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"Is it ok to have this tattoo on your body or any reference made to it in view of its historical implications to black men/women? I understand why women have these tattoos because they like black men but does it offend any one?" To be honest i never even knew the meaning of thos tattoo. Learnt something new today | |||
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"Is it ok to have this tattoo on your body or any reference made to it in view of its historical implications to black men/women? I understand why women have these tattoos because they like black men but does it offend any one? To be honest i never even knew the meaning of thos tattoo. Learnt something new today " The Urban Dictionary is your friend. Has lots of interesting stuff. | |||
"Why are you interested in getting this OP?" Just a long debate i had off a woman on here but i dont want to go into detail about that..i was just interested what people thought about it or who even know that this was a derogatory term for afro american men. | |||
"It depends on what definition of the term you choose. Personally, I think a necklace is much better as you can take it off whenever you want." What definition would you use? | |||
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"Why are you interested in getting this OP? "I dont know anyone personally who has one but im just interested to know what peoples views are. | |||
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 yes a part of the wording was an old rarely now used term but never as a card | |||
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"I wear a temporary one while out with Daddy to both attract black guys and keep white bois away!! "No such luck. Too many chancers who will ignore everything, even a not very polite "no".  | |||
"I've known of the symbol for about 10 years. I just thought it means the woman only goes for black men. Don't know if there is any deeper meaning to it." This seems to be the main meaning, yes. | |||
"Why are you interested in getting this OP?
I dont know anyone personally who has one but im just interested to know what peoples views are. "There is a woman that goes to BMFC, she has one in the middle of her back. | |||
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"It depends on what definition of the term you choose. Personally, I think a necklace is much better as you can take it off whenever you want. What definition would you use?" QUOTE The playing cards symbol usually with a 'Q' above or inside. It connotes white women with a sexual preference for black men. It can be seen on tee shirts or even as a tatoo. Also a way for a white woman to let potential black lovers know she is available. "Did you see her queen of spades?" You know what SHE"S into!" UNQUOTE | |||
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"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka " Random... | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka " I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too." And he of course represents a few million of people. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. And he of course represents a few million of people. "Well...he probably does actually.. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too." Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. And he of course represents a few million of people.
Well...he probably does actually.."Surely all of us only represent ourselves. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. And he of course represents a few million of people.
Well...he probably does actually..
Surely all of us only represent ourselves." | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. And he of course represents a few million of people.
Well...he probably does actually..
Surely all of us only represent ourselves."To be fair i think he has a right to pass a comment too..collective responsibility does work too. | |||
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"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos." You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. " Wow. Just wow. Where did all this come from? Although no one is immune from racism, I don't think denying you access to someone's body and time equates denying access to jobs, education and public facilities. Ah well... Good luck fighting your chimerae. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. And he of course represents a few million of people.
Well...he probably does actually..
Surely all of us only represent ourselves.
To be fair i think he has a right to pass a comment too..collective responsibility does work too."Absolutely. And he has. Not commenting on collective responsibility. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. " That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. | |||
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"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. " You don't even know what your talking about, you know nothing | |||
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"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. " Awww you’re back! | |||
"To be honest there's no reason for anyone to have this tattoo it's disrespectful " what if they like cards? its their lucky suit?? | |||
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"To be honest there's no reason for anyone to have this tattoo it's disrespectful what if they like cards? its their lucky suit?? " Lol come on we weren't born yesterday. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. " Whenever you type something, all I ever see is narcissism. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. Whenever you type something, all I ever see is narcissism. " I've never noticed you before, you must be boring. You'll be glad to know I've taken the test and don't even come close. | |||
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"To be honest there's no reason for anyone to have this tattoo it's disrespectful what if they like cards? its their lucky suit?? Lol come on we weren't born yesterday. " no mate im afraid people have all kinds of reasons for having the tattoo, your reasoning that theres no reason for anyone to have that design is a bit silly, i dont and millions of others dont see any disrespect in it at all. | |||
