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over a year ago
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Hi all, Dan is interested in Anal we have played with beads but that's it. He would like to try receiving but s very worried about it been messy, and so that stops him :s
We did buy a strap on, problem is we didn't check the size and is far too big |
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"Hi all, Dan is interested in Anal we have played with beads but that's it. He would like to try receiving but s very worried about it been messy, and so that stops him :s
We did buy a strap on, problem is we didn't check the size and is far too big"
Give it a wipe n take it back.
Read up on douching....
Lube him up and start him gently....
Leave the whacking great dildos to the anally inside out with decades of experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, Dan is interested in Anal we have played with beads but that's it. He would like to try receiving but s very worried about it been messy, and so that stops him :s
We did buy a strap on, problem is we didn't check the size and is far too big
Give it a wipe n take it back.
Read up on douching....
Lube him up and start him gently....
Leave the whacking great dildos to the anally inside out with decades of experience.
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 this.
Douching is essential to ass play. Helps relax the muscles a little beforehand too. Plus he can properly relax and enjoy without being worried about the mess.
Try some anal desensitising cream too xx |
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A rubber bulb type douche is very cheap (you can get them for well under a tenner). I'd be careful with the anal desensitising cream as it may result in the recipient going further than he/she would if they could feel it and end up causing an injury. Plenty of lube and taking it slowly is probably better.
Not sure about home made douches ... the only squeezy type bottle with a nozzle long enough that I can think of is perhaps a ketchup dispenser from a 99p shop (not that I've tried that - I have a douche).
Good luck in your journey of discovery  |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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Some cheap douches for #5-10 that do the job. Basically, you want something that will pump water into the canal and flush. I add a little facial cleanser to warm water.
The muscles that control the anus work differently from those of the vagina.
So you need to stretch them gradually. Start with a finger or small toy and work your up in size.
I've seen packs of different sized anul toys for beginners. Any sex shop site will sell them.
Plenty lube. The anus doesn't produce its own lubricant like the vagina. Dont use any oil-based product if using a condom however.
Hope this helps.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can i ask a serious question? if like you are all saying it stretches it does that mean in later life you could lose control if you get my meaning? cos thats what would worry me |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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It stretches, yes.
I don't have any worries about the sort of thing I think you might be wondering about. It continues to open and close quite nicely, thank you.
But I have heard of cases of prolapses - often associated with prostitution. It doesn't sound very nice.
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"Hi all, Dan is interested in Anal we have played with beads but that's it. He would like to try receiving but s very worried about it been messy, and so that stops him :s
We did buy a strap on, problem is we didn't check the size and is far too big"
enema or anal douche |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to sound crude but a turkey baister will do the trick if you really are that short on money, alternatively go on eBay you can pick something up real cheap
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"Sorry to sound crude but a turkey baister will do the trick if you really are that short on money, alternatively go on eBay you can pick something up real cheap
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(makes note, turn down any offers of Chrsitmas dinner at their house!) |
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"can i ask a serious question? if like you are all saying it stretches it does that mean in later life you could lose control if you get my meaning? cos thats what would worry me "
It's a muscle and muscles can stretch without going floppy or else gymnasts wouldn't be able to walk. Like all muscles though, if you don't exercise it then sooner or later it's going to lose some strength... |
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Sorry to sound ignorant here but if you use a shower hose (not advised btw because of the pressure involved) then do you just empty the contents into the bath or cubicle or keep running over to the loo? |
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