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What is the point of verifications?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think that they have many uses now. Sometimes it's a nice little memento of time spent together, it can be interesting reading how others perceive you, so you know someone is real (although that's through the leaver's bias and can be faked).
I like them, I think they can be enjoyable to write and funny to read. I try not to give them too much weight but it's still interesting nevertheless. |
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over a year ago
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"I hate them. Makes me feel like an Amazon toaster...
The next time I see you I shall do you one in the style of an Amazon review. It will be glorious.  "
Awww gawd... trust you to read this. |
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For me they show I’m who I say I am and give an insight into my personality. They’re my reminder of great times with friends and often have little funny parts that made the evening stand out. I enjoy reading them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Pointless really for single men. Women dont pretend to be men. And if a man has too many veris women start judging him because they won't feel "special"....bless."
I do sometimes wonder why single men need veris. What does it prove. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that they have many uses now. Sometimes it's a nice little memento of time spent together, it can be interesting reading how others perceive you, so you know someone is real (although that's through the leaver's bias and can be faked).
I like them, I think they can be enjoyable to write and funny to read. I try not to give them too much weight but it's still interesting nevertheless."
This.
It's for me, and them. They're nice to read back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use them as mementos- I could easily use a saved message for the same purpose. They serve no unique useful purpose in deterring who I would like to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use them as mementos- I could easily use a saved message for the same purpose. They serve no unique useful purpose in deterring who I would like to meet."
*determining |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that they have many uses now. Sometimes it's a nice little memento of time spent together, it can be interesting reading how others perceive you, so you know someone is real (although that's through the leaver's bias and can be faked).
I like them, I think they can be enjoyable to write and funny to read. I try not to give them too much weight but it's still interesting nevertheless."
I agree and they show me that the guy is not a picture collector and actually meets...  |
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I guess it adds authenticity. Though personally believe its more important to have your profile clear on what you are offering and what you are looking for. Even after 11 plus years of verification's. |
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1. You are who you say you are.
2. To give an idea of what kind of person you are (it gave me the confidence to meet, knowing that the people I first met had been repeatedly described as friendly, respectful, etc. It's not foolproof, but it's better than a shot in the dark).
3. I do enjoy them increasingly as momentos. |
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Thinks like the verification system on fab are there to generate more site activity and get people using the site more resulting in h a higher income stream.
for the individual though what a stranger says about someone else is not really that relent though as non are bad its not as if they can be forced to be shown is it if they were negative. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"For those that say they act as mementos and are between you and them, then why display them?
Who has said that? "
People have said this on other threads regarding veris and similar comments on this thread too.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Thinks like the verification system on fab are there to generate more site activity and get people using the site more resulting in h a higher income stream.
for the individual though what a stranger says about someone else is not really that relent though as non are bad its not as if they can be forced to be shown is it if they were negative. "
But if a bloke was never respectful, turned up smelly and was rough , he wouldn't display any negative verifications agreed....., but he also wouldn't have good verifications to display.
I don't rely on verifications, but use them as one means of deciding whether to get to know someone better. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"For those that say they act as mementos and are between you and them, then why display them?
Who has said that?
People have said this on other threads regarding veris and similar comments on this thread too.
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Nice change of reply. The last didn't quite stand.
On this thread the people who have said "similar" do have their veris private. I deliberately made sure I didn't post it's between me and them because clearly it's not if I have them public. Well the more personal details are private, the fact we met, not so much. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"For those that say they act as mementos and are between you and them, then why display them?
Who has said that?
People have said this on other threads regarding veris and similar comments on this thread too.
Nice change of reply. The last didn't quite stand.
On this thread the people who have said "similar" do have their veris private. I deliberately made sure I didn't post it's between me and them because clearly it's not if I have them public. Well the more personal details are private, the fact we met, not so much."
That was kind of my point really. I haven't gone through and checked everyone who posted similar responses, I just thought I'd ask the question.
Veris seem to be a bit of a talking point of late and the different attitudes and approaches interest me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate them. Makes me feel like an Amazon toaster...
The next time I see you I shall do you one in the style of an Amazon review. It will be glorious.
Awww gawd... trust you to read this."
Yeah I read it as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of them read like reviews of prostitutes; not cool.
