"Because they can and they will. Move on if you don’t approve
Comments like these make me want to give up on this site. No need for the rudeness. Its a fair question"
I didn't see it as rude
Merely stating a fact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they can and they will. Move on if you don’t approve
Comments like these make me want to give up on this site. No need for the rudeness. Its a fair question"
And that is an accurate answer.
Its right to the point and gives a solution 
Im not sure where the rudeness comes.in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they can and they will. Move on if you don’t approve
Comments like these make me want to give up on this site. No need for the rudeness. Its a fair question
I didn't see it as rude
Merely stating a fact "
It’s about phrasing I think. Some comments sound more abrupt than others... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they can and they will. Move on if you don’t approve
Comments like these make me want to give up on this site. No need for the rudeness. Its a fair question"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah it isn't really fair, but it is the way it is. I know I can trust me if I see a pic and realise I know the person, for example, but I don't know whether I can trust them. With the number of options women have, we do have an advantage in asking for things like that as if you don't want to do it, we can just move on. Like I say, not fair but, hey, whatcha gonna do? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Because they can and they will. Move on if you don’t approve
Comments like these make me want to give up on this site. No need for the rudeness. Its a fair question
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If you are that sensitive maybe this site isn't for you  |
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"Because they can and they will. Move on if you don’t approve
Comments like these make me want to give up on this site. No need for the rudeness. Its a fair question"
I’m just stating a fact, there was no rudeness intended. People can post and ask for what they want on their page, it’s up to you whether you adhere to it, move on if you don’t like what they say.
Are you sure fab is the place for you? Not really a great please if you’re sensitive, especially when a fact was stated you feel you want to leave?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone messages us first, then we'd expect them to send a face pic first.
If we message anyone then we send face pics first.
Prefer to do it early on to save wasting each others time if theres no attraction from either side.
Sin. |
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By *nlyme45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP, if it bothers you, why don't you ask those people about it? Surely they will give you the right answer."
I usually get blocked if I ask that so that's why I posted topic lol I for one wouldn't block people who ask for face pic if the sender has a face pic |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Because they can and they will. Move on if you don’t approve
Comments like these make me want to give up on this site. No need for the rudeness. Its a fair question
I didn't see it as rude
Merely stating a fact
It’s about phrasing I think. Some comments sound more abrupt than others... "
Exactly that. Nothing wrong at all with an accurate answer,or an opinionated one, but word choice is critical for helping convey tone and politeness when dealing with text.
Many people seem to feel because they are right, they don't need to be polite.
That goes for those that start threads, and those that reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, if it bothers you, why don't you ask those people about it? Surely they will give you the right answer.
I usually get blocked if I ask that so that's why I posted topic lol I for one wouldn't block people who ask for face pic if the sender has a face pic"
I think because although people don’t have a face picture on their public photos but may have in friends only or private photos, and when they ask to see a face pic you send one and they send one back. Someone just don’t like having a face display on public show. I state this on my profile too. Good luck |
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I request face pics when people message me as I wouldn’t want to waste anyone’s time. I would also share a face pic then in reply.
Perfectly reasonable to request a face pic if you have shared yours. |
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By *nlyme45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I request face pics when people message me as I wouldn’t want to waste anyone’s time. I would also share a face pic then in reply.
Perfectly reasonable to request a face pic if you have shared yours. "
That's exactly what I mean thank you x |
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