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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I'm thinking of attending a club on my own but the thought fills me with fear.

As a single woman that is a bit shy how do I make myself look less awkward? Sit by the dance floor/ bar area? What have you fellow single people done to blend in?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe try going with a non-sexual friend?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm thinking of attending a club on my own but the thought fills me with fear.

As a single woman that is a bit shy how do I make myself look less awkward? Sit by the dance floor/ bar area? What have you fellow single people done to blend in? "

just take me with you its only way

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe try going with a non-sexual friend?"

I've gone with friends but would like to go as and when I please

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Treat it as kinda like any other pub/ club and ease yourself in, most people are friendly and make some small talk, just put on a happy face and you’ll be fine

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"I'm thinking of attending a club on my own but the thought fills me with fear.

As a single woman that is a bit shy how do I make myself look less awkward? Sit by the dance floor/ bar area? What have you fellow single people done to blend in? "

I go to chams alone, if you go there, sit by the bar, the staff will introduce you around or if you go on a Friday I'll be there and I can introduce you

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By *atricia ParnelWoman  over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I'm going to a club for the first time with a seasoned fabber, after that I would be happy to go on my own, maybe you could find a couple who are going from here and then break off on your own once you are happy?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

First time I went I went on my own, was a little worried as I'd never been before... so I took myself off to the jacuzzi which was empty at the time and floated in there til I calmed down. A few people came in and naturally they said hello, I replied with "don't mind me I'm just having a float. First time nerves and finding my bearings". People were lovely to me and made me feel comfortable.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm thinking of attending a club on my own but the thought fills me with fear.

As a single woman that is a bit shy how do I make myself look less awkward? Sit by the dance floor/ bar area? What have you fellow single people done to blend in? "

I'm sure you're now going to get a lot of offers to chaperone you.

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

Stay near the bar, relax and enjoy. Chat to new folk and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thank you for your replies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Stay near the bar, relax and enjoy. Chat to new folk and see what happens."

Exactly this

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