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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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I’ve got inspiration for this from another thread to ask about accommodating!
I’m not seeking advice as I don’t and won’t accommodate but wondered those Fabbers who do, for what reason? Are the guests known to you? Do you have a fb/friend there? Or do you allow a stranger into your home.
I’m intrigued.
Also please be nice and respect all opinions on the thread.
Bhubaysi xx |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve got inspiration for this from another thread to ask about accommodating!
I’m not seeking advice as I don’t and won’t accommodate but wondered those Fabbers who do, for what reason? Are the guests known to you? Do you have a fb/friend there? Or do you allow a stranger into your home.
I’m intrigued.
Also please be nice and respect all opinions on the thread.
Bhubaysi xx "
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I meet them publicly for a social and a friend always knows where I am and who with. If I like them and my gut says yes then I invite them to my place on a second meet.
Sometimes I won't accommodate because I don't want them knowing who I work for and my uniform gives it away |
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"I meet them publicly for a social and a friend always knows where I am and who with. If I like them and my gut says yes then I invite them to my place on a second meet.
Sometimes I won't accommodate because I don't want them knowing who I work for and my uniform gives it away "
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Saying you accommodate is open to interpretation. Since I’m not a complete idiot (though that’s open for debate) I understand that to meet someone who accommodates doesn’t instantly mean I’m going round their house for a bit of the in and out (Clockwork Orange reference there lol) on the first meet. It’s just letting someone know that you’re in a position to invite them over when you feel it’s right for you. |
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"I meet them publicly for a social and a friend always knows where I am and who with. If I like them and my gut says yes then I invite them to my place on a second meet.
Sometimes I won't accommodate because I don't want them knowing who I work for and my uniform gives it away
I love lollipop ladies "
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I really don't get how women can accept the risk of allowing a random dude into the home. I'm bad enough when the gas man comes to service the boiler because I think he's going to rob all my junk....
Relationships or ppl you've seen more than a handful of times I guess is ok, but randoms seems wrong to me. I know ppl here who will meet with their kids at home or while their husband is out they'll fuck in their bed without him knowing. Just inviting trouble doing that.....
If I was going to do a random meet I'd rather be at a hotel, then it's less personal too, nobody wants to see your family photos or laundry drying, do they...? |
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I have accommodated a couple of times and never had a problem. I am comfortable in my own surroundings. I've since changed how I feel and would now rather meet at a hotel because it's since become apparent that people can get too needy so I don't want them
dropping by my home. Although I do meet at theirs after a social and getting a feel for them.
Each meet is different.
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I have only let one fab person into my house but we had met several times at various places and he became more of a friend anyway. It's up to the individual what they do in their home surely but I imagine it's more if a big deal for women to allow men in due to safety etc |
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Yes I have and will continue to.. it’s where I’m most comfortable. The guys I meet are few and far between and people I’ve known for a while. I’ve never had an issue or felt uncomfortable. I see them as friends first. |
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