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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I met with a lady couple of days ago and we had some fun. After each episode I cleaned up myself and brushed my teeth and rinsed my mouth with a mouthwash. She thought I was weird. Do you think so? It is body fluids on you after all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might feel a bit insulted, like you can't wait to wash me off you. But I suppose we're all different!
I'd feel like that, it would make me feel like they thought I was dirty. "
I think I would feel the same, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the kind of play really. But maybe the odd swig of mouthwash and a shower together during my sex but I would feel like you wanted to wash me off you if you washed that much.
I suppose my latest sessions have all been overnights so we would play then get showered and go out for dinner then play some more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ooo i don't know! I get both sides, but i know people are funny about kissing after and stuff"
I don't wash my mouth after kissing. I do that after going down on my woman normally.. I have always been a bit of a clean freak! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I quite like the taste of someone in my mouth and the feel of their bodily fluids on me - it's like a hot secret reminder of the fun I've had the night before. But OP if that works for you, fair enough. I do understand how a woman might feel a bit  about it but I'm sure explaining it helps put their mind at rest. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Ooo i don't know! I get both sides, but i know people are funny about kissing after and stuff
I don't wash my mouth after kissing. I do that after going down on my woman normally.. I have always been a bit of a clean freak!"
I'm not having a go, if that's what makes you comfortable then that's right for you.
From my point of view though, if a woman washed straight after, brushed her teeth after giving me oral, etc. It would make me very uncomfortable. |
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"Ooo i don't know! I get both sides, but i know people are funny about kissing after and stuff
I don't wash my mouth after kissing. I do that after going down on my woman normally.. I have always been a bit of a clean freak!"
Ahhh... that explains it better, maybe say that to your meet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it makes you comfortable to do so then it’s the right thing for you "
Well, I suppose it is not about me. I don't want to offend someone. I may have to work on this.. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"If it makes you comfortable to do so then it’s the right thing for you
Well, I suppose it is not about me. I don't want to offend someone. I may have to work on this.."
I think as long as you communicate with the person you're with, so they know its a little quirk you have, it should be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ooo i don't know! I get both sides, but i know people are funny about kissing after and stuff
I don't wash my mouth after kissing. I do that after going down on my woman normally.. I have always been a bit of a clean freak!"
Oh i mean oral! I totally get it, if i think about i can't see why you wouldn't, suppose some find it a turn on maybe x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I brush, clean up, etc after casual sex too. I honestly didn't think it was odd either.
Use their washing machine and you gotta whole different conversation though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I quite like the taste of someone in my mouth and the feel of their bodily fluids on me - it's like a hot secret reminder of the fun I've had the night before. But OP if that works for you, fair enough. I do understand how a woman might feel a bit about it but I'm sure explaining it helps put their mind at rest."
On reflection I may have gone a bit overboard. We met for dinner and she had goats cheese. I hate goats cheese. And also she tasted a bit different than other women I have been with. She tasted a bit bitter. Maybe it's the goats cheese.
I really hope she doesn't visit the forums as I met her on here..lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I brush, clean up, etc after casual sex too. I honestly didn't think it was odd either.
Use their washing machine and you gotta whole different conversation though. "
If she was at my place I get my linen washed and dried straight away too. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"If it makes you comfortable to do so then it’s the right thing for you
Well, I suppose it is not about me. I don't want to offend someone. I may have to work on this.."
Yes I understand  communication is key I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I brush, clean up, etc after casual sex too. I honestly didn't think it was odd either.
Use their washing machine and you gotta whole different conversation though.
If she was at my place I get my linen washed and dried straight away too."
Well I meant as kind of a funny Haha thing. Be weird if I actually went to throw a load of laundry in at someones house.
I have though changed my sheets over after casual as well. You arent alone OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I brush, clean up, etc after casual sex too. I honestly didn't think it was odd either.
Use their washing machine and you gotta whole different conversation though.
If she was at my place I get my linen washed and dried straight away too.
Well I meant as kind of a funny Haha thing. Be weird if I actually went to throw a load of laundry in at someones house.
I have though changed my sheets over after casual as well. You arent alone OP. "
Thank you! I have company now.  |
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"I met with a lady couple of days ago and we had some fun. After each episode I cleaned up myself and brushed my teeth and rinsed my mouth with a mouthwash. She thought I was weird. Do you think so? It is body fluids on you after all!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't really do one offs so I usually know the person quite well. So I love the afterglow , the shower together and all of that. However I do always go to the bathroom and have a quick wash and swirl with mouthwash in-between rounds because I'm paranoid. And I think it's just manners.
I adore kissing him after he's gone down on me and tasting me on his lips though.
