Its all about getting peoples interest. Its how you do that that makes the difference. A personal message gets more attention people then look at profiles and if the profile is interesting you might get a reply if its lacking probably not. |
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Be seen, post in the forums, user chatrooms, go to socials, let people get to know you for who you are
Don't appear that your whole raison d'être is to get meets, even if that it's your drive
Just be yourself and you may be surprised how it works ...
But don't expect instant results ...
Patience is the path to enlightenment grasshopper |
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"[Removed by poster at 30/10/19 10:09:30]
Too late I read it  
Sshh ... shows what my predictive text thinks hehe"
Now to see that note book would be quite a revelation  |
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"[Removed by poster at 30/10/19 10:09:30]
Too late I read it
Sshh ... shows what my predictive text thinks hehe
Now to see that note book would be quite a revelation "
Like you never know
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Monkey scribbles "that Sophee knows too much" |
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"Normally i just send a message saying "how's it going" I'm guessing that aint enough? Also would you say it is my look that might be the reason"
We reply to messages like yours. We rep!y to messages that just say "hi". We tend to base our decision to meet someone on the quality of the communication that follows the initial message. You look fine, you have an attractive face. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Normally i just send a message saying "how's it going" I'm guessing that aint enough? Also would you say it is my look that might be the reason"
I would reply to a message like that if after looking at their profile I find them appealing, closeish etc.
I don't think it's your look either. |
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"Normally i just send a message saying "how's it going" I'm guessing that aint enough? Also would you say it is my look that might be the reason"
No, hundreds of men send that exact same message. Stand out. Be interesting, not boring.
And maybe; if someone doesn’t find you attractive they aren’t likely to reply  |
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"Normally i just send a message saying "how's it going" I'm guessing that aint enough? Also would you say it is my look that might be the reason"
That's definitely not enough. We get a few of those and they are instant deletes.
If somebody were approaching us, we'd want them to say something "Hello Luke and Hannah. I saw your profile and I liked it because... I thought we'd be a good match because... It would be good to hear from you." and then sign off with their name.
Ask yourself this: Have I written anything, either in my message or profile, this isn't instantly forgettable and the same as everybody else? Have I demonstrated to the person I'm writing to that I am actually genuinely interested in them?
If the answer is no then that should tell you something significant. |
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"Have a good profile ~ most women look at them before opening a message.
Would you say a good profile is one with plenty of detail of what you like not just a short summary "
yes deffo !! And mention Cake , they all love Cake |
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"A lot will look at a profile first before deciding whether to message you back. You haven't asked for advice therefore it can't be given. There's a few pointers on mine. X"
Thanks for your comments and would like a few pointers |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Have a good profile ~ most women look at them before opening a message.
Would you say a good profile is one with plenty of detail of what you like not just a short summary "
Yes as well as what you can offer. And don't mention cake ~ it's cringe worthy.
See ~ you'll never please everyone, so just be yourself. |
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"Have a good profile ~ most women look at them before opening a message.
Would you say a good profile is one with plenty of detail of what you like not just a short summary
Yes as well as what you can offer. And don't mention cake ~ it's cringe worthy.
See ~ you'll never please everyone, so just be yourself. "
Thanks for advice and indeed the mention of cake will not be used |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"A lot will look at a profile first before deciding whether to message you back. You haven't asked for advice therefore it can't be given. There's a few pointers on mine. X
Thanks for your comments and would like a few pointers"
It's all on my profile, feel free to use the advice there, may e try a social and using the chat rooms too. X |
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