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over a year ago
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I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod?? |
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over a year ago
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??"
Are you a dad? I'm a bloody grandad of 5!! |
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You're focusing on the wrong part of that message 
"I cannot wait to get my hands on..." means she likes it, whatever the description is.
Anyway, dad bod is a state of mind. Just remember that it means you can officially have a beer and pizza before the next date  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some reason this reference to this body type is getting thrown around everywhere, and it's dlmosy like a blanket to cover everything.
Maybe she didn't want to offend you if she thought you had a bit of a gravy pouch? Or maybe she just thought you looked like a dad and wanted to ease the pressure.
I'm sure it wasnt a slight to put you off, it just seems to be the "in" thing now.
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??"
Do you have children?
Is she aware? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??"
Holy smokes... Definitely not a dad bod  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it’s an odd thing to say really... why not just say she can’t wait to get her hands on your body or lush body....
I don’t get the whole labeling bullshit, as it means too many things to different people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't have a pouch! I work out 3 to 4 times a week. I eat healthy and cut back on sugar big time. So it was a bit of a surprise when I heard that. I am sure she must have meant that in a good way. May have to do a bit more high intensity work outside lol!  |
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??"
You definitely don't have a dad bod amazing body x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??
Do you have children?
Is she aware?"
I was children and she was aware of that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't over think it buddy enjoy her attention for you .
I'm a happy dad bod chap "
I have requested my PT to come up with a new high intensity work out olan. He was asking me if I was planning to be America's next iro man.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't over think it buddy enjoy her attention for you .
I'm a happy dad bod chap
I have requested my PT to come up with a new high intensity work out olan. He was asking me if I was planning to be America's next iro man.lol"
I'm.just going to eat more cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??"
Maybe she wants you to father her child? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a pouch! I work out 3 to 4 times a week. I eat healthy and cut back on sugar big time. So it was a bit of a surprise when I heard that. I am sure she must have meant that in a good way. May have to do a bit more high intensity work outside lol! "
Just out of curiosity was is she a bit younger ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??
You definitely don't have a dad bod amazing body x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't have a pouch! I work out 3 to 4 times a week. I eat healthy and cut back on sugar big time. So it was a bit of a surprise when I heard that. I am sure she must have meant that in a good way. May have to do a bit more high intensity work outside lol!
Just out of curiosity was is she a bit younger ? "
She is in her mid 30's. She is a fitness mom kinda lady! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??
Maybe she wants you to father her child?"
Lol. NO THANKS! Vasectomy done and dusted. So that is not going to happen. |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
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Can I ask, could she tell you had a fit body, were you dressed in a fashion that showed that off?
Also how do you know she didnt put a typo in here, maybe she meant to say fab bod...df next to each other and the auto correct on my phone is crazy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just tell her you dont like being called that. Gently.  "
I didn't take any offence really. It's good to see you through the eyes of others. I always try to take good care of my myself and present myself well. It is the first time I have been called that name. So a bit surprised. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I ask, could she tell you had a fit body, were you dressed in a fashion that showed that off?
Also how do you know she didnt put a typo in here, maybe she meant to say fab bod...df next to each other and the auto correct on my phone is crazy"
It wasn't a typo. I asked her what she meant by dad bod. She told me to look it up.
I met her for lunch. So I was kinda formal. Fitted shirt, trousers and a fitted blazer. No tie. |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
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"Can I ask, could she tell you had a fit body, were you dressed in a fashion that showed that off?
Also how do you know she didnt put a typo in here, maybe she meant to say fab bod...df next to each other and the auto correct on my phone is crazy
It wasn't a typo. I asked her what she meant by dad bod. She told me to look it up.
I met her for lunch. So I was kinda formal. Fitted shirt, trousers and a fitted blazer. No tie."
Ah yes you did say, sorry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit like meeting a woman dress size 12 - 14 and telling her you love her BBW body , Cheque please!!"
Very true some men yhink size 12-14 is bbw. Probably as some woman think if your not shredded and have over x amount body fat you’ve a dad bod. I’m assuming she’s one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just tell her you dont like being called that. Gently.
I didn't take any offence really. It's good to see you through the eyes of others. I always try to take good care of my myself and present myself well. It is the first time I have been called that name. So a bit surprised.
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You said you didn't like what you read about what dadbod means, according to your online search. So I referred to that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just tell her you dont like being called that. Gently.
I didn't take any offence really. It's good to see you through the eyes of others. I always try to take good care of my myself and present myself well. It is the first time I have been called that name. So a bit surprised.
You said you didn't like what you read about what dadbod means, according to your online search. So I referred to that.
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I understand. My apologies. I should have made it a bit clearer.