There is part of me that would feel offended if he jumped out of bed and washed immediately though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't really do one offs so I usually know the person quite well. So I love the afterglow , the shower together and all of that. However I do always go to the bathroom and have a quick wash and swirl with mouthwash in-between rounds because I'm paranoid. And I think it's just manners.
I adore kissing him after he's gone down on me and tasting me on his lips though.
There is part of me that would feel offended if he jumped out of bed and washed immediately though! "
It is not immediately. May be 10 to 15 mins after we both climaxed and a bit of kissing!  |
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Sometimes we clean up after, if we’re going to sleep.
Other times we stay dirty.. 
It’s lovely to have the smell of the person you love/lust on you while you curl up together.
Had an amazing meet with some friends in a hotel and we all slept where we fell.
Plenty of time to clean up in the morning.
(Just a note, I’m an OCD clean freak as well, especially penis cleanliness but sometimes it just feels right to stay in the moment.)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not weird, just what you needed. I wouldn't say anything, in the same situation, but I would not meet you again if this continued. In a relationship, I would try and communicate.
Unless something went wrong, I would like a man to carry my taste and smell on his skin and tongue for a little bit longer.. something a bit ritualistic about it. Maybe she feels similar? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I had swallowed cum, I might use some mouthwash but I only clean up at the end unless something we had done was particularly messy. I love the smell and taste of my partners on me during our time together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I had swallowed cum, I might use some mouthwash but I only clean up at the end unless something we had done was particularly messy. I love the smell and taste of my partners on me during our time together."
This for me too. If I’ve swallowed his cum, bit of mouthwash then back to bed for kisses and cuddles. Otherwise it’s just a shower together at the very end |
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By *otdayMan
over a year ago
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"I met with a lady couple of days ago and we had some fun. After each episode I cleaned up myself and brushed my teeth and rinsed my mouth with a mouthwash. She thought I was weird. Do you think so? It is body fluids on you after all!"
Not sure about brushing your teeth and risking that you break the skin on your gums, more risk of infection? |
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In a club... that is an excellent ethos.
One on one.. maybe not so necessary... however... I am a girl who swallows... and not a lot of men like to taste their own cum from my mouth or smell it on breath... so a swill of mouth wash is often a pleasant option. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its not weird, just what you needed. I wouldn't say anything, in the same situation, but I would not meet you again if this continued. In a relationship, I would try and communicate.
Unless something went wrong, I would like a man to carry my taste and smell on his skin and tongue for a little bit longer.. something a bit ritualistic about it. Maybe she feels similar? "
It all depends on how she tastes. I had women who had that sweet kinda taste.. The bitter taste is not the same I guess.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met with a lady couple of days ago and we had some fun. After each episode I cleaned up myself and brushed my teeth and rinsed my mouth with a mouthwash. She thought I was weird. Do you think so? It is body fluids on you after all!"
Meet was in hotel or your place? I wouldn't carry toothbrush in club or visiting to her place, just think of list do I need, towel, soap, night dress etc. Well I am not going on holiday tour  , but on serious side I prefer washing mouth after lick and Willy even though it was covered with rubber, |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I think it's something that I'm a little sensitive about, my ex hated my cum, washed as soon as sex was over (if we had sex) and hated oral. It made me feel dirty and that my cum was toxic.
No offence to the OP as I think that comfort is important. Personally though, I believe that there's nothing dirty or unclean about sex or sexual fluids, they're natural and all part of what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not weird, just what you needed. I wouldn't say anything, in the same situation, but I would not meet you again if this continued. In a relationship, I would try and communicate.
Unless something went wrong, I would like a man to carry my taste and smell on his skin and tongue for a little bit longer.. something a bit ritualistic about it. Maybe she feels similar?
It all depends on how she tastes. I had women who had that sweet kinda taste.. The bitter taste is not the same I guess.."
I get it. Just do what you need to do. There is someone compatible with your needs out there.
Wonder why would someone taste bitter though? Sweet or salty.. but bitter? Just a side note. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met with a lady couple of days ago and we had some fun. After each episode I cleaned up myself and brushed my teeth and rinsed my mouth with a mouthwash. She thought I was weird. Do you think so? It is body fluids on you after all!
Meet was in hotel or your place? I wouldn't carry toothbrush in club or visiting to her place, just think of list do I need, towel, soap, night dress etc. Well I am not going on holiday tour , but on serious side I prefer washing mouth after lick and Willy even though it was covered with rubber, "
I meet at hotels only.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its not weird, just what you needed. I wouldn't say anything, in the same situation, but I would not meet you again if this continued. In a relationship, I would try and communicate.