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"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. Whenever you type something, all I ever see is narcissism. I've never noticed you before, you must be boring. You'll be glad to know I've taken the test and don't even come close. " i do im a sociopathic bi polar narcissist with scitso and psychotic tendencys thank you google  | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. You don't even know what your talking about, you know nothing " Let me guess, my opinion and experience is negligent - due to being white.... Everyone exists within the same melting pot. White against black against Asian against aborigine. There is no race exempt from it. The fact that you all think that being white makes an experience lesser than if you were of colour, is sheer stupidity. Placing “no white men” on your profile is the exact same as pubs having “no black people”. It’s not a preference, it’s a dig and attempt to make those of a certain race feel inferior. You can easily block all men and message the small pool of black men; but no, you purposely place this on your profiles to stir up anger. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. Whenever you type something, all I ever see is narcissism. I've never noticed you before, you must be boring. You'll be glad to know I've taken the test and don't even come close. " Narcissism and npd are not the same thing. Strong fail. | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. Whenever you type something, all I ever see is narcissism. I've never noticed you before, you must be boring. You'll be glad to know I've taken the test and don't even come close. Narcissism and npd are not the same thing. Strong fail. " “I’ve never noticed you before” - continuously replies to me..... | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. You don't even know what your talking about, you know nothing Let me guess, my opinion and experience is negligent - due to being white.... Everyone exists within the same melting pot. White against black against Asian against aborigine. There is no race exempt from it. The fact that you all think that being white makes an experience lesser than if you were of colour, is sheer stupidity. Placing “no white men” on your profile is the exact same as pubs having “no black people”. It’s not a preference, it’s a dig and attempt to make those of a certain race feel inferior. You can easily block all men and message the small pool of black men; but no, you purposely place this on your profiles to stir up anger. " To be honest mate...you do sound a bit angry yourself? | |||
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"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. Whenever you type something, all I ever see is narcissism. I've never noticed you before, you must be boring. You'll be glad to know I've taken the test and don't even come close. Narcissism and npd are not the same thing. Strong fail. “I’ve never noticed you before” - continuously replies to me....." Continuously? Have a word with yourself. All this because I dared challenge you for saying racism doesnt exist? I'm done with you, bye. | |||
"It connotes white women with a sexual preference for black men. It can be seen on tee shirts or even as a tatoo. Also a way for a white woman to let potential black lovers know she is available. "Did you see her queen of spades?" You know what SHE"S into! Is what I got when I urban dictionaries the Queen of spades. Or does it have a different meaning on men? " it also means they love poker and thats his/her favourite suit... it also means they like that particular design... it also means... get the picture??? | |||
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"It connotes white women with a sexual preference for black men. It can be seen on tee shirts or even as a tatoo. Also a way for a white woman to let potential black lovers know she is available. "Did you see her queen of spades?" You know what SHE"S into! Is what I got when I urban dictionaries the Queen of spades. Or does it have a different meaning on men? it also means they love poker and thats his/her favourite suit... it also means they like that particular design... it also means... get the picture??? "Yeah..we get the picture..zzzzzz | |||
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"It connotes white women with a sexual preference for black men. It can be seen on tee shirts or even as a tatoo. Also a way for a white woman to let potential black lovers know she is available. "Did you see her queen of spades?" You know what SHE"S into! Is what I got when I urban dictionaries the Queen of spades. Or does it have a different meaning on men? it also means they love poker and thats his/her favourite suit... it also means they like that particular design... it also means... get the picture???
Yeah..we get the picture..zzzzzz"about as interesting as you pal. | |||
"To me this should be abit of a compliment to my coloured fellow humans ( people of all colours) if someone had a reference with a positive or possible positive meaning, why does everything these days have to have a negative meaning? " I think that's actually a lovely, positive thing to say  , but sadly I can see you're likely to get hammered for using the c-word.....  | |||
"To me this should be abit of a compliment to my coloured fellow humans ( people of all colours) if someone had a reference with a positive or possible positive meaning, why does everything these days have to have a negative meaning? I think that's actually a lovely, positive thing to say , but sadly I can see you're likely to get hammered for using the c-word..... "I welcome a debate mate, but to debate with me they better have a valid point | |||
"It connotes white women with a sexual preference for black men. It can be seen on tee shirts or even as a tatoo. Also a way for a white woman to let potential black lovers know she is available. "Did you see her queen of spades?" You know what SHE"S into! Is what I got when I urban dictionaries the Queen of spades. Or does it have a different meaning on men? it also means they love poker and thats his/her favourite suit... it also means they like that particular design... it also means... get the picture???
