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So.. you're not a swinger.....

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

What attracted you to fabswingers?

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Free army of womens minges to plough thru

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Feeling feisty today OP?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Free army of womens minges to plough thru"

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I googled " Fab Singers " as I wanted to hear some great tunes , but miss typed it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Free army of womens minges to plough thru

"
true story

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Feeling feisty today OP? "

Not particularly, it's a common question. Plenty don't want to be known as swingers. So i wonder why they thought "hmmm, fabswingers eh, that sounds like the community for me!".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers? "

I was told their was cookies.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Because I wanted to meet likeminded people and explore my sexuality and learn about myself in the process. I think now I'm possibly a "swinger" but I feel it's quite often used as a way of looking down on people and questioning their validity on this site.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan over a year ago

Mold

"Free army of womens minges to plough thru"

Fabminges?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I spent 10 years meeting, going to clubs all over the country even organised a few socials so I guess I've earnt my right to be here.

It does amuse me when I'm told I'm not a swinger based on my current profile...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I didn’t come for anything in particular. I’m surprised at some things I see and hear on here. I enjoy aspects of the site and dislike others but overall it’s fun. It’s my social media, it just comes with breasts

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By *ikeandmollyCouple over a year ago

swindon

"Feeling feisty today OP?

Not particularly, it's a common question. Plenty don't want to be known as swingers. So i wonder why they thought "hmmm, fabswingers eh, that sounds like the community for me!". "

Love this.

Molly

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By *asilForty77Man over a year ago

a hundred and sixty of us living in a small shoebox in the middle of the road

"Free army of womens minges to plough thru

true story"

Classic

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I spent 10 years meeting, going to clubs all over the country even organised a few socials so I guess I've earnt my right to be here.

It does amuse me when I'm told I'm not a swinger based on my current profile..."

What part do they pick up on?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feeling feisty today OP?

Not particularly, it's a common question. Plenty don't want to be known as swingers. So i wonder why they thought "hmmm, fabswingers eh, that sounds like the community for me!". "

Perhaps a better question would be to ask why people don't want to be associated with the term 'swinger'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Free army of womens minges to plough thru"

I was told it was knee deep in clunge on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because I wanted to meet likeminded people and explore my sexuality and learn about myself in the process. I think now I'm possibly a "swinger" but I feel it's quite often used as a way of looking down on people and questioning their validity on this site."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feeling feisty today OP?

Not particularly, it's a common question. Plenty don't want to be known as swingers. So i wonder why they thought "hmmm, fabswingers eh, that sounds like the community for me!".

Perhaps a better question would be to ask why people don't want to be associated with the term 'swinger'."

I am not allowed to be a swinger because I am not a couple

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

Absolutely! So many times we see swingers being looked down upon. It's almost a dirty word.

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

The smorgasbord of cock pics

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Feeling feisty today OP?

Not particularly, it's a common question. Plenty don't want to be known as swingers. So i wonder why they thought "hmmm, fabswingers eh, that sounds like the community for me!". "

I think it's a bit of a strange one when people try to ring fence the sites use.

Yes the name is fab swingers but as plenty of couples have tried to assert for several years; singles 'can't be swingers' the result is this.

Personally I consider myself a swinger but lots of my friends don't, it's about sexual exploration as much as swinging now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Free army of womens minges to plough thru

true story

Classic

Its a cock fest so plenty of choice for us ladies, also a good place to tick off the bucket list especially from being in a sheltered previous life.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

Is there an absolute definition of what a swinger is?

Or is being a swinger about whatever the individual wants it to be, and if it fits with other people's ideas of a swinger then winning?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I get told by others I'm not really a swinger more than I say it about myself. I came here for sex outside of my relationship, just not the anonymous or spontaneous kind. I like to build a connection. I use other kink dating sites and apps too though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled " Fab Singers " as I wanted to hear some great tunes , but miss typed it

I ended up on grindr in a similar fashion, i thought it was a skateboarding app

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers? "

I got told my husband was on here cheating one me... he sure was, I read his verifications!

I kicked him out and stayed on here (on and off for 2 years now) after experiencing the best sex of my life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Free army of womens minges to plough thru

true story

Classic

Its a cock fest so plenty of choice for us ladies, also a good place to tick off the bucket list especially from being in a sheltered previous life."
u cannot have my penis

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Merton

perv find pervs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

I was told their was cookies. "

Cookies!!! Where?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why im still here is the bigger question for me

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By *modDMan over a year ago

Lichfield

All part of my quest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there an absolute definition of what a swinger is?

