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By *anhung22 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm no.
Cheating is lies and deception and the fact you don't understand that is somewhat a concern.
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Yup
This is a swingers site OP
You know what swinging is, right? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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nope..... I think the key word in this is CONSENT.....
Swinging is Consentual
Someone "playing away" isnt |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
At the very most basic level, maybe. I can St least see where the connection between the two is.
Cheating is about DECEPTION. That's the major difference.
Swingers or just poly and open relationships the whole thing is consensual (at least that is how it should be).
What is it with people and the inability to separate two things from each other? |
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That's just the way it goes. There are degrees of acceptance when it comes to having sex with people you aren't in a commited relationship with. Some find it acceptable to do it without telling their partner other don't |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Erm no.
Cheating is lies and deception and the fact you don't understand that is somewhat a concern.
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I totally agree.
The fact that you don't know or see the difference is rather worrying and somewhat problematic on this site! |
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"Erm no.
Cheating is lies and deception and the fact you don't understand that is somewhat a concern.
P
Yup
This is a swingers site OP
You know what swinging is, right?"
Took the words right out of my mouth ....  |
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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No it is not cheating.
Mrs H has full consent to fuck whoever she wants when we visit a club or (on the very rare occasion) when we do a private meet.
If she went out one day to visit an old friend (or whatever) then fucked someone without telling me, then that would be cheating. Or vice versa.
The reason many (not all) couples don't like cheaters is simple.
A scorned wife who finds out what you have been up to can be a big, VERY BIG, problem. Most couples just don't want the hassle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple that swing together and as a single communication is key.
We make each other aware if we are meeting as a single.
Cheating is not keeping the lines of communication open, being deceitful and sneaking about, having meets without consent!
It doesnt work for all couples, to swing and it work requires an abundance of trust and talking to one another.
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"Erm no.
Cheating is lies and deception and the fact you don't understand that is somewhat a concern.
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I totally agree.
The fact that you don't know or see the difference is rather worrying and somewhat problematic on this site! "
Agreed |
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"Erm no.
Cheating is lies and deception and the fact you don't understand that is somewhat a concern.
P
Yup
This is a swingers site OP
You know what swinging is, right?"
Was just going to say the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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Look up swinging and what it means... Pmsl |
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
Look up swinging and what it means... Pmsl"
What does it mean? |
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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As you can see people don't agree that cheating and swinging are the same thing.
I don't agree either, I think though that the word "cheating" has become synonymous with "adultery" and don't have quite the same meaning in my opinion.
Couples who agree to swing usually do it with the full and happily given consent of both, cheating implies that one person doesn't know that the other is having sex elsewhere. It annoys people understandably so, to be told that their actions are the same as people who go behind their partners back. |
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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Most are not cpls on here though. There friends/ fuck buddies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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No. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
How I see it for us.
Having sex with someone else that the other fully knows about be it when we're together or alone is ok in our relationship. The other must know and agree to it. We usually play together but not always. Like for example I (K) am very bi and the idea of having a female FB is one I enjoy greatly.
However, if one of us is lying and hiding it and not telling the other then it's not ok!! Why?? Because it's a break of trust!! A swinging relationship requires trust a BDSM relationship requires trust and we have both. If the trust was gone I would be out. |
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No not cheating,that's lying and hiding meeting other men or women from a partner.
We meet together and separately,always with the others full knowledge and agreement.
They are two totally different things,but i have seen cheats try and put swingers down a few times to try and justify their own behaviour.
As for not meeting cheats,i wouldn't want it done to me so wouldn't do it to another woman.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How I see it for us.
Having sex with someone else that the other fully knows about be it when we're together or alone is ok in our relationship. The other must know and agree to it. We usually play together but not always. Like for example I (K) am very bi and the idea of having a female FB is one I enjoy greatly.
However, if one of us is lying and hiding it and not telling the other then it's not ok!! Why?? Because it's a break of trust!! A swinging relationship requires trust a BDSM relationship requires trust and we have both. If the trust was gone I would be out."
I agree. I think trust is almost more important in swinging relationships than in non swinging ones. To be able to swing there needs to be lots of trust. |
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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Because they're DELUSIONAL. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
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I'm guessing you dont have a problem with this since your veris are from couples?
Theres a massive difference between having a mutal agreement between a couple that they can play with others and then going behind your partners back without their knowledge or consent to fuck others.
I'm just assuming but since you cant accommodate you must be cheating? |
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"Why do some profiles say "don't like cheaters"??Especially cpls when essentially they watch female fucked by other men or gangbanged and male fucking other women.
Is that not CHEATING all be it in front of own eyes??
Because they're DELUSIONAL. "
Who is delusional? |
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