Yeah..we get the picture..zzzzzz
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"I was rather hoping to see more black guys commenting on this subject..what do they think when they see this tattoo on a woman?" Everything is about intent guys and perception. If there is no intention to portray any negative associations with this symbol then the only reason it may be offensive is because the person finding it negative has perceived it to be. If someone has it to be offensive then clearly they are bigots. If they have it as a sign of preference or kink then its not racist. Peace x  | |||
"To me this should be abit of a compliment to my coloured fellow humans ( people of all colours) if someone had a reference with a positive or possible positive meaning, why does everything these days have to have a negative meaning? I think that's actually a lovely, positive thing to say , but sadly I can see you're likely to get hammered for using the c-word..... I welcome a debate mate, but to debate with me they better have a valid point" | |||
"To me this should be abit of a compliment to my coloured fellow humans ( people of all colours) if someone had a reference with a positive or possible positive meaning, why does everything these days have to have a negative meaning? I think that's actually a lovely, positive thing to say , but sadly I can see you're likely to get hammered for using the c-word..... "Unless they are older than 70. | |||
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"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. Whenever you type something, all I ever see is narcissism. I've never noticed you before, you must be boring. You'll be glad to know I've taken the test and don't even come close. Narcissism and npd are not the same thing. Strong fail. “I’ve never noticed you before” - continuously replies to me..... Continuously? Have a word with yourself. All this because I dared challenge you for saying racism doesnt exist? I'm done with you, bye." I never said that it never existed. I said that people are continuously clinging on to a situation that hasn’t existed for generations. If you think that the uk is as bad as the USA in the 40s you’re lost. You also mentioned that allowing those of colour into oxbridge was about equality. Are you aware of the meaning of the word? Equality would be allowing those in that have the grades, regardless of colour. That is, unless you don’t feel that they can make the entry grade; which is how it sounds. | |||
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"All you people arguing about racism are friggin sad, racism even divides people on a sex like this. Stop comparing dick and ball size and suck each other till your heads are clear " They argue about anything keeps them relevant  | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. That's almost laughable. Only it's really not very funny. I've been the victim of racist abuse and I've been attacked for being British. For you to say that racism is just a "Ghost" in the UK and that it doesnt go on, just shows how out of touch with reality you are. I've been in low paid jobs all my life, anything from armed forces, and truckdriving to service engineering. The amount of customers, colleagues and bosses I've met in the past who make racist remarks the second a Black or Asian customer/rep leaves the vicinity is absolutely shocking. I used to ignore it, now I challenge their bullshit. The smidgen of racism you may feel as a white man in a predominantly white country - is all in your mind. What you're actually describing is Equality.. giving non white people a fair crack at things, giving them role models to aspire to, icons to be seen in areas other than entertainment. What any of that has to do with men and women branding themselves with a racist tattoo is beyond my comprehension. I have to question the motives behind the black men who supposedly like their white women branded in this way. Is it because they secretly despise the women they fuck? Is it because they're so desperate that they'll fuck anything/one? Or something I'm really not getting? I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a black woman who only slept with white men. Maybe I've got too much respect for myself? Sad thing is, I fear a lot of this boils down to kink and fetish and that these women and their white partners get an extra kick out of it, purely because of the taboo of interracial sex. Whenever you type something, all I ever see is narcissism. I've never noticed you before, you must be boring. You'll be glad to know I've taken the test and don't even come close. Narcissism and npd are not the same thing. Strong fail. “I’ve never noticed you before” - continuously replies to me..... Continuously? Have a word with yourself. All this because I dared challenge you for saying racism doesnt exist? I'm done with you, bye. I never said that it never existed. I said that people are continuously clinging on to a situation that hasn’t existed for generations. If you think that the uk is as bad as the USA in the 40s you’re lost. You also mentioned that allowing those of colour into oxbridge was about equality. Are you aware of the meaning of the word? Equality would be allowing those in that have the grades, regardless of colour. That is, unless you don’t feel that they can make the entry grade; which is how it sounds. " We're done.. hush.. stop continuously replying to me.. Jeez! Are you narcissistic or something? | |||
"All you people arguing about racism are friggin sad, racism even divides people on a sex like this. Stop comparing dick and ball size and suck each other till your heads are clear " I hope that's not aimed at me? | |||
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"I love strawberry milkshake. Can I say I prefer..... .....no, I guess I can't.... "prefer what? | |||
"I love strawberry milkshake. Can I say I prefer..... .....no, I guess I can't.... prefer what?"One of the other two main flavours..... | |||
"I love strawberry milkshake. Can I say I prefer..... .....no, I guess I can't.... prefer what?
One of the other two main flavours....."Mango Peach? | |||
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"I love strawberry milkshake. Can I say I prefer..... .....no, I guess I can't.... prefer what?
One of the other two main flavours.....
Mango
Peach?"I'd love to try peach! | |||
"I love strawberry milkshake. Can I say I prefer..... .....no, I guess I can't.... prefer what?
One of the other two main flavours.....
Mango
Peach?