Or is being a swinger about whatever the individual wants it to be, and if it fits with other people's ideas of a swinger then winning?

I find it's most often used as an insult. "You're not a swinger."

It could also be taken as a compliment.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Why im still here is the bigger question for me

Because you're a duck

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I was on another similar site and was led to this one by pure chance after someone stole my picture and used it here. So I came to report it, and stayed.

I don't even know if I'd be classed as a swinger. I'm in a relationship but meet on my own, I don't really care what it's called, I'm too busy doing my own thing to worry about the label. I don't call myself a swinger,though some might.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

I was told their was cookies.

Cookies!!! Where?!!

My question exactly!! I'm still hopeful.

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By *modDMan over a year ago

Lichfield

"I was on another similar site and was led to this one by pure chance after someone stole my picture and used it here. So I came to report it, and stayed.

You’re a winger then because you’re just winging it.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I was on another similar site and was led to this one by pure chance after someone stole my picture and used it here. So I came to report it, and stayed.

You’re a winger then because you’re just winging it. "

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

I was told their was cookies.

Cookies!!! Where?!!

My question exactly!! I'm still hopeful.

I joined the dark side for exactly that reason, they lied.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

I was told their was cookies.

Cookies!!! Where?!!

My question exactly!! I'm still hopeful.

I joined the dark side for exactly that reason, they lied. "

I got a commemorative dark side beer cozy if that helps. Still waiting on my cookies there too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am here to find just that one person who is a bit kinky and slutty.. I like the idea of being someone's part time BF. Week three and still no.luck!

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By *irkydirkyMan over a year ago

Cardiff

I like boobs..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why im still here is the bigger question for me

Because you're a duck"
nope just quackers

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Feeling feisty today OP?

Not particularly, it's a common question. Plenty don't want to be known as swingers. So i wonder why they thought "hmmm, fabswingers eh, that sounds like the community for me!".

Perhaps a better question would be to ask why people don't want to be associated with the term 'swinger'.

I am not allowed to be a swinger because I am not a couple

#fabelitistgroup

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By *modDMan over a year ago

Lichfield

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple over a year ago

HereAndThere

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

I got told my husband was on here cheating one me... he sure was, I read his verifications!

I kicked him out and stayed on here (on and off for 2 years now) after experiencing the best sex of my life

The best so far !

Still not come to see us yet!

We will put the s-wing in swingers for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was a swinger then I'm not now. I used to swing with my husband. I'm still married and have 1 regular meet though here. I may be a swinger in the future who knows but I'm here just to keep in contact with my friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am here to find just that one person who is a bit kinky and slutty.. I like the idea of being someone's part time BF. Week three and still no.luck!"

I’ve been here for over a year on and off, give it time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’m not googling it, just tell me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really. "

you're not alone.

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By *modDMan over a year ago

Lichfield

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’m not googling it, just tell me

Linger as in the verb to love linger, to hang around, lingerers do.

I’m running out of ingers, ok?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I mainly came back here as a single male because i missed the forums, anything else is just a bonus, last night for example i went along to hull social and had a great night out.

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really. "

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Absolutely! So many times we see swingers being looked down upon. It's almost a dirty word. "

I think swingers and non swingers alike are looked down upon Clem. For not doing what they *should* be. For doing too many people. It's all a bit daft.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really.

you're not alone. "

It does amuse me when how other people use a site irritate people so much.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

Someone told me I’d like the site, I was wanting NSA sex with a few folk on a regular basis. I achieved that and found the forum in the process. Was I a swinger? No idea. Am I a swinger now? I guess not as I’m with Swing and we don’t meet. Why do I stay on the site? Probably because I enjoy the forum, I’ve made some lovely friends and I also enjoy the MLS when I get chance to go. I think I’ve found the site quite liberating too, to be fair I’m quite vanilla but to my friends they’d think I was a deviant. When I post on the forum I feel like I can be myself sexually, there’s no need to be sparing with truth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really.

you're not alone.

It does amuse me when how other people use a site irritate people so much. "

It used to it now. I’m always being asked why am I here? You don’t belong here. You shouldn’t be here. I obviously just want attention if I’m here and not meeting etc etc. Bothered? Nope.

