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over a year ago
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I'm thinking of attending a club on my own but the thought fills me with fear.
As a single woman that is a bit shy how do I make myself look less awkward? Sit by the dance floor/ bar area? What have you fellow single people done to blend in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking of attending a club on my own but the thought fills me with fear.
As a single woman that is a bit shy how do I make myself look less awkward? Sit by the dance floor/ bar area? What have you fellow single people done to blend in? " just take me with you its only way ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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over a year ago
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Treat it as kinda like any other pub/ club and ease yourself in, most people are friendly and make some small talk, just put on a happy face and you’ll be fine |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I'm thinking of attending a club on my own but the thought fills me with fear.
As a single woman that is a bit shy how do I make myself look less awkward? Sit by the dance floor/ bar area? What have you fellow single people done to blend in? "
I go to chams alone, if you go there, sit by the bar, the staff will introduce you around or if you go on a Friday I'll be there and I can introduce you |
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I'm going to a club for the first time with a seasoned fabber, after that I would be happy to go on my own, maybe you could find a couple who are going from here and then break off on your own once you are happy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time I went I went on my own, was a little worried as I'd never been before... so I took myself off to the jacuzzi which was empty at the time and floated in there til I calmed down. A few people came in and naturally they said hello, I replied with "don't mind me I'm just having a float. First time nerves and finding my bearings". People were lovely to me and made me feel comfortable.
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I'm thinking of attending a club on my own but the thought fills me with fear.
As a single woman that is a bit shy how do I make myself look less awkward? Sit by the dance floor/ bar area? What have you fellow single people done to blend in? "
I'm sure you're now going to get a lot of offers to chaperone you. |
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