I'd love to try peach! "I make them guava and peach | |||
"All you people arguing about racism are friggin sad, racism even divides people on a sex like this. Stop comparing dick and ball size and suck each other till your heads are clear I hope that's not aimed at me?" It's aimed at everyone that is arguing about this crap in 2019 no 1800s, people referring to the urban dictionary to try make or break an argument that is reaching, I'll refer to the English dictionary where most reference are equal headed and not over thought by keyboard warriors and ignorant jerks. Sort all your heads out we all have equal rights if we treat others with the respect we want and I don't scream racism when a black/brown/yellow person says white, I expect the same back. So yall can climb out of your own assets and start getting on | |||
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"All you people arguing about racism are friggin sad, racism even divides people on a sex like this. Stop comparing dick and ball size and suck each other till your heads are clear " I think that you should read the question in the original post..... | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. You don't even know what your talking about, you know nothing Let me guess, my opinion and experience is negligent - due to being white.... Everyone exists within the same melting pot. White against black against Asian against aborigine. There is no race exempt from it. The fact that you all think that being white makes an experience lesser than if you were of colour, is sheer stupidity. Placing “no white men” on your profile is the exact same as pubs having “no black people”. It’s not a preference, it’s a dig and attempt to make those of a certain race feel inferior. You can easily block all men and message the small pool of black men; but no, you purposely place this on your profiles to stir up anger. " Ehm... Not everything is about people like you. And my body is not a pub, thank you very much. | |||
"Could drink a peach for hours haha" cheeky x | |||
"I love strawberry milkshake. Can I say I prefer..... .....no, I guess I can't.... prefer what?
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Peach?
I'd love to try peach!
I make them guava and peach"I want an invite! Xx | |||
"I love strawberry milkshake." Allergic to strawberry here. Rum and raisins mixed with either melon or cherry, yum yum. | |||
"I love strawberry milkshake. Allergic to strawberry here. Rum and raisins mixed with either melon or cherry, yum yum. " Love melon and pineapple milkshakes x | |||
"All you people arguing about racism are friggin sad, racism even divides people on a sex like this. Stop comparing dick and ball size and suck each other till your heads are clear I think that you should read the question in the original post....." I did and have you odviously haven't read everything I've said | |||
"All you people arguing about racism are friggin sad, racism even divides people on a sex like this. Stop comparing dick and ball size and suck each other till your heads are clear I hope that's not aimed at me? It's aimed at everyone that is arguing about this crap in 2019 no 1800s, people referring to the urban dictionary to try make or break an argument that is reaching, I'll refer to the English dictionary where most reference are equal headed and not over thought by keyboard warriors and ignorant jerks. Sort all your heads out we all have equal rights if we treat others with the respect we want and I don't scream racism when a black/brown/yellow person says white, I expect the same back. So yall can climb out of your own assets and start getting on" So.. other people can't argue or debate.. on a thread that is controversial by it's very nature? When the OP asked people to calm down it made me chuckle, perhaps he shouldn't post something he knows will cause controversy if he cant handle a bit of squabbling. But you..? You can call people ignorant jerks and keyboard warriors? Tell us to take our heads out of our assets? Sort all our heads out? Umm.. ok then. What has 2019 got to do with it? Racism still exists. Whether you choose to believe in it or not. | |||
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"I love strawberry milkshake. Allergic to strawberry here. Rum and raisins mixed with either melon or cherry, yum yum. Love melon and pineapple milkshakes x" Rum an raisin ice-cream it's like sex in my mouth | |||
"I love strawberry milkshake. Allergic to strawberry here. Rum and raisins mixed with either melon or cherry, yum yum. Love melon and pineapple milkshakes x Rum an raisin ice-cream it's like sex in my mouth" | |||
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"Typical.If a woman wears that tattoo then she is racist but if a coloured guy uses BBC or Black Cock for White Wife on his profile then its ok. Don't be so sensitive and just have some fun. " I don't think anyone said that did they? | |||
"All you people arguing about racism are friggin sad, racism even divides people on a sex like this. Stop comparing dick and ball size and suck each other till your heads are clear I hope that's not aimed at me? It's aimed at everyone that is arguing about this crap in 2019 no 1800s, people referring to the urban dictionary to try make or break an argument that is reaching, I'll refer to the English dictionary where most reference are equal headed and not over thought by keyboard warriors and ignorant jerks. Sort all your heads out we all have equal rights if we treat others with the respect we want and I don't scream racism when a black/brown/yellow person says white, I expect the same back. So yall can climb out of your own assets and start getting on So.. other people can't argue or debate.. on a thread that is controversial by it's very nature? When the OP asked people to calm down it made me chuckle, perhaps he shouldn't post something he knows will cause controversy if he cant handle a bit of squabbling. But you..? You can call people ignorant jerks and keyboard warriors? Tell us to take our heads out of our assets? Sort all our heads out? Umm.. ok then. What has 2019 got to do with it? Racism still exists. Whether you choose to believe in it or not. " As time does life's and generations moved on racism shouldn't even excist now, yes there's still going to be narrow minded people but as people in the swinging world( in its nature should be people with open minds) why would you even be debating this subject. The OP was on about getting the queen of spades, he didn't say if it was on a card format or not | |||
