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"Report to site admin. No room for people like that on here and should be banned from site." I agree ... but generally they just rejoin using another email address | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling." You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly? | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly?" Why should they? | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly?" From a womans point of view What you suggest, usually guarantees abuse | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly? Why should they?" Good manners! It might have avoided the nastiness. | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly? Why should they? Good manners! It might have avoided the nastiness." Or it might have led to more nastiness. Its their choice how they end communication with someone. | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly? Why should they? Good manners! It might have avoided the nastiness." Are you saying that because they didn’t display ‘good manners’ then they only have themselves to blame? | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly? Why should they? Good manners! It might have avoided the nastiness. Or it might have led to more nastiness. Its their choice how they end communication with someone. " I'm not going to argue that it's not their choice, and regardless of how they ended it, it is zero excuse at all for this guy (or anyone) to turn nasty - fuck anyone that takes that approach. However just because the recipient can potentially turn nasty with a reply, it doesn't mean manners and politeness need to be thrown out the window on your part if communication had been civilized up until that point. It's a pretty shitty excuse, not matter who you are, to hide behind. I aim this at everyone, women, couples, TS/TV, or even men. | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly? Why should they? Good manners! It might have avoided the nastiness. Or it might have led to more nastiness. Its their choice how they end communication with someone. I'm not going to argue that it's not their choice, and regardless of how they ended it, it is zero excuse at all for this guy (or anyone) to turn nasty - fuck anyone that takes that approach. However just because the recipient can potentially turn nasty with a reply, it doesn't mean manners and politeness need to be thrown out the window on your part if communication had been civilized up until that point. It's a pretty shitty excuse, not matter who you are, to hide behind. I aim this at everyone, women, couples, TS/TV, or even men. " Communication stops abruptly as a matter of course on here. It’s just the way of fab. No reply usually means not or no longer interested. It’s custom and practice and backed up by the Fab FAQs. | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly? Why should they? Good manners! It might have avoided the nastiness. Or it might have led to more nastiness. Its their choice how they end communication with someone. I'm not going to argue that it's not their choice, and regardless of how they ended it, it is zero excuse at all for this guy (or anyone) to turn nasty - fuck anyone that takes that approach. However just because the recipient can potentially turn nasty with a reply, it doesn't mean manners and politeness need to be thrown out the window on your part if communication had been civilized up until that point. It's a pretty shitty excuse, not matter who you are, to hide behind. I aim this at everyone, women, couples, TS/TV, or even men. " I don't necessarily disagree with you, if communication is regular and ongoing between the two parties. I didn't say at any point I agreed with their method, simply that it's up to them. Which it is. | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly? Why should they? Good manners! It might have avoided the nastiness. Or it might have led to more nastiness. Its their choice how they end communication with someone. I'm not going to argue that it's not their choice, and regardless of how they ended it, it is zero excuse at all for this guy (or anyone) to turn nasty - fuck anyone that takes that approach. However just because the recipient can potentially turn nasty with a reply, it doesn't mean manners and politeness need to be thrown out the window on your part if communication had been civilized up until that point. It's a pretty shitty excuse, not matter who you are, to hide behind. I aim this at everyone, women, couples, TS/TV, or even men. Communication stops abruptly as a matter of course on here. It’s just the way of fab. No reply usually means not or no longer interested. It’s custom and practice and backed up by the Fab FAQs." I know how it works. It's a shitty practice though, it breeds poor manners and allows SOME people to hide behind it as an excuse for being rude. It just keeps the cycle of disrespect turning. | |||
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"Recently got attacked by a young guy in fab. His complaint was we had read his mails and not answered. We had exchanged messages for a while but we had ceased responding, hoping he would do the same. We then got a pretty nasty mail from him, very racist indeed. We blocked him but very unsettling. You just ceased messaging? Couldn't you have just sent a last message saying sorry no longer interested, rather than just stopping suddenly?" Ok maybe they could have but that doesn't give the scumbag a reason to verbally abuse them | |||
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