I’m staying so get used to it bitches

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rope swing no noose needed

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"What attracted you to fabswingers? "

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really.

you're not alone.

It does amuse me when how other people use a site irritate people so much.

It used to it now. I’m always being asked why am I here? You don’t belong here. You shouldn’t be here. I obviously just want attention if I’m here and not meeting etc etc. Bothered? Nope.

I’m staying so get used to it bitches

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really.

you're not alone.

It does amuse me when how other people use a site irritate people so much.

It used to it now. I’m always being asked why am I here? You don’t belong here. You shouldn’t be here. I obviously just want attention if I’m here and not meeting etc etc. Bothered? Nope.

I’m staying so get used to it bitches

Well said

I do actually like Clem. I do tend to warm to the people who don’t seem to like me much or have opposing views or annoy the crap out of me. It’s weird. I’m weird. I admit it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was on here as part of a couple, that ended and now I’m here on my own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was on here as part of a couple, that ended and now I’m here on my own

Same here

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"I was on here as part of a couple, that ended and now I’m here on my own

But but but that means your not a swinger

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Not meeting at the moment so guess that makes me a non swinger?

Had lots of meets as a single and have partaken in group Sex quite a few times - but many would obviously say I’m still not a swinger because I haven’t swung as a couple as yet! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not meeting at the moment so guess that makes me a non swinger?

Had lots of meets as a single and have partaken in group Sex quite a few times - but many would obviously say I’m still not a swinger because I haven’t swung as a couple as yet! X"

Fake

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I used to be here as part of a couple, so was a "proper" swinger.

Now i'm single, so in some peoples opinion i'm no longer a swinger - I care not about anyone's thoughts or labels. I first came here as a single for the safety aspect of the verification system (contentious subject I know, but I maintain that if other people have survived to write a veri then I'm less likely to be murdered!). I stay because i've met some very nice people, and I'd quite like to meet some more. Plus the forums can be entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP "

Ah this is probably how non swingers find a swinging site they've no idea what it means!!

There's your answer OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers? "

One thing that is clear, is that people have their own criteria for what makes a 'swinger'. The longer I'm here, the more convinced I am that I am not a swinger.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple over a year ago

SW Scotland

One of the best things is being able to talk to other couples/singles about sexual kinks etc that you can’t talk to your usual friends about.

Not once have we been judged by anyone on here !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

Ah this is probably how non swingers find a swinging site they've no idea what it means!!

There's your answer OP

Which I fully admit.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan over a year ago

Northampton

Boobs

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP "

Why should I? Ive not told people on this thread that they're not a swinger. I'm simply asking those who firmly believe that that are NOT a swinger to clarify why they thought joining Fabswingers was for them. It's not about what i interpret a swinger to be, or not to be

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

Ah this is probably how non swingers find a swinging site they've no idea what it means!!

There's your answer OP

So you don't know either.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

"What attracted you to fabswingers? "

I was recommended Fab as I was in a sexless marriage and hadn’t had sex for over two years. When I first joined I only met single men. Then I met my now husband and everything changed lol

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By *liviaGTV/TS over a year ago

Preston

He he he

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By *liviaGTV/TS over a year ago

Preston

They told me there is female with strapon

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Absolutely! So many times we see swingers being looked down upon. It's almost a dirty word.

I think swingers and non swingers alike are looked down upon Clem. For not doing what they *should* be. For doing too many people. It's all a bit daft."

I agree with you Meli. Often people like to say what they think you should be doing on here. Too many stickybeaks.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

Parties. Expanding my circle.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I met a man elsewhere, he was/is on here. He signed us up on a couples profile and didn't tell me until he was arranging our first meet as a couple.

When it ended and our profile was deleted, the people we had met, and the men I had met separately, contacted me and convinced me to set up a single profile.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really.

you're not alone.

It does amuse me when how other people use a site irritate people so much.

It used to it now. I’m always being asked why am I here? You don’t belong here. You shouldn’t be here. I obviously just want attention if I’m here and not meeting etc etc. Bothered? Nope.

I’m staying so get used to it bitches

Well said

I do actually like Clem. I do tend to warm to the people who don’t seem to like me much or have opposing views or annoy the crap out of me. It’s weird. I’m weird. I admit it!

Trouble is, either people don't, can't, or won't read my profile.

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

People keep mentioning it at clubs sign up to have a look never left, YET!

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Parties. Expanding my circle."

