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What's Fabs done for you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Apart from the obvious has fabs made a positive impact on some way
Or a more negative one
For me I'd say it has made a big positive in my life in a number of ways I'm hoping the same for you  |
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It's made me more guarded and jaded.
It's also helped me accept myself as I am, increased my confidence enormously, and helped facilitate some incredible experiences. I've made some fantastic friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lost my BJ Virginity. Apart from that it's made me realize just how arrogant most of the human population is, and it's made me slightly tilted...so, positive and negative. |
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I've met a some great people and made some good friends. And got an insight into human nature via the forums. Overall its been a very positive experience. I've only had one no show, in the few years I've been here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Helped with my confidence in places
Made me more adjusted to myself and what I like
Negative wise, still disoair as to how rude people can be for having an j treat in them, just because you don't look like a adonis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not alot if I'm honest.....
Too many fakes
Too many men pretending to be a couple
Too many "fab" straight men that either wanna suck or b sucked
Too many completely rude people.
But I have met some fantastic people although few an far between x |
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"Apart from the obvious has fabs made a positive impact on some way
Or a more negative one
For me I'd say it has made a big positive in my life in a number of ways I'm hoping the same for you "
Massively positive... ticking those boxes off my ever growing sexual bucket list  |
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For the main, it’s been an enlightening experience and released the devil in me  who knew that was there!
I’ve met some truly handsome, sexy guys and some gorgeous ladies whom I call friends.
A fab profile doesn’t come without encountering the odd sycophant though... |
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"Not alot if I'm honest.....
Too many fakes
Too many men pretending to be a couple
Too many "fab" straight men that either wanna suck or b sucked
Too many completely rude people.
But I have met some fantastic people although few an far between x"
Same here  |
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Fab has been a great diversion from some of the serious real life stuff going on in my life over the last couple of years.
I've had some wild and wonderful meets with some interesting people.
And the forums have kept me amused too.
It's been a 99% positive experience for me |
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Not a lot at all, too many fake picture hunters and to many time wasters. There are some good points like the forum but other than that it's rather a dead end for us  patience is a virtue though so we will persevere |
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By *axo25Man
over a year ago
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I think fab offers a lovely horny release from the real world but I think it alters perception and reality a little. I mean as a single relatively normal looking guy you can grow quite a complex for not simply being cut from granite, Or 9+ inches and white. |
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"I think fab offers a lovely horny release from the real world but I think it alters perception and reality a little. I mean as a single relatively normal looking guy you can grow quite a complex for not simply being cut from granite, Or 9+ inches and white."
I’d say that’s a mighty fine specimen of first class granite |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
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My short time on here has been hugely positive.
I've reconnected with my inner youth; I'm realising my true nature (work in progress); gained a new level of confidence and self assurance; procured some incredible experiences; met some wonderful people; made some amazing friends; and remembered how to have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not alot if I'm honest.....
Too many fakes
Too many men pretending to be a couple
Too many "fab" straight men that either wanna suck or b sucked
Too many completely rude people.
But I have met some fantastic people although few an far between x
Same here "
Crap really as we're all here for the same thing lol |
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"My short time on here has been hugely positive.
I've reconnected with my inner youth; I'm realising my true nature (work in progress); gained a new level of confidence and self assurance; procured some incredible experiences; met some wonderful people; made some amazing friends; and remembered how to have fun"
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's had a massive positive effect in my life; without fab I probably wouldn't have met my incredible fiancé. It's encouraged me to grow as a person, both sexually and otherwise - I'm more aware of who I am sexually and give myself far less of a hard time about how I look. That in turn is due to me forming friendships with truly beautiful souls who support me and accept me for me.
Yes, at times it's made me question the integrity of people and I've been hurt by how crappy folk can be but my confidence is ever growing and I can truly say I like the woman that's emerging. Fab's alright really.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's had a massive positive effect in my life; without fab I probably wouldn't have met my incredible fiancé. It's encouraged me to grow as a person, both sexually and otherwise - I'm more aware of who I am sexually and give myself far less of a hard time about how I look. That in turn is due to me forming friendships with truly beautiful souls who support me and accept me for me.
