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One regular or many one offs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would your preference be? One person you got on really well with that you meet regularly or lots of people that you meet once?
And saying both is not allowed!!  "
Certainly the former.
Tho frankly I'd be happy to find one person to meet once lol |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently. 
That’s a good option too"
Thanks, I thought so too.
For me the sex gets better the more comfortable I am with someone and the more I like them. The more relaxed I am the more confident I am in being my sexual self and not worrying about it being  . That's not to say I would always turn down a one off but in all honesty I don't think I've had one for a looooong time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At different times different things suited me. After coming out of a difficult relationship one offs suited me because I didn't want to risk any attachment at all. As I recovered I started building more regular fb arrangements comfortably and eventually I met someone who meant more to me and now we are working out how it works best for us as a couple. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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Just one that's all it takes. I'm a one man woman. What we then do together will be our adventures and journey whatever that may look like with or without others. He needs to be on the same page though as I'm not going to be one of many. I'd just walk away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the beginning I met a few people just once but they all lived in the same city as me. Then I met a guy who was supposed to be just one off because he lived bloody far from me and that's the one I fell for and I don't want anyone else since 
It's less risky to meet people just once but it's worked out ok for me when I chose to meet someone regularly too so I quite like both options |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would your preference be? One person you got on really well with that you meet regularly or lots of people that you meet once?
And saying both is not allowed!! "
How about a couple of regulars  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I identify as a serial monogamist. tartlett  "
That's still only one at a time...unless she has a hot girlfriend and the desire in which case it's only polite....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One special regular with a couple of friends to have fun with when regular isn’t available, I seem to drift towards guys of a certain age who have young children so not always available weekends...which is when I get to play...a small select circle would be lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would prefer regular - but because I work anywhere in the UK on contracts that last 3-12 months it is hard to maintain a regular relationship beyond the contract length. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blimey i just made myself sound like a pub!
Do you call ‘Time, gentleman’ at the end of the evening? "
I'm thinking if fitting my piercing with a bell for last orders x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.
That’s a good option too
Thanks, I thought so too.
For me the sex gets better the more comfortable I am with someone and the more I like them. The more relaxed I am the more confident I am in being my sexual self and not worrying about it being . That's not to say I would always turn down a one off but in all honesty I don't think I've had one for a looooong time."
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Multiple one offs are definitely not for me...but then one regular is not what I am looking for either
Two, or possibly three, regular people to meet that are on my wavelength and open minded enough to explore together would be my ideal |
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"Multiple one offs are definitely not for me...but then one regular is not what I am looking for either
Two, or possibly three, regular people to meet that are on my wavelength and open minded enough to explore together would be my ideal"
Sounds ideal to me too. |
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"Multiple one offs are definitely not for me...but then one regular is not what I am looking for either
Two, or possibly three, regular people to meet that are on my wavelength and open minded enough to explore together would be my ideal"
This please!!
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
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I'd prefer one regular guy where we are comfortable enough to do everything our heart desires, for him to push me beyond my boundaries to explore further than i could ever imagine. But willing to meet others together for group sex. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially i wanted one regular, but theyre not always available for whatever reasons... so now i have a few regulars. If one is busy, another might not be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One offs don't do anything for me, my preference would be 2 or 3 regular lovers who all got on  "
I'd love to be 1 off your regulars to have some fun with but I'm a just a few years out your age range  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.
No harder than finding the one man!"
But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.
No harder than finding the one man!
But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour"
Not for me it wasn’t. I’m so fussy though but yeah I see what you mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.
No harder than finding the one man!
But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour
Not for me it wasn’t. I’m so fussy though but yeah I see what you mean. "
Look at you. You can afford to be dust xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.
No harder than finding the one man!
But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour
Not for me it wasn’t. I’m so fussy though but yeah I see what you mean.
Look at you. You can afford to be dust xxx"
Dust?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.
No harder than finding the one man!
But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour
Not for me it wasn’t. I’m so fussy though but yeah I see what you mean.
Look at you. You can afford to be dust xxx
Dust? "
Hahaha sorry don't know where the dust came from xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bit academic but would prefer a regular play mate, able to learn a lot more about each others desires and gain more trust that way rather than wham-bam one nighters. |
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