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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.
In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...
Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'
I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!
Away you go folks...
P.S. Not a game! |
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"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.
In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...
Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'
I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!
Away you go folks...
P.S. Not a game! "
So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.
In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...
Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'
I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!
Away you go folks...
P.S. Not a game!
So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me. "
No, this thread has this purpose. Rather than poking holes in others and stating what you think they're doing wrong, why don't you get creative?
Be positive, I dare you! |
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"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?"
Well, we are a couple, Jo is a woman, so only she can send the message
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over a year ago
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"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?
Well, we are a couple, Jo is a woman, so only she can send the message
D."
But you can receive one too! ooft x |
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"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?
Well, we are a couple, Jo is a woman, so only she can send the message
D.
But you can receive one too! ooft x"
Thank you for your message FV a big oooft back to you
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.
In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...
Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'
I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!
Away you go folks...
P.S. Not a game!
So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me.
No, this thread has this purpose. Rather than poking holes in others and stating what you think they're doing wrong, why don't you get creative?
Be positive, I dare you! "
I'm going to make my own thread!
With blackjack and hookers. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Mr Tea Monkey.
Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts "
I think that once you've oofted in one direction, it's only fair they can respond.
After all, getting a response is kind of what most people want! |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.
In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...
Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'
I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!
Away you go folks...
P.S. Not a game!
So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me.
No, this thread has this purpose. Rather than poking holes in others and stating what you think they're doing wrong, why don't you get creative?
Be positive, I dare you!
I'm going to make my own thread!
With blackjacks and fruitsalads."
Retro sweets! |
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"Mr Tea Monkey.
Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts
I think that once you've oofted in one direction, it's only fair they can respond.
After all, getting a response is kind of what most people want! "
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over a year ago
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"Mr Tea Monkey.
Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts
I think that once you've oofted in one direction, it's only fair they can respond.
After all, getting a response is kind of what most people want! "
Did someone remove your sense of humour gland today? ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.
In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...
Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'
I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!
Away you go folks...
P.S. Not a game!
So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me. "
Only because you perceive it to be so! |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Mr Tea Monkey.
Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts
I think that once you've oofted in one direction, it's only fair they can respond.
After all, getting a response is kind of what most people want!
Did someone remove your sense of humour gland today? "
Ooh! Someone is feeling quippy! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?"
Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..
Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?
S |
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"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?
Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..
Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?
S"
It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew. ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?
Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..
Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?
S
It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew. "
Blimey, you've been here longer than us & only just realised the forum is awash with singletons with attitude
S |
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"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?
Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..
Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?
S
It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew.
Blimey, you've been here longer than us & only just realised the forum is awash with singletons with attitude
S"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?
I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of
Thanks for this thread Tea |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?
Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..
Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?
S
It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew.
Blimey, you've been here longer than us & only just realised the forum is awash with singletons with attitude
S"
Next time I run this thread (if) I'll rephrase the OP to detail the rules regarding couples.
I assumed that it would be clear that the female of the couple would message. I guess not, for that I apologise for my lack of clarity.
I thought it would be an interesting twist on the usual process of guys chasing.
Can we get back to the thread now? |
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"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?
I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of
Thanks for this thread Tea "
I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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Just some random knowledge, Sadie was a comic book character I believe. Supposedly unattractive and al most past marriagable age.
Her father arranged a race of all the single men in town. Who ever she caught she was to marry.
My brain retains some weird stuff! |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?
I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of
Thanks for this thread Tea
I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade! "
Missing the point there.
If you feel that you're not included in this thread, why don't you start your own? Or are you going to go through every thread that doesn't cater directly for what you want and complain?
Or is it just mine? |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Just some random knowledge, Sadie was a comic book character I believe. Supposedly unattractive and al most past marriagable age.
Her father arranged a race of all the single men in town. Who ever she caught she was to marry.
My brain retains some weird stuff!"
Thank you!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just some random knowledge, Sadie was a comic book character I believe. Supposedly unattractive and al most past marriagable age.
Her father arranged a race of all the single men in town. Who ever she caught she was to marry.
My brain retains some weird stuff!"
Actually quite an interesting bit of random knowledge tbf ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm meant to privately message a guy if I fancy him? Hoping I would get a reply back?
Yep, exactly that!
Basically what a guy does every other time "
So I would experience how guys feel.. what if I get rejected and cannot handle it?! Can I start a new ranty thread about it? ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?
I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of
Thanks for this thread Tea
I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade!
Missing the point there.
If you feel that you're not included in this thread, why don't you start your own? Or are you going to go through every thread that doesn't cater directly for what you want and complain?
Or is it just mine? "
Im surprised you think it's ok to exclude bisexual and homosexual men. |
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"So I'm meant to privately message a guy if I fancy him? Hoping I would get a reply back?
Yep, exactly that!
Basically what a guy does every other time
So I would experience how guys feel.. what if I get rejected and cannot handle it?! Can I start a new ranty thread about it? "
That's a given ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?
I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of
Thanks for this thread Tea
I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade!
Missing the point there.
If you feel that you're not included in this thread, why don't you start your own? Or are you going to go through every thread that doesn't cater directly for what you want and complain?
Or is it just mine?
Im surprised you think it's ok to exclude bisexual and homosexual men. "
I think in the spirit of the game, if you see another gay or bisexual male you think oooft to send em a message, I’m sure they won’t mind
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alright then... I'm gonna have a closer look if I fancy anyone on this thread.. Brace yourselves, guys! "
I've been braced for hours, it's starting to get painful. ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?
I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of
Thanks for this thread Tea
I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade!
Missing the point there.
If you feel that you're not included in this thread, why don't you start your own? Or are you going to go through every thread that doesn't cater directly for what you want and complain?
Or is it just mine?
Im surprised you think it's ok to exclude bisexual and homosexual men. "
Jeez just about every thread excludes someone or other somehow - is it really necessary to nitpick the value? If you want a more inclusive thread start one rather than just trying to stir the pot unnecessarily every time!!
For what it's worth as a bisexual man I don't feel excluded, if I want to cater to my bisexual side I find a thread aimed at that or start one.
I think this is a great twist on the "usual" threads that encourage men to flock to message women and see them fighting each other to skip back to the "hot one" so well done OP ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.
In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...
Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'
I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!
Away you go folks...
P.S. Not a game!
So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me.
No, this thread has this purpose. Rather than poking holes in others and stating what you think they're doing wrong, why don't you get creative?
Be positive, I dare you!
I'm going to make my own thread!
With blackjacks and fruitsalads.
Retro sweets! "
Tina Titz always had a pocket full. ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are couples allowed to play?
Can you not have a hot couple then?
S
I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?
Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..
Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?
S
It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?
I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of
Thanks for this thread Tea
I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade! "
So take the point, ignore the example and stop splitting hairs. If you don't feel included, make a post that includes everyone. And good luck, there's always that one person who finds a reason to pick. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just some random knowledge, Sadie was a comic book character I believe. Supposedly unattractive and al most past marriagable age.
Her father arranged a race of all the single men in town. Who ever she caught she was to marry.
My brain retains some weird stuff!"
I need to have a chat with my dad! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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