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How often should Swingers meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If they have a break for over a year with no meets, are they no longer a swinger?
Should Swingers meet weekly or is their Swinging status determined by how many people they fuck in a month? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is the true definition of a swinger on here? Genuinely interested to know. I thought swingers were couples if I’m honest. But then again I don’t know an awful lot about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is the true definition of a swinger on here? Genuinely interested to know. I thought swingers were couples if I’m honest. But then again I don’t know an awful lot about it. "
I don't think there is a true definition. People have their own perceptions.
I think it's evolved from the original wife swapping 4somes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the true definition of a swinger on here? Genuinely interested to know. I thought swingers were couples if I’m honest. But then again I don’t know an awful lot about it.
I don't think there is a true definition. People have their own perceptions.
I think it's evolved from the original wife swapping 4somes. "
Yes that’s what I would have said before I came across this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the true definition of a swinger on here? Genuinely interested to know. I thought swingers were couples if I’m honest. But then again I don’t know an awful lot about it.
I don't think there is a true definition. People have their own perceptions.
I think it's evolved from the original wife swapping 4somes. "
Of course there's a true definition. It's in the dictionary and everything. What complicates the definition is people's interpretation of the definition. But there is definitely a definition  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They should meet how ever often is comfortable for them, when it feels right for them.
Far too many fucking judgemental numpty "know it alls" who profess to have been on the scene for years and have the knowledge of an all seeing all knowing goddess (slight exaggeration) seem to think others are doing it wrong because they choose to do things their way.
People butt their noses in trying to convince parties that their partner is holding them back, trying to trick them into a monogamous relationship or such like, telling them that the person they are falling for will not be good for them.
Things like this cause more harm than good, there's no right way of doing it as such, only taking things at your own pace, but plenty of wrong ways and pushing people into the wrong ways is manipulative and mean. People are trying to find their own way on this possible life changing journey and having people telling them their own opinions based on what THEY consider right for them does nobody any favours. But hey, sometimes doing them a disservice is exactly the desired outcome.
People, do things at your own pace. Do YOU, not what other people think you *should* be doing
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What is the true definition of a swinger on here? Genuinely interested to know. I thought swingers were couples if I’m honest. But then again I don’t know an awful lot about it.
I don't think there is a true definition. People have their own perceptions.
I think it's evolved from the original wife swapping 4somes.
Of course there's a true definition. It's in the dictionary and everything. What complicates the definition is people's interpretation of the definition. But there is definitely a definition "
If only one person in the couple fucks around, are they still Swingers? The person left at home isn't swinging. |
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"If they have a break for over a year with no meets, are they no longer a swinger?
Should Swingers meet weekly or is their Swinging status determined by how many people they fuck in a month?"
I think that if you still intend to meet at some point you are still a swinger. |
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The only "right" amount of meets you should have as a swinger(s) is how many you want to have, be that one a night, or one a year.
The only definition of a "swinger" that matters is your own, so long as you are having fun, and not hurting anyone or having an effect on their fun, then crack on lol.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"They should meet how ever often is comfortable for them, when it feels right for them.
Far too many fucking judgemental numpty "know it alls" who profess to have been on the scene for years and have the knowledge of an all seeing all knowing goddess (slight exaggeration) seem to think others are doing it wrong because they choose to do things their way.
People butt their noses in trying to convince parties that their partner is holding them back, trying to trick them into a monogamous relationship or such like, telling them that the person they are falling for will not be good for them.
Things like this cause more harm than good, there's no right way of doing it as such, only taking things at your own pace, but plenty of wrong ways and pushing people into the wrong ways is manipulative and mean. People are trying to find their own way on this possible life changing journey and having people telling them their own opinions based on what THEY consider right for them does nobody any favours. But hey, sometimes doing them a disservice is exactly the desired outcome.
People, do things at your own pace. Do YOU, not what other people think you *should* be doing
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Bingo! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Meanings and words evolve, just as people attach their own dynamics and connotations onto words.
People telling others what they should be doing or how they should be behaving in order to fit their own idea of what swinging is, is ludicrous and small minded.
So often this 'what is swinging' question pops up and no one ever has the definitive answer.
Just let people get on with things their way, find those that match your preferences and leave others to theirs. |
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