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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !
Anyone had the opposite ? "
I think it depends on how the cancellation is handled. I have asked to rearrange and explained my reasons why and the guy has got very funny about it so Iv then decided not to rearrange, Iv also had guys ask me to rearrange and it's never been an issue. |
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I've personally never had a rearranged meet if they've cancelled the first meet though people I've met more than once that have had to cancel before due to unforeseen circumstances have pretty much always promptly rearranged. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I think anyone that’s been on here a while will have experienced a cancellation. As others have said, life happens! Mostly I’ve managed to rearrange. A couple of times the other person left the site! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of course I appreciate and I’m always sympathetic to life outside fab but my experience is 100 % of cancelations never rearrange!
Just my experience but good to know there is more positive outcomes out there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes recently I chatted with a lady who asked if I would meet her the next day.
I had nothing on the next day, so I said sure why not. After arriving at her town I text her and she made up all kinds of excuses not to me.
“And she was like which one are you now?“ lol
I havent heard from her since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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98% of the meets I've arranged have been cancelled on me and the other person never talked to me after that again. Maybe I'm just the unluckiest person here but it seems very unfair |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I've had to cancel or had meets cancelled, pretty much always rearranged though. As others have said; life happens. If I've decided against actually meeting them full stop, I've always said in plenty of time. I think it's a question of respect.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Yes recently I chatted with a lady who asked if I would meet her the next day.
I had nothing on the next day, so I said sure why not. After arriving at her town I text her and she made up all kinds of excuses not to me.
“And she was like which one are you now?“ lol
I havent heard from her since. "
That's remarkably brutal!
If anything it sounds like you had a lucky escape. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"98% of the meets I've arranged have been cancelled on me and the other person never talked to me after that again. Maybe I'm just the unluckiest person here but it seems very unfair"
My experience too ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had to cancel or had meets cancelled, pretty much always rearranged though. As others have said; life happens. If I've decided against actually meeting them full stop, I've always said in plenty of time. I think it's a question of respect.
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I agree totally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes recently I chatted with a lady who asked if I would meet her the next day.
I had nothing on the next day, so I said sure why not. After arriving at her town I text her and she made up all kinds of excuses not to me.
“And she was like which one are you now?“ lol
I havent heard from her since.
That's remarkably brutal!
If anything it sounds like you had a lucky escape. "
Hmm maybe  |
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One of us had an accident with magic powder (a blob found its way to a place it wasn't supposed to be and burned before it could be removed) and as such was no longer in the mood for sex, so we had to cancel, made up for it the following week though...  |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !
Anyone had the opposite ? "
Least they cancelled op, I've read other threads that the op has been ghosted.
In answer to your question, Yep and I 've also had to cancel and we've rearranged.
If its happening a lot, the common denominator is you. my suggestion put more checks and balances in your process.  |
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"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !
Anyone had the opposite ?
Least they cancelled op, I've read other threads that the op has been ghosted.
In answer to your question, Yep and I 've also had to cancel and we've rearranged.
If its happening a lot, the common denominator is you. my suggestion put more checks and balances in your process. "
Common "denominator" ??? |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
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I have cancelled before due to family issues cropping up, stuff happens and I guess some folk see it as a palm off, but I have also been blocked an hour before a social, that was a bit upsetting initially as I would have preferred a message to say I have changed my mind etc...but not everyone is that straight up |
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"I've had to cancel or had meets cancelled, pretty much always rearranged though. As others have said; life happens. If I've decided against actually meeting them full stop, I've always said in plenty of time. I think it's a question of respect.
I agree totally "
I agree with this OP and teamonkey. Things happen, but show respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do you end up getting cross with them opp. I think we all have had to cancell or had cancelled meets. Things crop up. Mine always rearange and so do i. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !
Anyone had the opposite ?
Least they cancelled op, I've read other threads that the op has been ghosted.
In answer to your question, Yep and I 've also had to cancel and we've rearranged.
If its happening a lot, the common denominator is you. my suggestion put more checks and balances in your process.
Common "denominator" ???"
The 'common denominator'
the op describes in thisa scenario is himself. Hes the common part in the process. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !
Anyone had the opposite ? "
Same here, we reckon they get greater pleasure from knowing they're messing you about than they ever could sexually from a meet.
In short, fantasists.
Just gone through similar with someone on here, wanted to meet, asked to meet, twice, never responded after that.
Ah well, upward and onwards. |
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