Poor spelling/grammar, no punctuation, crudeness, pet names, just "Hey", the same copy and paste message that they've sent several times before, rudeness.
*The above list is not exhaustive, but all of the above will guarantee that I won't reply. |
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over a year ago
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"Also when they send a huge descriptive fantasy that they have. I'm never going to read the whole thing.
This is me too. Instantly loose interest."
you look loose  |
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"Also when they send a huge descriptive fantasy that they have. I'm never going to read the whole thing.
This is me too. Instantly loose interest."
None of us want to read essays haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone uses a pet name
Pet name?? I can’t believe that
Can't believe it?
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I believe that is an Instant turn off...
Can’t believe some idiot can do this |
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"When someone uses a pet name
Pet name?? I can’t believe that
Can't believe it?
I believe that is an Instant turn off...
Can’t believe some idiot can do this "
It truly makes me cringe |
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"When someone uses a pet name
Pet name?? I can’t believe that
Can't believe it?
I believe that is an Instant turn off...
Can’t believe some idiot can do this
It truly makes me cringe "
Poor (hot) girl  |
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over a year ago
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"When someone uses a pet name
Pet name?? I can’t believe that
Can't believe it?
I believe that is an Instant turn off...
Can’t believe some idiot can do this
It truly makes me cringe
Poor (hot) girl "
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is hard to create a conversation out of thin air, and with the ability to just delete or ignore it's become even more difficult for men to just a go, and now even more difficult because they have to fight through a slew of negativity and suspicion.
I posted about my experiences in the UK when I let go of my usual ignore/delete and made it my mission to respond to everyone for the duration I was there last, even to the cringey, dumb, ridiculous, boring, borderline psychopath messages and I do have to say that honestly, a reply made all the difference in how I was treated even when it was a no thanks, not interested, thanks but not for me.
I am not suggesting people should reply even to the pet peeve messages - it is your life and your time - but it really was interesting to see how even the creepy weird messages were responded to after my rejection with a gentlemen response just saying thank you for taking the time to respond sorry to bother you.
It does piss me off when people just say hi though. Like come on, you text more when you are telling some stranger what you want on your pizza.
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It is hard to create a conversation out of thin air, and with the ability to just delete or ignore it's become even more difficult for men to just a go, and now even more difficult because they have to fight through a slew of negativity and suspicion.
I posted about my experiences in the UK when I let go of my usual ignore/delete and made it my mission to respond to everyone for the duration I was there last, even to the cringey, dumb, ridiculous, boring, borderline psychopath messages and I do have to say that honestly, a reply made all the difference in how I was treated even when it was a no thanks, not interested, thanks but not for me.
I am not suggesting people should reply even to the pet peeve messages - it is your life and your time - but it really was interesting to see how even the creepy weird messages were responded to after my rejection with a gentlemen response just saying thank you for taking the time to respond sorry to bother you.
It does piss me off when people just say hi though. Like come on, you text more when you are telling some stranger what you want on your pizza.
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thankyou for sharing that observation though because it does disprove the FAQs on this subject  |
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By *mp411Man
over a year ago
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Personally it’s just a matter of manners speak how you would like to be spoken to...
But it does kinda annoy when you write a polite message and then not even the curtsie to say no/no for me it takes a moment  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Also when they send a huge descriptive fantasy that they have. I'm never going to read the whole thing.
This is me too. Instantly loose interest.you look loose "
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"
It is hard to create a conversation out of thin air, and with the ability to just delete or ignore it's become even more difficult for men to just a go, and now even more difficult because they have to fight through a slew of negativity and suspicion.
I posted about my experiences in the UK when I let go of my usual ignore/delete and made it my mission to respond to everyone for the duration I was there last, even to the cringey, dumb, ridiculous, boring, borderline psychopath messages and I do have to say that honestly, a reply made all the difference in how I was treated even when it was a no thanks, not interested, thanks but not for me.
I am not suggesting people should reply even to the pet peeve messages - it is your life and your time - but it really was interesting to see how even the creepy weird messages were responded to after my rejection with a gentlemen response just saying thank you for taking the time to respond sorry to bother you.
It does piss me off when people just say hi though. Like come on, you text more when you are telling some stranger what you want on your pizza.
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I respond to 99% of my messages and virtually never get rudeness perhaps once or twice a year tops! And yes if I get a reply back it's just a thanks for replying/have a good day one
I think, personally it does make a difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The send me a face pic demand even though they have zero pics of any kind on their profile ........... cheeky gits
I love sending a face pic, has them running for the hills in no time "
Somehow I doubt that very much you sexy lady . Would love to message you but I’m not allowed for some reason  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Instant turn offs in a message?
Launching straight into what they want without the thought occurring to them that it would be nice if they started with a hello. "
So true. |
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over a year ago
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"Fancy a fuck..
Go on then, as you asked nicely
What??? No please or thank you. Tut tut
I know....shocking
You can say thank you afterwards  "
Some people don't have manners |
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"Fancy a fuck..
Go on then, as you asked nicely
What??? No please or thank you. Tut tut
I know....shocking
You can say thank you afterwards
Some people don't have manners "
I prefer a please first at least  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi babe
Hey sugar tits
Fancy a fuck
I’m less than a mile away
I’d love fuck you right now
But my all time favourite....
I’d drag my balls over broken glass to suck a fart from your arse
What girl can resist such charmers eh lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi babe
Hey sugar tits
Fancy a fuck
I’m less than a mile away
I’d love fuck you right now
But my all time favourite....
I’d drag my balls over broken glass to suck a fart from your arse
What girl can resist such charmers eh lol
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Love this list lol
So true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi babe
Hey sugar tits
Fancy a fuck
I’m less than a mile away
I’d love fuck you right now
But my all time favourite....
I’d drag my balls over broken glass to suck a fart from your arse
What girl can resist such charmers eh lol
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Tbf ive tried the respectful approach and had no replies or just deleted... Might give these a bash hahahaha |
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Seriously what on earth!