"Typical.If a woman wears that tattoo then she is racist but if a coloured guy uses BBC or Black Cock for White Wife on his profile then its ok. Don't be so sensitive and just have some fun. I don't think anyone said that did they?" My point is everyone should be having fun not arguing | |||
"All you people arguing about racism are friggin sad, racism even divides people on a sex like this. Stop comparing dick and ball size and suck each other till your heads are clear I hope that's not aimed at me? It's aimed at everyone that is arguing about this crap in 2019 no 1800s, people referring to the urban dictionary to try make or break an argument that is reaching, I'll refer to the English dictionary where most reference are equal headed and not over thought by keyboard warriors and ignorant jerks. Sort all your heads out we all have equal rights if we treat others with the respect we want and I don't scream racism when a black/brown/yellow person says white, I expect the same back. So yall can climb out of your own assets and start getting on So.. other people can't argue or debate.. on a thread that is controversial by it's very nature? When the OP asked people to calm down it made me chuckle, perhaps he shouldn't post something he knows will cause controversy if he cant handle a bit of squabbling. But you..? You can call people ignorant jerks and keyboard warriors? Tell us to take our heads out of our assets? Sort all our heads out? Umm.. ok then. What has 2019 got to do with it? Racism still exists. Whether you choose to believe in it or not. As time does life's and generations moved on racism shouldn't even excist now, yes there's still going to be narrow minded people but as people in the swinging world( in its nature should be people with open minds) why would you even be debating this subject. The OP was on about getting the queen of spades, he didn't say if it was on a card format or not" Not everyone in swinging world has an open mind, surely that much is clear? Most aren't even prepared to question why they have their own kinks, preferences and fetishes. Why am I debating this subject? Because I find the idea of a 'Spades' tattoo abhorrent. Ghe post asked for opinions, I gave mine. I'm not scared of a debate/argument or squabble. | |||
"Typical.If a woman wears that tattoo then she is racist but if a coloured guy uses BBC or Black Cock for White Wife on his profile then its ok. Don't be so sensitive and just have some fun. I don't think anyone said that did they? My point is everyone should be having fun not arguing" But this is the REAL WORLD. | |||
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"I love strawberry milkshake. Allergic to strawberry here. Rum and raisins mixed with either melon or cherry, yum yum. Love melon and pineapple milkshakes x Rum an raisin ice-cream it's like sex in my mouth" Precisely!!!!! | |||
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"To be honest there's no reason for anyone to have this tattoo it's disrespectful what if they like cards? its their lucky suit?? Lol come on we weren't born yesterday. no mate im afraid people have all kinds of reasons for having the tattoo, your reasoning that theres no reason for anyone to have that design is a bit silly, i dont and millions of others dont see any disrespect in it at all. "I think you're at the wrong poker table. | |||
"* stirs my hot chocolate with marshmallows, gets a fluffy blanket and some scatter cushions and sprays some chanelle No.5 about the place * I think we need the Cadbury Caramel bunny from the '80's to intervene on this thread "relllaaaxxxxxx...." You fellas really know how to wind yourselves up, it used to upset me to watch ppl spoiling their own day but I'm slightly intrigued and fascinated by it now. I guess a few of you didn't arrive here happy today. Has anyone learned anyththing from this thread today or have you just scratched your balls and grunted. Personally I have learned that some chicks have tatts to express their sexual preferences, I didnt know that before. I wouldn't judge anyone too deeply on their sexual behaviour or appearance tbh, but if I decided to then I'd do it politely and less head on and with an openness to having my opinions changed.... ....if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip "Unfortunately it is a priveledge us white people have to be able to calmly debate such topics almost for fun. | |||
"* stirs my hot chocolate with marshmallows, gets a fluffy blanket and some scatter cushions and sprays some chanelle No.5 about the place * I think we need the Cadbury Caramel bunny from the '80's to intervene on this thread "relllaaaxxxxxx...." You fellas really know how to wind yourselves up, it used to upset me to watch ppl spoiling their own day but I'm slightly intrigued and fascinated by it now. I guess a few of you didn't arrive here happy today. Has anyone learned anyththing from this thread today or have you just scratched your balls and grunted. Personally I have learned that some chicks have tatts to express their sexual preferences, I didnt know that before. I wouldn't judge anyone too deeply on their sexual behaviour or appearance tbh, but if I decided to then I'd do it politely and less head on and with an openness to having my opinions changed.... ....if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip
Unfortunately it is a priveledge us white people have to be able to calmly debate such topics almost for fun."I'm not one of you love, I'm just a human being..... | |||
"* stirs my hot chocolate with marshmallows, gets a fluffy blanket and some scatter cushions and sprays some chanelle No.5 about the place * I think we need the Cadbury Caramel bunny from the '80's to intervene on this thread "relllaaaxxxxxx...." You fellas really know how to wind yourselves up, it used to upset me to watch ppl spoiling their own day but I'm slightly intrigued and fascinated by it now. I guess a few of you didn't arrive here happy today. Has anyone learned anyththing from this thread today or have you just scratched your balls and grunted. Personally I have learned that some chicks have tatts to express their sexual preferences, I didnt know that before. I wouldn't judge anyone too deeply on their sexual behaviour or appearance tbh, but if I decided to then I'd do it politely and less head on and with an openness to having my opinions changed.... ....if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip
Unfortunately it is a priveledge us white people have to be able to calmly debate such topics almost for fun.
