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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have seen some woman disliking the fact some men on here are married without there wife’s permission or knowledge.
I don’t know why but I find it so much sexier and naughtier when I see a woman say on her profile is she married but he’s husbands dose not know she is on here.
Is it just a male thing to be turned on by something like that ? The thrill of having someone else wife , like having something that doesn’t belong to you.
Or do some woman find it a turn on to see a married man in the same position?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have seen some woman disliking the fact some men on here are married without there wife’s permission or knowledge.
I don’t know why but I find it so much sexier and naughtier when I see a woman say on her profile is she married but he’s husbands dose not know she is on here.
Is it just a male thing to be turned on by something like that ? The thrill of having someone else wife , like having something that doesn’t belong to you.
Or do some woman find it a turn on to see a married man in the same position?
If your a little shy and don’t wanna post in the group feel free to private message "
I think you’re right I think it’s just a male thing |
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone."
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid "
No she’s right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid "
Also true..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid
No she’s right"
That's what my husband says. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid "
It’s from the perspective from a woman who would fuck a married man, not the wife at home. So your comment isn’t relevant to OPs question or the above response in the first place. It was not asked who would cheat only if women view me. That cheat as a turn on... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you like stirring the porridge and that's why it turns you on? 
I cant say a persons circumstances, career, affluence or any other status has an impact. Its attraction and chemistry that's all for me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone."
you sure about that I could name a few that aren't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I value honesty, so this does nothing for me either. "
I think women have more empathy for others than men, hence they can put themselves into the "wronged" partner's shoes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder sometimes if there's maybe a little underlying dishonesty or denial involved in these discussions about cheating.
Just for a moment, consider yer average cis hetero male. Cheating.
You have to ask - who is he cheating with? Are all these cads "lucky" enough to find/con properly single women to fuck around with? Or only women acting with their husband's permission?
Realistically I think that's unlikely.
More likely, I would suggest, that for a cheating man there's a better than even chance you also have a cheating woman.
Retreats rapidly to bunker... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder sometimes if there's maybe a little underlying dishonesty or denial involved in these discussions about cheating.
Just for a moment, consider yer average cis hetero male. Cheating.
You have to ask - who is he cheating with? Are all these cads "lucky" enough to find/con properly single women to fuck around with? Or only women acting with their husband's permission?
Realistically I think that's unlikely.
More likely, I would suggest, that for a cheating man there's a better than even chance you also have a cheating woman.
Retreats rapidly to bunker..."
Pfft - we don't need sensible in these parts sir
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you like stirring the porridge and that's why it turns you on?
I cant say a persons circumstances, career, affluence or any other status has an impact. Its attraction and chemistry that's all for me?"
Yep, lacking empathy right there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder sometimes if there's maybe a little underlying dishonesty or denial involved in these discussions about cheating.
Just for a moment, consider yer average cis hetero male. Cheating.
You have to ask - who is he cheating with? Are all these cads "lucky" enough to find/con properly single women to fuck around with? Or only women acting with their husband's permission?
Realistically I think that's unlikely.
More likely, I would suggest, that for a cheating man there's a better than even chance you also have a cheating woman.
Retreats rapidly to bunker...
Pfft - we don't need sensible in these parts sir
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Sincere apologies. A momentary lapse. Unlikely to be repeated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid
No she’s right"
No, she is wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid
No she’s right
No, she is wrong "
Well darn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid
No she’s right
No, she is wrong
Well darn"
Indeed,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid "
Exactly. The woman my soon to be ex husband had/is having an affair with was with other married men and my husband. She knew we were still married and she didnt give a fook. They exist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Plenty of heartless cows around who don't give a fuck about their poor sap husbands at home, so your generalisation is invalid "
The reasons why women cheat may differ to men's reasons (as well as on the same lines). I have a friend who was emotionally vulnerable after her divorce. She felt that meeting married men would stop her developing feelings for another man. |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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I think there has to be honesty. If ur not getting it at home and want it elsewhere then get out of the relationship ur in and be with someone who is more compatible. Unfair to cheat and lie and dispise disrepect. People who get a kick out of splitting people up or causing upset to others are walking on ice. I couldnt do it and don't get those that do. An open relationship is different. But lying and cheating nah |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I think for a lot its down to the honesty factor if someone lies to their partner they may lie to you about things like sti free. "
Good point!
I am thinking also that we are all individuals who have their own personal reasons for cheating or not cheating as the case maybe? So the stereotypical "they" relating to men and women may actually not apply. Just a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think be honest about your relationship status, and go from there. Everyone’s an adult here. Surely 2 people are capable of making a decision on whether to meet. I don’t get why we have all the threads about is it right is it wrong. Why do people bother so much about what everyone else thinks? Just get on with it or don’t. Like I’ve always said not everything is black or white in any situation. If you’re married just say so ffs I can’t abide men pretending they’re not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married, my husband created my account and is the only person who knows I'm here. So you wouldn't get that "thrill" from me Op.