Maybe a scoring system of 1-5 stars for different categories: smell, looks (actual vs picture), level of bullshit, performance, reliability, likelihood of a 2nd meet.... 
Grenade tossed and walking away...... |
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Conversely they can be useful for showing the genuine swingers, if you contact someone with tens of meets with people and clubs etc you know they're not just here for a chat! They're here to swing!  |
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"Some of them read like reviews of prostitutes; not cool.
Maybe a scoring system of 1-5 stars for different categories: smell, looks (actual vs picture), level of bullshit, performance, reliability, likelihood of a 2nd meet....
Grenade tossed and walking away......"
People don't have to display them.. |
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"Conversely they can be useful for showing the genuine swingers, if you contact someone with tens of meets with people and clubs etc you know they're not just here for a chat! They're here to swing! "
Hear hear |
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"Thinks like the verification system on fab are there to generate more site activity and get people using the site more resulting in h a higher income stream.
for the individual though what a stranger says about someone else is not really that relent though as non are bad its not as if they can be forced to be shown is it if they were negative.
But if a bloke was never respectful, turned up smelly and was rough , he wouldn't display any negative verifications agreed....., but he also wouldn't have good verifications to display.
I don't rely on verifications, but use them as one means of deciding whether to get to know someone better. "
In theory no but in reality he couple put up a fake profile at his mums house, his aunties and so on and bingo a couple of fake ones.
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"I can't wait for someone to give a bad veri that the recipient actually shows "
What like 'Sam came round and put his willy in the vacuum clearer leaving it all messy and didn't clean it afterwards'  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Nice change of reply. The last didn't quite stand.
Yes, I knew you'd be all over my comment. "
It was an answer to my question Tea.
Yes, there has been quite a few discussions about veris recently; I find it interesting reading different takes on it. Even on this thread a range of views have been highlighted, people read them and take different things from them. I don't think there's one set point of them. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I like my veris. I display the ones I want to and hide the ones I want to keep just for me. They don’t really prove anything as such. They’re just a snapshot in time and good to look back on.
I think veris in general can be used to some good and some not so much. It’s open to abuse unfortunately. I suspect that people in the forums look at them slightly differently because everyone is meeting everyone else and some people won’t like that |
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"I can't wait for someone to give a bad veri that the recipient actually shows
What like 'Sam came round and put his willy in the vacuum clearer leaving it all messy and didn't clean it afterwards' "
FFS you said that you wouldn't tell anyone about the vacuum incident  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They show that you do meet and you can often get a flavour off the type of meeting they are interested in.
They are also a great reminder of fun that you have had in the past. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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Verifications should not be like trip adviser . The green tick is enough for me to indicate the person is a swinger.I will make my own judgement after chatting or socialising. It's different for women of course. They need to see a bit more to give reassurance. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's not to say I display them all! Far from it. I change the ones I do frequently. I guess it's like changing avatars for me. "
Changing veris attracts different people. Quantity, text content, who wrote it. |
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"That's not to say I display them all! Far from it. I change the ones I do frequently. I guess it's like changing avatars for me.
Changing veris attracts different people. Quantity, text content, who wrote it."
Definitely. I've been changing up mine to see what difference it makes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some of them read like reviews of prostitutes; not cool.
Maybe a scoring system of 1-5 stars for different categories: smell, looks (actual vs picture), level of bullshit, performance, reliability, likelihood of a 2nd meet....
Grenade tossed and walking away......"
What do you mean reviews of prostitutes? Graphic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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they are not really meant to be glory holes for people to know you just had a fuck fest
they are simply to say that you are who you say you are nothing more nothing less. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"That's not to say I display them all! Far from it. I change the ones I do frequently. I guess it's like changing avatars for me.
Changing veris attracts different people. Quantity, text content, who wrote it."
Yes it does! I find that if I display non social ones I'm far more likely to get offers to meet. Social only ones and more likely to get party invites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications should not be like trip adviser . The green tick is enough for me to indicate the person is a swinger.I will make my own judgement after chatting or socialising. It's different for women of course. They need to see a bit more to give reassurance. "
I do not need to see veris, I make my own mind up when chatting to people whether they are who they say they are. Glorification of your encounter and last fuck is not what I take into any kind of consideration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinks like the verification system on fab are there to generate more site activity and get people using the site more resulting in h a higher income stream.
for the individual though what a stranger says about someone else is not really that relent though as non are bad its not as if they can be forced to be shown is it if they were negative.
