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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

I struggle at 31 lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol, male half, was 51 back in July and still manage to get it up on a regular basis

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not true in my experience...and even if that is the case there are options for that too...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, sorry OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a massive, misguided generalisation.

So full of s#!t

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pffft!! I'm 63, how do you think I feel?....

X x

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By *ux19Man over a year ago

Essex

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

Certainly hope not too, mines looming

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pffft!! I'm 63, how do you think I feel?....

X x"

Not hard?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"What a massive, misguided generalisation.

So full of s#!t"

I think it was a lighthearted jokey comment.

But yes op, you're fucked when you hit 50. Or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

I struggle at 31 lol"

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

There’s always Viagra and Penis Pumps.

Where there’s a willy, there’s a way

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lol, male half, was 51 back in July and still manage to get it up on a regular basis"

Good to know phew

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By *ightkitty4uWoman over a year ago

Epsom

I know 50 year olds who are far better than 30 year olds..

Do love a man in their 50s

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes, sorry OP"

Trip to the docs for some V it is then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 52, still have no issues

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Popular misconception (pardon the pun). I wish I couldn't get it up/had no libido. I wouldn't be so bloody frustrated all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, sorry OP

Trip to the docs for some V it is then

Vienetta?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are a couple in our early 60s just starting down this road, hopefully we are not at the end of it before we even set off.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some people are still at it in their 60s, some should probably stick to the fluffy slippers in their 30s.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If that's true I'd best make the most of the next six months!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not true at all. Site's full of DILFS.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bullshit. My hubby is 60 and he never ever has a problem getting it up. They can go on well into their 90s lol.

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By *weetlips1000Woman over a year ago

Sleaford

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

I personally like the “older” guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes, sorry OP

Trip to the docs for some V it is then

Vienetta?"

Nooooo vindaloo of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, sorry OP

Trip to the docs for some V it is then

Vicks won't help. Have a wank while you still can. (((

)))

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

Yep. Learn to live with it mate. You're fucked

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By *ickher LicenceMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Pile of pants!!!

I'm 53 next and wish on some mornings at 5.00am ish the damn thing didn't get up!

What the difference between light and hard?

You can sleep with a light on!

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By *tephanjMan over a year ago

Kettering

Well at 65 I can still get it up sometimes it does need help but not often Viagra comes in handy in occasions

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

My hubby is 65 and we play on here together ,yes he might not have the same stamina hence guy joining us ,but we have had 2 meets where hubby was the only one who kept it up and made sure i was satisfied ....

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By *uxinteriorMan over a year ago

south west , continental

There's a saying 'use it or loose it'!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes, sorry OP

Trip to the docs for some V it is then

Vicks won't help. Have a wank while you still can. (((

)))"

Pmsl

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By *ust the ticket1Couple over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

53 and not an issue. If I ever need viagra I'll give it up. I'm more horny now than I was at 33.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50 is the new 40 !!

By the time I get to 60 things will have changed and 60 will be the new 45

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"53 and not an issue. If I ever need viagra I'll give it up. I'm more horny now than I was at 33. "
Never say never , my brother in law needs it after his cancer treatment affected him ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it's TRUE, now delete your account and increase everyone else chances floppy

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By *B69Woman over a year ago

Wiltshire

Shouldn’t believe everything you read, plenty of fun years ahead

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

Hahaha well there’s only been a few over fifties that have managed a proper hardon which is a shame as I prefer people my own age or older. And odd as my hubby doesn’t have that issue. Hopefully you’ll be one that doesn’t suffer....

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By *acko9568Man over a year ago

saltburn

"Lol, male half, was 51 back in July and still manage to get it up on a regular basis"

I can confirm you have at least another decade before worrying bud, if my experience is anything to go by, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes it's TRUE, now delete your account and increase everyone else chances floppy

Floppy!!!! Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why does this myth persist?

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

local, but not too local

Couple of lolly sticks and a laggy band?

I guess there’s more likelihood of problems with age. Mine still works, especially since getting out on the bike more - CV fitness seems to give everything a boost.

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By *unnyhotelCouple over a year ago

manchester

hi 63 next year never had a problem dont take anything i feel like a freak make love everyday and want to maybe not normal mark

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By *entileschiWoman over a year ago

Norwich

I'm 53 and trust me I know how to achieve an erection!

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By *ingle ex cuckMan over a year ago

chester

I think I must have been fifty 30 years ago then

As I’ve not been able to get

I step aside and leave that job to the men with stamina,

just glad I have a tongue .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No problem getting it up but i am a once a night guy these days. It means that i always like to take my time with a nice slow build for all parties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What a massive, misguided generalisation.

So full of s#!t"

Misguided generalisations? On Fab? Nooooo.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

You're likely to be past it, for meeting her OP, just as with others who have emphatic boundaries over who they will consider to meet.

Preferences are all important to people and beneficial to those who can search out people that they match with.

Thousands of people here - focus on the right ones. People have sex for decades after 50. Do what you can to manage your health, so that your sexual potential is optimized.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couple of lolly sticks and a laggy band?

I guess there’s more likelihood of problems with age. Mine still works, especially since getting out on the bike more - CV fitness seems to give everything a boost. "

Thick laggy bands = more girth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

women really know how to help a mans ego.