Unless something went wrong, I would like a man to carry my taste and smell on his skin and tongue for a little bit longer.. something a bit ritualistic about it. Maybe she feels similar?
It all depends on how she tastes. I had women who had that sweet kinda taste.. The bitter taste is not the same I guess..
I get it. Just do what you need to do. There is someone compatible with your needs out there.
Wonder why would someone taste bitter though? Sweet or salty.. but bitter? Just a side note. "
Yup..Sweet and salty has been the norm. This is a bit different. The good news was that we had exchanged our medical test notes as I was licking without any protection. She was all clear. We used condoms for sex. So I don't think I need to worry about any infection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I had swallowed cum, I might use some mouthwash but I only clean up at the end unless something we had done was particularly messy. I love the smell and taste of my partners on me during our time together.
This for me too. If I’ve swallowed his cum, bit of mouthwash then back to bed for kisses and cuddles. Otherwise it’s just a shower together at the very end "
I love the shower together at the end especially if the hotel has a walk-in shower. The only problem is I feel like going all over again  |
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"If I had swallowed cum, I might use some mouthwash but I only clean up at the end unless something we had done was particularly messy. I love the smell and taste of my partners on me during our time together.
This for me too. If I’ve swallowed his cum, bit of mouthwash then back to bed for kisses and cuddles. Otherwise it’s just a shower together at the very end
I love the shower together at the end especially if the hotel has a walk-in shower. The only problem is I feel like going all over again "
And that’s bad why
Molly
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I had swallowed cum, I might use some mouthwash but I only clean up at the end unless something we had done was particularly messy. I love the smell and taste of my partners on me during our time together.
This for me too. If I’ve swallowed his cum, bit of mouthwash then back to bed for kisses and cuddles. Otherwise it’s just a shower together at the very end
I love the shower together at the end especially if the hotel has a walk-in shower. The only problem is I feel like going all over again
And that’s bad why
Molly
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Because you don’t have the time if it’s the end of your time together |
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I'm a clean freak too 
So understand where you are coming from OP. With one off meets I'd say it was standard procedure.
But with D it's so different, I want to smell him on me hours after and so does he, infact if he can smell his aftershave he will stick his fingers in me and rub my juices on his beard so he has a 'better' smell!
At the end of the day OP as long as you communicate with your meet there should be no problem.
Jo.Xx |
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I had an ex who wouldn't have sex with me if I hadn't showered immediately before (even an hour before was too long) and he would get up to shower straight after. It gave me a bit of a complex about it so now I feel uncomfortable if I'm not very freshly showered. I make sure I explain to people though why I'm like that and it has nothing to do with thinking they're dirty, it's feeling that I am. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm a clean freak too
So understand where you are coming from OP. With one off meets I'd say it was standard procedure.
But with D it's so different, I want to smell him on me hours after and so does he, infact if he can smell his aftershave he will stick his fingers in me and rub my juices on his beard so he has a 'better' smell!
At the end of the day OP as long as you communicate with your meet there should be no problem.
Jo.Xx "
Thanks Jo. Will work on that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had an ex who wouldn't have sex with me if I hadn't showered immediately before (even an hour before was too long) and he would get up to shower straight after. It gave me a bit of a complex about it so now I feel uncomfortable if I'm not very freshly showered. I make sure I explain to people though why I'm like that and it has nothing to do with thinking they're dirty, it's feeling that I am."
I totally understand. I am the same. I very particular about what I eat and how I smell before the meet. I have s shower before the meet too. |
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"I quite like the taste of someone in my mouth and the feel of their bodily fluids on me - it's like a hot secret reminder of the fun I've had the night before. But OP if that works for you, fair enough. I do understand how a woman might feel a bit about it but I'm sure explaining it helps put their mind at rest.
On reflection I may have gone a bit overboard. We met for dinner and she had goats cheese. I hate goats cheese. And also she tasted a bit different than other women I have been with. She tasted a bit bitter. Maybe it's the goats cheese.
I really hope she doesn't visit the forums as I met her on here..lol
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Probably not wise to discuss intimate details about her on here then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I quite like the taste of someone in my mouth and the feel of their bodily fluids on me - it's like a hot secret reminder of the fun I've had the night before. But OP if that works for you, fair enough. I do understand how a woman might feel a bit about it but I'm sure explaining it helps put their mind at rest.
On reflection I may have gone a bit overboard. We met for dinner and she had goats cheese. I hate goats cheese. And also she tasted a bit different than other women I have been with. She tasted a bit bitter. Maybe it's the goats cheese.
I really hope she doesn't visit the forums as I met her on here..lol
Probably not wise to discuss intimate details about her on here then."
Agree. Hope she doesn't see this thread. Lol |
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