I'm not one of you love, I'm just a human being....."Haha! What species am I then if I am not human? | |||
"* stirs my hot chocolate with marshmallows, gets a fluffy blanket and some scatter cushions and sprays some chanelle No.5 about the place * I think we need the Cadbury Caramel bunny from the '80's to intervene on this thread "relllaaaxxxxxx...." You fellas really know how to wind yourselves up, it used to upset me to watch ppl spoiling their own day but I'm slightly intrigued and fascinated by it now. I guess a few of you didn't arrive here happy today. Has anyone learned anyththing from this thread today or have you just scratched your balls and grunted. Personally I have learned that some chicks have tatts to express their sexual preferences, I didnt know that before. I wouldn't judge anyone too deeply on their sexual behaviour or appearance tbh, but if I decided to then I'd do it politely and less head on and with an openness to having my opinions changed.... ....if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip
Unfortunately it is a priveledge us white people have to be able to calmly debate such topics almost for fun.
I'm not one of you love, I'm just a human being.....
Haha! What species am I then if I am not human?"Of course you're a human being, and a lovely one too, I just meant that I wouldn't link myself with other white or brown folk in that way - we all have our struggles and strengths | |||
" if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip "I have? I shall repeat if it helps though. I wear temporary qos tattoos on my ankle when i am meeting a black guy. This has been encouraged by the black men I meet. If it wasnt then why would they meet me? Its fun as the wife of a white husband to have some way of showing my interest in black men. The poker ace of spade has never been used as a symbol of racism nor has a queen of spade tattoo. Unless you want it to be. But I certainly do not wear it for any negative reason. And a bunch of white people aruging about it certainly wont be changing my mind. | |||
" if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip
I have? I shall repeat if it helps though.
I wear temporary qos tattoos on my ankle when i am meeting a black guy.
This has been encouraged by the black men I meet. If it wasnt then why would they meet me?
Its fun as the wife of a white husband to have some way of showing my interest in black men.
The poker ace of spade has never been used as a symbol of racism nor has a queen of spade tattoo. Unless you want it to be. But I certainly do not wear it for any negative reason.
And a bunch of white people aruging about it certainly wont be changing my mind."Thank you my love, I missed it in amongst the anger | |||
"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today....." Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing? | |||
"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today..... Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing? "dont look back in anger lol  | |||
"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today..... Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing? "Idk, something by sc4t man john....? (Omg the word censorship on this site at times)  | |||
"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today..... Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing? dont look back in anger lol " | |||
"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today..... Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing?
Idk, something by sc4t man john....?
(Omg the word censorship on this site at times) "Haha. I don’t know who he is I’m afraid ... | |||
"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today..... Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing?
Idk, something by sc4t man john....?
(Omg the word censorship on this site at times)
Haha. I don’t know who he is I’m afraid ... "Look, I know I'm old, but don't rub it in ffs...! | |||
"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today..... Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing?
Idk, something by sc4t man john....?
(Omg the word censorship on this site at times)
Haha. I don’t know who he is I’m afraid ... "Seriously!!! | |||
"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today..... Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing?
Idk, something by sc4t man john....?
(Omg the word censorship on this site at times)
Haha. I don’t know who he is I’m afraid ...
Seriously!!!"Nope, sorry! | |||
... and feels similar to other derogatory terms used to describe various ethnic groups.
In any case, I've always wondered *why*, exactly, women with a preference for black guys need to advertise it like that anyway? Of course every individual is absolutely entitled to have individual preferences but if you find someone attractive, regardless of their skin colour, you approach them, smile at them, make eye contact or message them. Whatever method you usually use to provoke contact. I just don't see the point of displaying something which apparently translates as 'I like black men' (... 'so if you're black please approach me') because *surely* you couldn't possibly fancy every last black guy seeing as they come in a multitude of shapes, sizes and appearances, just like any other group of men you care to categorise by skin colour, ethnicity, nationality etc. I guess, to me, that symbol, used like that, gives me the impression that 'black men' are seen as some kind of homogeneous group, rather than as individuals. That's what I personally find distasteful.