So you thought a swinging site was a good way of getting more hook ups? That makes sense. Good answer.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"People keep mentioning it at clubs sign up to have a look never left, YET!"

So why do you feel that you're not a swinger? You sound like a swinger what with the clubs etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I googled bi curious and fab came up. Never have and never will be a swinger. I quite like it here though

I like it here too

Aaah, so you’re a linger?

I’ve found what I was looking for. I like the forums and have made a few lovely friends on here. It’s my alternative to Facebook now really.

you're not alone.

It does amuse me when how other people use a site irritate people so much.

It used to it now. I’m always being asked why am I here? You don’t belong here. You shouldn’t be here. I obviously just want attention if I’m here and not meeting etc etc. Bothered? Nope.

I’m staying so get used to it bitches

Well said

I do actually like Clem. I do tend to warm to the people who don’t seem to like me much or have opposing views or annoy the crap out of me. It’s weird. I’m weird. I admit it!

Trouble is, either people don't, can't, or won't read my profile. "

Oh that’s standard though. I used to get about 200 a day and most hadn’t read it. Even now I get about 50 and it’s pretty bloody obvious I’m not looking. I’ve always read profiles I really don’t understand why people don’t read them and just waste their time and everyone else’s.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm leaving soon. My current goals are to go to a club again, have a threesome again and to finish off with my most constant friend.

Which bits count as swinging?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

We joined to meet single men for MFM. We were then quickly told we are not swingers because we don't swop partners.

We didn't care what people thought and still don't, it didn't stop us having fun.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"We joined to meet single men for MFM. We were then quickly told we are not swingers because we don't swop partners.

We didn't care what people thought and still don't, it didn't stop us having fun.

It's in your profile name!

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm leaving soon. My current goals are to go to a club again, have a threesome again and to finish off with my most constant friend.

Which bits count as swinging?"

Id say the threesome, and the club.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"We joined to meet single men for MFM. We were then quickly told we are not swingers because we don't swop partners.

We didn't care what people thought and still don't, it didn't stop us having fun.

It's in your profile name!

It is now.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I was on another adult sex site. Had to pay a monthly subscription to message back and forth. Lots of fake profiles and local men were thin on the ground. I joined Tinder. Got chatting to a naked decorator, he told me about here. I looked. Shedloads of local men!!!

Fewer fake profiles too. And it’s free!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm leaving soon. My current goals are to go to a club again, have a threesome again and to finish off with my most constant friend.

Which bits count as swinging?

Id say the threesome, and the club.

I’ve had threesomes. So maybe I am then. I know I can be a sarcastic cow sometimes but I’m honestly not being now. I genuinely am unsure of what classes someone as a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To socialise and have fun with people who share the same interest as me.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"We joined to meet single men for MFM. We were then quickly told we are not swingers because we don't swop partners.

We didn't care what people thought and still don't, it didn't stop us having fun.

Agreed! I get it all the time! Just ignore. I think I'm a swinger, and I'm kinda proud of that. People can call me what that want. Most do...

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"To socialise and have fun with people who share the same interest as me.

So why don't you think you're a swinger?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm leaving soon. My current goals are to go to a club again, have a threesome again and to finish off with my most constant friend.

Which bits count as swinging?

Id say the threesome, and the club.

What about when I meet one half of a couple, with permission? It's a one on one meet.

What about when I just watch others?

What about when I tease and tempt but don't have sex but the other person has an explosive experience?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To socialise and have fun with people who share the same interest as me.

So why don't you think you're a swinger?"

Didn't say I wasn't , just answered your first question about what attracted me to the site

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm leaving soon. My current goals are to go to a club again, have a threesome again and to finish off with my most constant friend.

Which bits count as swinging?

Id say the threesome, and the club.

What about when I meet one half of a couple, with permission? It's a one on one meet.

What about when I just watch others?

What about when I tease and tempt but don't have sex but the other person has an explosive experience?

You didn't mention them in your list... you wanted an answer referring to those "bits". You said it yourself.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"To socialise and have fun with people who share the same interest as me.

So why don't you think you're a swinger?

Didn't say I wasn't , just answered your first question about what attracted me to the site

But that question was for people who DON'T consider themselves swingers. It's in the title.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like this sex site for its forums mostly and occasional cookies n cream.

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I like this sex site for its forums mostly and occasional cookies n cream.

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead."

Im sorry you feel that way. Do you really think "swingers" feel elite?! Elite to whom? I don't think id have been looking to join a community with such an over inflated opinion of it's self! Why did you?

