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If you went to a therapist today, what would they say is holding you back the most?

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By *itty9899 OP   Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island

Fear of failure.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

I think your the therapist with your posts tonight

It would definitely be fear

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fear of success and happiness! :o

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Jokes on you OP I still see a therapist!!!

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish

For me - probably looking for love too hard! Just been dumped though so feeling a tad tender today!

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

A need to be liked.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"For me - probably looking for love too hard! Just been dumped though so feeling a tad tender today! "

Big hugs!

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

Dunno, they’d have a field day with my past so could be anything

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fear definitely x

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By *ux19Man  over a year ago

Essex

The key to my straight jacket.

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By *itty9899 OP   Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"A need to be liked."

We've never meet but I like you.

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm part werewolf

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By *itty9899 OP   Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I'm part werewolf "

Be careful of the next full moon then.

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

Fear of repetition

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By *ux19Man  over a year ago

Essex


"For me - probably looking for love too hard! Just been dumped though so feeling a tad tender today! "

Say it isn't so... chin up, you'll be just fine.

The therapist told me so.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The bed I'm handcuffed to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For me - probably looking for love too hard! Just been dumped though so feeling a tad tender today! "

Ahh bless you... I broke up with my fab fwb on Saturday, so totally emphasise xx

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By *rightonfranceMan  over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

My location, nearest Fabber is 163 miles away, nearest woman or couple 353 miles.. damn

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"For me - probably looking for love too hard! Just been dumped though so feeling a tad tender today! "

Spanky bum time for you then young lady

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

not being able to see whats coming.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For me - probably looking for love too hard! Just been dumped though so feeling a tad tender today! "
hope you start to feel better soon x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Rejection ... I dont mean fab rejection I mean real life rejection from people who mean the most

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By *Man1263Man  over a year ago

Stockport

An elastic band

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fear of repetition "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The straight jacket

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS  over a year ago

Leeds


"Rejection ... I dont mean fab rejection I mean real life rejection from people who mean the most "

This. And yes, I do see a therapist

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nout, I'm where I want to be, with better things to come....

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I need to grieve

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not much. I'm graduating from therapy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The bill...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My self confidence....gah!

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By *imited 3EditionCouple  over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

Being a workaholic

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By *ylvie 888Woman  over a year ago

Cleethorpes

My own mind

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My spinal cord.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My therapist would probably prescribe something to hold me back to be fair hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Apathy. And handcuffs, but mostly apathy.

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By *dward_TeagueMan  over a year ago

wolverhampton

Procrastination

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Lack of self-confidence and inability to put myself first probably

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lack of self-confidence and inability to put myself first probably"

Same

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman  over a year ago

London

Inability to trust, probably

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Inability to trust, probably"

Yep. Plus fiercely independent.

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By *houldibedoingthis!Man  over a year ago

london

Is it allowed to post external links in forums?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

The walls I've built around myself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The walls I've built around myself "

I’m proud of my walls I built them myself and they took years of blood tears and hard work!! I Fooking will be guarded of my walls as they are part of me!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Low self worth

Too self critical

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By *rixiepeepWoman  over a year ago

over the hill / chatsworth

Lack of self-confidence and inabilility to make friends

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By *manaWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke

Trust issues

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't have any issues that I am aware of. I have a great life, job, friends. I dont regret anything, I don't aspire to be anything different. I need an acupuncturist for my damn sinuses, but not a therapist

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The fear of realising that I am just a spec of existence in the greater cosmos, and my actions and reactions will mean nothing and myself and memories of me will simply fade with time.

Also I'm not very bright

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fear of realising that I am just a spec of existence in the greater cosmos, and my actions and reactions will mean nothing and myself and memories of me will simply fade with time.

Also I'm not very bright "

Bollocks, you're a blazing legend matey.....!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fear of realising that I am just a spec of existence in the greater cosmos, and my actions and reactions will mean nothing and myself and memories of me will simply fade with time.

Also I'm not very bright

Bollocks, you're a blazing legend matey.....!"

Oh you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fear of realising that I am just a spec of existence in the greater cosmos, and my actions and reactions will mean nothing and myself and memories of me will simply fade with time.

Also I'm not very bright "

If you were brighter, would you shine longer ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fear of realising that I am just a spec of existence in the greater cosmos, and my actions and reactions will mean nothing and myself and memories of me will simply fade with time.

Also I'm not very bright

If you were brighter, would you shine longer ? "

I'd shine all night for you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lack of confidence..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fear of realising that I am just a spec of existence in the greater cosmos, and my actions and reactions will mean nothing and myself and memories of me will simply fade with time.

Also I'm not very bright

If you were brighter, would you shine longer ?