It also kind of implies, to me, that black men need the 'permission' granted by this display, before they'd approach a white woman. That certainly has a racist undertone, as if white women are superior.
I've wracked my brain and can't think of any other symbol worn or tattooed used to denote a liking for people with a particular skin colour. Or with a specific ethnic background. Probably because, as I tried to explain above, it's not necessary. You either find someone attractive or you don't. You avoid those you don't like for whatever reason and concentrate your efforts on the people you do.
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"I think we should all sing a song or something to destress and free our angry minds today..... Do you have any suggestions of what we could sing?
Idk, something by sc4t man john....?
(Omg the word censorship on this site at times)
Haha. I don’t know who he is I’m afraid ...
Seriously!!!
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"I sense it's also about showing white guys (if it's not in a hidden area) that the woman with the symbol only goes for black guys. A "1 up" kind of mentality, that says "your" women belong to us. Being South Asian, the tattoos don't bother me.. If I see a woman with one, to me, it just means she's only into black guys." This is what I have been attempting to explain. It is also the reason why a black man would like a white woman to have one. It’s a form of branding and ownership. To enslave white women, thus reverse racism, the same as the white women with their reverse racist “no white men allowed” signs on their profiles. I personally care not one bit, but this is the connotations. The women that don’t understand this, are the type to believe Jeremy Corbyn to be a good candidate for pm. | |||
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"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. Wow. Just wow. Where did all this come from? Although no one is immune from racism, I don't think denying you access to someone's body and time equates denying access to jobs, education and public facilities. Ah well... Good luck fighting your chimerae." Well said | |||
"Is it any different than having than says cross tattooed? If it has meaning for you then do it- just dont do a swass sticka I think the first comment in this thread from the only black guy who has posted probably should be listened to too. Absolutely. White people are very good at having discussions about race and racism and ignoring the people that actually suffer from it. In my defence wearing them. There are lots of black men that love the tattoos. You don’t think that white people deal with racism? I’ve been assaulted by a group of Asians, as a teen, for being white. Those with “no white men” or “ black men only” are knowingly, attempting to place white men, within the same situation as black men in the 1940s. There are now more racist assaults on white people than any other race. White people are now finding it harder to get jobs specifically for being white. We are being placed under an umbrella of being privileged and racist due to our skin colour. Oxbridge allow those with darker skin in, with B’s, whilst Caucasians must have 3 A*s. I’m so sick of this made up racism that frankly, does not exist. It has been turned on its head, and Caucasians are being targeted, while those of African descent are still the ones getting “protection” from a ghost that isn’t there. Inb4 black men are targeted by police: yes, when they dress and act like a “gangsta” stereotype, the police will target you. If you’re in Glasgow, wearing a tracksuit, with a skin head - the same will happen. Otherwise, there isn’t an issue. Good luck with your believing you’re the great protector of black men in 2019. Wow. Just wow. Where did all this come from? Although no one is immune from racism, I don't think denying you access to someone's body and time equates denying access to jobs, education and public facilities. Ah well... Good luck fighting your chimerae. Well said"  | |||
"As a white woman, I'm not sure if I'm 'allowed' to find this symbol offensive or not - as some would say it's only the target of its symbolism, i.e. black guys, who get to decide that. Nonetheless it's always made me feel uncomfortable when used in the context being discussed. Because my understanding is that 'spade', when used to refer to a black man is derogatory and unnecessary. It reminds me of the (disparaging) way black people were spoken about in 1970s US TV cop shows like Starsky and Hutch. ... and feels similar to other derogatory terms used to describe various ethnic groups.
In any case, I've always wondered *why*, exactly, women with a preference for black guys need to advertise it like that anyway? Of course every individual is absolutely entitled to have individual preferences but if you find someone attractive, regardless of their skin colour, you approach them, smile at them, make eye contact or message them. Whatever method you usually use to provoke contact. I just don't see the point of displaying something which apparently translates as 'I like black men' (... 'so if you're black please approach me') because *surely* you couldn't possibly fancy every last black guy seeing as they come in a multitude of shapes, sizes and appearances, just like any other group of men you care to categorise by skin colour, ethnicity, nationality etc. I guess, to me, that symbol, used like that, gives me the impression that 'black men' are seen as some kind of homogeneous group, rather than as individuals. That's what I personally find distasteful.