I must admit, I have met married men in the past, my bad, but the only thrills I got were from the sex, not from knowing I was fucking someone who was taken. My life, my choices and I have to live with my morals of a sewer rat!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got a missus she don't know I'm on here. I feel bad about it but fuck it you only live once "
I’ve met married men in the past and I usually know the background I as get to know people well. That reason and attitude would be an instant no for me. Like I said not everything is black or white and you can’t tar everyone with the same brush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Married men are desperate for a shag. Even I can get a shag from a married man. 
I'm not really married, I only told you that to get your drawers off. "
And then you immediately told me to put them back on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone."
Hahaha, do women really think men believe this crap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Hahaha, do women really think men believe this crap"
Nope not one bit women can be just as bad. I know as I have met some one on here who is married. Just wasn’t getting any attention and sex at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have seen some woman disliking the fact some men on here are married without there wife’s permission or knowledge.
I don’t know why but I find it so much sexier and naughtier when I see a woman say on her profile is she married but he’s husbands dose not know she is on here.
Is it just a male thing to be turned on by something like that ? The thrill of having someone else wife , like having something that doesn’t belong to you.
Or do some woman find it a turn on to see a married man in the same position?
If your a little shy and don’t wanna post in the group feel free to private message "
Although I think this is an ego trip for men. People are more accepting of married women than married men, especially couples.  |
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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago
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Generally I am indifferent to the relationship status of prospective sex partners.
The moment a man mentions how much he is turned on in the manner suggested by the OP, is the moment I'm totally turned off.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a missus she don't know I'm on here. I feel bad about it but fuck it you only live once
I’ve met married men in the past and I usually know the background I as get to know people well. That reason and attitude would be an instant no for me. Like I said not everything is black or white and you can’t tar everyone with the same brush. "
See lads honesty is not always the best policy.
Live your own life people will always disagree with you no matter what decision you make, let them be stressed about it not you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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first time here so forgive me if i mauage to offend anyone
i think we all have our own reasons for being here and judgement is a very dangerous thing , personelly the fact that someone is married i dont find as a turn on more as a connection of two people with similar citcumstances |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never go out of my way to meet a man who's taken . If in the real world there was a connection..I'll admit its happened. But he has been the cheat! Not me. Lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone."
Yeah that the case is it?? Pretty sure my ex-wife didn't give two fps while she was fucking around, while sat home watching our kids!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Yeah that the case is it?? Pretty sure my ex-wife didn't give two fps while she was fucking around, while sat home watching our kids!!"
I agree with Ginge....i know some pretty ruthless women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a missus she don't know I'm on here. I feel bad about it but fuck it you only live once
I’ve met married men in the past and I usually know the background I as get to know people well. That reason and attitude would be an instant no for me. Like I said not everything is black or white and you can’t tar everyone with the same brush.
See lads honesty is not always the best policy.
Live your own life people will always disagree with you no matter what decision you make, let them be stressed about it not you "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its so complex, we don't need someone else to make us lovely we can do it all by ourselves.
But sometimes being in a relationship can leave you ALONE and LONELY....I don't judge, we all need something x |
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone."
Blessed is he, who in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who would attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think for a lot its down to the honesty factor if someone lies to their partner they may lie to you about things like sti free.
Good point!
I am thinking also that we are all individuals who have their own personal reasons for cheating or not cheating as the case maybe? So the stereotypical "they" relating to men and women may actually not apply. Just a thought."
Welcome to Fab - where logic and intelligence such as this are largely absent.  So don’t forget - *all* married men are in unhappy sexless marriages, have no empathy for others, and are happy to cheat. And *all* women are empathic and would never do such a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think for a lot its down to the honesty factor if someone lies to their partner they may lie to you about things like sti free.
Good point!
I am thinking also that we are all individuals who have their own personal reasons for cheating or not cheating as the case maybe? So the stereotypical "they" relating to men and women may actually not apply. Just a thought.
Welcome to Fab - where logic and intelligence such as this are largely absent. So don’t forget - *all* married men are in unhappy sexless marriages, have no empathy for others, and are happy to cheat. And *all* women are empathic and would never do such a thing. "
Lucie Jo fuck me you're fit and intelligent |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think for a lot its down to the honesty factor if someone lies to their partner they may lie to you about things like sti free.
Good point!
I am thinking also that we are all individuals who have their own personal reasons for cheating or not cheating as the case maybe? So the stereotypical "they" relating to men and women may actually not apply. Just a thought.
Welcome to Fab - where logic and intelligence such as this are largely absent. So don’t forget - *all* married men are in unhappy sexless marriages, have no empathy for others, and are happy to cheat. And *all* women are empathic and would never do such a thing.
Lucie Jo fuck me you're fit and intelligent"
Why thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Blessed is he, who in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who would attempt to poison and destroy my brothers."
