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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I often see profiles of women on here asking for a members code or a sugar daddy to treat her. And I want to know how other women think of they saw or heard of this.
Is it “you go girl and exploit the male psyche”?
Or is it “damn you’re not doing the Feminism movement any favours”? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it any different having a wish list on love honey or Amazon where people can buy you items you want?
Should the desperate men willing to buy them membership etc not also be challenged?"
Yes, they're as bad as each other. |
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Generally in life, do what you do, if people are willing to pay then carry on.
Has no place on here though, that’s not what the site is about, and for the ones pleading poverty to get their membership paid, begging for £5 couldn’t be more unattractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally in life, do what you do, if people are willing to pay then carry on.
Has no place on here though, that’s not what the site is about, and for the ones pleading poverty to get their membership paid, begging for £5 couldn’t be more unattractive. "
can i beg to see your wifes bum up close and personal?    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is terrible, as are the guys who respond to it.
I have never asked any Man for money or anything. Not even boyfriends or my Dad. Always supported myself and would hate to be beholden to anyone. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it any different having a wish list on love honey or Amazon where people can buy you items you want?
Should the desperate men willing to buy them membership etc not also be challenged?
Yes, they're as bad as each other. "
This 
Although to be honest, if i were hotter i’d probably have Amazon wishlists coming out of my arse. 
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While it's not something I've participated in, the sugar baby thing is a dynamic I've looked into. When done properly it is usually something sought by men who due to their life circumstances, struggle to maintain intimate relationships. Usually due to their very busy work schedule or travelling a lot for work. Sometimes it's also due to juggling work and seeing their kids as much as they can after a divorce. They recognise they are unable to meet someone's emotional needs in a traditional relationship and sometimes therefore seek the sugar baby dynamic where they can get their needs met while providing for someone's financial needs instead. People often think it's all about sex with young, attractive women and while there is an element of that, many of the men also want companionship, someone to talk to, someone to go on traditional dates with like dinner and drinks and even just someone to cuddle on the sofa with while watching TV. As with most things, I tend to feel that as long as everyone involved is happy, live and let live.
Another thing I find interesting is the thought that it is all women exploiting the men. Of course there will always be some but they tend not to do so well as if men wanted something purely transactional, they are aware that things like escorts and camgirls or whatever they want to pay for is available. That is with the exception of the men who have a genuine kink for being a "cash cow" where again I would lean ttowards live and let live. The exploitation I have mostly witnessed in this dynamic is men who try to use money to control young women in financial difficulty. If someone becomes financially reliant upon you it can become very easy to get what you want with the threat of removing that financial support.
On here however it is against the rules and therefore should not be tolerated. There are sites specifically for that so there is no need to do that sort of thing here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To ask for a fiver for membership and for an expensive coat, shoes or holiday abroad is slightly different
I don't want a sugar daddy so it wouldn't be me anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always see posts of people asking for lifts for distances way longer than expected like "need a lift from Leeds to Liverpool who can help a girl out?" Fuck that's not a lift that's over an hour drive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While it's not something I've participated in, the sugar baby thing is a dynamic I've looked into. When done properly it is usually something sought by men who due to their life circumstances, struggle to maintain intimate relationships. Usually due to their very busy work schedule or travelling a lot for work. Sometimes it's also due to juggling work and seeing their kids as much as they can after a divorce. They recognise they are unable to meet someone's emotional needs in a traditional relationship and sometimes therefore seek the sugar baby dynamic where they can get their needs met while providing for someone's financial needs instead. People often think it's all about sex with young, attractive women and while there is an element of that, many of the men also want companionship, someone to talk to, someone to go on traditional dates with like dinner and drinks and even just someone to cuddle on the sofa with while watching TV. As with most things, I tend to feel that as long as everyone involved is happy, live and let live.
Another thing I find interesting is the thought that it is all women exploiting the men. Of course there will always be some but they tend not to do so well as if men wanted something purely transactional, they are aware that things like escorts and camgirls or whatever they want to pay for is available. That is with the exception of the men who have a genuine kink for being a "cash cow" where again I would lean ttowards live and let live. The exploitation I have mostly witnessed in this dynamic is men who try to use money to control young women in financial difficulty. If someone becomes financially reliant upon you it can become very easy to get what you want with the threat of removing that financial support.