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I joined originally with an ex from the kink scene and enjoyed expanding our circle of friends with similar interests. Not been part of that for several years but have met lots of people I class as friends and like to keep in touch with. I occasionally meet people I genuinely like as people but I’ve never professed to being a swinger.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I joined originally with an ex from the kink scene and enjoyed expanding our circle of friends with similar interests. Not been part of that for several years but have met lots of people I class as friends and like to keep in touch with. I occasionally meet people I genuinely like as people but I’ve never professed to being a swinger. "

Not even when you were part of a couple?

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

Not even when you were part of a couple?"

Not really no. I didn’t play with others, he played with other men. So no idea how you classify that..

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

Not even when you were part of a couple?

Not really no. I didn’t play with others, he played with other men. So no idea how you classify that.. "

Plenty of couples here where just the fem plays with other fems.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

Not even when you were part of a couple?

Not really no. I didn’t play with others, he played with other men. So no idea how you classify that..

Plenty of couples here where just the fem plays with other fems."

I never really felt the need to overthink it and label it.. was just the dynamics of our relationship.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I was directed here from PoF after moaning that men on there were all only after casual sex & should just be honest!!

J x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like this sex site for its forums mostly and occasional cookies n cream.

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

I wouldn't say it unless I felt it, so yes.

To whom? Better than ordinary fabbers.

If I'd known that before I probably wouldn't have joined either, but then again I'd have missed out on a lot of friendships amongst ordinary fabbers.

Many of those who call themselves swingers certainly come across like that on the forums. Seen and felt this attitude over the years. Forumites obviously are the ones expressing this through forums. One reason Ive been put off meeting regular forumites. There are one or two I've met but they come across very different from the majority. It doesn't take much searching to see especially couples who feel singles aren't swingers, the irony being many of these couples veris are from single ladies.

Sorry if it offends anyone, not my intention but some views are more uncomfortable to here.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I am here to find just that one person who is a bit kinky and slutty.. I like the idea of being someone's part time BF. Week three and still no.luck!"

Well hello!! Ditto

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I like this sex site for its forums mostly and occasional cookies n cream.

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

I wouldn't say it unless I felt it, so yes.

To whom? Better than ordinary fabbers.

If I'd known that before I probably wouldn't have joined either, but then again I'd have missed out on a lot of friendships amongst ordinary fabbers.

Sorry if it offends anyone, not my intention but some views are more uncomfortable to here.

I don't think you're offending anyone, your bitterness just makes me feel a bit sorry for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like this sex site for its forums mostly and occasional cookies n cream.

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

I wouldn't say it unless I felt it, so yes.

To whom? Better than ordinary fabbers.

If I'd known that before I probably wouldn't have joined either, but then again I'd have missed out on a lot of friendships amongst ordinary fabbers.

Sorry if it offends anyone, not my intention but some views are more uncomfortable to here.

I don't think you're offending anyone, your bitterness just makes me feel a bit sorry for you. "

Bitterness? Lmao. Where?

Sounds bit defensive On your part. I've just shared that I do feel many swingers on here come across elitists on forums. You may not like that but to suggest it's bitter is bizarre, or is that uncomfortable. There are some on here that do struggle with people having a different opinion as if it's a threat but if you're trying to demonstrate you'd like more open conversations on subjects on fab then I'd suggest don't fall into the common trap of not listening before assuming.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I thought it would be an easy way to get laid without having to eat endless candlelit dinners and open gifts.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I like this sex site for its forums mostly and occasional cookies n cream.

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

I wouldn't say it unless I felt it, so yes.

To whom? Better than ordinary fabbers.

If I'd known that before I probably wouldn't have joined either, but then again I'd have missed out on a lot of friendships amongst ordinary fabbers.

Sorry if it offends anyone, not my intention but some views are more uncomfortable to here.

I don't think you're offending anyone, your bitterness just makes me feel a bit sorry for you.

Bitterness? Lmao. Where?

Bitterness:

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like this sex site for its forums mostly and occasional cookies n cream.

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

I wouldn't say it unless I felt it, so yes.

To whom? Better than ordinary fabbers.

If I'd known that before I probably wouldn't have joined either, but then again I'd have missed out on a lot of friendships amongst ordinary fabbers.

Sorry if it offends anyone, not my intention but some views are more uncomfortable to here.