But if a bloke was never respectful, turned up smelly and was rough , he wouldn't display any negative verifications agreed....., but he also wouldn't have good verifications to display.
I don't rely on verifications, but use them as one means of deciding whether to get to know someone better.
In theory no but in reality he couple put up a fake profile at his mums house, his aunties and so on and bingo a couple of fake ones.
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I been on here years sometimes my veris will disappear when I leave the site completely. Does not mean I am shite far from it but nor does it mean anything for me that you got fucked after all a fuck is a fuck! |
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For me to look like an idiot, saying I thought a girl was lovely as we shared a cup of tea/coffee, sandwiched between two other men saying shes a dirty slut who loves to take cock and do what shes told. |
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"Conversely they can be useful for showing the genuine swingers, if you contact someone with tens of meets with people and clubs etc you know they're not just here for a chat! They're here to swing! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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really they are only needed for women i think and only to establish that the person they are meeting is genuine, women should always have a social first meet in a public place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. You are who you say you are.
2. To give an idea of what kind of person you are (it gave me the confidence to meet, knowing that the people I first met had been repeatedly described as friendly, respectful, etc. It's not foolproof, but it's better than a shot in the dark).
3. I do enjoy them increasingly as momentos. "
This. - Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it is good for single guys as we are new and ca see they are genuine and wont need too much guidance as we are new.
For us, it helps us prove we arent just fantasists. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us it is good for single guys as we are new and ca see they are genuine and wont need too much guidance as we are new.
For us, it helps us prove we arent just fantasists. "
nothing really proves anything until you meet somebody else's taste will differ from person to person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me to look like an idiot, saying I thought a girl was lovely as we shared a cup of tea/coffee, sandwiched between two other men saying shes a dirty slut who loves to take cock and do what shes told."
Ah that makes you look sweet, not like an idiot. Hopefully you met again. -Mrs |
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By *ookMan
over a year ago
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Not wishing to go off the original point but... check out the customer feedback on amazon for mens v e e t hair removal cream... in my view this is the model that should be adopted for any verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For us it is good for single guys as we are new and ca see they are genuine and wont need too much guidance as we are new.
For us, it helps us prove we arent just fantasists. "
Guidance in what way? |
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"For me to look like an idiot, saying I thought a girl was lovely as we shared a cup of tea/coffee, sandwiched between two other men saying shes a dirty slut who loves to take cock and do what shes told."
What exactly makes you look like an idiot? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me to look like an idiot, saying I thought a girl was lovely as we shared a cup of tea/coffee, sandwiched between two other men saying shes a dirty slut who loves to take cock and do what shes told."
They must not have been banging her very hard if you managed to keep hold of your cuppa. |
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For me it's primarily for safety reasons - if other women have survived to write verifications, then by my reasoning they're less likely to be an axe murderer. I say this with tongue firmly in cheek, but having had a couple of people that definitely crossed a line with regards to acceptable behaviour, I will never risk a meet with anyone that is not verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those that say they act as mementos and are between you and them, then why display them?
I don’t display 1:1 veris "
you do display your sexy bum though  |
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"For me it's primarily for safety reasons - if other women have survived to write verifications, then by my reasoning they're less likely to be an axe murderer. I say this with tongue firmly in cheek, but having had a couple of people that definitely crossed a line with regards to acceptable behaviour, I will never risk a meet with anyone that is not verified. "
Definitely. No tongue in cheek, I want to go home at the end of the meet, not to hospital or the police. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Adding.. I don't want to be anyone's first verification. So for me it's also about protecting myself like others said. "
can you protect me as well please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's primarily for safety reasons - if other women have survived to write verifications, then by my reasoning they're less likely to be an axe murderer. I say this with tongue firmly in cheek, but having had a couple of people that definitely crossed a line with regards to acceptable behaviour, I will never risk a meet with anyone that is not verified. "
But past meet doesn't ensure event of future meet, just a perspective  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i use veri's to see that they meet for fun ...not cams or socials/clubs they mean nothing im interested in confident guys who really do meet for fun thats what i look for in veri's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you wanted to check that someone was safe to meet, You could always ask the person who verified them."
and id tell them to mind there own business ..i dont disclose any of my meets to anyone good or bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you wanted to check that someone was safe to meet, You could always ask the person who verified them."