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By *atureMischiefCouple over a year ago

Lutterworth

We had a club full of people in there 40s 50s 60s on Wednesday night, the sight that confronted us when walking into the group play room certainly didn’t look like anyone was struggling to get it up, quite the opposite

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By *ady23Woman over a year ago

Coventry

As the female in the couple m is in his 50s and as sexy as hell. 50s is a great age and very sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

Nonsense, poor woman's been meeting the wrong guys lol

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By *hisCharManMan over a year ago

South Manchester

As a 51 year old, I must say I’ve never had trouble “getting it up”.

Umbrellas, garage doors, even stuff on to a top shelf.

No problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No problems so far...…..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 26 can't get it up all the time mate dw about it

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By *heekyboltoncplCouple over a year ago

BOLTON

My partner is 56... No complaints here ??

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By *lanemikeMan over a year ago

Bolton

72 year old here. Do I get as "hard" now as I did when I was 25 ?? No, sadly !! Do I still enjoy sex in one way or another ?? You bet I do !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

63 here. Wake up erections as normal, sex with regular partner all fine. Getting a wank on, no probs.

When it's affected, Usually it's just being with someone who is all wrong for me and a growing sense of uneasiness sets in. Doomed to failure.

But that's how I've always been.

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

There drugs for that

I know I make em,

Lol

Also a growing in Malta and Sicily, so her reason is fixable, so don't fear 50 man, lol

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By *essie.Woman over a year ago

Serendipity

I must be past it too then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 26 can't get it up all the time mate dw about it "

It happens to all men at some point.

Really don't worry about it OP.. or anyone. If the women you're with takes the piss then she's nasty and not worth shagging anyway! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 50 not a problem getting a hard on and staying up.

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By *JsandstockingsCouple over a year ago

warwickshire

The best sex I have ever had has been with over 50’s !! No need to worry x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I meet men around my age (51) and older never had a man have a problem getting hard and they all repeated so shes missing out big time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Eat right exercise right no worries here. Mind you having a saucy minx for a wife helps a lot.

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By *pikeyboyMan over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never heard such bollocks in my life. My partner turns 53 in December and you could hang a wet donkey jacket off it every morning. Couple of years ago I met a gentleman here who entertained me in a beautiful hotel room and went 6 times, he was 57. 50 is a fantastic age for a man, you're old enough to have some natural authority and young enough to do something with it

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By *arkus1812Man over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"53 and not an issue. If I ever need viagra I'll give it up. I'm more horny now than I was at 33. "

Words which may come back to haunt you.

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By *ny1localMan over a year ago

READING

Certainly not a problem for me, as you can see from some of my pics.

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By *eeBee67Man over a year ago

Masked and Distant

No problems here, quite the opposite actually

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been fifty for six months. No problems so far

Mr R

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By *ummer breeze300Woman over a year ago

Caerphilly

I find men in there 50s are more rampant

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By *urple-roseWoman over a year ago

Stoke

I’d say it says more about her if they can’t get it up as I’ve never had any problems with the older guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So not true..

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By *atureoldieslookingforfunCouple over a year ago

Redcar

I have no problem at all, wake up most mornings with an erection,and the wife has no complaints, well other than me poking her in the back with it on a morning spooning her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, sorry OP

Trip to the docs for some V it is then

Vienetta?"

Mmmmm I love these.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some men over 50 can’t get it up.

Some under 50 can’t get it up.

If you’re not what she’s looking for why worry yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

55 at Christmas and not having problems getting it up. Yet lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

If you are getting it up ok at 49 you are probably going to be be ok for at least another 6 months or so...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im seeing someone over 50 and struggle to keep up lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're worrying about it that may prevent you getting it up in the first place

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

No don’t worry about it ...

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

You’ll be stuffed from all aspects then!

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By *ark_NLMan over a year ago

Netherlands / Merseyside

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

Ditto, 50 next year for me as well. I better tell the wife that she might as well get a FB as I'll of service come next year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I quite like the over 50’s

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

I am older than 50... you have experience and charm to look forward to... as for the poor lady that thinks men over 50 can keep it up... the air in Scotland is thinner... we have no such issues...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Im seeing someone over 50 and struggle to keep up lol x"

Lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 55 and I don't get any problems getting it up or keeping it up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

Well my fella has no problems, but statically every male at some point in their life will suffer from ED , or stage fright

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By *hechapMan over a year ago

Derry

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

Wonder what she looked like?

Maybe there wasnt much of an attraction...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 53. No issues yet and if anything seem to be even more virile than I was several years ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Total crap...I can still have multiples in minutes of each other and s one poster said above if you hit that issue in any point of life there's ways around it

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By *occerstar579Man over a year ago

cambridge

So wrong. Not actually hit 50 yet but finding that the saying of sex improves with age is very true. The days of being 18 and finding that id get a semi just by checking out a swim suit catalogue are gone but an erection now lasts that much longer...at 18 it's about getting your rocks off. I'm 40s you discover that it's about giving pleasure and discovering each other's bodies. Getting an maintaining hardness now comes from chemistry and desire. It's soooo much better!

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

"I read a ladies profile on here and she stated, she doesn't meet men over 50 because usually " they cant get it up "

I turn 50 next year

Is this what I have to look forward to ?

Not getting it up ? Gulp!!!

"
. I hit 50 in 2018 the first thing I noticed was I couldn’t message as many ladies and couples as before as I was outside their upper age range.For me the way round it was to go to socials and clubs that way people can see me face to face and chat and see if they wanted to take things further.People are pleasantly surprised when I say I am 51 so I am actually enjoying Fabs in my 50’s.A bit hard at my age to be considered a cub but you never know a 60 - 65 year cougar may take pity on me.

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