I don't think you're offending anyone, your bitterness just makes me feel a bit sorry for you.

Bitterness? Lmao. Where?

Bitterness:

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead."

Obviously lost on you. The Mustang fiesta analogy was to illustrate how some swingers come across on forums towards non swingers. Many complain towards us 'non swingers' because we're not this or don't do it this way and if feel they got a fiesta the last time and so take it out on others. Gees that was hard lol.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I like this sex site for its forums mostly and occasional cookies n cream.

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

I wouldn't say it unless I felt it, so yes.

To whom? Better than ordinary fabbers.

If I'd known that before I probably wouldn't have joined either, but then again I'd have missed out on a lot of friendships amongst ordinary fabbers.

Sorry if it offends anyone, not my intention but some views are more uncomfortable to here.

I don't think you're offending anyone, your bitterness just makes me feel a bit sorry for you.

Bitterness? Lmao. Where?

Bitterness:

The term is generally used as an elitist attitude towards others who don't do things their way. They thought they'd go home in a Mustang when they collected their keys but got a fiesta instead.

Im sorry you feel this way. I don't think anyone goes out of their way to make you feel like a victim.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do. "

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

I was told their was cookies.

Cookies!!! Where?!!

My question exactly!! I'm still hopeful.

Wait what happened to all the cake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

As i said, i don't really see it as a relevant question. It's deflection. I assume if someone is adamant that that are not a swinger, then that should have sound reasoning for this. Whatever i think isn't important because i don't care.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone"

And was it?

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

If you don’t care then why start a thread about it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone

And was it?"

If I had no morals and would shag anyone, yes. But alas, no

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone

And was it?

If I had no morals and would shag anyone, yes. But alas, no

What about those you met?

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

If you don’t care then why start a thread about it? "

Because other people really do care! A lot! Enquiring minds needed to know what motivated them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone

And was it?

If I had no morals and would shag anyone, yes. But alas, no

What about those you met?"

If they fucked me they clearly have no morals

(I also didn’t meet swingers!!!)

I think I was a swinger when I was meeting men though. Hmmm

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone

And was it?

If I had no morals and would shag anyone, yes. But alas, no

What about those you met?

If they fucked me they clearly have no morals

(I also didn’t meet swingers!!!)

I think I was a swinger when I was meeting men though. Hmmm"

Fem half of a couple meeting guys for sex with partners consent. Sounds like the sort of thing "swingers" do for sure!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone

And was it?

If I had no morals and would shag anyone, yes. But alas, no

What about those you met?

If they fucked me they clearly have no morals

(I also didn’t meet swingers!!!)

I think I was a swinger when I was meeting men though. Hmmm

Fem half of a couple meeting guys for sex with partners consent. Sounds like the sort of thing "swingers" do for sure!

That’s what I thought. Thank you for clarifying

guess I’m in semi retirement now. Or a career break?

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

If you don’t care then why start a thread about it?

Because other people really do care! A lot! Enquiring minds needed to know what motivated them. "

So you thought you’d ‘enquire’ for them on their behalf even though you don’t care.

Such a thoughtful sole

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

If you don’t care then why start a thread about it?

Because other people really do care! A lot! Enquiring minds needed to know what motivated them.

So you thought you’d ‘enquire’ for them on their behalf even though you don’t care.

Such a thoughtful sole

Should i be asking your permission before starting threads, going forward? Is this now policy?

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone

And was it?

If I had no morals and would shag anyone, yes. But alas, no

What about those you met?

If they fucked me they clearly have no morals

(I also didn’t meet swingers!!!)

I think I was a swinger when I was meeting men though. Hmmm

Fem half of a couple meeting guys for sex with partners consent. Sounds like the sort of thing "swingers" do for sure!

That’s what I thought. Thank you for clarifying

guess I’m in semi retirement now. Or a career break?"

We took about 5 years out, so why not!?

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

Are people who are playing behind their partner's backs hesitant to call themselves "swingers"?

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

If you don’t care then why start a thread about it?

Because other people really do care! A lot! Enquiring minds needed to know what motivated them.

So you thought you’d ‘enquire’ for them on their behalf even though you don’t care.

Such a thoughtful sole

Should i be asking your permission before starting threads, going forward? Is this now policy?"

Not at all, but there’s a growing trend of OP’s who’s toys come out of the pram when ‘their’ thread doesn’t seem to be going the way they want them to. I enjoy outing them and reigning them in from time to time. Nothing within the ‘policy’ states it can’t be done

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

If you don’t care then why start a thread about it?