No don't do that. People hate when they get contacted about someone they met. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it's primarily for safety reasons - if other women have survived to write verifications, then by my reasoning they're less likely to be an axe murderer. I say this with tongue firmly in cheek, but having had a couple of people that definitely crossed a line with regards to acceptable behaviour, I will never risk a meet with anyone that is not verified.
But past meet doesn't ensure event of future meet, just a perspective "
Serial killers go undetected until their last victim. |
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For me it’s just to prove someone is genuine, any veri given is normally quite vanilla as what went on stays between us.
I read above some won’t meet anyone who hasn’t been verified.... I’ve been four guys first veri and I’ve never been disappointed with any of their company.
We all have to start somewhere, we were all newbies at some point, someone gave us a chance so give them one, just be smart where you meet. |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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I'm probably not qualified to comment as I don't have any veris, mainly because I've not met anyone yet, and I have no intention of going to a club.
But, to me, a veri only proves a person is who they say they are, and not necessarily who they actually are. Official documents, such as passport or driving licence prove that.
In the past, on other dating sites, when arranging a meet I've sent a message with my name, address and a link to a website for a community organisation I volunteer for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it’s just to prove someone is genuine, any veri given is normally quite vanilla as what went on stays between us.
I read above some won’t meet anyone who hasn’t been verified.... I’ve been four guys first veri and I’ve never been disappointed with any of their company.
We all have to start somewhere, we were all newbies at some point, someone gave us a chance so give them one, just be smart where you meet. "
I get it. But it wouldn't change my mind. Everyone reduces their risk in the way that suits them, even if they feel unfair to others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm probably not qualified to comment as I don't have any veris, mainly because I've not met anyone yet, and I have no intention of going to a club.
But, to me, a veri only proves a person is who they say they are, and not necessarily who they actually are. Official documents, such as passport or driving licence prove that.
In the past, on other dating sites, when arranging a meet I've sent a message with my name, address and a link to a website for a community organisation I volunteer for. "
im here to meet for fun i just need to know that guys meets and is reliable i dont care if he has a fake name ?? certainly dont want to know the ins and out of his life ..dating is dating its not swinging no baggage with swinging |
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"For me it’s just to prove someone is genuine, any veri given is normally quite vanilla as what went on stays between us.
I read above some won’t meet anyone who hasn’t been verified.... I’ve been four guys first veri and I’ve never been disappointed with any of their company.
We all have to start somewhere, we were all newbies at some point, someone gave us a chance so give them one, just be smart where you meet.
I get it. But it wouldn't change my mind. Everyone reduces their risk in the way that suits them, even if they feel unfair to others. "
That’s fine everyone does what suits them best.
I leave a piece of paper in my living room detailing as much as I know about them, where I’m meeting etc, so if the unlikely happens they have a starting point.
My little bit of crazy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Other than to inform other fabbers that they have met you in person and are not a psycho killer. Absolutely nothing. When you join, pay, verify your email, verify your picture. It's clear you are who you say you are. I imagine it isn't as clear cut as that though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it’s just to prove someone is genuine, any veri given is normally quite vanilla as what went on stays between us.
I read above some won’t meet anyone who hasn’t been verified.... I’ve been four guys first veri and I’ve never been disappointed with any of their company.
We all have to start somewhere, we were all newbies at some point, someone gave us a chance so give them one, just be smart where you meet.
I get it. But it wouldn't change my mind. Everyone reduces their risk in the way that suits them, even if they feel unfair to others.
That’s fine everyone does what suits them best.
I leave a piece of paper in my living room detailing as much as I know about them, where I’m meeting etc, so if the unlikely happens they have a starting point.
My little bit of crazy "
Haha i like it. I have a friend at the end of line for updates/signal etc. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Useful on women's profiles though. If they have like, 30 social veri's and that's it you know not to bother.."
Some womens choice to only show social meets though. But it's a good filter both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's primarily for safety reasons - if other women have survived to write verifications, then by my reasoning they're less likely to be an axe murderer. I say this with tongue firmly in cheek, but having had a couple of people that definitely crossed a line with regards to acceptable behaviour, I will never risk a meet with anyone that is not verified.