On here however it is against the rules and therefore should not be tolerated. There are sites specifically for that so there is no need to do that sort of thing here."
you've thought about this a lot haven't you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To ask for a fiver for membership and for an expensive coat, shoes or holiday abroad is slightly different
I don't want a sugar daddy so it wouldn't be me anyway."
saccharin daddy then? |
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"While it's not something I've participated in, the sugar baby thing is a dynamic I've looked into. When done properly it is usually something sought by men who due to their life circumstances, struggle to maintain intimate relationships. Usually due to their very busy work schedule or travelling a lot for work. Sometimes it's also due to juggling work and seeing their kids as much as they can after a divorce. They recognise they are unable to meet someone's emotional needs in a traditional relationship and sometimes therefore seek the sugar baby dynamic where they can get their needs met while providing for someone's financial needs instead. People often think it's all about sex with young, attractive women and while there is an element of that, many of the men also want companionship, someone to talk to, someone to go on traditional dates with like dinner and drinks and even just someone to cuddle on the sofa with while watching TV. As with most things, I tend to feel that as long as everyone involved is happy, live and let live.
Another thing I find interesting is the thought that it is all women exploiting the men. Of course there will always be some but they tend not to do so well as if men wanted something purely transactional, they are aware that things like escorts and camgirls or whatever they want to pay for is available. That is with the exception of the men who have a genuine kink for being a "cash cow" where again I would lean ttowards live and let live. The exploitation I have mostly witnessed in this dynamic is men who try to use money to control young women in financial difficulty. If someone becomes financially reliant upon you it can become very easy to get what you want with the threat of removing that financial support.
On here however it is against the rules and therefore should not be tolerated. There are sites specifically for that so there is no need to do that sort of thing here.you've thought about this a lot haven't you? "
You tend to when you've seen it in real life rather than just on the internet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"While it's not something I've participated in, the sugar baby thing is a dynamic I've looked into. When done properly it is usually something sought by men who due to their life circumstances, struggle to maintain intimate relationships. Usually due to their very busy work schedule or travelling a lot for work. Sometimes it's also due to juggling work and seeing their kids as much as they can after a divorce. They recognise they are unable to meet someone's emotional needs in a traditional relationship and sometimes therefore seek the sugar baby dynamic where they can get their needs met while providing for someone's financial needs instead. People often think it's all about sex with young, attractive women and while there is an element of that, many of the men also want companionship, someone to talk to, someone to go on traditional dates with like dinner and drinks and even just someone to cuddle on the sofa with while watching TV. As with most things, I tend to feel that as long as everyone involved is happy, live and let live.
Another thing I find interesting is the thought that it is all women exploiting the men. Of course there will always be some but they tend not to do so well as if men wanted something purely transactional, they are aware that things like escorts and camgirls or whatever they want to pay for is available. That is with the exception of the men who have a genuine kink for being a "cash cow" where again I would lean ttowards live and let live. The exploitation I have mostly witnessed in this dynamic is men who try to use money to control young women in financial difficulty. If someone becomes financially reliant upon you it can become very easy to get what you want with the threat of removing that financial support.
On here however it is against the rules and therefore should not be tolerated. There are sites specifically for that so there is no need to do that sort of thing here.you've thought about this a lot haven't you?
You tend to when you've seen it in real life rather than just on the internet "
really can i ask who? |
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"While it's not something I've participated in, the sugar baby thing is a dynamic I've looked into. When done properly it is usually something sought by men who due to their life circumstances, struggle to maintain intimate relationships. Usually due to their very busy work schedule or travelling a lot for work. Sometimes it's also due to juggling work and seeing their kids as much as they can after a divorce. They recognise they are unable to meet someone's emotional needs in a traditional relationship and sometimes therefore seek the sugar baby dynamic where they can get their needs met while providing for someone's financial needs instead. People often think it's all about sex with young, attractive women and while there is an element of that, many of the men also want companionship, someone to talk to, someone to go on traditional dates with like dinner and drinks and even just someone to cuddle on the sofa with while watching TV. As with most things, I tend to feel that as long as everyone involved is happy, live and let live.
Another thing I find interesting is the thought that it is all women exploiting the men. Of course there will always be some but they tend not to do so well as if men wanted something purely transactional, they are aware that things like escorts and camgirls or whatever they want to pay for is available. That is with the exception of the men who have a genuine kink for being a "cash cow" where again I would lean ttowards live and let live. The exploitation I have mostly witnessed in this dynamic is men who try to use money to control young women in financial difficulty. If someone becomes financially reliant upon you it can become very easy to get what you want with the threat of removing that financial support.
On here however it is against the rules and therefore should not be tolerated. There are sites specifically for that so there is no need to do that sort of thing here.you've thought about this a lot haven't you?
You tend to when you've seen it in real life rather than just on the internet really can i ask who? "
A girl I was dating in my early 20s. |
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