Because other people really do care! A lot! Enquiring minds needed to know what motivated them.

So you thought you’d ‘enquire’ for them on their behalf even though you don’t care.

Such a thoughtful sole

Should i be asking your permission before starting threads, going forward? Is this now policy?

Please let me know when that you see that happening.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

Can you clarify what you mean by swinger please OP

. It's an opportunity for those who don't identify as such to help educate those of us who do.

Hhhmmm of on a bit of a defensive tangent there OP.

Maybe if you described how YOU identify/portray yourself by being a swinger might help others answer your question the way you’d like to be answered.

Good luck with the thread anyway

If you don’t care then why start a thread about it?

Because other people really do care! A lot! Enquiring minds needed to know what motivated them.

So you thought you’d ‘enquire’ for them on their behalf even though you don’t care.

Such a thoughtful sole

Should i be asking your permission before starting threads, going forward? Is this now policy?

Please let me know when that you see that happening.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

Are people ashamed to say what attracted them, if the reason was morally wrong for example?

I can understand that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Vagina

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Vagina"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't swing anymore, and I am on here, I go to clubs when in the UK but don't play, each to their own.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"Are people ashamed to say what attracted them, if the reason was morally wrong for example?

I can understand that. "

I’m not ashamed to say what attracted me. I was told about the site by someone on here. I was curious so I came on to take a look and then stayed but I’m not a swinger. I don’t mind if people do or don’t label themselves that way. I would prefer not to be judged for saying I’m not a swinger though.

It’s not really a swingers site anyway. It’s just a sex site.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I don't swing anymore, and I am on here, I go to clubs when in the UK but don't play, each to their own."

Did you swing when you first joined the site?

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Are people ashamed to say what attracted them, if the reason was morally wrong for example?

I can understand that.

It’s not really a swingers site anyway. It’s just a sex site. "

It is indeed.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

We came on here to swap partners with compatible couples and had some great experiences. Now in semi retirement and enjoying the forums

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS over a year ago

Stockport

No, my singing voice is terrible...

.... what's that? Swingers?

.... Oh no, i much prefer roundabouts!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No, my singing voice is terrible...

.... what's that? Swingers?

.... Oh no, i much prefer roundabouts!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't swing anymore, and I am on here, I go to clubs when in the UK but don't play, each to their own.

Did you swing when you first joined the site?"

Yeah but only for my 12 week vacations every year then delete the account, this is the only year I have stayed on the site. Saying that I still delete my account regularly, I have reasons for that I live in Egypt, not going into explaining the need for caution.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"I don't swing anymore, and I am on here, I go to clubs when in the UK but don't play, each to their own.

Did you swing when you first joined the site?

So it makes sense that you joined fabswingers as you were swinging at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The challenge of finding someone who matched my mentality.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"The challenge of finding someone who matched my mentality. "

But if you're not a swinger, why would you think you'd find them on fabswingers?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because there are more single people on fabswingers than swingers. I know it shouldn't be that way, but it is.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes im a swinger though when i first started i didnt know there was a name for it

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Because there are more single people on fabswingers than swingers. I know it shouldn't be that way, but it is."

How did you know that before you joined?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly don't know. Just had a feeling.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Honestly don't know. Just had a feeling."

Hmmmmm.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Are people who are playing behind their partner's backs hesitant to call themselves "swingers"?"

Nah swinging couples that cheat still call themselves swingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers? "

The filth....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

I got told my husband was on here cheating one me... he sure was, I read his verifications!

I kicked him out and stayed on here (on and off for 2 years now) after experiencing the best sex of my life

Good on you girl...

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Are people who are playing behind their partner's backs hesitant to call themselves "swingers"?

Nah swinging couples that cheat still call themselves swingers "

Cheeky buggers!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honestly don't know. Just had a feeling.

Hmmmmm."

What does that mean?

I've no reason to fib.

I found the site. I had a look, there were more singles looking for fun than couples. The end

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Honestly don't know. Just had a feeling.

Hmmmmm.

What does that mean?

I've no reason to fib.

