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The Chase (not the TV show)...
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Sorry Bradley!
Quick question, are we alone in enjoying “the chase” leading up to a meet?
We’re relatively inexperienced, but our meets thus far have been as the result of some time spent chatting and flirting with the other person and building that tension beforehand.
And in hindsight, I think that’s what we enjoyed the most (the physical stuff was fun too!).
We’re exchanging a few messages here and there with some people, but mostly we’re finding that the overwhelming majority seem in it for a quick hook up (which is fine, but it’s just not for us).
Where are all you social butterflies hiding!? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
In my experience, a lot of couples are quite guarded and reclusive in many ways, often they like to be chased as well so there's a lot of 'working things out' regarding dynamics and the like.
There are plenty of couples out there that do enjoy chatting though, it's just a case of finding them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stick to your guns and you will find them! It's how we like to do things, though at the beginning of our fabventure we did give in and meet couples without chatting, which was fun but we soon realised we preferred to take time getting to know people.
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Although the forums is made up of only a small percentage of people who use fab most people say they need a connection with people before they can have sex with them so I'm surprised at your experience.
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Don’t get us wrong, we have a few convos on the go which sound promising.
But in the main we get the feeling that when we say we’d rather chat and have a social before any nakedness - the initial spark dies off and the replies stop coming through so quickly 
We’re not likely to give in and change our approach tho - here for the fun, not for the numbers! |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Sorry Bradley!
Quick question, are we alone in enjoying “the chase” leading up to a meet?
We’re relatively inexperienced, but our meets thus far have been as the result of some time spent chatting and flirting with the other person and building that tension beforehand.
And in hindsight, I think that’s what we enjoyed the most (the physical stuff was fun too!).
We’re exchanging a few messages here and there with some people, but mostly we’re finding that the overwhelming majority seem in it for a quick hook up (which is fine, but it’s just not for us).
Where are all you social butterflies hiding!?"
Many chasers are all full of ego and get more enjoyment and satisfaction from the chase than they do from the actual catch.
Its similar to a spoiled child stamping its feet and screaming to get something and once they get it then they no longer want it or have any interest in it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry Bradley!
Quick question, are we alone in enjoying “the chase” leading up to a meet?
We’re relatively inexperienced, but our meets thus far have been as the result of some time spent chatting and flirting with the other person and building that tension beforehand.
And in hindsight, I think that’s what we enjoyed the most (the physical stuff was fun too!).
We’re exchanging a few messages here and there with some people, but mostly we’re finding that the overwhelming majority seem in it for a quick hook up (which is fine, but it’s just not for us).
Where are all you social butterflies hiding!?"
I'm a social butterfly  |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
from Home Counties to Middle Earth |
"I love a good chase
I will play chase with you as long as you give me a head start.
I am not as quick as i use to be."
Nobody gets a head start. It's a full-on game, or nothing. Play to win by whatever means, I take no prisoners. If you can't play at my pace, you're out of the game. Done.  |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"I love a good chase
I will play chase with you as long as you give me a head start.
I am not as quick as i use to be.
Nobody gets a head start. It's a full-on game, or nothing. Play to win by whatever means, I take no prisoners. If you can't play at my pace, you're out of the game. Done. "
Ok then.
I was going to let you go on front anyway just so i can admire the view. |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
from Home Counties to Middle Earth |
"I love a good chase
I will play chase with you as long as you give me a head start.
I am not as quick as i use to be.
Nobody gets a head start. It's a full-on game, or nothing. Play to win by whatever means, I take no prisoners. If you can't play at my pace, you're out of the game. Done.
Ok then.
I was going to let you go on front anyway just so i can admire the view. "
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