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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

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By *ipseyTwoCouple  over a year ago

Biggleswade

It’s not laughing when someone farts

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It's not blowing raspberries.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.

Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.

Yes it is a real thing.

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London

Don’t worry OP, you’re clean.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.

Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.

Yes it is a real thing. "

I just did an online course called emotional abuse now that is not maturity and emotions are essential to life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not blowing raspberries. "

what about strawberries

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.

Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.

Yes it is a real thing. "

This. It's managing your feelings and reactions well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.

Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.

Yes it is a real thing.

This. It's managing your feelings and reactions well. "

who decides what well is tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Don’t worry OP, you’re clean. "
thank fuck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Emotional maturity is the ability to handle situations without unnecessarily escalating them. Instead of seeking to blame someone else for their problems or behavior, emotionally mature people seek to fix the problem or behavior. They accept accountability for their actions.

Yes, it's real. No, it's not a label.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.

Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.

Yes it is a real thing.

This. It's managing your feelings and reactions well. who decides what well is tho"

In a way that's helpful to you and others around you.

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By *il FiskMan  over a year ago

sefton

Dunno, I'll let you know if I ever grow up!!

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life"

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it "

thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it"

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! "

peter pan made it work

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Saying weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee when a lady jumps on your cock

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work "

No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"Saying weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee when a lady jumps on your cock "

Or boinnggggggggggg when you pop it out your pants

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work

No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt "

He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It's not blowing raspberries.

what about strawberries "

There's only one thing a woman should blow.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work "

Peter pan also kid napped kids to go live on his make believe island. I'd not use him as any sort of role model.

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work

No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt

He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings"

Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"It's not blowing raspberries.

what about strawberries

There's only one thing a woman should blow. "

Big fucking bubbles? am I right

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work

No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt

He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings

Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of "

so was hook the goody not according to hook the movie

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"Well considering emotional maturity is about being able to handle a situation without your judgement being clouded by emotions (on a basic level, it really is much more complex than that). Regardless of what their emotion may be.

Seeing how people react in situations, some act worse than a child would, while others are able to keep a level head and deal with the situation rationally.

Yes it is a real thing.

I just did an online course called emotional abuse now that is not maturity and emotions are essential to life."

Emotional abuse is different, that is direct manipulation. It has a little overlap with emotional maturity but due to the direct attack aimed at emotions it would not be classed on either side of emotional maturity.

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work

No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt

He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings

Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of so was hook the goody not according to hook the movie "

Hook the movie? Wellll if it’s in a movie it has to be right

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it "

cant be doing with the later type of people

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it cant be doing with the later type of people"

Me either

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman  over a year ago

Victoria, London

nsa isn't emotional maturity

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work

No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt

He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings

Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of so was hook the goody not according to hook the movie

Hook the movie? Wellll if it’s in a movie it has to be right "

exactly much faster than reading too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When you start saying.. when i was a child.. because you feel overwhelming emotion that you

are mature enough to offer advice

Ps. You all did it so well. I bace nothing serious to add.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

*have even

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn’t know. "

That's the spirit!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not blowing raspberries.

what about strawberries

There's only one thing a woman should blow. "

is that emotional maturity or abuse me thinks lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life"

Emotional maturity is the number one most important thing in relationships, the number one skillset we can work on to get great ones, and the number one most important thing to a happy and effective life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

Emotional maturity is the number one most important thing in relationships, the number one skillset we can work on to get great ones, and the number one most important thing to a happy and effective life.

"

not sure about that i did 20 yrs without it on the last go

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

Emotional maturity is the number one most important thing in relationships, the number one skillset we can work on to get great ones, and the number one most important thing to a happy and effective life.

"

“It’s far easier to get defensive and deny responsibility, or become overwhelmed with shame for our act of imperfection or ignorance. Being able to acknowledge when we’re in the wrong takes humility, self-compassion and courage.”

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

In simple terms if a situation arises and you can see it from every angle and work through it in a sensible mature fashion then you have it, however if you just see red, throw your toys out the pram or generally go around smashing things up in a brain-fart childish way then you don’t have it thats sounds like a boring passionless life i dont want it

You can be passionate about art, music or just being alive, if you can’t handle every day situations without having a hissy fit then you are immature and the total opposite of mature! peter pan made it work

No he didn’t he was a spoilt man child who didn’t care how much his friends got hurt

He was leader leaders can have friends only cannon fodder underlings

Peter Pan was not a very nice person in my book, captive children is not a good thing to be the leader of so was hook the goody not according to hook the movie

Hook the movie? Wellll if it’s in a movie it has to be right exactly much faster than reading too"

Yeah who wants to do that reading business eh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"??? Is it all just made up bollox shrinks come up with to label sulky people

Also is it important to life

Emotional maturity is the number one most important thing in relationships, the number one skillset we can work on to get great ones, and the number one most important thing to a happy and effective life.

“It’s far easier to get defensive and deny responsibility, or become overwhelmed with shame for our act of imperfection or ignorance. Being able to acknowledge when we’re in the wrong takes humility, self-compassion and courage.”

"

Emotional maturity and emotional intelligence are key factors in maintaining healthy relationships—romantic or otherwise. Many people are lacking in these areas, which leads to a breakdown in communication and, ultimately, complications in or even the breakup of relationships. There is no way to navigate relationship politics without these skill sets, yet most people don’t even know what they are or understand how they work—both separately and in tandem.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It's not blowing raspberries.

what about strawberries

There's only one thing a woman should blow.

Big fucking bubbles? am I right "

How did you know my nickname?

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"It's not blowing raspberries.

what about strawberries

There's only one thing a woman should blow.

Big fucking bubbles? am I right

How did you know my nickname? "

Ha ha

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