It also kind of implies, to me, that black men need the 'permission' granted by this display, before they'd approach a white woman. That certainly has a racist undertone, as if white women are superior.
I've wracked my brain and can't think of any other symbol worn or tattooed used to denote a liking for people with a particular skin colour. Or with a specific ethnic background. Probably because, as I tried to explain above, it's not necessary. You either find someone attractive or you don't. You avoid those you don't like for whatever reason and concentrate your efforts on the people you do.
"You actually get it. The term spade is a derogatory term towards black men. I personally do not find the tattoo or jewellery offensive but I do scratch my head. Women who attend interracial/BBC parties are going there for black men so why would you need a tattoo or other jewellery saying you're a Queen of Spades (which we now know to be a racist term). Remember this ladies you maybe a Queen but you'll never be the Queen of me lol. I can understand on a normal club night. In some ways some women should be glad for these ladies because at least black guys like myself, will know to approach them. It could save embarrassment or unease if ladies are not into black guys. At the end of the day we can't really find the tattoo or jewellery offensive. We live in a different time now and we all swing. In this world the tattoo/jewellery has no racist meaning behind it when worn by women. It means one thing. She likes black guys. Simples. And if black guys do find it offensive maybe they should stop playing with women displaying QoS imaginery. I would find it more offensive if a group of white guys said "oh look she's a Queen of Spades. You know what she's into". Let's get over the tattoo and continue swinging. | |||
"* stirs my hot chocolate with marshmallows, gets a fluffy blanket and some scatter cushions and sprays some chanelle No.5 about the place * I think we need the Cadbury Caramel bunny from the '80's to intervene on this thread "relllaaaxxxxxx...." You fellas really know how to wind yourselves up, it used to upset me to watch ppl spoiling their own day but I'm slightly intrigued and fascinated by it now. I guess a few of you didn't arrive here happy today. Has anyone learned anyththing from this thread today or have you just scratched your balls and grunted. Personally I have learned that some chicks have tatts to express their sexual preferences, I didnt know that before. I wouldn't judge anyone too deeply on their sexual behaviour or appearance tbh, but if I decided to then I'd do it politely and less head on and with an openness to having my opinions changed.... ....if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip "Chanel no 5 | |||
"Typical.If a woman wears that tattoo then she is racist but if a coloured guy uses BBC or Black Cock for White Wife on his profile then its ok. Don't be so sensitive and just have some fun. " | |||
"* stirs my hot chocolate with marshmallows, gets a fluffy blanket and some scatter cushions and sprays some chanelle No.5 about the place * I think we need the Cadbury Caramel bunny from the '80's to intervene on this thread "relllaaaxxxxxx...." You fellas really know how to wind yourselves up, it used to upset me to watch ppl spoiling their own day but I'm slightly intrigued and fascinated by it now. I guess a few of you didn't arrive here happy today. Has anyone learned anyththing from this thread today or have you just scratched your balls and grunted. Personally I have learned that some chicks have tatts to express their sexual preferences, I didnt know that before. I wouldn't judge anyone too deeply on their sexual behaviour or appearance tbh, but if I decided to then I'd do it politely and less head on and with an openness to having my opinions changed.... ....if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip
Chanel no 5 "Idk, just lowering the testosterone and increasing the maturity....? | |||
"To be honest there's no reason for anyone to have this tattoo it's disrespectful what if they like cards? its their lucky suit?? Lol come on we weren't born yesterday. no mate im afraid people have all kinds of reasons for having the tattoo, your reasoning that theres no reason for anyone to have that design is a bit silly, i dont and millions of others dont see any disrespect in it at all.
I think you're at the wrong poker table."why? | |||
"* stirs my hot chocolate with marshmallows, gets a fluffy blanket and some scatter cushions and sprays some chanelle No.5 about the place * I think we need the Cadbury Caramel bunny from the '80's to intervene on this thread "relllaaaxxxxxx...." You fellas really know how to wind yourselves up, it used to upset me to watch ppl spoiling their own day but I'm slightly intrigued and fascinated by it now. I guess a few of you didn't arrive here happy today. Has anyone learned anyththing from this thread today or have you just scratched your balls and grunted. Personally I have learned that some chicks have tatts to express their sexual preferences, I didnt know that before. I wouldn't judge anyone too deeply on their sexual behaviour or appearance tbh, but if I decided to then I'd do it politely and less head on and with an openness to having my opinions changed.... ....if the thread had been treated with more respect then perhaps someone with one of these tatts would have had the confidence to come on and explain why and give us all a better insight...? Minds of narrowness smh Peace and love Nip
Chanel no 5
Idk, just lowering the testosterone and increasing the maturity....?"Kryptonite. | |||
