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When the message bit at the top is cream
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And it means you have a message, don't you feel fantastic?
Although mines usually one to say the site supporter pass is running out.
How does it make you feel? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either:
Old friend = happy/what do you want?
New friend = happy/grateful
Forum twat = sad/cba
Man telling me he's going to suck me so good without asking if I'm even interested = flattered but I'm good thanks.....
Woman saying shes going to suck me so good without asking if I'm interested = I don't know that feeling yet!
Admin = dread!
Woman showing me what they're doing with BOB = new until recently but delighted....
I'm usually pleased to get any message tbf, whether it's from a woman, a dude or whoever, its good to talk to new ppl 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!  |
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!! "
That is not fun!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
That is not fun!!! "
Avoidance ... it’s a great strategy when you feel overwhelmed! haha. |
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
That is not fun!!!
Avoidance ... it’s a great strategy when you feel overwhelmed! haha. "
I hide my profile for a bit when I got too many, just to stop any more new ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do get a buzz when I see it’s a message from someone I know either as a friend or potential lover.
Desensitised to the new ones, especially those from men who make the decision to have a dick pic or cum pic as their profile picture. I know we wouldn’t get on so instant delete... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!! "
I have zero.....  |
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
I have zero..... "
Have you not? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
Omg! I'm glad I'm not younger and in this age group, that is overwhelming!  "
Shouldn’t have left it for months, it’s my own fault really! The reason it’s got so out of control is, I actually used to feel bad for just deleting a message without acknowledging the sender in some way... and like many I don’t have the time to acknowledge all senders. So I just left them, thinking “it’s nicer for someone to see it unread than see it deleted”. And now - I’ve created a monster!!! 
Lesson from this for me is - be less “nice” and forget the usual rules of social etiquette- they don’t need to apply to Fab mail... just delete!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
I have zero..... "
Do you want me to send you one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
I have zero.....
Have you not? Lol"
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It really surprises me that Fab have not built a better filter system for messages.
I personally think it would benefit men, women and couples on here if you could categorise and filter your inbox by
- sex
- location of sender
- length of time an unopened email is in your inbox
- have favourites for people you like and want to interact with instead of losing them in your inbox
There should also be a rating system where senders get rated on emails they send and therefore the quality of emails will improve from men. This could also then be used as a filter where you can say you only want to receive mails from others users with minimum 3 out of 5 stars for example.
It would cut out so much bullshit.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
I have zero.....
Do you want me to send you one? "
Silly question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really surprises me that Fab have not built a better filter system for messages.
I personally think it would benefit men, women and couples on here if you could categorise and filter your inbox by
- sex
- location of sender
- length of time an unopened email is in your inbox
- have favourites for people you like and want to interact with instead of losing them in your inbox
There should also be a rating system where senders get rated on emails they send and therefore the quality of emails will improve from men. This could also then be used as a filter where you can say you only want to receive mails from others users with minimum 3 out of 5 stars for example.
It would cut out so much bullshit.
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This is a good idea  |
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
I have zero.....
Have you not? Lol
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Attention seeker you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
I have zero.....
Have you not? Lol
Attention seeker you "
I need some today tbh.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!
I have zero.....
Have you not? Lol
Attention seeker you
I need some today tbh.... "
Sending hugs... and I have messaged you  |
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"And it means you have a message, don't you feel fantastic?
Although mines usually one to say the site supporter pass is running out.
How does it make you feel?"
1) A guy messaging along the lines of “Where are you, I’ll suck you off?” .... Delete..
2) A woman or couple messaging along the lines of “More pics?” .... Delete.. with 1 in 3 of them is prob a guy.... So yeah, that’s how I feel |
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