I'd shine all night for you "

Promises promises

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A lack of perceived justice normally. I struggle with the notion that nasty people don't get visited by the karma bus.... when it seems that maybe they do after all

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fear of realising that I am just a spec of existence in the greater cosmos, and my actions and reactions will mean nothing and myself and memories of me will simply fade with time.

Also I'm not very bright

If you were brighter, would you shine longer ?

I'd shine all night for you

Promises promises"

You're more than welcome to try and prove me wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fear of realising that I am just a spec of existence in the greater cosmos, and my actions and reactions will mean nothing and myself and memories of me will simply fade with time.

Also I'm not very bright

If you were brighter, would you shine longer ?

I'd shine all night for you

Promises promises

You're more than welcome to try and prove me wrong "

Same deal as Swindon...?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My opinion of myself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My opinion of myself "

Just use my opinion of yourself, you're gorgeous right through

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

The therapist wouldn't know where to start!

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By *rs mischiefWoman  over a year ago

Manchester

My self confidence

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By *abrina59TV/TS  over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Responsibilities

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple  over a year ago

kent

The past.

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By *evyn69Man  over a year ago

Staines

Not being content......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My velcro gimp outfit and my velcro bedsheets. It's such a struggle just to get out of bed everyday .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Myself.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple  over a year ago

kent


"A lack of perceived justice normally. I struggle with the notion that nasty people don't get visited by the karma bus.... when it seems that maybe they do after all

P"

I have wrestled with this a lot, and I have unfortunately found myself on the receiving end of some truly wicked people. I still don’t have an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My opinion of myself

Just use my opinion of yourself, you're gorgeous right through "

Thank you. Just wish I could believe it

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"A lack of perceived justice normally. I struggle with the notion that nasty people don't get visited by the karma bus.... when it seems that maybe they do after all

P"

What goes around.. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They would probably tell me to lower my expectations of people. I think they might even shed a tear for me at my Series of Unfortunate Events and wonder how the hell they could help such a hopeless case.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Acceptance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Past.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"A lack of perceived justice normally. I struggle with the notion that nasty people don't get visited by the karma bus.... when it seems that maybe they do after all

P"

Karma always visits it’s just slow sometimes

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By *lyreelMan  over a year ago

King's lynn


"Fear of repetition "

You can say that again.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My opinion of myself

Just use my opinion of yourself, you're gorgeous right through

Thank you. Just wish I could believe it "

You could if you chose to xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The therapist would probably say I'm too much work to deal with right now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fear of my brain stop working!

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By *imited 3EditionCouple  over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"Being a workaholic"

Update: does being off work for 19 weeks count as anti-addiction therapy?

I mean, I think it does. But I am guessing the real test will come when I'm back at work full-time

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Laziness

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

My past and also the bastard guilt I carry.

I’m gonna carry that weight till the end of my days.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lack of sustained focus for me. My goals change as often as the tides lol if I want something badly enough that's within reach I'll go for it there and then, out of reach and it becomes a complex equation as to wether or not I should put in the time and effort even, which in itself takes time and effort and ultimately something that takes my attention away and my goals change again.

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By *ragoniteMan  over a year ago

Cheshire

Fear of the unknown and fear of letting people down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lack of self esteem and abandonment issues

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fear of commitment

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Self doubt and those in my life who exploit it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not feeling good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Myself that holds me back and I know it. Everyone before myself as usual but thats just how it goes.

F.

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By *toobguyMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Lack of self confidence.

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By *ylvie 888Woman  over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Myself

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By *eonnieCouple  over a year ago

Worsley

Procrastination and maybe overthinking..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Own lack of self belief

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley

A couple of incidents in my past that stop me ever completely letting go and just totally relaxing, especially during sex.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My straight jacket

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By *thena123Woman  over a year ago

Swansea

My head. Xxxx

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan  over a year ago

london

I care more about others than I do about myself

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By *aeganaWoman  over a year ago

birmingham

Fear of always being alone along with other things x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My forgetfulness. Also my forgetfulness.

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By * and R cple4Couple  over a year ago

swansea

Living in the past..

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By *llure sensuelleWoman  over a year ago

right here


"A lack of perceived justice normally. I struggle with the notion that nasty people don't get visited by the karma bus.... when it seems that maybe they do after all

P

Karma always visits it’s just slow sometimes "

Any idea when karma visits you how long it stays?????

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My straight jacket

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being scared all the time

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By *ee pandaWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Not being good enought and being hurt again xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Back from what?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've just started so it's going take a bit of time to find those answers

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By *nvisible_beardMan  over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Never being good enough

So failure

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My feeling of not being good enough, being second best

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being a know it all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Complete lack of self belief....that's for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

money, looks, personality, location and sanity

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No self belief or confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fear of being hurt. Self confidence, not feeling good enough

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