I found the site. I had a look, there were more singles looking for fun than couples. The end

What were you looking for when you found the site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

NSA fun with someone with a similar outlook.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

swinging is a scene/pastime for people to enjoy if your swinging then you are a swinger because your are joining in the scene dont matter if your a couple or single or what your kink /sexuality is ... but if your not involved then clearly your not a swinger this does not include those looking to dip there toes in or thinking about it as they are clearly looking or trying to figure things out.

there are alot of non swingers on here who have no intention of ever meeting that use the site as wank bank or to troll or whatever but clearly not swinging.... but that comes with the internet in general and these are very easy to spot 99% of the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh and im not knocking anyone as i/we do what we want and get on with that it works very well fo me / us

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"swinging is a scene/pastime for people to enjoy if your swinging then you are a swinger because your are joining in the scene dont matter if your a couple or single or what your kink /sexuality is ... but if your not involved then clearly your not a swinger this does not include those looking to dip there toes in or thinking about it as they are clearly looking or trying to figure things out.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"NSA fun with someone with a similar outlook."

So you googled swinging? Or what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had a quick think about why I personally use this site over others and this is what I've come up with

I don't see myself as part of any particular scene (swinging/kink/BDSM etc). I'm just open-minded and want a wide range of experiences, so I like that there are all sorts of people on here. I find a lot of men surprisingly prudish, clingy and/or judgemental and it's easier to find those more on my wavelength on here.

I don't want a monogamous relationship right now, but that's not to say I never will. I don't define myself as a swinger or non-swinger, I'm open to a relationship with either dynamic in future.

I like seeing and sharing naked pictures and speaking frankly about what I and they are looking for without the pretence of dating.

The forum is a big plus over other sites where there is no way to speak to other users except 1-2-1. It's enlightening and helpful hearing a wider range of experiences/views than my own social group. And it's also just fun as a time killer.

I'm not embarrassed about meeting people for casual sex and am pretty open with friends about that, as they do it too but through other sites and they're less upfront with the guys. However, I don't really ever mention the site name as I personally find it quite cringey. I think swinging is quite a dated term and things have evolved socially so that lots of variations of relationships/sexual arrangements are a bit more mainstream now.

So basically I like the site features (old school as the format is!), I like the experiences I get from it, I like killing time on it in between and I don't really want to commit to saying I am any particular thing as my mood and circumstances change. But I do hate the name as I don't think it represents the site as it is now.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Swinging clubs visits

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"Swinging clubs visits"

That's kind of "swinger" behaviour, surely?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I am one. Though a lot seem to be under the impression I'm not, given I've no full time partner and prefer one to one meets.

To me, swinging is more a lifestyle, more being part of a social community of likeminded people, more mindset than swapping my other half for someone elses and indulging in some 'reclaim' sex after.

I'm more your swinging 60's hippy, free love kind of guy though.

I think unless the site owners and moderation teams give Fab more of an official voice of it's own. Through advice, sticky notes in Forums etc. Then it's not down to any of us to determine who is and who is not a swinger, what is and what isn't swinging, who should and shouldn't be on here.

As far as I can tell it's a multipurpose site helping similarly minded people connect with one another.

I found it through internet searches for uk based swinging sites. I'd already found out about swinging as a younger man in Germany, used International sites in Spain. So it wasn't a hard find. Just shocked I've the ability to use all MAIN features for free.

*Ghengis tips his hat to the Site owners*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not really a swinger these days I'm pretty much over it.

When I first found Fab I was like a kid in a sweet shop - I wanted and had it all

But now I rarely meet and when I do it's one on one.

I might get back in the swing of things when the urge arises

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What attracted you to fabswingers? "

C fancied a threesome or foursome and I wondered how best to make it happen? I thought about it for a while then googled swingers sites.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

"What attracted you to fabswingers?

C fancied a threesome or foursome and I wondered how best to make it happen? I thought about it for a while then googled swingers sites.

You sound like swingers to me. (

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i thought it would be easy to fuck people, swingers have no morals and will shag anyone"

My mate told me this and suggested this site. It's true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"NSA fun with someone with a similar outlook.

So you googled swinging? Or what?"

To be honest, I don't remember how I found it. I can say it's the only site that has primarily, real people, and isn't designed to rinse overly horny men of oodles of cash. Who knows, I may end up being a real swinger. In the meantime, I'll just enjoy the moment. I must say though, I do feel a little for the true swingers having to work their way through hundreds of deviant men, after a free fuck. Not what the site is really meant to be about, but the site makes a huge amount from single, or married men looking for easy fun.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man over a year ago

salisbury

Nicely summed up

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