But past meet doesn't ensure event of future meet, just a perspective
Serial killers go undetected until their last victim. "
Not undetected, because patterns confirm if crime was done by one man. I think arrested would be correct word, so how many unarrested mans are on fab? , I am venturing out in night kind frightened, and don't watch Scarry movies, kind of phobia, can we discuss something else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it’s just to prove someone is genuine, any veri given is normally quite vanilla as what went on stays between us.
I read above some won’t meet anyone who hasn’t been verified.... I’ve been four guys first veri and I’ve never been disappointed with any of their company.
We all have to start somewhere, we were all newbies at some point, someone gave us a chance so give them one, just be smart where you meet.
I get it. But it wouldn't change my mind. Everyone reduces their risk in the way that suits them, even if they feel unfair to others. "
You don't reduce risk (it's inherent) you can only reduce the probability of risk getting materialised |
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"For me it’s just to prove someone is genuine, any veri given is normally quite vanilla as what went on stays between us.
I read above some won’t meet anyone who hasn’t been verified.... I’ve been four guys first veri and I’ve never been disappointed with any of their company.
We all have to start somewhere, we were all newbies at some point, someone gave us a chance so give them one, just be smart where you meet.
I get it. But it wouldn't change my mind. Everyone reduces their risk in the way that suits them, even if they feel unfair to others.
That’s fine everyone does what suits them best.
I leave a piece of paper in my living room detailing as much as I know about them, where I’m meeting etc, so if the unlikely happens they have a starting point.
My little bit of crazy "
Not crazy.
I used to text information to friends or just myself, so a trail existed |
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"I leave a piece of paper in my living room detailing as much as I know about them, where I’m meeting etc, so if the unlikely happens they have a starting point.
My little bit of crazy
Not crazy.
I used to text information to friends or just myself, so a trail existed"
Glad I’m not the only one
My friends have no idea about this side of me, so paper it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Useful on women's profiles though. If they have like, 30 social veri's and that's it you know not to bother..
Some womens choice to only show social meets though. But it's a good filter both ways."
The ones I show are mostly social. I don’t particularly like veris so I never actually ask people to do them. Like I said I have enough to prove I’m me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate them. Makes me feel like an Amazon toaster...
Made me laugh - do they write " item as described ,came on time ! " lol"
Hahahaha I want all my veris in this style now |
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"For me to look like an idiot, saying I thought a girl was lovely as we shared a cup of tea/coffee, sandwiched between two other men saying shes a dirty slut who loves to take cock and do what shes told.
They must not have been banging her very hard if you managed to keep hold of your cuppa."
A gentleman never loses his grip on his cup of tea, and never spills a drop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For some it’s a confidence boost, like waving their cock in public. Meet some who just love verifications! For me, they cause jealousy and verification snooping  |
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I've decided they are pointless as I used to keep them as a happy memory but the majority of people I've met over time have left the site so the memories are now just a number.
175 woo hoo... who were they? |
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For others, I use mine to show that I do meet (just showing the summary).
For me, I look at others to decide if they really do meet or not.
Not fool proof but at least one of the tools that I use.
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Couldn’t care a toss what others think about our verifications, just know who we meet are more than willing to meet and verify again.
Not one gives more than a hint of what happened and the fun we all had. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"they just prove how big a slag and health issue you are in transmitting disease"
That's why I only meet people with less than 4 veris on their profile.
They may have met 4 or 4,000 people, I'd never know. Makes it exciting Russian roulette. |
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"For me to look like an idiot, saying I thought a girl was lovely as we shared a cup of tea/coffee, sandwiched between two other men saying shes a dirty slut who loves to take cock and do what shes told.
They must not have been banging her very hard if you managed to keep hold of your cuppa.
A gentleman never loses his grip on his cup of tea, and never spills a drop."
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By (user no longer on site)
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they are like the oscars of the sex world "she rode me like a rodeo cowgirl" or "she sucked me like a henry vacuum never lost suction ever" or " dont mess this one about she wanked me like a pro" or "can't wait for repeat meet wont say what we got up to I'm a gentleman" |
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