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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.
Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.
Yes it is a real thing. |
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"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.
Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.
Yes it is a real thing. "
I just did an online course called emotional abuse now that is not maturity and emotions are essential to life. |
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"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.
Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.
Yes it is a real thing. "
This. It's managing your feelings and reactions well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.
Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.
Yes it is a real thing.
This. It's managing your feelings and reactions well. "
who decides what well is tho |
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Emotional maturity is the ability to handle situations without unnecessarily escalating them. Instead of seeking to blame someone else for their problems or behavior, emotionally mature people seek to fix the problem or behavior. They accept accountability for their actions.
Yes, it's real. No, it's not a label. |
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"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.
Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.
Yes it is a real thing.
This. It's managing your feelings and reactions well. who decides what well is tho"
In a way that's helpful to you and others around you. |
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life"
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it "
thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it |
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it"
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! "
peter pan made it work  |
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work "
No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work
No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt "
He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work "
Peter pan also kid napped kids to go live on his make believe island. I'd not use him as any sort of role model. |
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work
No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt
He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings"
Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work
No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt
He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings
Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of "
so was hook the goody not according to hook the movie |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.
Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.
Yes it is a real thing.
I just did an online course called emotional abuse now that is not maturity and emotions are essential to life."
Emotional abuse is different, that is direct manipulation. It has a little overlap with emotional maturity but due to the direct attack aimed at emotions it would not be classed on either side of emotional maturity. |
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work
No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt
He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings
Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of so was hook the goody not according to hook the movie "
Hook the movie? Wellll if it’s in a movie it has to be right  |
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it "
cant be doing with the later type of people |
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it cant be doing with the later type of people"
Me either |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work
No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt
He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings
Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of so was hook the goody not according to hook the movie
Hook the movie? Wellll if it’s in a movie it has to be right "
exactly much faster than reading too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When you start saying.. when i was a child.. because you feel overwhelming emotion that you
are mature enough to offer advice
Ps. You all did it so well. I bace nothing serious to add. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life"
Emotional maturity is the number one most important thing in relationships, the number one skillset we can work on to get great ones, and the number one most important thing to a happy and effective life.
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
Emotional maturity is the number one most important thing in relationships, the number one skillset we can work on to get great ones, and the number one most important thing to a happy and effective life.
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not sure about that i did 20 yrs without it on the last go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
Emotional maturity is the number one most important thing in relationships, the number one skillset we can work on to get great ones, and the number one most important thing to a happy and effective life.
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“It’s far easier to get defensive and deny responsibility, or become overwhelmed with shame for our act of imperfection or ignorance. Being able to acknowledge when we’re in the wrong takes humility, self-compassion and courage.”
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it
You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work
No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt
He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings
Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of so was hook the goody not according to hook the movie
Hook the movie? Wellll if it’s in a movie it has to be right exactly much faster than reading too"
Yeah who wants to do that reading business eh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people
Also is it important to life
Emotional maturity is the number one most important thing in relationships, the number one skillset we can work on to get great ones, and the number one most important thing to a happy and effective life.
“It’s far easier to get defensive and deny responsibility, or become overwhelmed with shame for our act of imperfection or ignorance. Being able to acknowledge when we’re in the wrong takes humility, self-compassion and courage.”
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Emotional maturity and emotional intelligence are key factors in maintaining healthy relationships—romantic or otherwise. Many people are lacking in these areas, which leads to a breakdown in communication and, ultimately, complications in or even the breakup of relationships. There is no way to navigate relationship politics without these skill sets, yet most people don’t even know what they are or understand how they work—both separately and in tandem. |
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