Yes, at times it's made me question the integrity of people and I've been hurt by how crappy folk can be but my confidence is ever growing and I can truly say I like the woman that's emerging. Fab's alright really.
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Love this wish everyone could have similar |
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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago
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It helped me build my confidence and I got comfortable in my own skin. I would still class myself as fat and ugly (not fishing for compliments that is just my own perception of myself) but it’s made me accept that that is what I will always be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it has given me a group of like minded people I can have a laugh with on the forums I frequent. So thanks to all whom I have come across.
As you can tell I don't get out much... I love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my best friends on here nearly 2 years ago.
Was supposed to be a one of meet but they're now my closest friends, and yes we still swing together.
Without fab I'd never have met them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was in a dark place one night.
"Jackmeoff" came to my rescue at 2/3am my text.. understood and made a difference to me.. it was 6 or 7 days of texts before we actually said hello names and fab stuff..
500miles away.. but there was no one...
He still checks in on me now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met my best friends on here nearly 2 years ago.
Was supposed to be a one of meet but they're now my closest friends, and yes we still swing together.
Without fab I'd never have met them "
I'm hopeful that will come for me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met my best friends on here nearly 2 years ago.
Was supposed to be a one of meet but they're now my closest friends, and yes we still swing together.
Without fab I'd never have met them
I'm hopeful that will come for me!! "
Fingers crossed for you. I really hope you find what you're after x |
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In no particular order:
Got me the sack
Helped me through a very tough time
Introduced me to my future stalker
Found me some great friends
Introduced me to some new sexual awakening
Made me more cynical
It's been an interesting 12 years! |
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Positive, made me realise that I am not completely alone in liking (in my case mild) kinky sex.
Negative: it steals time. I can be on here for 2 hours when stuff needs doing (right now, house to tidy/ wash up). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Knocked my confidence and left me feeling like I'm not suitable for the women in this environment . They simply just don't give a chance "
Yeah i kinda feel the same as this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In no particular order:
Got me the sack
Helped me through a very tough time
Introduced me to my future stalker
Found me some great friends
Introduced me to some new sexual awakening
Made me more cynical
It's been an interesting 12 years!"
Got you the sack? I'm intrigued |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Learned not to send sick pic in message
It's your socks pic distracts me lot, even my phone (stupid Auto correct) "
You just wait till I do the 12 socks of Christmas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Learned not to send sick pic in message
It's your socks pic distracts me lot, even my phone (stupid Auto correct)
You just wait till I do the 12 socks of Christmas. "
much relief just 2 months, what is lined for next... shoes  |
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"Learned not to send sick pic in message
It's your socks pic distracts me lot, even my phone (stupid Auto correct)
You just wait till I do the 12 socks of Christmas. "
Do they all have a different smell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Learned not to send sick pic in message
It's your socks pic distracts me lot, even my phone (stupid Auto correct)
You just wait till I do the 12 socks of Christmas.
Do they all have a different smell "
Yep Christmas scented. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not alot if I'm honest.....
Too many fakes
Too many men pretending to be a couple
Too many "fab" straight men that either wanna suck or b sucked
Too many completely rude people.
But I have met some fantastic people although few an far between x"
this in spades |
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"Not alot if I'm honest.....
Too many fakes
Too many men pretending to be a couple
Too many "fab" straight men that either wanna suck or b sucked
Too many completely rude people.
But I have met some fantastic people although few an far between xthis in spades"
totally agree |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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It has made me cynical unfortunately and I really don’t like that. Once you know some of the things that happen on here you can’t unknow them. That’s the people rather than the site obviously.
It also bring me lots of laughter, the Lounge Socials, the funniest messages and some people that are just wonderful. Overall I enjoy my time on here. You’re a lovely bunch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from the obvious has fabs made a positive impact on some way
Or a more negative one
For me I'd say it has made a big positive in my life in a number of ways I'm hoping the same for you "
(fab) has done f-ck all for me. 99.9 are 'TIMEWASTERS' and give you the 'runaround' |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Like a lot of others on here, I have made some really good friends that I actually see in the real world.