God posted that on Twitter |
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"I got a missus she don't know I'm on here. I feel bad about it but fuck it you only live once
I’ve met married men in the past and I usually know the background I as get to know people well. That reason and attitude would be an instant no for me. Like I said not everything is black or white and you can’t tar everyone with the same brush.
See lads honesty is not always the best policy.
Live your own life people will always disagree with you no matter what decision you make, let them be stressed about it not you "
I don't think it's the honesty about his situation that's off putting.
It's the attitude towards his partner.....
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"Married men are desperate for a shag. Even I can get a shag from a married man.
I'm not really married, I only told you that to get your drawers off.
And then you immediately told me to put them back on! "
The size of your cock scared me Dave...... |
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Blessed is he, who in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who would attempt to poison and destroy my brothers.
God posted that on Twitter "
No, I did on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Blessed is he, who in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who would attempt to poison and destroy my brothers.
God posted that on Twitter "
Samuel L Jackson made it famous first. Loved that bit in pulp fiction |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a missus she don't know I'm on here. I feel bad about it but fuck it you only live once
I’ve met married men in the past and I usually know the background I as get to know people well. That reason and attitude would be an instant no for me. Like I said not everything is black or white and you can’t tar everyone with the same brush.
See lads honesty is not always the best policy.
Live your own life people will always disagree with you no matter what decision you make, let them be stressed about it not you
I don't think it's the honesty about his situation that's off putting.
It's the attitude towards his partner.....
*Point missed...."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a missus she don't know I'm on here. I feel bad about it but fuck it you only live once
I’ve met married men in the past and I usually know the background I as get to know people well. That reason and attitude would be an instant no for me. Like I said not everything is black or white and you can’t tar everyone with the same brush.
See lads honesty is not always the best policy.
Live your own life people will always disagree with you no matter what decision you make, let them be stressed about it not you
I don't think it's the honesty about his situation that's off putting.
It's the attitude towards his partner.....
*Point missed...."
Well that is the honesty lol and I do feel bad for her |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I think for a lot its down to the honesty factor if someone lies to their partner they may lie to you about things like sti free.
Good point!
I am thinking also that we are all individuals who have their own personal reasons for cheating or not cheating as the case maybe? So the stereotypical "they" relating to men and women may actually not apply. Just a thought.
Welcome to Fab - where logic and intelligence such as this are largely absent. So don’t forget - *all* married men are in unhappy sexless marriages, have no empathy for others, and are happy to cheat. And *all* women are empathic and would never do such a thing. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The big question has to be.... if the married man was being fully satisfied at home, would he roam? There's two sides to every story and the truth is usually somewhere in the middle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen some woman disliking the fact some men on here are married without there wife’s permission or knowledge.
I don’t know why but I find it so much sexier and naughtier when I see a woman say on her profile is she married but he’s husbands dose not know she is on here.
Is it just a male thing to be turned on by something like that ? The thrill of having someone else wife , like having something that doesn’t belong to you.
Or do some woman find it a turn on to see a married man in the same position?
If your a little shy and don’t wanna post in the group feel free to private message "
maybe men just dont care, they just see the holes and score goals, the responsibility really lays with the person breaking their vows not the person helping them to achieve it in most instances the guy probably doesn't know anyway  |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Generally I am indifferent to the relationship status of prospective sex partners.
The moment a man mentions how much he is turned on in the manner suggested by the OP, is the moment I'm totally turned off.
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I like to meet married women but not because of the thrill of sleeping with another man’s wife. I like married women as they understand the situation and are often looking for the same thing that I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The big question has to be.... if the married man was being fully satisfied at home, would he roam? There's two sides to every story and the truth is usually somewhere in the middle! "
How do you define fully satisfied? What does that mean to the individual? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I think it does differ a bit between sexes,all the gloating i've seen about shagging someones partner has come from men.
Some women may find attached men a turn on,but they don't often start posts about it.
Same with married people whinging that nobody will meet them,usually started by men in the forum.
I wouldn't like it done to me,so would never knowing meet a married or attached man,unless his wife knew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I avoid married men because of practical reasons. I don't judge... partly because that assumes his wife is being faithful too. I've known countless women who keep hubby around so the bills and mortgage are paid while they sleep with colleagues, neighbours, friends... Whoever. Finding extra marital sex as a woman is about as difficult as making a cup of tea. And if your husband spends his time online trying to get laid then he'll never catch on. I've seen it time and time again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand guys actively getting turned on by the idea of fucking a married woman. Seems to me it's the husband they're getting off on fucking.
That said, I'm also not about to judge anyone. People have all kinds of stuff going on in their lives. I'm not here to deal with other people's issues - I've enough admin of my own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Are we 'assuming' she's home alone?... "
True. She could be a bigger swinger than him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men are evil and don't give a shit.
Women are caring so they think about the poor wife back home alone.
Yeah that the case is it?? Pretty sure my ex-wife didn't give two fps while she was fucking around, while sat home watching our kids!!"
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