What I didn't like was 'dad guy' is someone who has handles and a pouch, still tries to stay fit. That didn't make sense and didn't like that description. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once said to my ex that I loved his sexy dad bod, he went ballistic and didn't talk to me for 2 weeks,  "
At my age, being called a dad bod would be a compliment, considering I'm a grandad! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??"
Own it OP ... |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"I met a lady from here on a lunch date. We talked for a bit and we kissed. She text me later that evening to say that she cannot wait to get her hands on my 'dad bod'. I googled dad bod and I didn't like what I read. I am quite fit and athletic. I may not have a 6 pack..But dad bod??"
Accept praise for what it is and focus on the part of her being keen to get her hands on you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm certain she meant it as a compliment. The fact that it betrays her absolutely warped ideas of what a man actually looks like and some seriously bloated expectations notwithstanding. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fab Athletic for men is ripped. Anything less is dad bod or average. Like it matters.... "
Lol.. I may have to live in the gym for that. Unfortunately I have a job! |
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over a year ago
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing. "
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol. "
Never mention stretch marks to a woman that has them. If you like them your a lier if you dont you're a bastard no win situation.
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.
Never mention stretch marks to a woman that has them. If you like them your a lier if you dont you're a bastard no win situation.
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What if you kiss them??? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.
Never mention stretch marks to a woman that has them. If you like them your a lier if you dont you're a bastard no win situation.
What if you kiss them???"
Dont push your luck |
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.
Never mention stretch marks to a woman that has them. If you like them your a lier if you dont you're a bastard no win situation.
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I really love them. I am not trying to win anything. I want women to be proud of it rather be ashamed of it! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.
Never mention stretch marks to a woman that has them. If you like them your a lier if you dont you're a bastard no win situation.
I really love them. I am not trying to win anything. I want women to be proud of it rather be ashamed of it! "
You missed by point. |
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.
Never mention stretch marks to a woman that has them. If you like them your a lier if you dont you're a bastard no win situation.
I really love them. I am not trying to win anything. I want women to be proud of it rather be ashamed of it!
You missed by point. "
I get it now! |
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol. "
Ok I maybe wrong but you mention about stretch marks to her what was your reasoning for this was it A, because she had made you question how others may perceive you and you wanted her to do the same by showing her how she also has physical flaws?
Or was it B, you just wanted her to know you are aware she has them but they aren’t a problem to you.
Subconsciously I think your reasoning was A |
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.
Ok I maybe wrong but you mention about stretch marks to her what was your reasoning for this was it A, because she had made you question how others may perceive you and you wanted her to do the same by showing her how she also has physical flaws?
Or was it B, you just wanted her to know you are aware she has them but they aren’t a problem to you.
Subconsciously I think your reasoning was A"
Not at all. I believe your words are powerfull. You can lift ppl up, or put ppl down by your words. I had made a conscious decision 12 yrs ago that I will only use the words to encourage others. I don't judge others.
She mentioned that her body is not as perfect as it looks from outside as she had couple of kids. That is what lead to this conversation.
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.
Ok I maybe wrong but you mention about stretch marks to her what was your reasoning for this was it A, because she had made you question how others may perceive you and you wanted her to do the same by showing her how she also has physical flaws?
Or was it B, you just wanted her to know you are aware she has them but they aren’t a problem to you.
Subconsciously I think your reasoning was A
Not at all. I believe your words are powerfull. You can lift ppl up, or put ppl down by your words. I had made a conscious decision 12 yrs ago that I will only use the words to encourage others. I don't judge others.
She mentioned that her body is not as perfect as it looks from outside as she had couple of kids. That is what lead to this conversation.
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"You dont have the shape of a dad body from what I can see. Maybe she was just trying to be funny pulling your leg sort of thing.
I got her to visit this thread. Hope she is brave enough to post something here. She thinks that I am very brave to put something like this on here.
During our conversation I did mention about how much I love women who have given birth to a child. I have a huge respect for any woman who have given birth as I see it is a unselfish act. I also mentioned that I find stretch Marks quite a turn on. So this was more of her response to that.
B - You are more than welcome to have your say..lol.
Ok I maybe wrong but you mention about stretch marks to her what was your reasoning for this was it A, because she had made you question how others may perceive you and you wanted her to do the same by showing her how she also has physical flaws?
Or was it B, you just wanted her to know you are aware she has them but they aren’t a problem to you.
Subconsciously I think your reasoning was A
Not at all. I believe your words are powerfull. You can lift ppl up, or put ppl down by your words. I had made a conscious decision 12 yrs ago that I will only use the words to encourage others. I don't judge others.
She mentioned that her body is not as perfect as it looks from outside as she had couple of kids. That is what lead to this conversation.
We all have flaws, I can look okayish in clothes but naked I feel exposed and weak vulnerable almost. "
I have learned when to shut my mouth. Lol  |
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