Yes I also spend too much time on the forums when I should be doing other things like getting ready for work or housework.
It may have made me more cynical and jaded than I was previously, but after over 10 years it is difficult to say whether that is purely from this site or online “stuff” in general.
I know I prefer to waste time on here than most other places because I am far more likely to encounter interesting people on here than elsewhere.
Oh I almost forgot.... I have had some amazing sex and some not so amazing sex... so lots of sex too
Thank you to all the wonderful people of fab |
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"In no particular order:
Got me the sack
Helped me through a very tough time
Introduced me to my future stalker
Found me some great friends
Introduced me to some new sexual awakening
Made me more cynical
It's been an interesting 12 years!
Got you the sack? I'm intrigued"
Apparently watching a couple on cam in the chat rooms when on a shift (and getting visually excited but fully dressed) "isnt compatible with the values of the company" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven’t been here for years but it’s making me a cynical of the compliments I hear in messages. I don’t know how much is genuine and how much is just said to get a shag.
I love hearing that people have made proper ongoing friendships and I’d love that to come out of my experience here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's made me realise that I would be accepted as a transsexual and has encouraged further feminisation. The comments I get from men daily have really boosted my confidence.
Meeting men who have treated me kindly and like a woman has shown me what life would be like. I love receiving words of encouragement for my transition.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also adding onto that, through meeting straight men on fab who know how to make a woman orgasm, I have found that men can make me orgasm internally through penetration, and can even give me multiple orgasms by fucking me the right way. I have never had this with gay men. Straight men are definitely better lovers, more considerate, more protective, more willing to go out of their way for you, and they love giving a girl an orgasm and will do their best to give you one. Girls should appreciate dating straight men more because trust me they are much better to date than gay men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I'm a bit jaded about it all at the moment. I've been within the fet and swinging communities on and off for 14 years. In one aspect I wish I had never discovered that side of me as every relationship I've encountered has been a part of it and I don't really know how to have a (what's considered) normal relationship but I'm not sure the swinging thing is for me anymore.
It's taught me people can't be trusted.
People are out to get what they want with very little consideration of others at times.
People will say what they think you want to hear.
There are some rare gems but friendships are hard to maintain due to jealousy or selfishness.
Basically I wish I could go back and take a different route. |
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"To be honest I'm a bit jaded about it all at the moment. I've been within the fet and swinging communities on and off for 14 years. In one aspect I wish I had never discovered that side of me as every relationship I've encountered has been a part of it and I don't really know how to have a (what's considered) normal relationship but I'm not sure the swinging thing is for me anymore.
That’s really interesting and such a shame.
It's taught me people can't be trusted.
People are out to get what they want with very little consideration of others at times.
People will say what they think you want to hear.
There are some rare gems but friendships are hard to maintain due to jealousy or selfishness.
Basically I wish I could go back and take a different route."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been a bit of a roller-coaster for me. I have met some absolutely gorgeous people to be intimate with and help me fulfill my fantasies. But I've also had some terrible experiences, mostly due to me being a trusting and slightly naive person. Unfortunately the negative side has changed me over the years and now, I don't trust anybody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t been here for years but it’s making me a cynical of the compliments I hear in messages. I don’t know how much is genuine and how much is just said to get a shag.
I love hearing that people have made proper ongoing friendships and I’d love that to come out of my experience here. "
omg youre the sexiest woman on fab honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab came into my life at my lowest point. It helped me realise that casual sex was ok if that’s what I wanted.
I didn’t expect to meet my now husband though 
J x"
that's lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say that I've never had a bad experience on here
I wonder if people's expectations are just too high  "
If expecting that you won't be treated like shit is having your expectations too high, the that's a damning indictment of Fab and its users. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can honestly say that I've never had a bad experience on here
I wonder if people's expectations are just too high
If expecting that you won't be treated like shit is having your expectations too high, the that's a damning indictment of Fab and its users."
Couldn't have put it better myself |
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