

What's the scale?"
1 to 20

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"You’ve confused me by saying it’s out of 20

I am going to go with 12. Based on personality alone I would go higher but my including body I would say 12. I know what I am and what I’m not and I’m comfortable with that

And that last line alone makes you an 18

I think you have a brilliant attitude to fab Babs xx"

Thank you lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tbh.. If you need someone's else's opinion for it to matter you. Then the day is just wrong for you..

Wake up and realise only you matter"

Good attitude

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"When I first joined I would've said 10,

But now......13.

I think you underestimate yourself CG

You're a star.

Big man hug mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Used to be 10000 until they got the hump cos they cant have my penis so who knows

What's the scale?1 to 20"

1-20 out of 1000.....???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When I first joined I would've said 10,

But now......13.

I think you underestimate yourself CG

You're a star.

Big man hug mate. "

(((((((((((((((()))))))))))))))))

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

As there are MANY types of people on FAB I can safely say that all of them place me somewhere between 0 and 20.

I place myself on the line at 19.5 for emotional stability and at 4.5 for sexual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"7 on a work day 9 when I go out "

So it's just about appearance to you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Between 5 and maybe 10...my issues make me odd to most and my whacky Ness at age of 54 when most are settled etc make me erm....unique lol

But when you find a match who is equally unique, isn't that sooooo special....?

Yeah definitely. .tbh I'm cool with it as I'm pretty out there...if you re into sex, rock n roll, blues and dance we d get on great...outside a that..doubtful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive never really rated myself very highly(bit of a confidence issue) im not that good looking im a tad overweight and going bald haha. But i think ive a good personality once you get to know me...but ill leave it to others to actually give me a number.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As there are MANY types of people on FAB I can safely say that all of them place me somewhere between 0 and 20.

I place myself on the line at 19.5 for emotional stability and at 4.5 for sexual attraction. "

I'm attracted to you and I've never seen you granny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So about a 16 yeah?

. Don’t be silly. If I had to rate myself it would be a 20

I'd have you at infinity my darling, official Nippy rating....

I’ll take that

And I’ll also flirt back with you because this is YOUR thread. Your rules

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH.

I'm perfectly perfect in every probable way, I'm kind and generous, loving and giving, caring and sharing. The epitimone of a swinger. So I'd say judge me for me, and not for a number

Suzi

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s irrelevant how I score myself or how others score me.

All that matters is how I feel about myself

I disagree we are not what others think of us, even a little bit. Others may have affected me through life and from those lessons, carved a bit of who I am and how I act, but what they think of me has no baring on what I think of or see myself.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"As there are MANY types of people on FAB I can safely say that all of them place me somewhere between 0 and 20.

I place myself on the line at 19.5 for emotional stability and at 4.5 for sexual attraction.

I'm attracted to you and I've never seen you granny

So you should be. I used to be a perfect 10

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's completely relative, subjective..

so obvs I'm a 20 .. to anyone who is looking for someone just like me.

I'm not comforatble rating myself or others. There are way too many layers to us humans to score. If I was a Top trumps card however... I would be one not to lose x

It anyone missed this comment, it's critical to the whole purpose of thread before you get your judgey wigs on.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Between 5 and maybe 10...my issues make me odd to most and my whacky Ness at age of 54 when most are settled etc make me erm....unique lol

But when you find a match who is equally unique, isn't that sooooo special....?

Yeah definitely. .tbh I'm cool with it as I'm pretty out there...if you re into sex, rock n roll, blues and dance we d get on great...outside a that..doubtful

Haha, I think you're quite adorable buddy, smart and confident in a gentle unique way, its beautiful!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And Nora's new pp, woahhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's completely relative, subjective..

so obvs I'm a 20 .. to anyone who is looking for someone just like me.

I'm not comforatble rating myself or others. There are way too many layers to us humans to score. If I was a Top trumps card however... I would be one not to lose x

It anyone missed this comment, it's critical to the whole purpose of thread before you get your judgey wigs on.....

I'm judgey.

What does it mean humanity returns when we are rating ourselves? That people can rate themselves on a different scale than they'd use on someone else?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I think about myself I'd say there's always room for improvement so probably a 12. Hopefully on fab a similar ish score, try and be friendly and non judgemental. But do stand my ground which I know probs puts some people's backs up "

You're quite possibly my favourite fabber F, maybe the scale only goes to twelve in that case

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's completely relative, subjective..

so obvs I'm a 20 .. to anyone who is looking for someone just like me.

I'm not comforatble rating myself or others. There are way too many layers to us humans to score. If I was a Top trumps card however... I would be one not to lose x

It anyone missed this comment, it's critical to the whole purpose of thread before you get your judgey wigs on.....

I'm judgey.

What does it mean humanity returns when we are rating ourselves? That people can rate themselves on a different scale than they'd use on someone else?"

No, i just think they're more afraid of the consequences and give it more thought. Judge away if you understood my intent, its cool

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As there are MANY types of people on FAB I can safely say that all of them place me somewhere between 0 and 20.

I place myself on the line at 19.5 for emotional stability and at 4.5 for sexual attraction.

I'm attracted to you and I've never seen you granny

So you should be. I used to be a perfect 10

You still are in my mind, roll with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think based on my experience on Fab it's prob a 7 or so (maybe lower), but outside of Fab for people I've met and got to know me it's up around the 17 mark.

That's actually a good insight into how fab can affect a guys confidence. If you can just flip that, internally, you'll reap the rewards though....

That could very well be true, hard to flip tho, although I'm trying! I won't let it knock my confidence tho, I'm fairly confident in myself."

Just flip it, say to yourself it's TRUE, and then it is, and ppl might start to see you differently. Don't take any shit from 20's telling you that you're not good enough for their 20 party.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Between 5 and maybe 10...my issues make me odd to most and my whacky Ness at age of 54 when most are settled etc make me erm....unique lol

But when you find a match who is equally unique, isn't that sooooo special....?

Yeah definitely. .tbh I'm cool with it as I'm pretty out there...if you re into sex, rock n roll, blues and dance we d get on great...outside a that..doubtful

Haha, I think you're quite adorable buddy, smart and confident in a gentle unique way, its beautiful!

Awww cheers bud.fkd now just cray danced to The End by the Doors..most famous for movie apocalypse now...I m only who I feel most comfortable being and understand and don't judge who think I m nuts..but then in today's world it's good to be slightly nuts lolol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's completely relative, subjective..

so obvs I'm a 20 .. to anyone who is looking for someone just like me.

I'm not comforatble rating myself or others. There are way too many layers to us humans to score. If I was a Top trumps card however... I would be one not to lose x

It anyone missed this comment, it's critical to the whole purpose of thread before you get your judgey wigs on.....

I'm judgey.

What does it mean humanity returns when we are rating ourselves? That people can rate themselves on a different scale than they'd use on someone else?

No, i just think they're more afraid of the consequences and give it more thought. Judge away if you understood my intent, its cool

I think if it's someone they know (forumite or real life) they will be careful how they rate others as they won't want to offend them. If it's a stranger they're more likely to be honest. Single men 'rate me' threads from newbies never end well.

I don't know if I understood your intent, that's why I asked.

I don't see judgey as a negative though. I judgey the info and form my opinion. New info, I judgey again and may change my opinion. Further info.. judgey yet again and may change my mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

10 Body

12 Looks

16 Cock

16 Personality

20 Humour

14 Modesty

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